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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by missjo(f): 11:06pm On Oct 02
Lol,i had a swell time reading the comments herecheesy

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by GrabHisBalls(f): 11:22pm On Oct 02
Before you tie the knot with your supposed wife, pay her a surprise visit if you're the type who can't deal with dirt. Clothe dey cover plenty things. I've seen a girl of just 19 yrs of age use a pot with soot for 3 months. All she does is wash inside. You could make a mental picture of what her surrounding would look like, but she slays while going out.

It's easier to manage a dirty man than a dirty woman.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by pocohantas(f): 12:03am On Oct 03
GrabHisBalls:
Very disturbing comments. Seems the ladies here now pay a blind eye to something bad and glaring like their male counterparts just to protect their gender.

@op, don't listen to anyone telling you to go cleaning kitchen or hiring a maid. Question is, how long will you clean? The reason I asked this is that in most Nigerian homes, the men are over burdened. They have little or no time for themselves. You can't be telling me to go clean up kitchen when I have a wife whose onion should be to keep the home neat. You could only tell me that if we are both very busy. Regardless, if your kitchen is dirty as a woman, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Let's tell ourselves the truth and stop sounding Western. The other question would be, how long will you live with a maid when you have a wife? If she bath and clean up herself, then she's just lazy to do chores, which is bad. You're going to have kids if you don't have one already, this will increase the work load that those things she finds difficult doing, she'll have them in abundance waiting to get done. Men don't groom kids, women do. With a dirty wife, your kids will eat way worse things than cockroaches if her habits don't change.

Honestly you made some points I agree with. I didn't comment at first because I couldn't understand why a woman would be dirty, even in the kitchen she cooks meals.

I take that as a very serious character flaw. One that hiring a maid can't fix. This is dirtiness we are talking of here!!

A woman who can't clean her kitchen? But she will makeup and wear fine clothe? Because those are the things that matter. She has issues. Serious one. She has to change.

I don't even want to imagine the metal drain it is taking on him. Dirty and untidy people drain me. I am even drained reading the post and imagining it. No jokes o

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by genq(m): 12:07am On Oct 03
LadySarah:


Bleep off. grin grin grin
We'll the see who will contact sickness from cockroach infestation. grin grin grin

Let him keep eating outside instead of taking charge of his home.His eyes were shut when be was dating her.

All of you will keep opening threads here,you aint seen anything yet.


You just couldn't help but display how senseless and immature you really are -

Not like I expected any better from a classless git like you undecided

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by GrabHisBalls(f): 12:27am On Oct 03
pocohantas:


Honestly you made some points I agree with. I didn't comment at first because I couldn't understand why a woman would be dirty, even in the kitchen she cooks meals.

I take that as a very serious character flaw. One that hiring a maid can't fix. This is dirtiness we are talking of here!!

A woman who can't clean her kitchen? But she will makeup and wear fine clothe? Because those are the things that matter. She has issues. Serious one. She has to change.

I don't even want to imagine the metal drain it is taking on him. Dirty and untidy people drain me. I am even drained reading the post and imagining it. No jokes o
They were all reasoning in one direction. Trying to show off a politically correct viewpoint. I don't know the difference between having a dirty wife and one with very bad character. I can't deal with any if I were a man. grin
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 6:32am On Oct 03
ctleurocollege:



She doesn't trust you, you can get an elderly woman of 50+
I think that is fine, thanks

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Mariangeles: 8:23am On Oct 03
LadySarah:
Its ’’our” not ”her ” kitchen.You can help her.Marrying yourselves should be to strengthen each other's weakness.

Help her tidy up.You guys can do it together and playfully.She will get the message.
That is how we do and not issue at all.

GOD forbid any bad thing occurs like cockroach eating and she with your kids falls sick,it is still ur money that will be used for treatment.

But who told you that the one you are eating outside is better grin grin grin,only if you go behind that fancy counter... grin grin

WIsdom is profitable dear
Stop encouraging wrong ideas.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by generationz(f): 8:24am On Oct 03
GrabHisBalls:
Before you tie the knot with your supposed wife, pay her a surprise visit if you're the type who can't deal with dirt. Clothe dey cover plenty things. I've seen a girl of just 19 yrs of age use a pot with soot for 3 months. All she does is wash inside. You could make a mental picture of what her surrounding would look like, but she slays while going out.

It's easier to manage a dirty man than a dirty woman.


Abeg it's the same for both genders jare.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Mariangeles: 8:27am On Oct 03
ctleurocollege:



She doesn't trust you, you can get an elderly woman of 50+
Just to please her dirty ass abi ?
Chinekenna!
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Mariangeles: 8:28am On Oct 03
Saao:
I think that is fine, thanks
No, it is not fine to hire an elderly woman to do your wife's duty .
She'll let go completely .
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by generationz(f): 8:30am On Oct 03
Saao:
divorce? No it's against my faith and don't want my Kid to be without her mum.

If you can't divorce her get a maid or do it yourself.

You'll have to take this as your cross. Every marriage has it's cross people aren't just talking.


When you have kids train them with an iron fist on how to care for the home and before they even become teenagers withdraw the services of a maid.

This will make cooking and cleaning a part of them and they will not end up like their mom.
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by generationz(f): 8:36am On Oct 03
Saao:
I think that is fine, thanks

She doesn't even have to live with you. She can come, cook and clean and then leave.
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by generationz(f): 8:39am On Oct 03
Mariangeles:

No, it is not fine to hire an elderly woman to do your wife's duty .
She'll let go completely .


Lol the duty he has been doing for the past 6 years abi?

This habit is already in her. She will change when Buhari speaks with a British accent.

The only other option is divorce which the op doesn't want.

But he can threaten her with it sha.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by LadySarah(f): 8:48am On Oct 03
genq:


You just couldn't help but display how senseless and immature you really are - Not like I expected any better from a classless git like you undecided

Tell him to divorce her , classic man. angry grin grin

I am waiting for ur own thread. ; grin ;DThat is when you will experience the real classlessness.

Last i will reply you.
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by LadySarah(f): 8:54am On Oct 03
Mariangeles:
[b]
Stop encouraging wrong ideas.

What do you mean?
Is their anyone who is perfect?
Should her divorce her or beat her since she has refused to listen?
Kitchen is a part of the house and is everybody's duty that all parts of the house is clean.
It is his cross and so he should bear it.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by ctleurocollege: 9:05am On Oct 03
Mariangeles:

Just to please her dirty ass abi ?
Chinekenna!

Have you heard from his wife before passing dumb judgment? If you speak with her she will tell you a different story from this. If something is disturbing you, look for a solution because if you want to make everybody please you, you will die quick, IT'S IMPOSSIBLE.
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by drmikeadams(m): 9:09am On Oct 03
Saao:
Hi everyone,

How do you handle a wife that careless about dirt? I complained about it to her several times but she is comfortable with it, and I'm getting comfortable eating out than in my house. I'm the type that if I noticed dirt I won't forget it. I know how to cook but it will be wrong for me to ignore her food and walk to kitchen to go and cook. Last time I'm almost ate cockroach in my soup thank God I didn't.

If you see her out side, she looked clean but her kitchen hmm, I talked severally nothing is changing.

What's the best way to handle such persons? Don't forget, she's my wife.

grin u no knw say na akpa dirty,before u marry am
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by virgoquin(f): 9:16am On Oct 03
LadySarah:
Its ’’our” not ”her ” kitchen.You can help her.Marrying yourselves should be to strengthen each other's weakness.

Help her tidy up.You guys can do it together and playfully.She will get the message.That is how we do and not issue at all.

GOD forbid any bad thing occurs like cockroach eating and she with your kids falls sick,it is still ur money that will be used for t
But who told you that the one you are eating outside is better grin grin grin,only if you go behind that fancy counter... grin grin

WIsdom is profitable dear

This advice of yours is so sickening. What kind of woman is she that doesn't take the health of her own family seriously. She herself is she not an adult to know that dirty environment breeds germs which in turn can harm her family.

And yes it is her kitchen, stop trying to twist it if he the husband decides to help out in the kitchen fine but the work of cleaning the kitchen is not his primary duty but that of his wife.

Is it fair for a man to be outside hustling under the sun and rain week to week and you still expect him to come back and clean the mess his wife is supposed to do. Getting her a maid will only cement her laziness and dirty habits

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by LadySarah(f): 9:17am On Oct 03
[quote author=virgoquin post=82793689]

This advice of yours is so sickening. What kind of woman is she that doesn't take the health of her own family seriously. She herself is she not an adult to know that dirty environment breeds germs which in turn can harm her family.

And yes it is her kitchen, stop trying to twist it if he the husband decides to help out in the kitchen fine but the work of cleaning the kitchen is not his primary duty but that of his wife.

Is it fair for a man to be outside hustling under the sun and rain week to week and you still expect him to come back and clean the mess his wife is supposed to do. Getting her a maid will only cement her laziness and dirty habits[/quote

Scram
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by healthserve(m): 10:30am On Oct 03
LadySarah:
Its ’’our” not ”her ” kitchen.You can help her.Marrying yourselves should be to strengthen each other's weakness.

Help her tidy up.You guys can do it together and playfully.She will get the message.That is how we do and not issue at all.

GOD forbid any bad thing occurs like cockroach eating and she with your kids falls sick,it is still ur money that will be used for treatment.

But who told you that the one you are eating outside is better grin grin grin,only if you go behind that fancy counter... grin grin

WIsdom is profitable dear


Liar like you

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by healthserve(m): 10:32am On Oct 03
genq:



Here we go again! - the disgustingly condescending tone of a NL misandrist lipsrsealed

Whenever y'all don't wanna be held responsible for your actions, that's when the topic of equality will come up. Lazy pigs!

A dirty woman repeatedly leaves the kitchen in a filthy state. Instead of addressing her disgusting habits, you expect the man to take up responsibility of cleaning up after her - because he's her slave right?

And no, being dirty is not a 'weakness' - it's a sign of laziness and poor upbringing.

"Our kitchen" indeed angry



You spoke well elder. I wonder how dirtiness and filthiness = weakness.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by healthserve(m): 10:33am On Oct 03
GrabHisBalls:
Very disturbing comments. Seems the ladies here now pay a blind eye to something bad and glaring like their male counterparts just to protect their gender.

@op, don't listen to anyone telling you to go cleaning kitchen or hiring a maid. Question is, how long will you clean? The reason I asked this is that in most Nigerian homes, the men are over burdened. They have little or no time for themselves. You can't be telling me to go clean up kitchen when I have a wife whose onion should be to keep the home neat. You could only tell me that if we are both very busy. Regardless, if your kitchen is dirty as a woman, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Let's tell ourselves the truth and stop sounding Western. The other question would be, how long will you live with a maid when you have a wife? If she bath and clean up herself, then she's just lazy to do chores, which is bad. You're going to have kids if you don't have one already, this will increase the work load that those things she finds difficult doing, she'll have them in abundance waiting to get done. Men don't groom kids, women do. With a dirty wife, your kids will eat way worse things than cockroaches if her habits don't change.



You've noticed the hypocrisy too going on around this forum for sometime. cool Thanks for being you

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by healthserve(m): 10:35am On Oct 03
GrabHisBalls:
Before you tie the knot with your supposed wife, pay her a surprise visit if you're the type who can't deal with dirt. Clothe dey cover plenty things. I've seen a girl of just 19 yrs of age use a pot with soot for 3 months. All she does is wash inside. You could make a mental picture of what her surrounding would look like, but she slays while going out.

It's easier to manage a dirty man than a dirty woman.


Claps
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by pocohantas(f): 11:45am On Oct 03
GrabHisBalls:
They were all reasoning in one direction. Trying to show off a politically correct viewpoint. I don't know the difference between having a dirty wife and one with very bad character. I can't deal with any if I were a man. grin

No one should deal with any, but OP has married one. He has to find a way to deal with her.

On politically correct, the guys would have said worse if tables turn. So, OP should keep talking, doing it or outsource it. It is his cross...

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Savvywriteprene(f): 12:46pm On Oct 03
ctleurocollege:



She doesn't trust you, you can get an elderly woman of 50+

Exactly my thought too. She doesn't trust you with a maid.
You can go an elderly live-in househelp or one that comes in the morning and leaves in the evening.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by bobobooge: 1:19pm On Oct 03
sisisioge:
Well, some people are not just cut out for chores. They would rather leave everything to clean themselves. Since she's your wife and several talk didnt worked, why not just get her a maid that would clean up the house. Issue resolved grin


Wisdom no go keel me shocked cool cool cool

Hmm quite a long while, how have you been? grin
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by sisisioge: 2:25pm On Oct 03
bobobooge:


Hmm quite a long while, how have you been? grin




Hallos...I dey o. You? Definitely been a while.

My attempts at sarcasm is always lost on the intended. How could they not have thought about getting a maid nau grin grin
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by chii8(f): 8:45pm On Oct 03
Please, Op call your wife's mum and show a sample of her daughter's dirty kitchen if she refusing a maid...

What sef,

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by frozen70g: 11:04am On Oct 04
Saao:
Hi everyone,

How do you handle a wife that careless about dirt? I complained about it to her several times but she is comfortable with it, and I'm getting comfortable eating out than in my house. I'm the type that if I noticed dirt I won't forget it. I know how to cook but it will be wrong for me to ignore her food and walk to kitchen to go and cook. Last time I'm almost ate cockroach in my soup thank God I didn't.

If you see her out side, she looked clean but her kitchen hmm, I talked severally nothing is changing.

What's the best way to handle such persons? Don't forget, she's my wife.


If she hasn't realised that she is dirty in the kitchen, up on all your talk talk, then it will be very had for her to be clean

Stop giving her time and attention

If she ask you why, tell her she and the kitchen irritates you

Eat out if you want and eat in if you can endure the mess

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by mysticwarrior(m): 6:39am On Oct 22
Before we can be able to advice you on what to do, we need to know if your wife is dirty in all areas.
1 how many times a day does she takes her bath?
2. How many times does she put on a particular cloth before she wash it?
3. How often does your wife change her pants?
4, does you wave shave down there?
5 does she smell down there too?
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by DanielJones: 2:21pm On Oct 22
Try using Afterlife Cleaning Services, 08180458852, www.afterlifecleaning.com. They have different plans to suit your cleaning needs. Please don't kill your wife o, she is not a slave.
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by mysticwarrior(m): 8:07pm On Oct 22
pocohantas:


Honestly you made some points I agree with. I didn't comment at first because I couldn't understand why a woman would be dirty, even in the kitchen she cooks meals.

I take that as a very serious character flaw. One that hiring a maid can't fix. This is dirtiness we are talking of here!!

A woman who can't clean her kitchen? But she will makeup and wear fine clothe? Because those are the things that matter. She has issues. Serious one. She has to change.

I don't even want to imagine the metal drain it is taking on him. Dirty and untidy people drain me. I am even drained reading the post and imagining it. No jokes o
you dey talk sense o, and I dey like read your comments but at times you dey dey brutal, but all the same you are a wise woman.

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