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How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 5:19pm On Oct 02
Hi everyone,

How do you handle a wife that careless about dirt? I complained about it to her several times but she is comfortable with it, and I'm getting comfortable eating out than in my house. I'm the type that if I noticed dirt I won't forget it. I know how to cook but it will be wrong for me to ignore her food and walk to kitchen to go and cook. Last time I'm almost ate cockroach in my soup thank God I didn't.

If you see her out side, she looked clean but her kitchen hmm, I talked severally nothing is changing.

What's the best way to handle such persons? Don't forget, she's my wife.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by scala101(m): 5:22pm On Oct 02
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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 5:26pm On Oct 02
scala101:
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why what?
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by okirewaju(f): 5:42pm On Oct 02
Ewwwww@cockroach

Pick a weekend where both of you will clear the kitchen together.


Teach her that dirt causes sickness et. all.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by okorotalkative: 5:59pm On Oct 02
Na so most of them be nowadays, lazy ass hoess..

You try to correct them, they feel bad. If a girl cannot clean the kitchen/toilet every morning then she is completely useless to me.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 6:03pm On Oct 02
okirewaju:
Ewwwww@cockroach

Pick a weekend where both of you will clear the kitchen together.


Teach her that dirt causes sickness et. all.
have done that several times.
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by LadySarah(f): 6:06pm On Oct 02
Its ’’our” not ”her ” kitchen.You can help her.Marrying yourselves should be to strengthen each other's weakness.

Help her tidy up.You guys can do it together and playfully.She will get the message.That is how we do and not issue at all.

GOD forbid any bad thing occurs like cockroach eating and she with your kids falls sick,it is still ur money that will be used for treatment.

But who told you that the one you are eating outside is better grin grin grin,only if you go behind that fancy counter... grin grin

WIsdom is profitable dear

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Slimzjoe(m): 6:13pm On Oct 02

You're already married so I guess you're stuck. You just gotta go keep the kitchen clean yourself man cos that's the only way out. Then hope she'll decide to learn

Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Ginaz(f): 6:43pm On Oct 02
She can’t do it, why can’t you set the standard yourself?
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by chii8(f): 7:30pm On Oct 02
Get someone you will pay to do the cleaning but wait ooo,what kind of a wife is comfortable with her husband eating out when her pot is not leaking
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by browseyd22(m): 7:43pm On Oct 02
Saao:
have done that several times.

Den d case is settled she can't change divorce her or hire a house help

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Timbuktuo: 7:46pm On Oct 02
Get a maid or cleaner
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 7:59pm On Oct 02
browseyd22:


Den d case is settled she can't change divorce her or hire a house help
divorce? No it's against my faith and don't want my Kid to be without her mum.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 8:00pm On Oct 02
Timbuktuo:
Get a maid or cleaner
thought of same
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by LadySarah(f): 8:03pm On Oct 02
browseyd22:


Den d case is settled she can't change divorce her or hire a house help

Tutututu.Divorce in Nl boys' mouth always.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by midnighter(f): 8:49pm On Oct 02
Saao:
Hi everyone,

but when you talked to her about it what did she say? like did she seem bothered at all?

maybe shes exhausted after cooking and doesnt know how to tell you.

are other areas of the house clean?

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by armyofone(f): 9:11pm On Oct 02
Start doing the cleaning yourself and let her learn by watching you.
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 9:18pm On Oct 02
armyofone:
Start doing the cleaning yourself and let her learn by watching you.
meaning I shouldn't go to work? Have been doing the cleaning. We're 6 years in marriage and only 3 of us.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 9:21pm On Oct 02
When I saw some suggestions about getting someone to do the cleaning here, I just told her of a maid. She said God forbid except I want to get a girlfriend.
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by Saao(m): 9:21pm On Oct 02
When I saw some suggestions about getting someone to do the cleaning here, I just told her of a maid. She said God forbid except I want to get a girlfriend.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by theButterfly: 9:25pm On Oct 02
Hmmm, I don't know oooh. I'm a neat freak and cannot even fathom this.

Maybe you should lead by example and hopefully she will start imitating you.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by SKhanmi: 9:36pm On Oct 02
She won't change. They never do. Continue cleaning if she won't even allow you to get a male help.
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by blesskewe(f): 9:41pm On Oct 02
She won't change
Maybe u can get someone to clean the kitchen then use some of the money u are supposed to give her to pay the person

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by genq(m): 9:44pm On Oct 02
LadySarah:
Its ’’our” not ”her ” kitchen.You can help her.Marrying yourselves should be to strengthen each other's weakness.

Help her tidy up.You guys can do it together and playfully.She will get the message.That is how we do and not issue at all.

GOD forbid any bad thing occurs like cockroach eating and she with your kids falls sick,it is still ur money that will be used for treatment.

But who told you that the one you are eating outside is better grin grin grin,only if you go behind that fancy counter... grin grin

WIsdom is profitable dear


Here we go again! - the disgustingly condescending tone of a NL misandrist lipsrsealed

Whenever y'all don't wanna be held responsible for your actions, that's when the topic of equality will come up. Lazy pigs!

A dirty woman repeatedly leaves the kitchen in a filthy state. Instead of addressing her disgusting habits, you expect the man to take up responsibility of cleaning up after her - because he's her slave right?

And no, being dirty is not a 'weakness' - it's a sign of laziness and poor upbringing.

"Our kitchen" indeed angry

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by sisisioge: 10:10pm On Oct 02
Well, some people are not just cut out for chores. They would rather leave everything to clean themselves. Since she's your wife and several talk didnt worked, why not just get her a maid that would clean up the house. Issue resolved grin


Wisdom no go keel me shocked cool cool cool
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by armyofone(f): 10:14pm On Oct 02
Saturday (weekend)
Tell her this weekend, we will be cleaning.
Make it fun wink

Saao:
meaning I shouldn't go to work? Have been doing the cleaning. We're 6 years in marriage and only 3 of us.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by sisisioge: 10:15pm On Oct 02
Saao:
When I saw some suggestions about getting someone to do the cleaning here, I just told her of a maid. She said God forbid except I want to get a girlfriend.

Haaaa! She said no? Na wa o. It looks like she doesn't quite understand the gravity of her untidiness. Biko explain it well to her. Hian!

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by sisisioge: 10:16pm On Oct 02
armyofone:
Saturday (weekend)
Tell her this weekend, we will be cleaning.
Make it fun wink


grin grin grin grin

I pity the guy though. I think an outstation maid will solve the issue.
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by ctleurocollege: 10:42pm On Oct 02
Saao:
Hi everyone,

How do you handle a wife that careless about dirt? I complained about it to her several times but she is comfortable with it, and I'm getting comfortable eating out than in my house. I'm the type that if I noticed dirt I won't forget it. I know how to cook but it will be wrong for me to ignore her food and walk to kitchen to go and cook. Last time I'm almost ate cockroach in my soup thank God I didn't.

If you see her out side, she looked clean but her kitchen hmm, I talked severally nothing is changing.

What's the best way to handle such persons? Don't forget, she's my wife.



Lead by example bro
Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by ctleurocollege: 10:44pm On Oct 02
Saao:
When I saw some suggestions about getting someone to do the cleaning here, I just told her of a maid. She said God forbid except I want to get a girlfriend.


She doesn't trust you, you can get an elderly woman of 50+

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by GrabHisBalls(f): 10:53pm On Oct 02
Very disturbing comments. Seems the ladies here now pay a blind eye to something bad and glaring like their male counterparts just to protect their gender.

@op, don't listen to anyone telling you to go cleaning kitchen or hiring a maid. Question is, how long will you clean? The reason I asked this is that in most Nigerian homes, the men are over burdened. They have little or no time for themselves. You can't be telling me to go clean up kitchen when I have a wife whose onion should be to keep the home neat. You could only tell me that if we are both very busy. Regardless, if your kitchen is dirty as a woman, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Let's tell ourselves the truth and stop sounding Western. The other question would be, how long will you live with a maid when you have a wife? If she bath and clean up herself, then she's just lazy to do chores, which is bad. You're going to have kids if you don't have one already, this will increase the work load that those things she finds difficult doing, she'll have them in abundance waiting to get done. Men don't groom kids, women do. With a dirty wife, your kids will eat way worse things than cockroaches if her habits don't change.

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Re: How Do You Handle A Dirty Wife After Much Talk? by LadySarah(f): 10:57pm On Oct 02
genq:



Here we go again! - the disgustingly condescending tone of a NL misandrist lipsrsealed

Whenever y'all don't wanna be held responsible for your actions, that's when the topic of equality will come up. Lazy pigs!

A dirty woman repeatedly leaves the kitchen in a filthy state. Instead of addressing her disgusting habits, you expect the man to take up responsibility of cleaning up after her - because he's her slave right?

And no, being dirty is not a 'weakness' - it's a sign of laziness and poor upbringing.

"Our kitchen" indeed angry

Bleep off. grin grin grin
We'll the see who will contact sickness from cockroach infestation. grin grin grin

Let him keep eating outside instead of taking charge of his home.His eyes were shut when be was dating her.

All of you will keep opening threads here,you aint seen anything yet.

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