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2buffagain:
When I see a girl with tattoos, all I see is a dullard who cannot think far....a fool to be bleeped stupid and later block her number when I am tired of the Bleep.
There is no possibility of wifey or family with this person.

If she wanted to have fun, she should have done so without tarnishing her long term possibilities with such a permanent decision.

No one will take her seriously.

Who go marry bleached tattoo skin sef

1Sharon:
Lol you're right. I believe OP is in America tho.

He has been on NL for a while and he also has tattoes

That's bleeped up going by his threads on the issue... Are you sure

How can someone practice that level of hypocrisy

meobizy:
People are different with varying tastes. Tattoos are only a means to differentiate themselves from the horde. Why do men wear watches, bandanas, t-shirts, cut their hair etc?

To differentiate themselves in a way that keeps them Unique.

2buffagain:
To differentiate themselves in a way that keeps them Unique.

Yes, as people do with tattoos.

meobizy:
Yes, as people do with tattoos.

No.
People who wear accessories do so to differentiate themselves in a way that KEEPS them Unique. Meaning they can choose to look another way later to stay differentiated.

With tattoos you have made a permanent decision to look only one way... "trying too hard" or "trashy". You destroy your range of appearance.

Your tattoo will also limit your ability to enjoy life to the fullest:

- You will be passed over for some opportunities, be it job or business.

- It will unnecessarily limit your dating pool by way of self-disqualification.

- There are places in the world, e.g Japan, where your tattoos could see you banned from establishments.

- Potential infections

- You can no longer donate blood if you wanted to save a loved one.

- A tattoo is not a one time thing. It is a commitment. You have to keep getting that same tattoo every few months or it will look like a shitstain on your skin... Damaging a once beautiful body.

- Children will always do the most so good luck trying to get your future teenage daughter to see the wisdom of NOT getting a trampstamp of her boyfriend's name on her lower back when her mum has one?

- We're not even talking about the spiritual aspect of these things now. Just the physical.

Impressionable people need to think these things through. There is very little thinking going on these days. Everyone just reacts and emotes and follows impulsively. That your favorite celebrity (idol) has a tattoo does not mean that you should get one. You live in different worlds with different rules.

Which is why when I see a girl who has one, I see her as someone who doesn't think far or who does not take wise counsel.... None of which is attractive. Why would I want to live life with someone who has set all these unnecessary, life-disrupting handicaps for themselves in life purely out of stubbornness and low self esteem?

Low self esteem (the feeling that you are not worthy of admiration and love as you are) leads to all this trying too hard and impulsive decisions. It is representative of a mental illness if anything.

2buffagain:
No.
People who wear accessories do so to differentiate themselves in a way that KEEPS them Unique. Meaning they can choose to look another way later to stay differentiated.

With tattoos you have made a permanent decision to look only one way... "trying too hard" or "trashy".

Your tattoo will also limit your ability to enjoy life to the fullest:

- You will be passed over for some opportunities, be it job or business.
- It will unnecessarily limit your dating pool by way of self-disqualification.
- There are places in the world, e.g Japan, where your tattoos could see you banned from establishments.
- Potential infections
- You can no longer donate blood if you wanted to save a loved one.
- A tattoo is not a one time thing. It is a commitment. You have to keep getting that same tattoo every few months or it will look like a shitstain on your skin... Damaging a once beautiful body.
- How can you caution your future teenage daughter not to get a tattoo of her boyfriend Kunle's name tattoo'd on her back when her mom has one?
- We're not even talking about the spiritual aspect of these things now. Just the physical.

Impressionable people need to think these things through. There is very little thinking going on these days. Everyone just reacts and emotes and follows impulsively. That your favorite celebrity (idol) has a tattoo does not mean that you should get one. You live in different worlds with different rules.

Which is why when I see a girl who has one, I see her as someone who doesn't think far or who does not take wise counsel.... None of which is attractive. Why would I want to live life with someone who has set all these unneccessry limitations for themselves in life?

Low self esteem (the feeling that you are not worthy of admiration and love as you are) leads to all this trying too hard and impulsive decisions. It is representative of a mental illness if anything.

...and this is why people think differently when they travel out or dump those books which constrict free thinking (bible, Quran etc).

meobizy:
...and this is why people think differently when they travel out or dump those books which constrict free thinking (bible, Quran etc).

You addressed absolutely none of the real bullet points I raised and went straight to blaming books that No one even mentioned (see the last bullet point).

And I'm the one who can't think

2buffagain:
You addressed absolutely none of the real bullet points I raised and went straight to blaming books that No one even mentioned (see the last bullet point)

And I'm the one who can't think

I’m not going to address anything because you’ll only bring up more points till it becomes a merry go round of repeated opinions. Your mind is made up. I dropped a comment or two and will go to the next thread.

meobizy:
I’m not going to address anything because you’ll only bring up more points till it becomes a merry go round of repeated opinions. Your mind is made up. I dropped a comment or two and will go the next thread.

Run away then with your unthinking ass.

Tattoos are not "free thinking". The very nature of tattoos is "static thinking".

By getting a tattoo of something, you rid yourself of ever being able to change your own mind about that thing... Even if you realize that thing no longer aligns with your beliefs today.

A tattoo is a good way of showing you are actually close minded...while trying to look like you have an open mind.

Again, "trying too hard".

2buffagain:
Run away then with your unthinking ass.

The very nature of tattoos is "static thinking".
By getting a tattoo of something, you rid yourself of ever being able to change your own mind about that thing... Even if you realize that thing no longer aligns with your beliefs today.

A tattoo is a good way of showing you are actually close minded...while trying to look like you have an open mind.

Again, "trying too hard".

Okay.

2buffagain:
No.
People who wear accessories do so to differentiate themselves in a way that KEEPS them Unique. Meaning they can choose to look another way later to stay differentiated.

With tattoos you have made a permanent decision to look only one way... "trying too hard" or "trashy". You destroy your range of appearance.

Your tattoo will also limit your ability to enjoy life to the fullest:

- You will be passed over for some opportunities, be it job or business.

- It will unnecessarily limit your dating pool by way of self-disqualification.

- There are places in the world, e.g Japan, where your tattoos could see you banned from establishments.

- Potential infections

- You can no longer donate blood if you wanted to save a loved one.

- A tattoo is not a one time thing. It is a commitment. You have to keep getting that same tattoo every few months or it will look like a shitstain on your skin... Damaging a once beautiful body.

- Children will always do the most so good luck trying to get your future teenage daughter to see the wisdom of NOT getting a trampstamp of her boyfriend's name on her lower back when her mum has one?

- We're not even talking about the spiritual aspect of these things now. Just the physical.

Impressionable people need to think these things through. There is very little thinking going on these days. Everyone just reacts and emotes and follows impulsively. That your favorite celebrity (idol) has a tattoo does not mean that you should get one. You live in different worlds with different rules.

Which is why when I see a girl who has one, I see her as someone who doesn't think far or who does not take wise counsel.... None of which is attractive. Why would I want to live life with someone who has set all these unnecessary, life-disrupting handicaps for themselves in life purely out of stubbornness and low self esteem?

Low self esteem (the feeling that you are not worthy of admiration and love as you are) leads to all this trying too hard and impulsive decisions. It is representative of a mental illness if anything.

Yes...you summoned me

Guest007:
That's bleeped up going by his threads on the issue... Are you sure

How can someone practice that level of hypocrisy

I was wrong, he doesn't have tattoes

ShitStain:
Yes...you summoned me

Otedola, Dangote, Zuckerburg do not have tatoos, therefore, I am good with no tatoos.

Tonto dike, regina daniel, Tacha have tatoos, therefore I am good with no tatoos

2buffagain:
I'm seeing a lot of Naija girls out here lately with tattoos.

Do these girls not have fathers?

Bad decisions like these will only cause problems for them in dating and profession.

That’s really bad. They see people who are more civilized on tattoos. They just go for it.

Here, you will see a banker covered in tattoos, doctors, engineers and many people , the society here does not frown at it, even law enforcement officials too do have tattoos.

But back there in Nigeria, No, the case is different. Because we often judge people by their appearances, by the type of hair they carry, the type of clothes they adorn etc.

I just pity most of our young girls because they do not know what they are doing to themselves. Also those bleachers. I pity them in 20years