₦airaland Forum

2SWT:
Thanks dear, this should be the standard. Women should be free to do whatever they want with their body

Women should be free to do whatever they want with their body? For real? Lol
So the average woman wants to come to the world to fvck, eat, drink, party, sleep and die? Without any accountability nor pressure?
If that is what you are looking for, then am sorry you can only get that if you are an animal because animals like dogs, cats etc are the things living on earth without pressures.
So far you are a human being, there is a pressure and that is what separate us from animals.
Pressure to gain admission, pass exams, marry, give birth to baby, build house etc
Accountability in been decent, integrity, responsible etc are what separates us from animals ma.
So am sorry, you can't live your life the way you want it 100%

Akious2k2:
Considering what you narrated, she sounds like one who truly needs help... I'm not castigating you for not helping her, but you should have been nice about it... Even the amount she needed is not exurbitant (Talking about 5H)... At least, she's not a member of the "I need I-phone" gang

Listen is not I don't av d money to spare is just DAT is too early to start asking from someone u just know barely 24hrs... I'm not comfortable wit it..

One thing I've observed with Naija girls is, if Nigeria is as developed as let say Singapore or Malaysia, men would be in soup because our ladies will not settle for tolerance. The reason some still get girls is because the ladies feels they can get some aids from u. Look at those who can fend for themselves......
BUT
Guys should learn to value and Discipline their preeq nah. At lrast

Pharaoh4rin:
One thing I've observed with Naija girls is, if Nigeria is as developed as let say Singapore or Malaysia, men would be in soup because our ladies will not settle for tolerance. The reason some still get girls is because the ladies feels they can get some aids from u. Look at those who can fend for themselves......
BUT
Guys should learn to value and Discipline their preeq nah. At lrast

My brother, you have said it all.
If most women are financially empowered, virtually all won't marry and they will be aggressive, insultive and arrogant.

AfroKnight:
Lol. What a narrow, rigid and amusing line of thought!

There is no guarantee that the girl(s) you meet/date (or in your words, groom) in high school and university would marry you. As long as they have minds of their own, like normal human beings, they are capable of choosing whom they would marry. And you might not be on that list.

Perhaps you would drag them to the altar To fulfil your proper, calculated arrangement for marriage.

People change. Mindsets evolve. A down to earth girl who wasn’t materialistic years ago can become extremely materialistic tomorrow and still down to earth, to boot. Whose fault?

If you think long courtship/friendship is the key to lasting marriage, then you have a rude awakening awaiting you.

Sometimes, all it takes for a person to have a paradigm shift in values is a triggering event. One eureka moment and boom, “bad bîtch” level is unlocked!

The best advice I can give anyone is “marry a kind person, who actually likes you and wants you too.”

Don't mind that nigga.

His brain has almost melted away.

That's why he reasons so narrowly.

Pharaoh4rin:
One thing I've observed with Naija girls is, if Nigeria is as developed as let say Singapore or Malaysia, men would be in soup because our ladies will not settle for tolerance. The reason some still get girls is because the ladies feels they can get some aids from u. Look at those who can fend for themselves......
BUT
Guys should learn to value and Discipline their preeq nah. At lrast

emmaodet:
My brother, you have said it all.
If most women are financially empowered, virtually all won't marry and they will be aggressive, insultive and arrogant.

You two guys are so insecure.

So without money, you two guys cannot get or keep a woman?

Tufiakwa unu.

pharrell8:
Listen is not I don't av d money to spare is just DAT is too early to start asking from someone u just know barely 24hrs... I'm not comfortable wit it..

I understand you perfectly... "I'm sorry, I won't be able to give you" or something else should suffice, instead of asking if she wouldn't eat if you didn't meet her... I hope you get my drift

daddycee91:
What honestly could be wrong with our women? Is it due the bad economy or what? Why can't one engage in a decent conversation with a woman you like down deep & getting to know on social media without them bringing their financial issues into it. I'm an average & working guy who's wanting to get serious with the opposite sex on an but all they talk is about their financial problems.

What's wrong with you all women? you'll chasing us away with these attitudes. Make una stop all these things abeg.

It's you guys fault.

The ones that won't ask you for money, you guys refuse to talk to or date them.

So stop complaining.

See this guy,na local na full social media now if u fall dem collect small thing take follow up...

Akious2k2:
I understand you perfectly... "I'm sorry, I won't be able to give you" or something else should suffice, instead of asking if she wouldn't eat if you didn't meet her... I hope you get my drift

I get u..

bluefilm:
You two guys are so insecure.

So without money, you two guys cannot get or keep a woman?

Tufiakwa unu.

Abeg, it's not about been insecured rather the reality on ground for all to see.
Most rich ladies are single and that speaks volume but virtually all rich guys are married.
I don't have a problem with a wiman making her money but i know alot are arrogant and insultive

emmaodet:
Abeg, it's not about been insecured rather the reality on ground for all to see.
Most rich ladies are single and that speaks volume but virtually all rich guys are married.
I don't have a problem with a wiman making her money but i know alot are arrogant and insultive

How many of such rich ladies do you know I'm person, for you to have come up with such statistical data?

Hmn our ladies n money that's how I will soon dump my Lady ...Her financial problem is mush ...Every time n yet she's not faithful

bluefilm:
You two guys are so insecure.

So without money, you two guys cannot get or keep a woman?

Tufiakwa unu.

Daz not d point. Most naija girls are so primitive in d mind that; they don't know how to socialize with guys; they usually have a negative mindset except girls from a rich background.
Bluefilm, lemme tell u something: there are two ways to keep a Naija girl
1. Give her hope
2. Tell her lies
And she will submit to you.
But whereas u are real, truthful, ambitious or romantic, nothing for u except girls from rich background. God Bless d rich

2SWT:
You have to pay registration fee na, Nigerian babes aren't cheap

If you don't pay it in form of house rent, you have to buy a phone or just something significant

I don't know what to make of that response

emmaodet:
My brother, you have said it all.
If most women are financially empowered, virtually all won't marry and they will be aggressive, insultive and arrogant.

What, just like men

Guest007:
They like 21 year old girls and then they call them women

Women have suffered for Nairaland

Lil girls, don't change for these hungry wolves with their carrots in hand... You're phone book is full so send a group message like you running a foundation

#Isajoke

If you’re not going to task your bf, talk now, let me slide into your dm.

If you arrange bottle for ground for me to slide on, my ancestors will avenge me

AfroKnight:
If you’re not going to task your bf, talk now, let me slide into your dm.

If you arrange bottle for ground for me to slide on, my ancestors will avenge me

If you’re happy with a 50 Yr old then slide away, the coast is clear

Guest007:
If you’re happy with a 50 Yr old then slide away, the coast is clear

Who dash you 50 year old?

Highest, you go be 27.

Tela101:
It's you guys fault.

The ones that won't ask you for money, you guys refuse to talk to or date them.

So stop complaining.

Something tells me that if I date you, you won't pester me with demands

Akious2k2:
Something tells me that if I date you, you won't pester me with demands

I won't

And if I ask by mistake, tell me no, I won't be angry.

Tela101:
I won't

And if I ask by mistake, tell me no, I won't be angry.

For real?
If only our ladies can emulate this

sinceraconcept:
those ones are sluts and y'all are prosti.tutes. Honestly,women are worth nothing these days,when I get married,the only women I wouldn't cheat on are those I married as virgins but if I meet your pussy used, I go just dey Bleep outside dey go without remorse ni and don't dare blame me since I'm the bread winner and If you try it,you're out. Most men share this same mentality and that's why we cheat a lot. If we marry a wayward woman, we won't have any iota of respect and trust for her,there is nothing like past is past tense, we just pretend as if we've forgiven the past,it's always too hard to swallow, marry us and you go see our true colour,we go use your dirty past react to you and a woman's dirty past is her sexcapade. That's why Kanye decided to make a sextape with a Kim look alike after their marriage and Kim no blame am nor talk. We men are just wired somehow. Even notice those amugbos and irresponsible guys, they usually respect good girls.

This one is just another yoruba demon with an unleashed penis.... God, yoruba guys are the most unfaithful dogs I have seen in a relationship... They can never be with one woman... NEVER... Y?? All men cheat but am telling you that a yoruba cheats with reckless abandon... Am 100% sure of what am saying cos I live in Ondo state.... Scratch that