What honestly could be wrong with our women? Is it due the bad economy or what? Why can't one engage in a decent conversation with a woman you like down deep & getting to know on social media without them bringing their financial issues into it. I'm an average & working guy who's wanting to get serious with the opposite sex on an but all they talk is about their financial problems.

What's wrong with you all women? you'll chasing us away with these attitudes. Make una stop all these things abeg.

Met this girl on FB some days ago and she said she has a job which I was cool with...we kept chatting and getting to know each other & all of a sudden..gbam!! She lost her job, she needs this, she needs that..oh God!! Someone I'm just getting to know?

My brother, na how goat stand for market dem dey price am.

daddycee91:
Met this girl on FB some days ago and she said she has a job which I was cool with...we kept chatting and getting to know each other & all of a sudden..gbam!! She lost her job, she needs this, she needs that..oh God!! Someone I'm just getting to know?

Ahmed0336:
My brother, na how goat stand for market dem dey price am.

too deep to comprehend.

daddycee91:
What honestly could be wrong with our women? Is it due the bad economy or what? Why can't one engage in a decent conversation with a woman you like down deep & getting to know on social media without them bringing their financial issues into it. I'm an average & working guy who's wanting to get serious with the opposite sex on an but all they talk is about their financial problems.

What's wrong with you all women? you'll chasing us away with these attitudes. Make una stop all these things abeg.

Don’t let it get to u...it’s actually a good thing....

Some years back....not picking your calls or giving u two letter response is the sign u’ll use to know a babe doesn’t like u
But these days...Once a woman doesn’t dig u...she will see u as a means to get few cash and material things....they can’t hide it....the unconscious prostitute attitude is difficult to tuck in.
....just walk away...they are too many of them in the world to let the actions of a few ruin ur day

You have to pay registration fee na, Nigerian babes aren't cheap

If you don't pay it in form of house rent, you have to buy a phone or just something significant

My advise to all guys is to avoid any girl that doesn't love him, but his money.

It is very easy, just test the girl. Pretend you don't have money, change your mod of dressing, know how she behaves when you both talk, observe her smile.

How girls ends a relationship is very easy. They would just tell you that you are disturbing them.


Many had fallen because of pussy.

Solomon fell

David fell

Abacha fell

Learn how to control a woman, and not a woman controlling you.

daddycee91:
Met this girl on FB some days ago and she said she has a job which I was cool with...we kept chatting and getting to know each other & all of a sudden..gbam!! She lost her job, she needs this, she needs that..oh God!! Someone I'm just getting to know?

Bro urs is even beta met a gal collected her noba didn't call her DAT day had to wait till d next day to call all she could tell was DAT she has not eating, I should send her money for her to buy food even if it 5H.. I asked her if I was her Dad and if I didn't call won't she find a way to eat...

daddycee91:
What honestly could be wrong with our women? Is it due the bad economy or what? Why can't one engage in a decent conversation with a woman you like down deep & getting to know on social media without them bringing their financial issues into it. I'm an average & working guy who's wanting to get serious with the opposite sex on an but all they talk is about their financial problems.

What's wrong with you all women? you'll chasing us away with these attitudes. Make una stop all these things abeg.

If you are really observant, you would notice it is a Nigerian thing.

You are afraid to ask people how they are when you do not have the ability to meet their financial needs and wants.

There are over a million decent girls in Nigeria that don't need your money and won't ask for it but just expect you as a man to show care and love.
If you keep meeting these hungry girls all the time then I think you should change the kind of places you look for girls. Probably try somewhere different. What baffles me is how much we have all lost focus of the exact way one can actually build or grow a good relationship into marriage.

First of all, how can one pass through secondary school and I didn't find one decent girl to just be grooming small small. Enter university still didn't find and then nysc still didn't have a serious relationship then now working and feels its now the right time to find a woman.

This is why some people have issues in marriage because by the time they get to this stage, its only a matter of luck to find a perfect soul mate because you end up meeting people who will hide certain things from you just to get married and few years into the marriage those hiden characters or things will definitely start coming out.

MiztaYouneek:
There are over a million decent girls in Nigeria that don't need your money and won't ask for it but just expect you as a man to show care and love.
If you keep meeting these hungry girls all the time then I think you should change the kind of places you look for girls. Probably try somewhere different. What baffles me is how much we have all lost focus of the exact way one can actually build or grow a good relationship into marriage.

First of all, how can one pass through secondary school and I didn't find one decent girl to just be grooming small small. Enter university still didn't find and then nysc still didn't have a serious relationship then now working and feels its now the right time to find a woman.

This is why some people have issues in marriage because by the time they get to this stage, its only a matter of luck to find a perfect soul mate because you end up meeting people who will hide certain things from you just to get married and few years into the marriage those hiden characters or things will definitely start coming out.

words of wisdom.

2SWT:
You have to pay registration fee na, Nigerian babes aren't cheap

If you don't pay it in form of house rent, you have to buy a phone or just something significant

See them

It seems Nigerians guys are born complainers. 95% of thread in Romance section is of guys complaining and nagging.

If I don't like sokoto, I'll stop visiting sokoto instead of complaining about sokoto always.


I don't like complains, I got my bathroom filled up with soap and Vaselines.

Ahmed0336:
My brother, na how goat stand for market dem dey price am.

I never claimed to be who I wasn't o

There's great poverty and misery in the land oga.

MiztaYouneek:
There are over a million decent girls in Nigeria that don't need your money and won't ask for it but just expect you as a man to show care and love.
If you keep meeting these hungry girls all the time then I think you should change the kind of places you look for girls. Probably try somewhere different. What baffles me is how much we have all lost focus of the exact way one can actually build or grow a good relationship into marriage.


First of all, how can one pass through secondary school and I didn't find one decent girl to just be grooming small small. Enter university still didn't find and then nysc still didn't have a serious relationship then now working and feels its now the right time to find a woman.

This is why some people have issues in marriage because by the time they get to this stage, its only a matter of luck to find a perfect soul mate because you end up meeting people who will hide certain things from you just to get married and few years into the marriage those hiden characters or things will definitely start coming out.

Great writeup and very true

boomssey:
words of wisdom.

Yeah that's the fact bro

boomssey:
words of wisdom.

Yeah that's the fact bro

boomssey:
words of wisdom.

Yeah that's the fact bro

They like 21 year old girls and then they call them women

Women have suffered for Nairaland

Lil girls, don't change for these hungry wolves with their carrots in hand... You're phone book is full so send a group message like you running a foundation

#Isajoke

Guest007:
[s]They like 21 year old girls and then they call them women

Women have suffered for Nairaland

Lil girls, don't change for these hungry wolves with their carrots in hand... You're phone book is full so send a group message like you running a foundation

#Isajoke [/s]

Take your trash to the Jokes Section

Offpoint:
It seems Nigerians guys are born complainers. 95% of thread in Romance section is of guys complaining and nagging.

If I don't like sokoto, I'll stop visiting sokoto instead of complaining about sokoto always.


I don't like complains, I got my bathroom filled up with soap and Vaselines.

Awon soapy gang

Thought you were married??

youngengineer180:
Yeah that's the fact bro
Yeah that's the fact bro
Yeah that's the fact bro

excuse me am not a guy

DamonSalvatore:
Take your trash to the Jokes Section

Yahoo boy... We've noticed you

daddycee91:
What honestly could be wrong with our women? Is it due the bad economy or what? Why can't one engage in a decent conversation with a woman you like down deep & getting to know on social media without them bringing their financial issues into it. I'm an average & working guy who's wanting to get serious with the opposite sex on an but all they talk is about their financial problems.

What's wrong with you all women? you'll chasing us away with these attitudes. Make una stop all these things abeg.

I believe you are meeting the wrong girls..Dem.slay queens

MiztaYouneek:
There are over a million decent girls in Nigeria that don't need your money and won't ask for it but just expect you as a man to show care and love.
If you keep meeting these hungry girls all the time then I think you should change the kind of places you look for girls. Probably try somewhere different. What baffles me is how much we have all lost focus of the exact way one can actually build or grow a good relationship into marriage.

First of all, how can one pass through secondary school and I didn't find one decent girl to just be grooming small small. Enter university still didn't find and then nysc still didn't have a serious relationship then now working and feels its now the right time to find a woman.

This is why some people have issues in marriage because by the time they get to this stage, its only a matter of luck to find a perfect soul mate because you end up meeting people who will hide certain things from you just to get married and few years into the marriage those hiden characters or things will definitely start coming out.

Lol. What a narrow, rigid and amusing line of thought!




There is no guarantee that the girl(s) you meet/date (or in your words, groom) in high school and university would marry you. As long as they have minds of their own, like normal human beings, they are capable of choosing whom they would marry. And you might not be on that list.

Perhaps you would drag them to the altar To fulfil your proper, calculated arrangement for marriage.

People change. Mindsets evolve. A down to earth girl who wasn’t materialistic years ago can become extremely materialistic tomorrow and still down to earth, to boot. Whose fault?

If you think long courtship/friendship is the key to lasting marriage, then you have a rude awakening awaiting you.

Sometimes, all it takes for a person to have a paradigm shift in values is a triggering event. One eureka moment and boom, “bad bîtch” level is unlocked!


The best advice I can give anyone is “marry a kind person, who actually likes you and wants you too.”

OP, naija girls are products of the situation in the country. If you stumble upon someone who isn’t that materialistic, you might not be interested in her. She might not be in the package you prefer. That’s life.

It is funny how these ladies are confident enough to demand stuff or beg guys they just met.

You just met a guy and you’re asking for cash or call credit. Shame no dey catch you?

kings59:
My advise to all guys is to avoid any girl that doesn't love him, but his money.

It is very easy, just test the girl. Pretend you don't have money, change your mod of dressing, know how she behaves when you both talk, observe her smile.

How girls ends a relationship is very easy. They would just tell you that you are disturbing them.


Many had fallen because of pussy.

Solomon fell

David fell

Abacha fell

Learn how to control a woman, and not a woman controlling you.

Chai u dey burst my brain..... The question here is how can we control them?

AfroKnight:
OP, naija girls are products of the situation in the country. If you stumble upon someone who isn’t that materialistic, you might not be interested in her. She might not be in the package you prefer. That’s life.

It is funny how these ladies are confident enough to demand stuff or beg guys they just met.

You just met a guy and you’re asking for cash or call credit. Shame no dey catch you?

No mind dem... Its a sign of poverty

I blame the govt for this nonsense. Social media begging is becoming a full time job for some people... Too bad

kings59:
My advise to all guys is to avoid any girl that doesn't love him, but his money.

It is very easy, just test the girl. Pretend you don't have money, change your mod of dressing, know how she behaves when you both talk, observe her smile.

How girls ends a relationship is very easy. They would just tell you that you are disturbing them.


Many had fallen because of pussy.

Solomon fell

David fell

Abacha fell

Learn how to control a woman, and not a woman controlling you.

You can add Samson to that list.

2SWT:
You have to pay registration fee na, Nigerian babes aren't cheap

If you don't pay it in form of house rent, you have to buy a phone or just something significant

Rubbish