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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Dpharisee: 11:54am On Oct 06, 2019
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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by happney65: 11:54am On Oct 06, 2019
Another person wey billing kill..May his soul rest in peace

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by GoogleVoiceSell: 11:55am On Oct 06, 2019
Afunimawobe

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by kestolove95(m): 11:55am On Oct 06, 2019
His a fool,
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Lexusgs430: 11:57am On Oct 06, 2019
dominique:
Nigerians no dey want hear "abroad based" for ears, they'll think you're rolling in millions and almost milk you dry with demands. If you like, kill yourself while trying to give into their demands, you go just die for nothing. This is why it is good to always take a stand and don't let anybody put unnecessary pressure on you to the point of sending you to your early grave

Exactly.... Water off duck's back.... The same way they have the right to ask, you also have the right to ignore....... cheesy

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by GoogleVoiceSell: 11:58am On Oct 06, 2019
kestolove95:
His a fool,
He's*

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by dami9ja(m): 12:00pm On Oct 06, 2019
May his soul Rest in peace.

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Alex09(m): 12:05pm On Oct 06, 2019
undecidedWhat is good abt him biko? when the Bible made it clear that u should love ur neighbour as u love yaself not love them more than yaself. he died while trying to love others more than himself.R.I.P 2 d lost soul. Come and join me oo, yam and stew dey here full ground

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by SenecaTheYonger: 12:05pm On Oct 06, 2019
Randy100:
All die na die. There is nothing like he died trying to please everybody because he get satisfaction from pleasing people. I am always pleased when I pleased others. Everything has a price and so we must accept that this man died a happy and pleased man.

I know the post you got this from in sexuality section. To think that some people actually took to that school of thought and abide by it. It means that many people really follow what they see on social media as truth and abide by it for life without thinking deeply with their own brain. Satisfaction can be defined as pleasure derived from fulfilling ones wish. Tell me, how someone can wake up and say giving money to this person that just asked me is what he has been wishing for. Is that not madness?

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Caleb17: 12:06pm On Oct 06, 2019
I prefer the caption " He died as a saint "
It is not easy to find a selfless person in this generation full of wickedness..

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by amaechiarnold(m): 12:09pm On Oct 06, 2019
Love yourself....you only live once. Meanwhile, there's no excuse before God. Rest on bro.

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Randy100: 12:12pm On Oct 06, 2019
SenecaTheYonger:


I know the post you got this from in sexuality section. To think that some people actually took to that school of thought and abide by it. It means that many people really follow what they see on social media as truth and abide by it for life without thinking deeply with their own brain. Satisfaction can be defined as pleasure derived from fulfilling ones wish. Tell me, how someone can wake up and say giving money to this person that just asked me is what he has been wishing for. Is that not madness?
firstly, I don't even know the post you are talking about. Secondly, speak for yourself because some people even go out to look for people that they will help.

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by MobilityExpress: 12:13pm On Oct 06, 2019
You please everybody, you die. You don't please everybody you will still die. You give you die, you stingy you will still die. But when you know how to control your mouth, you will live long, when you eat fruits and don't overthink too much or carry too much worry on your head, you will live long.

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by akaahs(m): 12:16pm On Oct 06, 2019
If you work for a living, why kill yourself working

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by ChidiAlaigbo: 12:20pm On Oct 06, 2019
Randy100:
All die na die. There is nothing like he died trying to please everybody because he get satisfaction from pleasing people. I am always pleased when I pleased others. Everything has a price and so we must accept that this man died a happy and pleased man.

Many people do it in FEAR and out of societal indoctrination.

He couldn't have done it and died happy if, according to the mourner, the IRS was after him.

Continuing pleasing others if it makes you happy, we are all mad in some ways.

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by 151487made(m): 12:21pm On Oct 06, 2019
as much as he was fulfilled. we all have different spirits.

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by ChidiAlaigbo: 12:25pm On Oct 06, 2019
151487made:
as much as he was fulfilled. we all have different spirits.

How do you know he was fulfilled?

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by jaxxy(m): 12:28pm On Oct 06, 2019
Even superheros like Superman can’t please or help everybody. Ur pastors who are called to help others can’t please or help everybody. Put ur self 1st once in a while. Be selfish smtmes. Besides ur immediate family which is ur core responsibility, the people u keep helping endlessly are selfish most times. Lol

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by SouthSouth1914: 12:28pm On Oct 06, 2019
ednut1:
Normal in nigeria. Many are working but are taking care of many family members. When you die dem go dey alright

Most people don’t understand! This man grew up in a good environment and knows what it takes to be a giving person, because someone must have done same to him while he was growing up.

What we have right now is half baked kind of generation whose unending greed for themselves and not minding the next door neighbour! This idea has made them killers, covetous etc! I wished they could bring back the 70’s.. till the 2000’s!!

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by ednut1(m): 12:35pm On Oct 06, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Most people don’t understand! This man grew up in a good environment and knows what it takes to be a giving person, because someone must have done same to him while he was growing up.

What we have right now is half baked kind of generation whose unending greed for themselves and not minding the next door neighbour! This idea has made them killers, covetous etc! I wished they could bring back the 70’s.. till the 2000’s!!
you are wrong. Some family members are parasites and would wreck you

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by TempleHouse: 12:40pm On Oct 06, 2019
You have to be selfish to yourself at times and be ready to offend friends and family members.
That's the only reason they will ignored and abandon you and the better for you.
I saved more than a million during the crisis with family members for 2 years, as no money to be shared until wahala was settled .
They mIght start fighting for his property now.
Take good care of yourself first and remember the family when you have enough to share.

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by ogtavia(m): 12:40pm On Oct 06, 2019
There are people with a heightened sense of responsibility and deep family oriented values. For them, fulfillment comes from satisfying those who look up to them. They know what their roles/duties are towards their family and have accepted it with the determination to take care of everyone. We all have these sense of responsibility in us but in different measures. If truly he died living up to his responsibilities, then he died a fulfilled man knowing he did his best. For him, true happiness comes from seeing those he calls family, happy and satisfied. For people like him, the words 'sacrifice', 'provider' and 'responsibility' calls them to great service and they will never see themselves as achievers/responsible if they fail to heed.

There are lessons to learn herein, family is key. Do your best to give them true service. But NEVER at the detriment of your well being because if you truly love them, you will do all you can to be around for much longer (as much as lies within your capacity anyways)..

Adieu Great Man. There are very few people like you. I pray your family will keep honouring you in their actions and thoughts. May they also learn and continue from the legacy you have left behind.

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by 151487made(m): 12:43pm On Oct 06, 2019
ChidiAlaigbo:


How do you know he was fulfilled?
if u love giving out and dat always makes you happy bro you're fulfilled in that area. or do you think until u gather the whole world dat u are fulfille?

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Bar1941(m): 12:46pm On Oct 06, 2019
Even if he was not helping his family members, friends or whatever, he will still die at the time he died, the bottomline is know your capability and do not do beyound it. Blessed is the hand that giveth....I received from some people during the time I needed so why should I hold back when I know I can give. A little impact I make in the life of a needy person can be the turning point in that person's life. That is my philosophy of life.

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by 151487made(m): 12:49pm On Oct 06, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Most people don’t understand! This man grew up in a good environment and knows what it takes to be a giving person, because someone must have done same to him while he was growing up.

What we have right now is half baked kind of generation whose unending greed for themselves and not minding the next door neighbour! This idea has made them killers, covetous etc! I wished they could bring back the 70’s.. till the 2000’s!!

bros, you have said it all. most of our generation always tink of themselves before others and dat has not even make us grow as a nation

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Nobody: 12:56pm On Oct 06, 2019
RIP
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by 4DScott(m): 12:56pm On Oct 06, 2019
Freemanbobble:
People will always forget
That we work to live
We don't live to work
As you dey try master the huzzle in order to conquer the struggle for both you and your family also make sure say you flex yourself

I don't save too much money for the future that is not certain
Always flex yourself
Drink some beer
Bang the ladies

That is why i love me and my niggarzz
We always use money. Money don't use us
Infact if you dey Benin city today
Dey with me for sapele road by richmoore bar or zafike hotel by aduwawa make we drink enough bottles
Chief. Mke we relate. Let's get drunk in group

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by ghidhehorn(m): 12:57pm On Oct 06, 2019
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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Nobody: 12:58pm On Oct 06, 2019
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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by omlueh(m): 1:04pm On Oct 06, 2019
I wonder why you are so naive about some of your saying, don't ever say things you no nothing about or you have no single knowledge about, because you hear people insinuating or someone died as a result of his/her recklessness does not apply or applicable that other people that died of same illness are also reckless, i am speaking from a very strong point view and personal experiences so please we should pray that terrible experiences not be our potions in the might name of JESUS CHRIST AMEN. I am speaking from view point of Kidneys, Livers, Cancers and every other Terminal diseases. Cheers and have a lovely day ahead.
festacman:
Soldiers die for others to live. People are killed for committing robbery. People die having sex in brothels. People get knocked down by hit and run driver. People die from liver and kidney problems got from bad lifestyles. We all going to die in one or another. It is the way of mortals .

Although the mourner sounds like the type who exaggerate things a bit when they are emotional, this man died because he tried too hard to achieve success. He was not forced. He chose. He should not be blamed too much for TRYING. We are all in it till papa calls.

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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by tealaw(m): 1:05pm On Oct 06, 2019
My friend died swallowing cocaine as a result of pressure from home that he must make it and make his family proud. I'm sure his family now has moved their focus to the next son.

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