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Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Richardmary(m): 1:06pm On Oct 06, 2019
Story!

His death don reach. Even those who live for themselves and please nobody also die.

One thing must kill a man. After his death comes different tori.

RIP man.
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Randy100: 1:16pm On Oct 06, 2019
ChidiAlaigbo:
Many people do it in FEAR and out of societal indoctrination.

He couldn't have done it and died happy if, according to the mourner, the IRS was after him.

Continuing pleasing others if it makes you happy, we are all mad in some ways.
The first goal of every man is to be happy. Forget about societal indoctrination, this man want his family to be happy, and if the family is happy, then, he will also be happy. Growing up I saw how happy my father was even when he sacrificed everything that could make a man happy. Seriously, I don't know how to make you understand that this man died a happy man.
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Sirseedorf(m): 1:19pm On Oct 06, 2019
Life has no duplicate, we either live once not forever.

We can't please everybody in life, all we have to do is to please ourself mentally, physically and spiritually.

You don't leave your luggage and carry other peoples luggage all because of pity or help, carry your luggage to your destination first, help yourself first before being Mr.nice guy.

Everybody is selfish in a way of self interest, so don't give yourself HBP because you want to help family or friend else you will just met yourself in the grave, and the same people you kill yourself for will be at your burial ceremony eating ewedu and amala plus ponmo kika.


Be wise buddies .
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by imitateMe(m): 1:22pm On Oct 06, 2019
dominique:
Nigerians no dey want hear "abroad based" for ears, they'll think you're rolling in millions and almost milk you dry with demands. If you like, kill yourself while trying to give into their demands, you go just die for nothing. This is why it is good to always take a stand and don't let anybody put unnecessary pressure on you to the point of sending you to your early grave
That's why we should never spend for our girlfriends.
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Candycrushy(f): 1:27pm On Oct 06, 2019
Freemanbobble:
People will always forget
That we work to live
We don't live to work
As you dey try master the huzzle in order to conquer the struggle for both you and your family also make sure say you flex yourself

I don't save too much money for the future that is not certain
Always flex yourself
Drink some beer
Bang the ladies

That is why i love me and my niggarzz
We always use money. Money don't use us
Infact if you dey Benin city today
Dey with me for sapele road by richmoore bar or zafike hotel by aduwawa make we drink enough bottles
Am coming straight up
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Nobody: 1:40pm On Oct 06, 2019
Meanwhile we are here smoking some Highgrade weeds At the beach side, here in Flo. grin


I Ain't gon die for no bady. Mek every man carry he own Cross.
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by adenigga(m): 1:42pm On Oct 06, 2019
festacman:
Soldiers die for others to live. People are killed for committing robbery. People die having sex in brothels. People get knocked down by hit and run driver. People die from liver and kidney problems got from bad lifestyles. We all going to die in one or another. It is the way of mortals .

Although the mourner sounds like the type who exaggerate things a bit when they are emotional, this man died because he tried too hard to achieve success. He was not forced. He chose. He should not be blamed too much for TRYING. We are all in it till papa calls.
I will always respect you!

Your analysis is so sound that I can't quantify it.

One will surely die one way or the other, that's why Yoruba said one should not mock the dead, because we that are still alive can never predict our place of death, not to talk of cause!
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Nobody: 1:43pm On Oct 06, 2019
Candycrushy:
Am coming straight up
See you! grin Awoof dey run belle oo!

come! Are those pair of breasts Real? shocked tongue
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by festacman(m): 1:44pm On Oct 06, 2019
omlueh:
I wonder why you are , don't ever say things you no nothing about or you have no single knowledge about, because you hear people insinuating or someone died as a result of his/her recklessness does not apply or applicable that other people that died of same illness are also reckless, i am speaking from a very strong point view and personal experiences so please we should pray that terrible experiences not be our potions in the might name of JESUS CHRIST AMEN. I am speaking from view point of Kidneys, Livers, Cancers and every other Terminal diseases. Cheers and have a lovely day ahead.
You are the one who is pathetically naive in all of these. You are too eager to counter me with some prejudicial mentality that "you are so naive about some of your saying". You seem to be unsettled by my opinions on issues. Well, the constitution guarantees me right of expression and I have no apology to offer for that.

Now, it is either you didn't read my write-up with open mind or you read it upside down. I did not say that EVERBODY who died from kidney or liver problems died from recklessness but of course many of them actually died from their bad lifestyles. No doubt about this.

My point of submission is that everybody dies as a result of something and the dead man in question should not be berated for 'living in his own way' and going the way of all mortals.

Finally, I want to assure you that you will keep stumbling on my opinions on this forum because I will stick around as long as possible. I look forward to reading your opinions too if you can articulate them. Enjoy your Sunday. Fear not but believe!
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Candycrushy(f): 1:46pm On Oct 06, 2019
gypsey:
See you! grin Awoof dey run belle oo!

come! Are those pair of breasts Real? shocked tongue
undecided undecided
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by LZAA: 1:49pm On Oct 06, 2019
Freemanbobble:
People will always forget
That we work to live
We don't live to work
As you dey try master the huzzle in order to conquer the struggle for both you and your family also make sure say you flex yourself

I don't save too much money for the future that is not certain
Always flex yourself
Drink some beer
Bang the ladies

That is why i love me and my niggarzz
We always use money. Money don't use us
Infact if you dey Benin city today
Dey with me for sapele road by richmoore bar or zafike hotel by aduwawa make we drink enough bottles
Wee they hear?
Wish i dy benin sha wink
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Nobody: 1:50pm On Oct 06, 2019
Candycrushy:
undecided undecided
what's with the face? sad

I only asked you a reasonably simple Question
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Candycrushy(f): 1:56pm On Oct 06, 2019
gypsey:
what's with the face? sad

I only asked you a reasonably simple Question
Boobs chaser
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Nobody: 1:59pm On Oct 06, 2019
Candycrushy:
Boobs chaser
grin grin boobs chaser kwa? hian! You mean the boobs are Running Away and i am chasing them?
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Candycrushy(f): 2:00pm On Oct 06, 2019
gypsey:
grin grin boobs chaser kwa? hian! You mean the boobs are Running Away and i am chasing them?
Oya mind your business then
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Omoawoke(m): 2:00pm On Oct 06, 2019
festacman:
Soldiers die for others to live. People are killed for committing robbery. People die having sex in brothels. People get knocked down by hit and run driver. People die from liver and kidney problems got from bad lifestyles. We all going to die in one or another. It is the way of mortals .

Although the mourner sounds like the type who exaggerate things a bit when they are emotional, this man died because he tried too hard to achieve success. He was not forced. He chose. He should not be blamed too much for TRYING. We are all in it till papa calls.
In summary, there are a 1000 ways to die
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by respect80(m): 2:00pm On Oct 06, 2019
He must have helped this very friend who is mourning him in one way or another.

My question is, did he reject the help by telling him not to help him because he was helping too many people?

And I love to see how some people are trying to pretend they don't like it when someone helps them or trying to say helping others is now wrong.

NB: We should all remember that the word EVERYONE is relative because he couldn't have possibly been trying to help everyone because everyone means even those of us right here or if we go by the concept of everyone means no one.

The world is just so confuse that we have to live and die for what we believe.
Some one stole and was killed, people called him a fool....

Someone died because he was trying to help others and people still called him a fool....


This should tel us how confused the world is.
In summary, let's allow the deceased to rest in peace because I don't think he died because he wanted to please everyone.
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by millionboi2: 2:06pm On Oct 06, 2019
Freemanbobble:
People will always forget
That we work to live
We don't live to work
As you dey try master the huzzle in order to conquer the struggle for both you and your family also make sure say you flex yourself

I don't save too much money for the future that is not certain
Always flex yourself
Drink some beer
Bang the ladies

That is why i love me and my niggarzz
We always use money. Money don't use us
Infact if you dey Benin city today
Dey with me for sapele road by richmoore bar or zafike hotel by aduwawa make we drink enough bottles
Coded bros
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by mamatwiny(f): 2:06pm On Oct 06, 2019
If you are not following this poet/writer on Instagram, do follow her.

Her words are deep!

Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Sefa2018: 2:08pm On Oct 06, 2019
Randy100:
The first goal of every man is to be happy. Forget about societal indoctrination, this man want his family to be happy, and if the family is happy, then, he will also be happy. Growing up I saw how happy my father was even when he sacrificed everything that could make a man happy. Seriously, I don't know how to make you understand that this man died a happy man.
Nonsense!!!!!
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by turischool(m): 2:14pm On Oct 06, 2019
kestolove95:
His a fool,
this too harsh
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Nat404: 2:15pm On Oct 06, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
And the people always bugging him for money will move on. Omo I can't stress myself for any human being. God gave us head, hand and legs o. Parasitic family members need a wake up call.
You again? Lol.
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Revolva(m): 2:22pm On Oct 06, 2019
Well maybe the guy hustle too much he fell sick and died

There is notin wrong in making ur family ok Sha it's good to see ur family doing good and happy
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by SIMEONMPEE(m): 2:26pm On Oct 06, 2019
Have seen this video some days back ...so so touching...do your best and leave the rest


Someone here may need the info on my signature, kindly check it out...
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by AmuDimpka: 2:30pm On Oct 06, 2019
Lazy youths everywhere....how do we depend on those abroad!
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by AkupeMBANO(f): 2:33pm On Oct 06, 2019
festacman:
Soldiers die for others to live. People are killed for committing robbery. People die having sex in brothels. People get knocked down by hit and run driver. People die from liver and kidney problems got from bad lifestyles. We all going to die in one or another. It is the way of mortals .

Although the mourner sounds like the type who exaggerate things a bit when they are emotional, this man died because he tried too hard to achieve success. He was not forced. He chose. He should not be blamed too much for TRYING. We are all in it till papa calls.
villains like you can't really do shit in real life. always talking gibberish.
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by jeffobodo: 2:40pm On Oct 06, 2019
another ÀFÙNÍMÀWÒBÈ lost in active service
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by festacman(m): 2:41pm On Oct 06, 2019
AkupeMBANO:
villains like you can't really do shit in real life. always talking gibberish.
Threatened. Talking balderdash. Pity.
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by jeffobodo: 2:41pm On Oct 06, 2019
Billing Dey kill
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by koning:
My family don tire for my mata tey tey. They are like 'uncle, send N100,000' for this and that. Me- no problem. expect it withing 2 weeks.

After waiting for 2 months with no kobo in sight, everybody will jejely sort them selves out.


I don't stress myself anymore. No time the argue. Anybody that makes any unreasonable request, go wait tire.
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by Opeyemi4real(m): 2:49pm On Oct 06, 2019
Or the friend is so bittered of what we don't know. He is his atm too. I will do more for my family if I have the opportunity afterall I won't live forever.
Re: ''He Died Because He Wanted To Please Everybody'' Nigerian Man Mourns His Friend by uuzba(m): 2:49pm On Oct 06, 2019
kattytamer:
Bottom line he was a good man who sacrificed much for others...there should be a limit to things, we all would end there one day. Take am easy, life no be by gragra.
He was foolish.

He broke God's commandment.

Keep holy the Sabbath Day. For Christians, that is Sunday.

Rest on Sunday. He didn't rest.
Now he's dead

All that he worked for, where is it now? One idiot will use his money to buy iPhone X, later throw it away and buy iPhone 11...
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