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solmusdesigns:
you clearly dont know how the mind of a man works, a good number of men would get wrong signal (green light) when a lady aproaches them directly like the reporter(a stranger who isnt his student) did... she came the first time in is church, he was a gentle man and invited her for a chit chat at his office, he made some cheesy remarks (you are beautiful) and pick up line and the lady never protested but smiled and lead him on(never walked out or telling she doesnt like what the man was talking about), he arranged more meetings and the lady came smiling and having non academic discussions with him, up to the moment he bolted his office door, offered her win and began making advances she still never said stop or anything..


if this scenerio plays out 100 time with 100 diferent men, 98 would see it as green light or oppurtunity to get the lady

We are talking about a prestigious federal institution and you are talking green light. If he knows who he is and the amount of hours he worked to get to that position, he wouldnt be seeing any green light there. There are rules and protocols for workplaces and churches...why is he making advances at her in the first place? I thought he even said he was a pastor?

I pity any women in your life and I hope I never encounter you outside of this forum.

midnighter:
We are talking about a prestigious federal institution and you are talking green light. If he knows who he is and the amount of hours he worked to get to that position, he wouldnt be seeing any green light there. There are rules and protocols for workplaces and churches...why is he making advances at her in the first place? I thought he even said he was a pastor?

I pity any women in your life and I hope I never encounter you outside of this forum.

yeah right typical of a woman being overly emotional and sentimental...lets be objective for once he is human, the rule book of the Prestigeous University only prohibits him from Admitted students not his church members... a man is always a man, he has feelings and shortcomings, he never claimed to be perfect like jesus christ so spare him the castigation... let he without a sin cast the first stone

Please dont pity the women in my life as the are well educated , with a retired law enforcer(state cid human traficing and women afiars department),a british trained and practicing lawyer .. and a beautiful loving post graduate sweetheart ...

as for your hope of not encountering you outside the forum... Its ok, its your choice and you perfectly have right to it,,... however there are over 7 billion people on earth so you arejust you and i am me

solmusdesigns:
yeah right typical of a woman being overly emotional and sentimental...lets be objective for once he is human, the rule book of the Prestigeous University only prohibits him from Admitted students not his church members... a man is always a man, he has feelings and shortcomings, he never claimed to be perfect like jesus christ so spare him the castigation... let he without a sin cast the first stone

Please dont pity the women in my life as the are well educated , with a retired law enforcer(state cid human traficing and women afiars department),a british trained and practicing lawyer .. and a beautiful loving post graduate sweetheart ...

as for your hope of not encountering you outside the forum... Its ok, its your choice and you perfectly have right to it,,... however there are over 7 billion people on earth so you arejust you and i am me

At the bolded, you are lost. So now youre defending a pastor making advances towards his church members... Hope you will say all this if your own pastor starts messing around with your daughter

A human is a human, which is why there are rules and procedures to follow, to stop him from making mistakes. and if he goes against them he will face the punishment... why are you defending this..its clearly wrong

Institutions have rules for a reason

midnighter:
At the bolded, you are lost. So now youre defending a pastor making advances towards his church members... Hope you will say all this if your own pastor starts messing around with your daughter

A human is a human, which is why there are rules and procedures to follow, to stop him from making mistakes. and if he goes against them he will face the punishment... why are you defending this..its clearly wrong

Institutions have rules for a reason

Am glad the ghanian lecturer is in the process of sueing BBC and the blackmailing lady reporter... lets hope the case in Ghana would set a precidence on this kind of issues...

and for the records, i wont train my daughter to seek admission in the office of a man( thats corruption) neither would i train her to be with a man who isnt her family member or husband in a secluded place alone for hours

PS am not a christian and i dont know what faith has got to do with a criminal allegation of sexual abuse

solmusdesigns:
Am glad the ghanian lecturer is in the process of sueing BBC and the blackmailing lady reporter... lets hope the case in Ghana would set a precidence on this kind of issues

PS am not a christian and i dont know what faith has got to do with a criminal allegation of sexual abuse

Ok, your daughter will go to school shey? Hope you wont defend the teacher if she starts complaining

You cant even answer me because you know youre saying the wrong thing. Why do institutions have rules if the employees can just do how they like?

Somebody was asking why Nigeria is not developed... oya just come and see rubbish

solmusdesigns:



When will Men know that this kpekus and women can destroy a man faster than a nuclear bomb, if it means fvcking your wife every morning please do, you cant go around "harrasing" people because of your Hot animal nature

I just watched the Documentary(still airing on NTA), and damn!!! the man finished himself, but the problem here is 70% of men criticising him would fall for the BBC setup... imagine a girl comes to meet you at your church that she needs an admission and you invited her over to your office and she came alone like three times, and the foolish man prayed for her, advised her and started toasting her, telling her she's bautiful repeatedly and asking about her sex life without the girl protesting,.. Oga doesnt know he is about to become famous for trying his luck at getting laid, the Ghana man even took the girl out bought her gift and ask her to marry him but its still sexual harrasment

At this point everyone should know the defination of sexual harrasment and sexual abuse, to help save men from destruction.. because it seems, you cant tourch a ladies hand, you cant tell her she is beutiful and you definately most not be alone in an office with her or else you would be destroyed with a sexual harrasment lawsuit

Moral lesson(from COZA and this Unilag story), if a woman comes at you, or visit you alone, never ever continue the meeting being alone with a woman so devil doesnt disgrace you, because according to the video even if you dont tourch her and you merely make a verbal move (toasting) then you are guilty of sexual harrasment

DEAR MEN IF YOU HAVE SENSE BEFORE YOU EVER ASK ANY LADY ANYTHING RELATING TO DATING KINDLY MAKE HER SIGN A CONSENT FORM AND NEVER EVER STAY IN A ROOM WITH A LADY ALONE


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Islam sayings exactly, without doing anything wrong don't be alone with a woman

midnighter:
Ok, your daughter will go to school shey? Hope you wont defend the teacher if she starts complaining

You cant even answer me because you know youre saying the wrong thing. Why do institutions have rules if the employees can just do how they like?

Somebody was asking why Nigeria is not developed... oya just come and see rubbish

i wont train my daughter to seek admission in the office of a man( thats corruption) neither would i train her to be with a man who isnt her family member or husband in a secluded place alone for hours

the school has put up a panel to probe the case and the man placed on suspenssion prior to the completion of the investigation... so why not wait till the man is found guilty of any of the instituitions law guilty throwing him under the bus

its this barbaric atitude of jungle justice or judging based on a side of the emotional story that keeps Africa a black continent... both the accused and the defedants need legal representation and not just jumping the guns straight to humiliation

Mummymahdi:
Islam sayings exactly, without doing anything wrong don't be alone with a woman

Some of Allahs laws are actually for our own good... in UAE if a lady is caught alone in company of a man who isnt her husband and she is a muslim, both man and woman involved would be purnished... and with this laws they have a very meaningfull society unlike ours

solmusdesigns:
i wont train my daughter to seek admission in the office of a man( thats corruption) neither would i train her to be with a man who isnt her family member or husband in a secluded place alone for hours

the school has put up a panel to probe the case and the man placed on suspenssion prior to the completion of the investigation... so why not wait till the man is found guilty of any of the instituitions law guilty throwing him under the bus

its this barbaric atitude of jungle justice or judging based on a side of the emotional story that keeps Africa a black continent... both the accused and the defedants need legal representation and not just jumping the guns straight to humiliation

Are you sure you're really functioning very well? what does training have to do with this? Why didnt the mans parents train him not to be alone with small girls for hours? So all these girls are untrained? youre the only person who knows how to train a child?

Youre now talking about jungle justice and probing. A simple question, should a lecturer and pastor, or anyone in a position of power and authority be making sexual advances towards students?

Thats all! if he didnt expose himself by talking rubbish on international television, would there be any need for a panel??

lefulefu:
not only IMSU..its across almost all nigerian govt universities.i no know weda private univs don dey involve.during classes many of these female undergraduates no dey attend classes.they will be travelling across the country doing runz and wen time don reach for exam or tests dem go come lecturer office with skimpy wears and no undies hoping to seduce the lecturers in exchange for high grade. though there some innocent girls some lecturers harrass into having sex with them just because they just attractive.some lecturers also make it a hobby sleeping with married female undergraduates.

It's become a tradition n culture in SS n SE unis...................SW unis dey learn for where UNICAL, UNIBEN, UNIPORT, IMSU, ABSU operate


Infact poly's and college of education stinks...........

midnighter:
Are you sure you're really functioning very well? what does training have to do with this? Why didnt the mans parents train him not to be alone with small girls for hours? So all these girls are untrained? youre the only person who knows how to train a child?

Youre now talking about jungle justice and probing. A simple question, should a lecturer and pastor, or anyone in a position of power and authority be making sexual advances towards students?

Thats all! if he didnt expose himself by talking rubbish on international television, would there be any need for a panel??

the reporter never said she acted as a student , she clearly acted as a prospecting student (teo very different things under any law) .. an to answer you.. a lecturer male or female can make sexual advances to willing individuals of the society, so long she isnt a student under them..

You talked about functioning well, i know you are just being emotional... but i'll ignored that and continue to be objective with you..

The mans parent are not to be blamed cos he was in his own office before the untrained lady came soliciting his attention ..

this case is simple and we shouldnt get paranoid or sentimental over it... if you pass your grades as a lady you have no business begging a man for admission in his office


PS
Saka Oyetoro was a lecturer when he made advances to his student and they are married now,

Pastor abiara is married to his church memeber, Pastor Odusote remarried a church memeber after pastor bimbo died

solmusdesigns:
the reporter never said she acted as a student , she clearly acted as a prospecting student (teo very different things under any law) .. an to answer you.. a lecturer male or female can make sexual advances to willing individuals of the society, so long she isnt a student under them..

You talked about functioning well, i know you are just being emotional... but i'll ignored that and continue to be objective with you..

The mans parent are not to be blamed cos he was in his own office before the untrained lady came soliciting his attention ..

this case is simple and we shouldnt get paranoid or sentimental over it... if you pass your grades as a lady you have no business begging a man for admission in his office

Im not talking about the documentary, I asked you a simple question and youre refusing to answer because you know youre wrong

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solmusdesigns:
i wont train my daughter to seek admission in the office of a man( thats corruption) neither would i train her to be with a man who isnt her family member or husband in a secluded place alone for hours

the school has put up a panel to probe the case and the man placed on suspenssion prior to the completion of the investigation... so why not wait till the man is found guilty of any of the instituitions law guilty throwing him under the bus

its this barbaric atitude of jungle justice or judging based on a side of the emotional story that keeps Africa a black continent... both the accused and the defedants need legal representation and not just jumping the guns straight to humiliation

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midnighter:
Im not talking about the documentary, I asked you a simple question and youre refusing to answer because you know youre wrong

Thats all! if he didnt expose himself by talking rubbish on international television, would there be any need for a panel??

He didnt talk rubish on international telivission, he was setup and filmed without his consent at his weakest moment thinking he was having a casual conversation on a saturday afternoon in his office

solmusdesigns:
PS
Saka Oyetoro was a lecturer when he made advances to his student and they are married now,

Pastor abiara is married to his church memeber, Pastor Odusote remarried a church memeber after pastor bimbo died

No matter how you keep calling pastors, its your conscience that will hang you

Dont pastors have to marry? A pastor entering a civilised courtship arrangement with a church member is different from the disgrace that we saw last night

Stop defending the wrong thing before you fall victim to it

solmusdesigns:
Thats all! if he didnt expose himself by talking rubbish on international television, would there be any need for a panel??

He didnt talk rubish on international telivission, he was setup and filmed without his consent at his weakest moment thinking he was having a casual conversation on a saturday afternoon in his office

You still havent answered my other question

So why did he allow them to set him up? He didnt need to allow her inside, he could have directed her to the jamb office like you said and saved himself the shame

What kind of casual conversation are you talking about? with a 17 year old girl?

Its common now,is it today they know

foolbuster:
Nothing will change. They will rather become more cautious. This thing has been going on for decades, once in a while there is a scandal, people make noise, few heads roll and thats it then its back to business as usual
The root cause of why everything is rotten in the country has not been dealt with. Sex for marks is just one of the vices of a messed up society.

Exactly

tillaman:
Madddd!!
I really think our country needs to sold to the Britons again

I suggest the Chinese or Kim Jong Un.

sunkieisland:
I suggest the Chinese or Kim Jong Un.

seconded

solmusdesigns:



When will Men know that this kpekus and women can destroy a man faster than a nuclear bomb, if it means fvcking your wife every morning please do, you cant go around "harrasing" people because of your Hot animal nature

I just watched the Documentary(still airing on NTA), and damn!!! the man finished himself, but the problem here is 70% of men criticising him would fall for the BBC setup... imagine a girl comes to meet you at your church that she needs an admission and you invited her over to your office and she came alone like three times, and the foolish man prayed for her, advised her and started toasting her, telling her she's bautiful repeatedly and asking about her sex life without the girl protesting,.. Oga doesnt know he is about to become famous for trying his luck at getting laid, the Ghana man even took the girl out bought her gift and ask her to marry him but its still sexual harrasment

At this point everyone should know the defination of sexual harrasment and sexual abuse, to help save men from destruction.. because it seems, you cant tourch a ladies hand, you cant tell her she is beutiful and you definately most not be alone in an office with her or else you would be destroyed with a sexual harrasment lawsuit

Moral lesson(from COZA and this Unilag story), if a woman comes at you, or visit you alone, never ever continue the meeting being alone with a woman so devil doesnt disgrace you, because according to the video even if you dont tourch her and you merely make a verbal move (toasting) then you are guilty of sexual harrasment

DEAR MEN IF YOU HAVE SENSE BEFORE YOU EVER ASK ANY LADY ANYTHING RELATING TO DATING KINDLY MAKE HER SIGN A CONSENT FORM AND NEVER EVER STAY IN A ROOM WITH A LADY ALONE


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I'm sorry but how is this a problem? If you are in the 70% and a girl comes to your office and there is a relationship imbalance then you should not toast her. NO, you cannot touch a lady's hand with amorous intent if you are her teacher/lecturer/professor/doctor or in any positon where you have power over her. YES it does amount to sexual harrasment so please be guided. Don't chase women where it is difficult for them to refuse.

Cotton:
I'm sorry but how is this a problem? If you are in the 70% and a girl comes to your office and there is a relationship imbalance then you should not toast her. NO, you cannot touch a lady's hand with amorous intent if you are her teacher/lecturer/professor/doctor or in any positon where you have power over her. YES it does amount to sexual harrasment so please be guided. Don't chase women where it is difficult for them to refuse.

The man isn't her lecturer, she isn't a student of the Uni, she met him off campus at a church and requested to meet him because she would love to gain admission so she needs his tutorial