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AwkaetitiBabe:
Baba d Baba. Hope u know excessive masturbation numbs the Penile organ leading to weak erection? It's one of the causes of erectile dysfunction

lies!

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

you are still a child, still watching pornography, and you wanna quit masturbation at the same time. Irresponsibility have had been part of your life

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Flee from any Nigerian that responds to life issues with Bible quotes. They are the worst form of human beings. They are usually unrepentant and degenerate hypocrites and worse than the devil. I will never do any kind of business with them.

Prove me wrong.

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Well masturbation helps a lot .. I'm a married man with kids i prefer to masturbate before sex so I jark off the short first round and go 1hr in the second round on wife ..but am not addicted to it....if u think of money and family you won't have time for it.

haha wow

There is nothing wrong with masturbsting! Yall religious fanatics should pls stop making life difficult!
Even things that wasn't described as a sin in the holy book... Yall would turn it into a sin! Fvck all Yall! Masturbating is healthy and natural,,,,, as long as you not hurting yourself or anyone else with your act, carry on!


Ladies try marry a man that masturbates... He will be more unlikely to cheat on you...

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

You need to stop watching porn... let your wife be your pornography...as long as you watch open, you can't stop mstrbation.

Ilekokonit:
Former American President Bill Clinton once said that 95℅ of men masturbate and the remaining 5℅ lie about it.

Medically, psychologists say masturbation is a NORMAL part of child development - ID, Ego, Super ego etc and then we had Pastor Chris Oyakhilome on video saying it is not a sin and people should stop beating themselves up over it.

A foolish woman with her own hands tears her home apart and your wife is lucky that when she denies you sex you did not take a girlfriend outside to do her work for her.

If only women knew how men's brains are wired when it comes to sex then maybe their husbands will remain faithful to them BUT these ignorant women will not listen to advice that WILL save their marriages.

Brother nothing do you as what you have just described is common to a lot of men especially if their uncooperative wives starts using sex as a weapon. In the haughty vindictive ignorance of these wives, they think they are punishing their husband by denying him sex not knowing that they are digging the grave of their own marriages with their very own hands with their foolishness.

may be at last women can now realize that it is not in their intetest to play the mind game they like playing.

Sofistcatdmoron:
you are killing your penis, it will eventually become weak when u have real match with a babe, stop mastbtng

the same thing happens when you have sex too often. but the solution is to stop doing it for a while, and then watch it come back full strength.

jclassiq:
You seem to be quite uninformed at the subject matter. I currently suffer from the issue being discussed due to excessive masturbation. Not to mention reduction in sperm quality and quantity.

Sha be careful is all.

no cause for alarm! just stop it for a while and it will fix itself

Sofistcatdmoron:
he is telling the fact bro, it destroys the penis bro,giving you E.D

lies!

LegendHero:
I swear I dey vex with everybody that commented on this thread including myself.

@OP, what is the difference between masturbating and having sex with your wife? Both of the time you will still cum.

What is the difference of having sex with a woman everyday or 4days a week and masturbating everyday or 4days a week?

I used to be like you, thinking masturbation is wrong and all those thought, Walahi you will only have peace when you accept that masturbation is also a way of life.

Even God’s plan is for us to masturbate or how do you explain the fact that we can stimulate ourself to cum? You think God don’t know what he’s doing.

The oldest act ever known to man is masturbation. you should be worried about your wife not liking sex and devote time to discuss things with her about that and stop bothering on masturbation or porn.

first of all, god did not create anyone and that's why his laws don't work!

secondly, paul said ''the things i would like to do, i find myself not doing them; it is those things i do not like to do, that i find myself doing. who can save me from this flesh! he probably was talking about masturbation

AwkaetitiBabe:
Baba d Baba. Hope u know excessive masturbation numbs the Penile organ leading to weak erection? It's one of the causes of erectile dysfunction

Is there any medical reference you can provide for this?

You see what am saying

Before you get married

Your wife pleases you

Now you are married

She has changed

My advise thus

Continue masturbating

Till you fulfill your promise on earth.

dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.

What concern pastor here now
Everything nah religion.

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

It's a sickness you have to cure bro

You are addicted to masturbation. Well, you have to replace your bad habit with new ones. Distract yourself when you get the urge. Listen to music maybe gospel. Take a walk, engage in an activities. Sometimes it is normal for your wife to deny you of sex. Women are moved by emotions. I just imagine how some boys react when the hear that women denied men sex. Talk to your wife, she can be of help too making herself available anything you have X urge

AwkaetitiBabe:
Baba d Baba. Hope u know excessive masturbation numbs the Penile organ leading to weak erection? It's one of the causes of erectile dysfunction

So people are still believing this lie? Calm down sister.

It's obvious that marriage does not cure lust in fact marriage amplifies your character, this is what happens when man tries to run his affairs without his maker, you need the help of God to stop this evil act ,an evil act that is toxic to your spirit soul and your body,you have to read the word of God, it's food to your spirit and you need to humble your self before God in prayers...take time to listen to messages......

owoshuyi:
God bless you

Sincerely sorry bro....i had a drink last night

If u like continue to masturbate until u run out of sperm.

One thing that itches my nerve is: can't we men discipline ourselves in matters of sexuality? I mean one can't choose to be celibate for awhile? Do we have to compromise our feelings by continually appealing to our sexual fantasies? This is catsh!t mehn! A man is not judge by d size of his d!ck but by his content. Truth is, if one allows his affective domain to rule over his cognitive & psychomotor domain, he's half ruined (psychologically speaking) though.
So bross, learn d act of mind control. That's all. Nobody can help u out of this self-induced situation except ur damn self. Be strong!

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Are you sure your wife is lovely?

99% or more of married men masturbate, including those married to the most beautiful women on earth, that's the truth nobody else will tell you.


Most times, it is even their hot looking girlfriends or wife that help them to masturbate


Stop killing yourself, having a beautiful wife or sexy girlfriend does not stop a man from masturbation; the sexual life of a man is weird, only his creator can understand it, don't let that mar your personal happiness and peace of mind.


As for sin, no man or woman will enter heaven by righteousness, making heaven will be by God's grace not by your righteousness because your own sin may not be sexual sin, it maybe anger, lying, deceit, hatred, keeping malice, being envious, being ungrateful, murmuring, ingratitude, stealing via pen or gun or trick, idol worshipping (the worst of all), betrayal, disobedience, gossip, backstabbing, sin of doubt, etc.


So free your mind

XavierD:
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I don't think you and your wife are very close yet.

I mean, if I masturbate, my partner should be the first to know about it, maybe when my partner travelled or something. We will talk about it, make jokes about it. And later do it together sef.

At 27, you should be very sexually active. Your wife should know that too and your limits.

Partners masturbate in front of each other all the time. Nothing to be ashamed of ...

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Like seriously? Are u kidding me??

AwkaetitiBabe:
Baba d Baba. Hope u know excessive masturbation numbs the Penile organ leading to weak erection? It's one of the causes of erectile dysfunction

Do you or do you not know that your current boyfriend or fiancé or husband still masturbates


You will never understand the sexual life of men, just don't go there

Amarabae:
Untamed premarital sexual habits.
Go to mountain of fire for deliverance

E doesn't need to go for deliverance anywhere. It's a thing of the mind. If he really wants to stop it, let him stay away from food for one to two weeks. E no go remember day e get prick again.

If he is able to stop porn, then he can stop masturbation
In the rank of addiction, addiction to pornography is ranked no 2 in being hard to stop

kolafolabi:
You need to stop watching porn.. At least lets start from there

Kyllahmc:
There is nothing wrong with masturbsting! Yall religious fanatics should pls stop making life difficult!
Even things that wasn't described as a sin in the holy book... Yall would turn it into a sin! Fvck all Yall! Masturbating is healthy and natural,,,,, as long as you not hurting yourself or anyone else with your act, carry on!


Ladies try marry a man that masturbates... He will be more unlikely to cheat on you...

Which men don't masturbate


95% or more of men masturbate, the remaining 5% are those that lie that they don't masturbate to feel holy or different.

So in summary, masturbation is part of life of all men, some can luckily outgrow it not by their power but natural trait, while some will not until maybe old age or a certain age when their sexual libido has fired down down.


Don't let anybody fool you, all men masturbate and if at all there is any guy that does not masturbate at all, he will be a chronic sex addict always hustling for any available pussy to swim

Joystark:
Your Head.

huh, you mean my head would fit into your holes ...must be very wide already due to large traffic going through the route

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MiddleDimension:
there is no need for him to stop.

he said it himself