Good evening everyone,I really have to bring this up cause I am really confused.I have a man in my life whom I love and adore so much.my bf always complains that I don't respect him because he doesn't have money,but the case is different money is not my problem for now cause it will come.he speaks ill about women about how women can't love a man that we only love money,he says it in my presence it is as if I don't mean anything to him when I confront him he says he's just joking that he only speak out of experience.He's a hot tempered person which I understand,he keeps saying he will marry me,I know it not a guarantee i don't even care about marriage.He's being acting anyhow we leave together and he has never cheated on me,but only his calls makes me think he's cheating.I once called a number always disturbing him and it turned out to be a friend gf she said she only calls him to talk to her bf cause the are close and her bf has no phone.am confused.

emmysolo2001:
Good evening everyone,I really have to bring this up cause I am really confused.I have a man in my life whom I love and adore so much.my bf always complains that I don't respect him because he doesn't have money,but the case is different money is not my problem for now cause it will come.he speaks ill about women about how women can't love a man that we only love money,he says it in my presence it is as if I don't mean anything to him when I confront him he says he's just joking that he only speak out of experience.He's a hot tempered person which I understand,he keeps saying he will marry me,I know it not a guarantee i don't even care about marriage.He's being acting anyhow we leave together and he has never cheated on me,but only his calls makes me think he's cheating.I once called a number always disturbing him and it turned out to be a friend gf she said she only calls him to talk to her bf cause the are close and her bf has no phone.am confused.

My sister he is cheating on you technically BUT kind enough to give you warning signs that the relationship wont last, because he is BORED and TIRED of you... HE ALSO WILL KEEP GETTING ANGRY AND SOON BLAME YOU FOR HIS POVERTY.

pls be prayerful

emmysolo2001:
Good evening everyone,I really have to bring this up cause I am really confused.I have a man in my life whom I love and adore so much.my bf always complains that I don't respect him because he doesn't have money,but the case is different money is not my problem for now cause it will come.he speaks ill about women about how women can't love a man that we only love money,he says it in my presence it is as if I don't mean anything to him when I confront him he says he's just joking that he only speak out of experience.He's a hot tempered person which I understand,he keeps saying he will marry me,I know it not a guarantee i don't even care about marriage.He's being acting anyhow we leave together and he has never cheated on me,but only his calls makes me think he's cheating.I once called a number always disturbing him and it turned out to be a friend gf she said she only calls him to talk to her bf cause the are close and her bf has no phone.am confused.

BABE, kindly send me a PM, I want to be your friend that will do better and treat you better than this fake guy AND I can help your sis with school admission... am for real

to be CANDID, your boyfriend is cheating on you just like the guy above said...

cheating is NOT about SEX...it is about not being 100% equally committed as you are.... he just wants to use you and dump you so he is giving you reasons ahead o.

BE WISE and accept my offer- I am ready to wait for you, even if its just as a friend I know I can be your best pal and I mean it. kindly contact me.

I dont want you to get hurt at the end.

Spits!!!!!

Yes women like money... His right. .

Sister we know ur not loyal and ur cheating and one day u will get tired of the fact he doesn't have money and move on.. The guy is only taking precautionary mejors to protect his fragile heart...

The two guys above me are really sick please let's pray fro them..

You need to be careful in that relationship

I don't understand.

What are you confused about?

Evening newspaper

U no even happy say one fresh bobo under 30 dey manage u

*been
*live

Your bf should be open about close friends and not being open is a BIG red flag. I like your attitude, at least per your post, that marriage is not your only goal in life. I think you should confront him openly about the obvious cock and bull story. If he can't sufficiently explain himself then know that he indeed may have been cheating.

emmysolo2001:
Good evening everyone,I really have to bring this up cause I am really confused.I have a man in my life whom I love and adore so much.my bf always complains that I don't respect him because he doesn't have money,but the case is different money is not my problem for now cause it will come.he speaks ill about women about how women can't love a man that we only love money,he says it in my presence it is as if I don't mean anything to him when I confront him he says he's just joking that he only speak out of experience.He's a hot tempered person which I understand,he keeps saying he will marry me,I know it not a guarantee i don't even care about marriage.He's being acting anyhow we leave together and he has never cheated on me,but only his calls makes me think he's cheating.I once called a number always disturbing him and it turned out to be a friend gf she said she only calls him to talk to her bf cause the are close and her bf has no phone.am confused.

blackpanthar:


My sister he is cheating on you technically BUT kind enough to give you warning signs that the relationship wont last, because he is BORED and TIRED of you... HE ALSO WILL KEEP GETTING ANGRY AND SOON BLAME YOU FOR HIS POVERTY.

pls be prayerful

i swear i will be prayerful.

ikh777:



BABE, kindly send me a PM, I want to be your friend that will do better and treat you better than this fake guy AND I can help your sis with school admission... am for real

to be CANDID, your boyfriend is cheating on you just like the guy above said...

cheating is NOT about SEX...it is about not being 100% equally committed as you are.... he just wants to use you and dump you so he is giving you reasons ahead o.

BE WISE and accept my offer- I am ready to wait for you, even if its just as a friend I know I can be your best pal and I mean it. kindly contact me.

I dont want you to get hurt at the end.

i just hope he's not,and about the friendship and not sure

carzola:


Spits!!!!!

Yes women like money... His right. .

Sister we know ur not loyal and ur cheating and one day u will get tired of the fact he doesn't have money and move on.. The guy is only taking precautionary mejors to protect his fragile heart...

The two guys above me are really sick please let's pray fro them..

carzola I'm actually the victim here I have parents who can afford all my needs am not an ungrateful person I always help him in need.I could never cheat on him

Riele:
I don't understand.

What are you confused about?

He's sudden distance behavior,He's always complaining about money.everything

cooooooks:
*been
*live

Your bf should be open about close friends and not being open is a BIG red flag. I like your attitude, at least per your post, that marriage is not your only goal in life. I think you should confront him openly about the obvious cock and bull story. If he can't sufficiently explain himself then know that he indeed may have been cheating.

he was open but now he rarely talks to me he's always moody.I've tried confronting him but he says he's just bothered about He's joblessness that he's a man and so on he goes out almost everyday and comes back moody

why won't he behave anyhow when you are already living with him ,if u go to a boutique,pick up a clothe without paying, go home and start wearing the clothe,will you have the urge to pay again ,if the owner disturbs u too much, u return the clothe,thats exactly what that young man will do to u soon.
Where una suppose get sense,una no dey get sense.
Better start looking for another option, he's tired of eating egusi soup.

blackpanthar:


My sister he is cheating on you technically BUT kind enough to give you warning signs that the relationship wont last, because he is BORED and TIRED of you... HE ALSO WILL KEEP GETTING ANGRY AND SOON BLAME YOU FOR HIS POVERTY.

pls be prayerful

How did you deduce this?

Nairalanders love drama so I pity whoever is bringing non-fake stories here.

Easybela:
why won't he behave anyhow when you are already living with him ,if u go to a boutique,pick up a clothe without paying, go home and start wearing the clothe,will you have the urge to pay again ,if the owner disturbs u too much, u return the clothe,thats exactly what that young man will do to u soon.
Where una suppose get sense,una no dey get sense.
Better start looking for another option, he's tired of eating egusi soup.

he's living in my house

ikh777:



BABE, kindly send me a PM, I want to be your friend that will do better and treat you better than this fake guy AND I can help your sis with school admission... am for real

to be CANDID, your boyfriend is cheating on you just like the guy above said...

cheating is NOT about SEX...it is about not being 100% equally committed as you are.... he just wants to use you and dump you so he is giving you reasons ahead o.

BE WISE and accept my offer- I am ready to wait for you, even if its just as a friend I know I can be your best pal and I mean it. kindly contact me.

I dont want you to get hurt at the end.

You this stupid low life. Na tootoo make you dey make promises here like animal. Naija men most of us useless I swear. Abeg OP nor answer this animal oh

send him parking, that's not right

emmysolo2001:
he's living in my house

Easybela:
send him parking, that's not right

why would I do so

2buffagain:


How did you deduce this?

Nairalanders love drama so I pity whoever is bringing non-fake stories here.

not everyone is fake.I'm not a dramatic person,I don't need your pity

Him being jobless might just be the real issue...expecially when he av younger one's looking up to him for financial assistance or him seeing his mate's doing well financially..try to understand him it nt easy for a responsible mature guy to be comfortable being jobless...in a nutshell try sit him down nd ask him to open up to u about what wrong..if i where in shoes i would be scared that u would leave me for someone better because of my financial stutus..sorry to say i don't mean to call u a slut or any other imaginary names bt that how i feel abt this issue....

emmysolo2001:
he was open but now he rarely talks to me he's always moody.I've tried confronting him but he says he's just bothered about He's joblessness that he's a man and so on he goes out almost everyday and comes back moody

continue feeding and housing somebody's future husband,

emmysolo2001:
why would I do so

Colb461:
Him being jobless might just be the real issue...expecially when he av younger one's looking up to him for financial assistance or him seeing his mate's doing well financially..try to understand him it nt easy for a responsible mature guy to be comfortable being jobless...in a nutshell try sit him down nd ask him to open up to u about what wrong..if i where in shoes i would be scared that u would leave me for someone better because of my financial stutus..sorry to say i don't mean to call u a slut or any other imaginary names bt that how i feel abt this issue....

i understand but i also wish he would

Easybela:
continue feeding and housing somebody's future husband,

thanks

Homeboiy:
Evening newspaper

U no even happy say one fresh bobo under 30 dey manage u

thanks

Easybela:
continue feeding and housing somebody's future husband,

No spoil show for person abeg.
Focus on the topic.
Leave that guy out of this please!

Inthemoment:


Stay!!! Pay his bills, take his abuse, las las he will find a woman who respects herself and he will leave you. But, you stay and enjoy whatever he's offering you.

I'm not paying bills,He's not abusing me,I don't care if he leaves me all I care about is his welfare.relationship or not he was a very good friend before we started dating maybe we are just not meant to be.

24kmagic:


No spoil show for person abeg.
Focus on the topic.
Leave that guy out of this please!

which show guy

Girls be looking for reasons to breakup with broke guys and still retain their “good girl” reputation. They don’t want people to know that money is the factor that drives their decisions.

Break up with him with your full chest. No fear.

She say money is not a problem Comedy Half hour.