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worlexy:
All these are happening because people are waiting to have a million naira or more before they can go ahead to have their weddings. Do a simple wedding you can afford and get license to start having a sinless sex( sex in the confine of marriage)

Don't live to impress people. Live to lead a happy life

This is very common in Islam. People that can't control themselves and don't want to marry do low budget marriage and marry young

leocollins:
having sex in a relationship nowadays is very normal in the society,two of my ex girlfriends broke up with me because I wasnt ready to have sex till marriage..but thank God am still holding my self till marriage... it not easy my fellows..

Stop dating hoes

aliondo:
This one don nack tire...

Bros,me sef notice o. Those types of girls ,Simplep na no go area,all the guys wey don lay am go just they mock person say something wey dey don chop tire na hin this mumu go carry . And na one unlucky guy go marry am last last. A wise guy go just chop am and dump am and go marry one young virgin

I now see the reason why Christians are sex addicts. FOR BETTER FOR WORSE. That's why they decide to do testing before wedding. Girl tests first boyfriend, she's not satisfied and moves in to the next boyfriend,not satisfied, onto the next. Same with guys too.Before you know it, pussy don turn to borehole and she don dey addicted to dick, one dick no fit sustain am again and she don turn to adelebo before marriage and she becomes a hoe housewife in marriage. But in Islam, our prophet knew this would happen and set the rule that there is nothing like for better for worse, divorce is available in Islam for men and women but the reason has to be very substantial and not reasons a man or woman can adapt to. Islam is sweet and that's why my many Muslims would rather wait till wedding night

sinceraconcept:
Bros,me sef notice o. Those types of girls ,Simplep na no go area,all the guys wey don lay am go just they mock person say something wey dey don chop tire na hin this mumu go carry . And na one unlucky guy go marry am last last. A wise guy go just chop am and dump am and go marry one young virgin

Lol you are really funny,you know nothing about me boy,run along.

Impregnablefolk:
May God have mercy on u!

May he not. I don't need foolishness around me.

R u sure u said dis?

solmusdesigns:
oh well



Premarital sex isnt a crime, and most sins dont affect God

however, sex before marital contracts that results into pregnancy would cause huge problem to the couples and to humanity


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chiommy123:
May God help us. Its easier said than done cos even in the body of Christ brothers pressure the sisters into committing fornication and out there when you say you left someone cos of sex people look at you like you're not serious

you're right, its always not easy but with God all things are possible. Anything morally and biblical right is not easy, you will hear and see things but if your mind is made up, it will pass

Simplep:
May God forgive us all

Amen

My verdict is that if your partner is a virgin, pls don't get physical with her till wedding night. Respect her virginity, most guys that are dating virgins do this. But if your girl is non virgin, guy, no dull yourself cos she go dey collect dick somewhere else, destroy that pussy cos some guys don give am tobAmerica before you. Even if you dump her, it won't hurt her much and her curses won't be effective cos she's also a pro in it.
No one dumps virgins though, it's extremely rare to dump them

am4truth:
Friends, don't be deceived. We will all give accounts of our lives before our Maker. Sex before your wedding is a no go area for heavenly minded Christians.
Pls argue with your Bible. As for me and my house, we will follow the Bible.

He that has ears to hear, let him hear

Blah blah blah, that's all you can say, yet it's the same bible that men of God married 100's of wives, 100's of concubines, slept with their maids and had premarital sex... Oh that was Old Testament shay? oya make una tear that part of the Bible na or is that part of the Bible heresay?

Till now you guys are yet to prove to us why dinosaurs exist or when it existed or shay they didn't exist pastor?

Anyway bros I have nothing against you, it's your belief and I respect it but I
also hope U do likewise to mine and others that don't believe in the ideology called premarital sex .

Sex is Sex!

seunmsg:
If people are engaged or are in a relationship with the intention of marriage, they can knack each other. It is not a sin. 1st corrinthians ch 7 vs 36 stated clearly that knacking each other is not a sin if those involved are matured with the condition that they should get married after. You people should stop the confusion.

Lies from the pit of hell!

Go and read your bible very well...start from the book of Matthew downwards.

WeRblessed:
Stop posting stupid topics. What is wrong if one's fiancee having the urge to have sex with the fiance? Are they supposed to have it with who then? What a backward and Hypocritical nation. As if saving sex till marriage makes the marriage succeed.

Bimbo is engaged to be married to Emeka, but because Emeka is saving Bimbo untill marriage, Bimbo sleeps with her sugar daddy and then after two years, Emeka married her. Emeka always bragged to his friends that he and his girlfriend were abstinent not knowing that another man is sleeping with his chick. They have been married for six years no children. The man has a low sperm count and also a one minute man. He has been on medication to increase his sperm count and nothing is working.

If they had had sexual experience while dating, she would have realized the warning signs and find a way to decide her fate or help the guy find solutions.

Every frustrated, religious hypocrites always want to come on NL to tell us how they kept sex until marriage as if we care. We dont effing care.

You are abstinent but masturbate, who are you deceiving?

Please park well jare!

No matter what you say or believe, God's word stands sure - that fornication & adultery is sin with our body (1 Corinthians 6) and those who indulge in it along with all other sin will face God's judgment & end up in the lake of fire.
We all shall stand before God to give account of our lives and deeds - some to receive reward & some to receive condemnation (2 Corinthians 5:10)

So if you wish, carry go in the world of sexual immorality... One day, God shall bring this discussion to your remembrance to prove that you were told. Come to Jesus Christ for help today before it gets late!
A word is enough for the wise!

leocollins:
having sex in a relationship nowadays is very normal in the society,two of my ex girlfriends broke up with me because I wasnt ready to have sex till marriage..but thank God am still holding my self till marriage... it not easy my fellows..

Just remain focused Brother....you will achieve your goals...don't let others lead you on the path of destruction that they are going.
I made up my mind as a man to remain as a virgin till marriage and God helped me achieve it and He can help you too. I got married at around age 30 yrs to my wife (also a virgin).
You can even have a better testimony than mine. God is your strength!

Draught:
Na una know, me I must have sex before marrying that babe and I ain't going to hell.

You can take that to the bank you religious overzealous lot!

You're living in denial of the plain truth!

Jentle244:
The issue of premarital sex cannot be over emphasized. Heb 13:4 has said it all. If Your fiancé or fiancee is pressurizing u for sex to know if he or she is fertile or not he or she does not love u...after all there are other ways to know if one is impotent or infertile.


My opinion anyway

Don’t use the Bible to justify personal discretion
Out of curiosity and great desire for sex man or a woman can love themselves and still want it.

Inasmuch as the Bible is a very good source of wisdom, it is good that we use our sense.

Thank you

Woe to him who justifies a sin. Yet we all have sinned and fallen short of glory. Many of us have found mercy but we will not justify what God condemned. Those who keep themselves before marriage are better and their reward will not be denied them. Those who despise the law cannot escape repercussions

olumide4christ:
You're living in denial of the plain truth!

And you are living in an island of undiluted myopic ignorance..

But I don't blame you, it's how you were raised plus where you grew up in..

I respect your decision not to have sex till marriage, that's your opinion but dont come and judge people that have sex because you are not holy pass them neither are you a saint Mr.

Respect my decision and I will respect yours but if you want to throw stones at people, first take a hard look at yourself

The most religious country in the world yet nothing to show for it except high rate of poverty, corruption, religious intolerance, ethnic descrimination....

They will keep building more churches and mosques in here while others build rockets, develop innovative technology and research means to improve the lifestyle and quality of human beings

But una own wahala na to say person go go hell because he did a biological act with another sex...

Infact bros let me go and eat, you can reply if you want, I got you!

marvin906:
no verse ooo..
buh If am dating you and I mistakenly tell you I can stay without sex until marriage and you believe OYO is your case..
or if you tell me no sex until marriage please hit the road ..
i refuse to be a bitch to any chick anymore..
hoes be forming saint's only to see the package is a fourth hand goods

My brother, most of the so called born again sisters are just abandoned properties.
Any sister that gives me such condition must be a virgin, else to hell with you.

It's easy to be an angel when no one ruffles your feathers.

Fvck satan

seunmsg:
If people are engaged or are in a relationship with the intention of marriage, they can knack each other. It is not a sin. 1st corrinthians ch 7 vs 36 stated clearly that knacking each other is not a sin if those involved are matured with the condition that they should get married after. You people should stop the confusion.

My guy you have killed it, it's from the same bible oh but they will interprete it in a way that favors them, as if na them write the thing themselves

Draught:
And you are living in an island of undiluted myopic ignorance..

But I don't blame you, it's how you were raised plus where you grew up in..

I respect your decision not to have sex till marriage, that's your opinion but dont come and judge people that have sex because you are not holy pass them neither are you a saint Mr.

Respect my decision and I will respect yours but if you want to throw stones at people, first take a hard look at yourself

The most religious country in the world yet nothing to show for it except high rate of poverty, corruption, religious intolerance, ethnic descrimination....

They will keep building more churches and mosques in here while others build rockets, develop innovative technology and research means to improve the lifestyle and quality of human beings

But una own wahala na to say person go go hell because he did a biological act with another sex...

Infact bros let me go and eat, you can reply if you want, I got you!

Bros...carry on and carry go all you want in sexual immorality....the end shall be the judge when you stand before your maker.

It's on record that you were told and have been told the truth!

Nice night!

Oh

olumide4christ:
No matter what you say or believe, God's word stands sure - that fornication & adultery is sin with our body (1 Corinthians 6) and those who indulge in it along with all other sin will face God's judgment & end up in the lake of fire.
We all shall stand before God to give account of our lives and deeds - some to receive reward & some to receive condemnation (2 Corinthians 5:10)

So if you wish, carry go in the world of sexual immorality... One day, God shall bring this discussion to your remembrance to prove that you were told. Come to Jesus Christ for help today before it gets late!
A word is enough for the wise!

My friend I don't need your preaching, you hypocrite. Clean the bugs in your eyes first before preaching to me.

Thou shalt not fornicate but you lie, lie and lie all the time. There is no sin greeter than the other.

Heavenly race is individual and you have no right to be disturbing others with whatever your beliefs are, cus no one cares.

am4truth:
Hmmm. The message is for Christians, and if it offends you argue with the Bible. Heavenly minded Christians must not engage in sexual acts before the wedding.
Stop justifying sins, the scenario you painted is only to satisfy the devil. Before I got married, my wife and I had a similar issue, but we trusted God that all will be well....today the rest is history.

So if we're talking about Christians you too will stand in line? My friend please go and rest. Our African christianity, which way?

olumide4christ:
Bros...carry on and carry go all you want in sexual immorality....the end shall be the judge when you stand before your maker.

It's on record that you were told and have been told the truth!

Nice night!

That's all you lot think about; sex sex sex...

Nothing else!

LMAO anyway it's OK, have a nice night too

The Origin of life has been backed up by facts, figures, findings, discoveries and yet more insights are being made to understand it more

But you religious guys just want us to believe out of nowhere the solar planet and all living things just came out of nowhere because someone says so?!

Check out genetic makeup, we are very similar to other primates like the monkeys, chimps, baboons.. And even 70% still similar to other lesser animals..

You guys have no proof about how life came into existence whatsoever except for heresay and you just want the majority to digest it.

Back up your words with things people can see, hear, touch or feel and stop feeding the masses with this religious garbage..

You have been praying all your life if am not wrong to your God to be Mark Zuckerberg rich but yet here you are in your latest 20's or early 30's still with not a million Naira in your account

What happened na, were you sinning too much? Was God not hearing your prayers? Or is God's plan for you not to be a millionaire? If yes why are you still praying for financial abundance?

I understand you people feel there's a bigger thing than us or we need a certain principle to guide humanity but you need to also think outside the box, ignorance is a bliss yes but knowledge is power

Research into why people don't believe in your principles and try and understand what is it that makes them believe so.. Research into other religions ideology.

Just because you were raised a xtian or Muslim doesn't mean you can't think about why others worship other gods.. Or your family is so perfect right? Your mom, dad they never made a mistake in their lives right?


All you do is say this and that with no proof, jeez we all can't be that blind

This is the 21st century! Once you die you become an oblivion just a speck of dust in this billion years old earth. Nothing else

Religion that is supposed to bring humanity an inner sense of peace and show love towards other is the main source of violence in this modern day Earth

Infact if not for the fact that British missionaries introduced xtianity in southern NIger area, most of us would still have been worshipping Sango and other local dieties , and you guys would have come here by now to tell us aggressively how Sango use lightning and made the earth

What bout those born in moslem predominated countries, are xtians saying all those millions of peeps in those countries are born to perish in the lake of hell fire? Likewise for Moslems.

Think people think, yes you are a Christian but please still think!!!

obicaddy:
My Question is this:
Ive seen ladies being put in a "family way" after the traditional marriage. Is right or wrong? Or should the both intending couples wait till the wedding proper?

Which one is wedding proper again?
After Traditional wedding, you're married already.
Mind you white/church wedding is also traditional wedding over there.

So be guided.

olumide4christ:
Lies from the pit of hell!

Go and read your bible very well...start from the book of Matthew downwards.

You guys should stop confusing our people. I referenced a biblical verse in my post that you responded to. Go and read the verse and come back to dispute what I posted instead of telling me to go and read from Mathew to revelations.

WeRblessed:
My friend I don't need your preaching, you hypocrite. Clean the bugs in your eyes first before preaching to me.

Thou shalt not fornicate but you lie, lie and lie all the time. There is no sin greeter than the other.

Heavenly race is individual and you have no right to be disturbing others with whatever your beliefs are, cus no one cares.

Unfortunately for you, I don't tell lies...I quit a lying lifestyle after Jesus Christ took over my life in the late 90s.

Nice night.

seunmsg:
You guys should stop confusing our people. I referenced a biblical verse in my post that you responded to. Go and read the verse and come back to dispute what I posted instead of telling me to go and read from Mathew to revelations.

Lol...that is how the devil deceives many of you people...go back and read the I Cor. 7:36 you quoted... (paraphrased) it says that if a man is feeling sexually moved towards his fiancee, let him do the needful...let them marry...is that part not in your bible??
You just cherry picked the part that says let him do what he needs to do but left out the marriage. Read from verses 3-9 of the same 1 Corinthians 7 & come tell us if Apostle Paul was encouraging people to have sex with their fiancé/fiancee BEFORE OR AFTER marriage.

Don't cherry pick God's word, please! If you want to believe the bible, believe it in its entirety and if not, then bone it! God still remains God, no matter what we believe!