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Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:22am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine: Like I said, I wouldn't do it. It is their choice to. Bill Clinton had one affair scandal as a married man. Not like he was a known "serial" cheat. Anyway, I don't support people calling it the true test of loyalty, friendship or love. That is my own. 6 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Niccoloimhotep(m): 12:23am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz:hey ma'am, you just earned my respect. It's not easily earned. God bless you! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:25am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine: Lol. Sis, speak for yourself and stop making it look like all men behave like people stuck in the Stone age. I personally have never dated a man who thinks a woman have to tolerate bullshit to get the ring, I am also not into religious dogmas. Did away with that long time ago. So, I won't need to scatter and redefine anything- it is already the life we live. 5 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by crackhaus: 12:29am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine:Preach it Is this not what woke brothers have been talking about wanting yet they are called misogynists? Please please, that time should come quick 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by mujibson(m): 12:30am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ariza:Thank God it's "yeye" that smell... |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ginaz(f): 12:30am On Oct 16, 2019 |
mhizsuzzy: We are all equals in the sight of God? Yet he made men to take the crown over us? Listen to me, I’ve seen what married women get to passed through ,I’m not a baby. Please try to read good insightful books and get to understand the unshakable power women have . We undermine our power a lot . See let me tell you, a man won’t do shit to you if you don’t allow it. All these internet cries are from women who have low self esteem issues to deal with on their own. Haven’t even fixed their lives yet, can’t pinpoint how they want to be addressed ,some have their own issues . How can you in a right sense be in a relationship with a guy and he respects you when you don’t have respect for yourself?, how can they use their woman power for good? If your man is not setting standards then help him. TALK to HIM or walk away for the sake of your DIGNITY not for the sake of men don’t take crap so I won’t . Women wants respect, they should go all out for it! Some women can’t even respect their men but they want to be respected. We love to play the victim card all the time . All those negative feelings should be channeled to a good use . If you are tired of your man and you wanna walk away do so but not on the basis of men get away with lots of things . Nobody held you at gun point . 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:31am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine:Aunty! this is where I have issues with women that I don't really approve everything they do. You lots tend to go overboard with things! Nigeria is different from USA. Those things happen their because their law/ system approves/promote it. Nigeria is different! Will you pursue a man out of his house? will your family support having children for different fathers? Will you as a sensible Nigerian lady pray to be a baby mama? No! why? because we are different! Our culture, norms, upbringings and values are different!. Don't go about thinking what happens in the US will be the norms here too someday. That baby making idea is even ridiculous to think of. And , Liberation isn't a western thing, no one is fighting to be treated like human because it is done in the states but because it is the supposed way of life. How things should be. Treat every being right. 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Lonelypacifist6: 12:31am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Another Dumb celebrity who couldn't get the context of Snoops post, but felt the urge to spew trash for her fellow arse-shlakers to gobble on. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by golddeejay(m): 12:35am On Oct 16, 2019 |
I only hope all these naija feminism online tutors are teaching their followers how they are making their money and feeling so high. This kind feminism will do you strong thing for life if your p****y is not selling well or has expired. 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by golddeejay(m): 12:37am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ariza:Too much oil dey your head. |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by wezzymoney: 12:37am On Oct 16, 2019 |
You can give them your man, funny people just come on social media to talk rubbish i don't know if their brain need factory reset |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:38am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz:Never seen such a confusing post! God made men crown over women, yet there is women power. Aunty please you are confusing us. 7 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by bukatyne(f): 12:39am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz: Is there any place in the Bible that suggests women and men are not equal? Is there any place in the Bible that allows for men's misbehavior under the guise of this inequality? 7 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Lonelypacifist6: 12:39am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Wtf are you all saying no guy would stay with a woman like that, and all what about the guys who marry prostitutes? and jail birds etc, Why do People just love talking trash just to push their senseless agenda. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:39am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ariza: You are very wise. Only on NL do I see them tag it feminism and a western ideology that would come back to hunt women. Oh well, it is the usual threats. I bet blacks were told worse by their colonial masters back in the days... 5 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ginaz(f): 12:40am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Mstick: You’re the one with a black mentality. You women act like victims a lot it is so pathetic. Y’all should maybe channel your black mentality into fixing your self esteem issues and lives. Lolz, you see a girl whose boyfriend beat the crap out of her yet still clings to him. Is the man at fault ? A woman knows a guy has a womanizing spirit but still wanna hang in there. Is the man at fault? She knows he’s married but doesn’t care, is the damn man at fault ? Victims victims and victims that is what y’all are good at. Pick a dam choice . You walk away or stay behind to fix it. There’s always a choice in how we all want to be treated , nobody gonna kill you if you don’t comply. Stop acting like some fools ! Get your acts together and men would be forced to respect you. That’s the power of a women . We influence, we scheme, we are builders, we are anything but the head . Take that into your empty head and it shall be well with you. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 12:40am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Where do you ladies find these special men your type date? A perfect man that doesn't cheat, respect you, cook for you, doesn't have the African mentality and above board. We women are fighting hard to change the narrative yet some brothers had been tamed and I don't know yet? Funny enough we women gave birth to these men. Did we train them to be men or we trained them to disrespect women in the future or was it our husbands that toughen their kind while we looked away? Maybe we should start killing husbands as soon as he gives us a Male child so we don't allow them influence the next generation of men 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by crackhaus: 12:40am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Come to think of it, see how the chics congregated themselves on this thread to support an over-sexed over-hyped expensively bleached specimen with no credible achievement, when on the very next thread two young women have been given wings and hailed for being the first women in the Nigerian Airforce to get it...yet these girls were no where to be found there in these same numbers. I swear majority of young Nigerian girls/women are finished, absolutely nothing up there. Instead of focusing on real female achievements and celebrating giant strides, y'all prefer to sing praises of this yellow paw-paw with chicken legs who has no clue what thug-life is to American hip-hop culture before having an opinion. 10 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ginaz(f): 12:43am On Oct 16, 2019 |
bukatyne: We are all sons of God but God’s arrangement still remains the same. Christ is the head of man, man is the head of a woman. Simple !!! 7 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:43am On Oct 16, 2019 |
freshvine: I never called him perfect. You threw that in to defend your stand. He, just like every other human being- has his imperfections. I have mine too. But he doesn't bask in them as his God given male right and he works towards being a better man. That is the difference between him and so many male posters I read online. You are beginning to veer off course, as I don't know how you arrived at killing of men. 6 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:44am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Mstick: They probably do not know that part, because I am sure they have no joy in their hearts for SMs. Let alone a runaway one 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by bukatyne(f): 12:45am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz: You haven't answered any of my questions. See, if you leave the Bible out of it, you can accept been treated like trash, that is for you and the culture. When you are quoting the Bible, please get it straight. Stop mixing your cultural beliefs with the Bible. Thank you. 8 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by moshino(m): 12:45am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ariza: What exactly is diick and data, and what have they got to do with anything. Responding to some of you is just a total waste of time. If you lack comprehension, or any meaningful response, just move on. Pointing out factual things this lady has done, and admitted to doing, doesn't equate to pronouncing judgment on her, she did that herself. It befuddles the mind that she'll do all she did, and still dares to wear the toga of a wise counselor to young women, its a misnomer, an oxymoron. Any girl/lady/woman that follows her advice, will have a very miserable love life, look at her own history. I don't expect you to get it, cos you obviously are responding with a preconceived belief. My guess is, some guy played 'kalo-kalo' with your fragile heart, so you now see everything through the lens of that hurt. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 12:45am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ariza: This rant of yours is old melody to the modern African woman. If I lie ask cococandy and antibrutus |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by cococandy(f): 12:46am On Oct 16, 2019 |
More like watch them have epileptic convulsions and almost die on the internet cussing out anyone who tells a man to stick with a philandering woman. It would be amusing if it wasn’t nauseating AntiBrutus: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by crackhaus: 12:46am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ginaz: 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Ginaz(f): 12:47am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: I’m explaining more on it now. Since you town criers won’t listen . 1 Like |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Mstick: 12:48am On Oct 16, 2019 |
You keep poking holes in your own argument. You claim women and men are not equal according to your Bible, same bible that says everyone is equal and you're here ranting about black mentality. Now reread your original comments and this crap you've just written and ask yourself am I bipolar? You said and I quote "Women have a lot of influences over men, if they could focus their energy in trying to better their lives and instill a good influence over their men, they will be better off than becoming a bitter , over sabi, I know my right deranged psycho" And you wonder why women in abusive relationship stay? After all they believe they can influence a FULL GROWN ADULT. You're the FOOL because at the end of the day you ended up talking from both sides of your mouth. Ginaz: 6 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:50am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Sometimes I wonder if the mind is to be in color what colour would a black man's mind be? Black? It attracts and absorbs so many junks. And his brain? Lol No comment! . Not surprised though only on Nl is good will nationalized. 3 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 12:50am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Magnoliaa: No be everyone go join bell the cat na. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by cococandy(f): 12:52am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Even you. Calling a man ‘sis’ because they have ‘f’ in their moniker? Lol AntiBrutus: |
Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by freshvine(f): 12:54am On Oct 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Good to know he has imperfections and you're patient to be with him while he becomes a better he but here you and others including your goddess Toke Makinwa are criticizing a woman for doing what she get to do to make her relationship work. Make una fear God o 1 Like |
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