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If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Nobody: 7:00am On Oct 18, 2019*

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by daddytime(m): 7:21am On Oct 18, 2019

As I dey go learn how to read and write for straight line, I go jejely dey learn one skill after school hours even if na "fukanizer". By now I for don dey manufacture my own brand of tyres.

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Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Nobody: 7:33am On Oct 18, 2019

I would bring myself out of my shell, play with other kids , talk more, get involved with activities, learn different kinds of things, enjoy being around people more, be nicer to the people I once met, be more courageous and daring, I would not pass off good opportunities and lots more.

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Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Ahmed0336(m): 7:33am On Oct 18, 2019

OP kindly lead so that we can follow.

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Nobody: 9:00am On Oct 18, 2019*

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Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Offpoint1: 9:08am On Oct 18, 2019*

If I'm given that option, I ain't going shît.

Let the past stays in the past.

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Nobody: 9:15am On Oct 18, 2019*

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:59am On Oct 18, 2019

I'd have reported to my parents that I was raped by my neighbour, now he's dead, a terrible death by the way, and I'm grateful to God for that.

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Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Nobody: 11:05am On Oct 18, 2019*

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:14am On Oct 18, 2019

Inthemoment:
You could research 'Inner child work'
It's an assignment based on going back (mentally, spiritually, and emotionally) to those moments and giving yourself what was denied you. It helps to release the pain and rejection associated with the experience. It worked for me.

I was able to forgive, let go, and move on, over a short painful period of time.

Though the experience affected me emotionally and my interactions with men for a long time, hearing of his death made me cry uncontrollably for a week, but that marked the beginning of mental healing and freedom, remembering that ordeal brought sadness no doubt, but I'm good and over it

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Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Starz825(m): 11:47am On Oct 18, 2019

Fountainofyouth:
Though the experience affected me emotionally and my interactions with men for a long time, hearing of his death made me cry uncontrollably for a week, but that marked the beginning of mental healing and freedom, remembering that ordeal brought sadness no doubt, but I'm good and over it

Am sorry for what happened to u in the past And hope your mentality about men has changed...pls..not all men are bad/crook/wayward....pls..God will keep on healing

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Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by amiibaby(f): 11:52am On Oct 18, 2019

Hmmm

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by amiibaby(f): 11:53am On Oct 18, 2019

I will tell myself not to marry a tall, fair, wealthy handsome husband and never to pass a street in Lagos Nigeria where I met him

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Nobody: 11:56am On Oct 18, 2019

Fountainofyouth:
Though the experience affected me emotionally and my interactions with men for a long time, hearing of his death made me cry uncontrollably for a week, but that marked the beginning of mental healing and freedom, remembering that ordeal brought sadness no doubt, but I'm good and over it

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Dibblez: 12:11pm On Oct 18, 2019

I'll tell myself to never buy or use vaseline grin

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Offpoint1: 12:13pm On Oct 18, 2019

Fountainofyouth:
I'd have reported to my parents that I was raped by my neighbour, now he's dead, a terrible death by the way, and I'm grateful to God for that.

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Aldebarann(m): 12:20pm On Oct 18, 2019

Value humanity, not religion. Respect elders, read & study tirelessly, follow a cause passionately, learn a musical instrument, care for others, take to correction & love genuinely

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Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Stormyweather(m): 3:42pm On Oct 26, 2019

amiibaby:
I will tell myself not to marry a tall, fair, wealthy handsome husband and never to pass a street in Lagos Nigeria where I met him

I'm curious please.

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Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by FlyingTOMATOE: 11:24pm On Nov 09, 2019

amiibaby:
marry a tall, fair, wealthy handsome husband an

sounds like a perfect fit for price charming.

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Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by Nobody: 11:41pm On Nov 09, 2019

That for all the love i would later show, i should expect nohing less than scorn and hate.
Never trust people, they dont value the word 'loyalty'.
Its a man eat man world, ensure not to be the prey.
Never give up.
I had a sh!tty past, but i wont let it determine my future.
@fountainofyouth, i can relate. I was nearly raped at a young age too by an uncle. He did every nasty thing but didnt get the chance to penetrate.

Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by mumumugu(m): 3:46am On Nov 10, 2019

advice him to be himself even if it means rebelling against his dad.

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Re: If You Could Go Back In Time And Give The 8 Year Old You Some Advise... by amiibaby(f): 10:43am On Nov 10, 2019

I don’t want to talk about it

FlyingTOMATOE:
sounds like a perfect fit for price charming.

What happened

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