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Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by mysidechick(f): 4:07pm On Oct 20, 2019
A Nigerian lady identified as Chizoba Favour Chinedu took to social media to narrate her ordeal in the hands of her mother-in-law.

According to the lady, today is meant to be her wedding anniversary but unfortunately her husband is late. The lady also made it known that her mother-in-law was never in support of the marriage from the onset.

Read her full post below

Today is our wedding anniversary my love but I woke up without you by my side to celebrate it, it feels like hell living without you, if I had known that your mother meant what she said I would walked away while you were still alive, when she told my mother as she was leaving from our wedding that she will deal with me, that after she told you not to marry me, you still went ahead to.

I thought it was just a mere word, even when she asked you to divorce me fews hours after our wedding you refused, I wish I read through her heart to see how mean she was �� and you still visited her during Christmas time to beg her to forgive me and let’s live like family and she said over her dead body will she live to accept me as a daughter inlaw,

I wish I understood those words ��, I wish I never underestimated her, I would have simply left and by now maybe we would have been celebrating it over the phone now but I called you and your right rang right beside me ���, the pain is too much, the thought of your death is making me lose my mind, the beautiful family is planned together has now fallen, the landlord has given us quite notice, your beloved son is out of school and in the midst of it all I am so confused because I don’t even know where to start from��� here, where are you my love

I want hung you once again �� I want to hold your hands, I want you to look into my eyes and tell me that everything is going to be ok��, your family and friends that supposed to help, your mother told them that I killed you, maybe she’s right, she thought that am the one that will die but you took the bullet for me, you died the death that was meant for for me��� because of your heart of gold, you loved your family without reservation but they were opposite to you, even at your last hour you said that if any happen to you that your mother will not survive it because you were her only son but Honey she did and she also said that as She buried you that I will bury our son too.



I know can hear me, I know that you can see me��, defend us this day my love. I have not been able to write about you since you left because I thought you travelled and will soon be back �� but as day passes by I find out you are really gone for good.

I love you and will forever do because you will always live in my heart. With pain in my heart and tears � in my eyes I say happy anniversary to us my king, my friend, my teacher, my boyfriend, my brother, my mentor, my father and my husband, you were everything to me. I miss you, our children miss you, the Saint Vincent the Paul miss you.

You were indeed a great man, friend of all and helper to the hopeless. I pray that you send us a helper like you to help us too. Happy anniversary to us. Please friends wish us happy anniversary to ease this pain in my heart!

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by habsydiamond(m): 4:14pm On Oct 20, 2019
Just like in nollywood movies... Some mother-in-law can bring out hell from you

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Omihanifa: 4:17pm On Oct 20, 2019
God will compensate her

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Nobody: 4:18pm On Oct 20, 2019
I don't know why, but my pity for her dropped by 50% when I got to 'my landlord gave us quit notice' ' your son is out of school' part. Woman what have you been doing with your life when your husband was alive? Probably a housewife!. So a woman can't take care of a child herself?



That said, please never belittle the opinion or words of your boyfriend's or fiancé's mother. They matter a lot, make peace with them and be sure you are accepted before you say YES. A woman can influence a Nation against or in support of you. Be wise!

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Nobody: 4:38pm On Oct 20, 2019
One sided story.
No comment from me.

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Nobody: 7:54pm On Oct 20, 2019
Typical women wahala , it's usually the mundane things they have time for, rarely would the father in laws ever have issues.

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by mysidechick(f): 8:39pm On Oct 20, 2019
Me minding my business

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Nobody: 8:40pm On Oct 20, 2019
Madam kpele.

God will help you through this season.

But on a serious note; don't you think we should try to know why wives and mother in-laws are mostly at war.
Rarely, would you hear father in-law wahala?

What is wrong with women as people?
They fight men, they fight themselves.

I tire jareee undecided

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Kendumazy(m): 8:40pm On Oct 20, 2019
Speechless! Really feel for her.

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Wiseandtrue(f): 8:40pm On Oct 20, 2019
F

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by lyriclekidd(m): 8:41pm On Oct 20, 2019
Okay
Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Luckysbab: 8:41pm On Oct 20, 2019
mysidechick:
H

What's OP booking space for again

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by graciouslygrace(f): 8:42pm On Oct 20, 2019
hmm
Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by godwinstringed1(m): 8:43pm On Oct 20, 2019
angry
Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by bashtee09(m): 8:44pm On Oct 20, 2019
So sad reading this
I pray helper locate her soon

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by pocohantas(f): 8:44pm On Oct 20, 2019
pcguru1:
Typical women wahala , it's usually the mundane things they have time for, rarely would the father in laws ever have issues.

Fathers do not even have that kind of hold on their sons to start with. They are most times alone in their old age, fighting for the attention of their kids and the mother too.

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by PureGoldh(m): 8:44pm On Oct 20, 2019
Things dey happen inside dx world oh.

undecided

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by MedicH: 8:44pm On Oct 20, 2019
u self will grow to be a badder mother in law. the cycle continues

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by BabaCommander: 8:44pm On Oct 20, 2019
Good Lord! What a heart rending tale.
God have mercy on this lady and her child.

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by dominique(f): 8:45pm On Oct 20, 2019
Is she trying to say her mother in-law killed her own son?

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by penjm: 8:45pm On Oct 20, 2019
Man no deh die a natural dead in Igbo land?

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Wiseandtrue(f): 8:45pm On Oct 20, 2019
Why can't ALL just live in peace

Na wa ooooooo couples be looking happy on their wedding day without knowing what they passed through

From the look of things the mother had promised another girl her son's hand in marriage

No step in life should be taken for granted!!!

Prayer is the master key that can avert so many evil

Perhaps if you had remembered that, village people wouldn't have gotten to your husband

No one can understand what you are going through except you

I can only ask God to console you and send you another soul mate in no distant time!!!

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by SnitramMedia: 8:45pm On Oct 20, 2019
This is deep.

Please, see my signature
Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Thegoodone13(m): 8:46pm On Oct 20, 2019
Who kill who? Mother kill son! I don't have anything to say. Take heart, God will meet your needs

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by SenecaTheYonger: 8:46pm On Oct 20, 2019
Ariza:
I don't know why,
YOu only bring out the worst in me embarassed

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Nobody: 8:47pm On Oct 20, 2019
Hmmm

If the parents say NO...DONT GET MARRIED.

Go and pray...and wait. If the parents say NO after waiting, then that's it.Move on. If you want to live in a peaceful house environment.

(No, I don't think the mother inlaw had anything to do with the hubby's death...that's riddiculous).

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by SpecialAdviser(m): 8:47pm On Oct 20, 2019
Its unfortunate but there are always two sides to story. I don't believe someone will just hate you without a cause.

Your husband went to beg for your forgiveness. Over what exactly? Did u attempt to seek forgiveness if you really offended the woman. Why did the woman reject ur marriage?

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by padi94(m): 8:47pm On Oct 20, 2019
mysidechick:
A Nigerian lady identified as Chizoba Favour Chinedu took to social media to narrate her ordeal in the hands of her mother-in-law.

According to the lady, today is meant to be her wedding anniversary but unfortunately her husband is late. The lady also made it known that her mother-in-law was never in support of the marriage from the onset.


But her last statement about sending helper to her ministry too... seems like a new olosho on the loose...

Should I turn it up?

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by Nobody: 8:48pm On Oct 20, 2019
Parents should learn to free their kids abeg. You brought them, but allow them to settle down with who their heart yearns for.

Well, when you have good spirit, expect hate and enmity from people with unclean and evil spirit.

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Re: Lady Recounts How Her Mother-in-law Vowed To Deal With Her, Mourns Her Husband by guass(m): 8:48pm On Oct 20, 2019
What killed your husband? Your mother in law might be INNOCENT.
However, I have seen many single mothers paying their children's school fees. Please don't let the baby suffer from that unfortunate incident. U can relocate to a smaller apartment.
Same thing happened to me. Though my mum is late. But why are MOTHER IN LAWS ALWAYS INHIBIT THIS HOSTILE CHARACTER?

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