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Your boyfriend is not your husband!

A guy approached you for a relationship, and you tell him, 'I have a boyfriend', boyfriend ke. It's very wrong to tell a guy, "I have a boyfriend', when a
guy asks you out. Its totally wrong!

I once met a Lady of like 25 years I really admired, I asked her out and she boldly told me, 'no! I have a boyfriend!' Jesus!

A boyfriend at 25 years? A boyfriend has no right over any girl, because he is not yet matured to have a woman, that is why he is a boy.

You can only tell someone, " I am engaged or I am married'. Telling a man that came your way you have a boyfriend simply means you are still a kid playing around with a boy.

You can't keep a boyfriend for the rest of your life and expect to be married. A boy must graduate to a youth, then to a man. A boy is someone that keeps a girl for fun, a fiancé is someone that want to marry her, and man is that person that finally pay her dowry. Having a boyfriend that sex you doesn't mean you are in a serious relationship or you have a man that will marry you: it simply means, 'I have a boy that I have fun with'

You can have as many boyfriends at a time, but you can only have one fiancé and one husband. Dont tie down your destiny with a boy. Don't tie down your destiny because of ignorant.

Having a boyfriend is just like having a normal friend. Having an intimate boyfriend is like having a sexual partner, that marriage isn't yet involved. It is not being in a relationship. Anybody is free to toast you. Having sex with a boy doesn't mean you guys are committed for each other. You can be in a sexual relationship and thinks or feels you are in a committed relationship. Committed relationship starts the moment you both had graduated from that childish fantasy, from that childish fallacy.

Ie, when he finally proposed to you and meet your parents.
Stop being ignorant!
Stop living in ignorance.
You can reject your husband because of a boyfriend. Don't ever be proud just because you have a boy that sleep

If many boyfriends stop providing, most girls would be dead in less than two weeks.

Jayslicky:
If many boyfriends stop providing, most girls would be dead in less than two weeks.

Supported,mostly Nigerian Girls.

They won't listen

Oro Agba!!! Some of them no go even get boyfriend but go still claim am just to make one think that she's not an abandoned project.. women for be course to study in the university.. e for be like 10unit course where A will be for God, B for genius, C for very good, D for average student. Ladies I hail thee!!!

Hamachi:
Your boyfriend is not your husband
You can have as many boyfriends at a time, but you can only have one fiancé and one husband. Dont tie down your destiny with a boy. Don't tie down your destiny because of ignorant.
Having a boyfriend is just like having a normal friend. Having an intimate boyfriend is like having a sexual partner, that marriage isn't yet involved. It is not being in a relationship. Anybody is free to toast you. Having sex with a boy doesn't mean you guys are committed for each other. You can be in a sexual relationship and thinks or feels you are in a committed relationship. Committed relationship starts the moment you both had graduated from that childish fantasy, from that childish fallacy.
Ie, when he finally proposed to you and meet your parents.
Stop being ignorant!
Stop living in ignorance.
You can reject your husband because of a boyfriend. Don't ever be proud just because you have a boy that sleep

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I just can't comprehend ur point of view fully, tried to reason along buh saying a boyfriend is not a husband should also apply to fiance.. except you don't wana agree there are so many r/ship that broke even after engagement ring.
Life is a process, one stage/level leads to the other. without boyfriend who you for call fiance .... committment as no time frame, engagement don't jus happen, commitment frm both parties or one of the parties as to trigger it.
According to your write if only marriage deserves commitment, then i ask how do we get to that level without commitment. can two unserious minds metamorphous to a couple, even if a gurl kips 10 bf u just av to take one serious @least

So you trying to say a lady should have many boyfriends as possible because she is not committed yet,like seriously?
No be bf dey turn fiance then husband?
If you in committed relationship it is expected that both partner should be faithful to each other!! I'm not talking about all this children relationship that they don't even know where it's heading to.That's why ladies should date men not boys!!!

Inane writeup, clearly a scalar quantity of a write up. Meaningless!

Sometimes it’s the truth and it’s a nicer way of saying your really not my type it’s better than ghosting you sha sorry

Abi na

solasoulmusic:
Sometimes it’s the truth and it’s a nicer way of saying your really not my type it’s better than ghosting you sha sorry

We've really got this relationship business wrong, to be honest.

Las las it's your body that will suffer it.

Lalasticlala.

That's Your Family Problem !!!.

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You have a point. If she uses "boyfriend" chances are she's either messing with you or just not into you. If she says "I'm in a serious relationship" then don't just waste your time.


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When a lady a accepts a guy date,dnt come with hungry looking friends oh

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What is even wrong with humans in this part of the world? I honestly don't get. A girl having a boyfriend at 25 is now a bad thing, at what age is she now supposed to have one? At 13?

Marriage evolves from a relationship not the other way round. You don't wake up on day and decided you want to get married then go about looking for a spouse, like say Na car you wan buy.
You'll only end up with someone as desperate as you are.

People should be careful the kinda advise they read online.

Right can never be wrong ,Wrong can never be right .Let's always do the right thing .

Truer words have never been spoken!

whether you announce it with a megaphone or not girls will keep having boyfriends just for sex sake.

Jayslicky:
If many boyfriends stop providing, most girls would be dead in less than two weeks.

you deh mind OP...

A lady said no, she has a love interest.. Baba enter nairaland the write epistles....

His mind didn't tell him some of this boyfriends are planning future with the ladies... smh

hhgg