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Based on my intellectual capacity and my vast knowledge, tactically and tentatively from the beginning of time, especially in the light of Ecclesiastical endorsement and evolution, I have come to a concrete and profound conclusion that I have nothing important to say.
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Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

My Brother, who ever told you "having children makes you a man" that's historic, it was nevr said in the Bible or anywhere. Children are gifts from the lord but they're not to be taken by force.

Now try this out and I'm sure you'll have a cure.
Believe that you are normal, that you have the erections that you want. Don't doubt, discard all what the doctors has told you and say to yourself in the morning and while going to sleep " Wow I feel much like man again" make sure you feel that you are and praise God for it and you'll surely have it.
God bless you.

Visit Christ Mercyland Deliverance Ministry by Prophet Jeremiah Omoto Fufeyin in Warri, Delta State and receive your healing

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

Stop self diagnosing by reading stuffs on google and drawing conclusions. Most likely, there's nothing wrong with you or prolly a psycological issue.

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

You are not alone.
I empathise with you though.

Am teary. .I believe you will overcome!!!

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue
CC: Hope777

What kind of traumas? Don't you think you might've destroyed some thing down there? Time heals some wounds you know, don't lose hope.

If you are gonna read up... sex & erections are both physical and psychological. But your approach at handling the issue (if there is any) will only ruin what's left of your self-confidence.
You have to believe in your self first, then I will advice that if you have a girlfriend that is willing to let you lay with her, do it (but with protection). This will improve your self-confidence a lot.
I am sure with time you will re-discover yourself and gain more control. I believe there's nothing wrong with you cos you still get erection, would have been different if there was none at all.

This is heartbreaking bro..may God help you out!

midnighter:
At times a doctor wont like to admit that they dont know what the problem is so they will just blow you off or make you feel like your concerns arent valid

What if actually his gonads have been damaged and he just blindly accepts the doctors opinion instead of investigating more?

This is what hasn't been confirmed. There are procedures in making these diagnosis, and if he feels they are missing something, he shows it to them and allow them confirm it. This he hasn't done.

Having not one, but four specialists make a particular diagnosis should have been enough for him. But he will have none of it and went to Google. Just try googling your symptoms when you have malaria, they may tell you it's HIV.

The human mind is a very tricky stuff. It may tell you something is there when it's not. Sooner, your body starts to adapt to it. Many people find it difficult to accept this reality.

Hope777

I am sad reading this and I hope the little I have to say makes you a bit happier.

I wish I could say I knew how you feel but I don't since I'm not suffering the same fate. The best I can is to sympathize and empathize with you.

First, God is not the cause of your problem (Read Job 34:10, James 1:13-15). Unfortunate things just happen as king Solomon said (Read Eccl 9:11-12). Also, the true ruler of this world is wicked (Read 1 John 5:19)

Because of your unique situation, where you have an illness that there's no known cure yet, it is better to pray to Jehovah to give you “ the power beyond what is normal” (2 Cor 4:7). You need that power beyond what is normal due to what seems a bleak situation. He can give you the power to cope. You need that.

Also remember the words at Philippians 4:10-13 “For all things I have the strength by virtue of him who imparts power to me."

You have to be pragmatic. It is not wise seeking all sorts of miracle cures as that is what may seem reasonable. It is not (Read Proverbs 14:12, 16:25).

Imagine a man was involved in an accident and had a leg amputated. Would it be wise to seek a treatment to get his leg back or how to make the best use of his life as an amputee? I'm sure you'll say the latter.

That is the best course for you. Keep researching treatments. Visit forums where impotency is discussed. You may also join support groups. Search through YouTube. You may find some gems there! You can also research herbal treatments. (There was a guy who used to write articles on herbal treatment every Thursday in The Nation newspaper about a decade back. I've forgotten his name but you can track him down. The guy is a guru.

Continue researching for treatments and cures. However, you must have a balanced life. You need to make a living especially if you're keen on finding a cure as treatment cost money! You also need to enjoy life. Don't become a recluse and beat yourself to death. You'd be shocked that many are undergoing even worse struggles and like yourself, they are problems are hidden from public knowledge.

Also, draw close to God. I'm a Jehovah's Witness as I am sure you must have concluded. Jehovah is your friend and urges us to draw close to him (James 4:. You can pour out your heart to him. As a Witness, we preach a lot and have plenty to do in the work of the lord (1 Cor 15:58). If you'll like a Bible study so you'll get to know him more, visit www.jw.org and request a study.

As regards relationships and marriage, it is not something you can put aside forever. It is not something you should rush. Whatever decision you make, you must be open with your would be mate about your condition before marriage. It is best you go for a single mum/widow who desperately needs a companion. Some aren't looking for more kids, just company. You must however be ready to love her children as your own. Whatever step you decide to take, ensure that your wife to be knows.

About informing your parents, they may freak out and stress life out of you, taking you from one Jujuman to the other, or one pastor to the other and make you very miserable and you soon realize you're just moving in circles. You may be told to perform all forms of bizarre rituals and they'll cough out loads of money chasing shadows. I feel you should but at the proper time. You should be on top of things and not them.

I am leaving you a song I hope which I hope you'll find faith strengthening. Listen to it as often as you can. I have also a link to an article you should find very educative and enlightening.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6vmWn3la9k

https://www.jw.org/en/library/magazines/watchtower-no3-2018-sep-oct/god-will-soon-end-all-suffering/

Please request a free home bible study. Once a week on Saturday or Sunday or whenever you want.

Take care. I wish you the best

aminu114:
if there is no cure now, who told you there wont be a cure forever?, dont you see the world is developing everyday? my advice for u is to continue working hard make a lots of money in few years there will be a cure nd you go for it. pls forget about suicide u are not alone in trouble dnt kill yourself because u think u will never get married. i too think thesame nd it doesnt make me feel suicidal. im 24years old i got hiv the day i broke my virginity, im jobless i lost my parents when i was 4years old
nd i still live nd hvnt ever thouhgt about suicide.

are u 4 real, only u jobless, hiv, ND u lost yr parent at 4

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

there is solution. how can we see

sacx:
This is what hasn't been confirmed. There are procedures in making these diagnosis, and if he feels they are missing something, he shows it to them and allow them confirm it. This he hasn't done.

Having not one, but four specialists make a particular diagnosis should have been enough for him. But he will have none of it and went to Google. Just try googling your symptoms when you have malaria, they may tell you it's HIV.

The human mind is a very tricky stuff. It may tell you something is there when it's not. Sooner, your body starts to adapt to it. Many people find it difficult to accept this reality.

Yes, you are right. I personally think he should get to a specialist who will actually listen to him and allay his fears.

A lot of this is to do with the approach of the healthcare professional. Sometimes the doctor will start being dismissive and trying to intimidate you with grammar instead of reassuring you, which will make you more reluctant to accept their diagnosis

Some people have died of brain tumours after being told that their headache was just "psychological". You cant allow yourself to be intimidated when it comes to your health

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

the doctors have not said you have veinous leak, you had come to that conclusion yourself and somehow want to commit suicide with unverified information;

First, calm down.

Second, ask a doctor's opinion and don't leave without one; they should also know what to do if this is psychological.

Third, Pray. The heartfelt prayers of the righteous man maketh tremendous power available to you.

You cannot lose hope for this, you shouldn't.

midnighter:
Yes, you are right. I personally think he should get to a specialist who will actually listen to him and allay his fears.

A lot of this is to do with the approach of the healthcare professional. Sometimes the doctor will start being dismissive and trying to intimidate you with grammar instead of reassuring you, which will make you more reluctant to accept their diagnosis

Some people have died of brain tumours after being told that their headache was just "psychological". You cant allow yourself to be intimidated when it comes to your health

Okay, good. He needs to see a specialist that would entertain his concerns and make the right tests to confirm his situation. It's too early to start talking himself into depression.

Donbosco46:
How do you know your impotent?

The question should be, "Do you know what it means for someone to be impotent?"


I have noticed that most Nigerians don't actually know the meaning of:
1. Impotent
2. Local
3. Illiteracy

They keep using the words wrongly believing they know their meanings

Chai my prayer point now is for God to help me for my urge. My dick stands any how anywere even in d church. It's embarrassing me seriously. And someone is complaining of impotence. Chai

sacx:
Okay, good. He needs to see a specialist that would entertain his concerns and make the right tests to confirm his situation. It's too early to start talking himself into depression.

Yeah exactly. But if one opens up to somebody and they brush him off and dont take it seriously, they may start going downhill like OP is now.

Good luck to him anyway

Hope777:
How do you explain people that get cured from illness by prayers? I know God exists but why he allows bad things happen to people is what i don't understand.

Thanks though

My heart goes out to you honestly. I could feel every ounce of emotion that went into your narrative.

Hard as it is, don’t let your faith waiver. I pray the good Lord in His infinite mercies visits you and restore life to every sinew, every tissue in your body, in Jesus’ Name!

Hope777:
How do you explain people that get cured from illness by prayers? I know God exists but why he allows bad things happen to people is what i don't understand.

Thanks though

May your faith make you whole. Why God allows things happen to people?

Did he actually allow it? Like saying he caused it? I don't think so.

Visit ikotun egbe, Synagogue church of all Nations. TB Joshua Lagos

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

What type of trauma did you have on your dick?

Are u a virgin? Have u been in a room with a very sexy girl and youre not aroused? I think ur issue is just psychological. Id suggest you try having sex with a very cute girl of ur taste. These suicidal thoughts of yours will be put to rest afterwards.

NwaAmaikpe:





In other words, your pendulum only gets erect when lying down but it goes limp if you stand up?
That's not impotency neither is it a gravitational problem in your preek.

It is a divine sign from God that you were born to be a missionary but you've run away from your calling like Jonah.
I'd just advice you stick to missionary position or just marry a cowgirl.
But stop worrying over irrelevant things.

Some people have preek but no pubic hairs, others have big balls and small sticks while some don't even have a preek that can spit out akamu.

But here you are with a functional preek and can eat freely from a spoon, yet you want to commit suicide just because y ou can't doggie.

what the fvck

SoNature:
The question should be, "Do you know what it means for someone to be impotent?"


I have noticed that most Nigerians don't actually know the meaning of:
1. Impotent
2. Local
3. Illiteracy

They keep using the wrongs wrongly believing they know their meanings

just the same way you're using "wrongs" wrongly

So sorry for that bro.

I think what you need is prayer, and I think God knows why he did it like that. That God will surely put the impotence to an end.

tiziano:
just the same way you're using "wrongs" wrongly

Have you had some common sense, you would have known it was a typo.

The first word is "words"

U wan teach your papa English

Bigflamie:
Shits happen in this life, how can someone not be able to have sex. I can't even imagine it.

The part where you asked why God allow bad things happen to people, well I don't think God exists cos I've seen so many things that proof that he's not existing.

Don't give up in pursuit for cure.

One day u will realize God exists.. I just hope it wont be unfortunate.
I have seen many things..I mean many things! that prove that God exists... sir! God exists.. for sure, you will know it one day!!

Eyaaaaaaaaaaaaa, sorry o. The guy sabi right English unlike funkybabee, tohyorsih2, seunmomoh and Ishilove, ibon ni kula. Back to the issue, op look for someone to impregnate before the thing will complete go off. It is not a must you do any that that will warrant you to stand up, you can lie down on the bed or sit down and let the babe sit on you to do, infact those are my favourite styles, they are called ma do mi niso.

Dominique please help the op to move the thread to the permanent site

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

Go to Yoruba land, most especially Oshogbo make dem give you correct Agbo. Only herbs can cure you.

valicious1:
why do i have this feeling that the op and Amedara1 (the dude advertising herbal stuff) are one and the same. Dude opened the thread to market his product and the mods fell for it

He fit true ooo
Too much brain will not kill Nigerians