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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by benpedro(m): 12:53am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Find a girl right away and get her impregnated. Thank me later when you probably have lost the erection totally. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by greggng: 12:59am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Bigflamie: The same way you have seen many reasons to believe God doesn't exist , some of have also seen great testimonies that God indeed exist . Life is not all about sugar in the morning , sugar in the afternoon and sugar in the evening . Infact long suffering is part of life. Sometimes is important for us to understand that Rev fathers don't have children ...neither do they make love. Although some bad eggs amongst them can no long keep to that life of celibacy ...it is still an establish truth that many of them don't make love or have children. When issues like this come up, don't regret your life instead give thanks to God and pray for healing ...in the spiritual your problem is not above God who created you. There are other things to life aside sex and children...in the end we all will die and when we get to heaven , we will all get better and live peacefully without worries 2 Likes |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Tedpgrass: 12:59am On Oct 22, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe: Classic Nwa.. response!!! To Op.. Have you considered penile rings.. Impedes blood flow, enabling longer lasting engorgement... . |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 1:07am On Oct 22, 2019 |
humberjade: Its not psychological bro.. Pains are present |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Nobody: 1:08am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hope777: My friend, all the doctors you went to are all stupid people who don't know what they are doing. You are not impotent and the ED you are suffering from can be reversed completely in three weeks. It is either your liver is not functioning the way it should or your arteries are clogged so your penis don't receive enough blood which should in turn make the muscles expand and act like a valve preventing the blood from flowing back through the veins. The clogged arteries can be as a result of medication or unhealthy diet (excess sugar and fat). What you need to do is stop or limit eating anything that contains sugar, soft drinks and alchohol. Quit smoking if you do because that also affects proper blood circulation and above all is "DETOX". Do a full body detox and before you know it, your erection will be as hard a s nail whether standing or swimming. NB: The detox shouldn't be anything herbal (agbo). Just a blend of fruits like grapes, oranges, lemon, and vegetables every morning and night time for 14 -21 days and drink lots of water (minimum of16oz daily). That would do the magic. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Nobody: 1:12am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Sorry mate but I think your condition isn't very bad to let suicide consume the most powerful thing there exist in a human - mind. Others can get erection, yet impotent. Your case is that you can't sustain an erection not that you're totally impotent - your fluid can work wonders in the womb of a female. I suggest you pray hard, seek any form of help. Combine traditional herbs and oyibo medicine till a cure is in sight. Don't be hasty to take your life, help may be days away. |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by hinere(m): 1:15am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Nothing is wrong with you bro. Nothing atall. Like you said you've not been sexually active before so nothing is wrong with you. it's all in your head. This is the time for you to put away your prime and proper side and be a little freaky. Try watching Pornograghy. Yes. Watch a sexy Porn. Find your preferred porn and watch till day break. This time try watching it different positions... lying down, sitting and then STANDING UP. Do this for HOURS and see if you won't have erection. Its just psychological (in your mind/head). Nothing is wrong with you. What causes erection of a man is his mind. What you think of. It's all psychological. Your mind/brain controls your erection. Also, at different times in a day, try thinking of that which sexually excites you. Think of it every moment to of your day. At work, in church, on the road, everywhere. The goal is to get it standing. Do this regularly. REMEMBER, YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR THOUGHTS SO MANIPULATE IT THE WAY YOU WISH. Nothing ruptured anywhere in your organ bro. Nothing atall. You are perfectly fine. Avoid eating Potash (put when cooking beans to soften it). My people call it ACAWUN. This doesnt make a man stand up atall down there and should be avoided by everyman. Avoid stress in your work/life and anything that causes worry/thinking. Stress/Thinking/worry releases CORTISOL in the body which prevents erection 100%. It doesn't allow election to occur atall. In fact CORTISOL is the number one agent of erection. So avoid stress/thinking/worry in your life. Eat more of Onions. It clears the arteries and veins to ensure free flow of blood to all the organs of the body including the penis. Once enough blood is flowing to your Instruments, you are OK. Enough blood in your Instruments gives you rock hard erection. Eat Oat meal once in a while. Oat contains ZINC which is needed for the development and growth of the male Instruments both inside and out. Eat banana and some aphrodisiac regularly. The goal here is to maintain the erection. Live and enjoy your life to the fullest. Hope777: |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 1:21am On Oct 22, 2019 |
hotmolo:viagra worked partially but has the same effect as without viagra. Lost erection when i leave the laying position |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 1:22am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Okoroawusa: I have tested it, yes and that's it has failed me many times.. Infant i never started to think about it until now. |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 1:23am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Surulereman:the problem isn't common so many specialists do not even know it exists |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 1:24am On Oct 22, 2019 |
don87:Its not pyschological bro. I was never thinking of all of this until now, so psychology doesn't come to play. |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 1:27am On Oct 22, 2019 |
sacx:Its obvious they concluded it is psychological because they don't have a solution. Many of them cannot answer key questions about my problem |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Nobody: 1:29am On Oct 22, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe: thank you for that astute analysis must be a real simpleton if he only jacks off standing up |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 1:39am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Olibboy:If we aren't far from each other we can. I am in the south west |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Macon1212: 1:39am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hope777: There is remedy for your condition, quickly go to Deeper life revival and you will praise God soonest. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by SirKomA(m): 1:40am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Take trams and thank me later! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 1:41am On Oct 22, 2019 |
midnighter: Thank you, This is exactly how I feel and my concern! 1 Like |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 1:45am On Oct 22, 2019 |
SmartMugu:it's not, I have tried with a girl. |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by lessonsoflife: 1:51am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hope777: God allowed this to happen so that you can correct it in the alter of prayers of God. . Just sing and dance always smiling because your problem is gone. God is God. |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Digitallen(m): 1:55am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Sincerely bro, I know how you feel, it has happen to me before, if you can, send me a private msg to my email let's talk. God that helped me will do same. Not scam issue ooo...no product no money or prayer involved. Let's talk And let me share few of my experience maybe if u try out any of the lifestyle I did, it could work out for u. Shalom 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by TheAk(m): 1:59am On Oct 22, 2019 |
dude i feel for you mehn!but taking into consideration what you've just said i think your safest bet is a sperm bank,store as much as your resources would allow you to before you totally loose the ability to get an erection.i really want you to get better though but as i like to say;hope for the best and prepare for the worst. |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 2:03am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Digitallen:sent u a pm |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by 12inchess: 2:06am On Oct 22, 2019 |
You can't claim to be impotent when you can get erections. I believe your problem is psychological. Even if you're not able to get erections then Cialis may work or Viagra. It seems like you're not even sexually active so how do you even know you're impotent? Conclusion: Erection is in the mind and even if you take all the erection pills in this world if you're worried or thinking you're impotent then the erection will never come. 1 Like |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 2:08am On Oct 22, 2019 |
12inchess:I have tried to have sex in recent times. Erections even when laying can hardly penetrate |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by 12inchess: 2:12am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hope777: As long as you keep worrying about it then the erection will never come. I think what you need is some help. I'm not a doctor but I know if you use pills for erectile dysfunction for a while then that will give you the confidence to know you're not impotent and then you wont need the pills anymore. Like your doctors I also believe your problem is psychological. |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 2:16am On Oct 22, 2019 |
12inchess: Even with viagra i lose erection once i change my position. Not psychological bro. |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Excuzeme: 2:16am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hope777: How you jumped to the conclusion that your problem is INCURABLE, makes me laugh in Chineese! That is the most stupid statement l have ever heard in my young life! I am even shocked that you could come to that conclusion, after identifying your own problem. Look, "My People perish for lack of knowledge". A lot of people who had HIV back then, killed themselves thinking it was incurable now the smart and positive ones have wife, have children and lead an almost completely normal life! Think about this for a minute. Let me tell you here that there is not a single MEDICAL problem, that is incurable. It only gets worse if left untreated or treated by unqualified people with no knowledge of what to do. Just because you have a peculiar type of Erectile Dysfunction, does not mean you are impotent Even "dead bodies" have been given a new lease of life, that is how far medicine has gone. Brains have been replaced, severed heads have been stiched back and[b] let me tell you that severed pen!s has also been sown back in-place and do have erection so what is your own problem that you are rolling on the floor?[/b] My friend, take it from me, your problem is small and boils down to money and prayers! Forget Nigerian Doctors or whatever you have read, that Vein can be be narrowed, stiched and even completely replaced if need be and you will have your normal erection whether lying down or standing, doing doggy-style. For now, occupy yourself with making and saving money because you will need a specialized operation outside of Nigeria (Our Doctors dey try but cant do jack, under their current working conditions of poor electricity and absent equipments) and that would cost a lot of money, Millions of naira. if you have luck, you might get assistant from some donor organisations based outside nigeria. The summary of my post is that you are truly ignorant and silly for thinking your sex-life is over or that you cant have children or make your wife sexually happy. Relax, take your mind off it for now and face your education/job while saving for a life changing operation. I know people who had worse condition that yourself and with good medical advice and care, their problem is now a thing of the past. Finally, develop a personal relationship with God (L am talking about one-on-one prayer in the seclusion of your home, not that you should allow one conman of a Pastor hold you hostage! Dont even think about that because it will compound your problem and finish you off completely.). God hears prayers, l am a confirmed and regular witness to that. Fast and pray without letting anyone know, except the God of heaven you are making supplications to. Go to Him regularly in prayer, He wont come down from heaven but HE will give you wisdom on what to do and send helpers to assit yousolve your problem. Now, go do some work and earn some money and stop killing yourself with unnecessary worry. Come back to this post in the future and thank me for reminding you, by then you will be a happy husband and father. BTW, l will collect One carton of Hienekeens from you o,...that is a promise. 1 Like |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Onliie(m): 2:17am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hope777:call let me pray for you 07039530561 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hope777: 2:19am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Onliie:now? |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by TheAk(m): 2:22am On Oct 22, 2019 |
I also think your problem isn't purely psychological,check your bp and blood sugar. There's a possibility your veins are just clogged as a side effect of something else,you don't know for sure a vein is ruptured.Stress,anxiety and anger releases a hormone called cortisol which rips the veins but the good news is that veins heal(or reform)and cortisol usually affects only the veins in the neck and around the heart. We also cannot ignore the possibility that your on a drug that also has this as a side effect.if your on any medication(especially pain killers)it'll be helpful if you let me know. But las las guy you just need a good doctor to quell your fears,some therapy and some minor lifestyle adjustments here and there and you'd be fine.i know a good hospital here in abj,if you're close we could check it out. |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Onliie(m): 2:26am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hope777:yes |
Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Nobody: 2:33am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hope777: Sex isn't all about penetration. If truly you do have a medical condition, you can explore other aspect of sex and if you are lucky enough you will find a woman who shares interest in those aspects and dont care about the condition. You will be surprised by how beautiful life can be |
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