Find a girl right away and get her impregnated. Thank me later when you probably have lost the erection totally.

Bigflamie:
Shits happen in this life, how can someone not be able to have sex. I can't even imagine it.

The part where you asked why God allow bad things happen to people, well I don't think God exists cos I've seen so many things that proof that he's not existing.

Don't give up in pursuit for cure.

The same way you have seen many reasons to believe God doesn't exist , some of have also seen great testimonies that God indeed exist . Life is not all about sugar in the morning , sugar in the afternoon and sugar in the evening . Infact long suffering is part of life. Sometimes is important for us to understand that Rev fathers don't have children ...neither do they make love. Although some bad eggs amongst them can no long keep to that life of celibacy ...it is still an establish truth that many of them don't make love or have children. When issues like this come up, don't regret your life instead give thanks to God and pray for healing ...in the spiritual your problem is not above God who created you. There are other things to life aside sex and children...in the end we all will die and when we get to heaven , we will all get better and live peacefully without worries

NwaAmaikpe:





In other words, your pendulum only gets erect when lying down but it goes limp if you stand up?
That's not impotency neither is it a gravitational problem in your preek.

It is a divine sign from God that you were born to be a missionary but you've run away from your calling like Jonah.
I'd just advice you stick to missionary position or just marry a cowgirl.
But stop worrying over irrelevant things.

Some people have preek but no pubic hairs, others have big balls and small sticks while some don't even have a preek that can spit out akamu.

But here you are with a functional preek and can eat freely from a spoon, yet you want to commit suicide just because you can't doggie.

Classic Nwa.. response!!!




To Op.. Have you considered penile rings.. Impedes blood flow, enabling longer lasting engorgement...



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humberjade:
Google searching an illness is like inviting more trouble into one's life...it will keep suggesting what is not wrong with u...and at d end of d day i t leaves u more wrecked than b4.

And trust me, it might be in ur head as suggested by the doctors. And if u keep allowing this thought to fester for long in ur heart, coming back from it could be difficult. A psychologist could come in handy at dis juncture.

But what kind of trauma were u referring to if I may ask?

Its not psychological bro.. Pains are present

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

My friend, all the doctors you went to are all stupid people who don't know what they are doing. You are not impotent and the ED you are suffering from can be reversed completely in three weeks. It is either your liver is not functioning the way it should or your arteries are clogged so your penis don't receive enough blood which should in turn make the muscles expand and act like a valve preventing the blood from flowing back through the veins. The clogged arteries can be as a result of medication or unhealthy diet (excess sugar and fat). What you need to do is stop or limit eating anything that contains sugar, soft drinks and alchohol. Quit smoking if you do because that also affects proper blood circulation and above all is "DETOX". Do a full body detox and before you know it, your erection will be as hard a s nail whether standing or swimming.

NB: The detox shouldn't be anything herbal (agbo). Just a blend of fruits like grapes, oranges, lemon, and vegetables every morning and night time for 14 -21 days and drink lots of water (minimum of16oz daily). That would do the magic.

Sorry mate but I think your condition isn't very bad to let suicide consume the most powerful thing there exist in a human - mind. Others can get erection, yet impotent. Your case is that you can't sustain an erection not that you're totally impotent - your fluid can work wonders in the womb of a female. I suggest you pray hard, seek any form of help. Combine traditional herbs and oyibo medicine till a cure is in sight. Don't be hasty to take your life, help may be days away.

Nothing is wrong with you bro. Nothing atall.
Like you said you've not been sexually active before so nothing is wrong with you. it's all in your head.

This is the time for you to put away your prime and proper side and be a little freaky.

Try watching Pornograghy. Yes. Watch a sexy Porn. Find your preferred porn and watch till day break. This time try watching it different positions... lying down, sitting and then STANDING UP. Do this for HOURS and see if you won't have erection.
Its just psychological (in your mind/head). Nothing is wrong with you. What causes erection of a man is his mind. What you think of. It's all psychological. Your mind/brain controls your erection.

Also, at different times in a day, try thinking of that which sexually excites you. Think of it every moment to of your day. At work, in church, on the road, everywhere. The goal is to get it standing. Do this regularly.

REMEMBER, YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR THOUGHTS SO MANIPULATE IT THE WAY YOU WISH.

Nothing ruptured anywhere in your organ bro. Nothing atall. You are perfectly fine.

Avoid eating Potash (put when cooking beans to soften it). My people call it ACAWUN. This doesnt make a man stand up atall down there and should be avoided by everyman.

Avoid stress in your work/life and anything that causes worry/thinking. Stress/Thinking/worry releases CORTISOL in the body which prevents erection 100%. It doesn't allow election to occur atall. In fact CORTISOL is the number one agent of erection. So avoid stress/thinking/worry in your life.

Eat more of Onions. It clears the arteries and veins to ensure free flow of blood to all the organs of the body including the penis.
Once enough blood is flowing to your Instruments, you are OK. Enough blood in your Instruments gives you rock hard erection.

Eat Oat meal once in a while. Oat contains ZINC which is needed for the development and growth of the male Instruments both inside and out.

Eat banana and some aphrodisiac regularly. The goal here is to maintain the erection.
Live and enjoy your life to the fullest.

Hope777:
Its obvious they concluded it is psychological because they don't have a solution. Many of them cannot answer key questions about my problem

hotmolo:
test yourself with a pill of viagra just to see if the erection maintains. if it does, its psychological if not, there is problem

viagra worked partially but has the same effect as without viagra. Lost erection when i leave the laying position

Okoroawusa:

Exactly my advice to him... if he doesn't test it then he can't conclude impotency. The only thing I disagree with your advice is the part about masturbation... people that started masturbating before being sexually active make good lovers... they are very imaginative in bed

I have tested it, yes and that's it has failed me many times.. Infant i never started to think about it until now.

Surulereman:
Did he say he visited specialists? Are they Urologists? These are the doctors specialized in matters of the penis. Let him not panic. He's still young. If they have examined him properly and seen nothing wrong with him physiologically, then his problem coulybr truly psychological.

the problem isn't common so many specialists do not even know it exists

don87:
Brother your problem is psychological i tell u. Sometimes when we are worried it doesn't stand and early in the morning when u r relaxed it will... again if u have too much fat in yr abdomen especially if u drink bear too much, reduce it sometimes enough blood is not coming to it cos of too much fat. Many guys have same issue, so forget it cos the more u worry, the more it will not stand realising u r worried. Another thing is about your type of girl...most times when u r not with yr type u will struggle...lastly is, first start with romance, nice one...bro believe me u have no issue hahahahahaha

Its not pyschological bro. I was never thinking of all of this until now, so psychology doesn't come to play.

sacx:


What I don't understand is how you visited 4 Specialists and they confirmed your case to be psychologically induced, but you being a non-medic were able to make the proper diagnosis all because you had access to Google .

Work with those specialists you've met and let them show you the way in resolving this issue.

Its obvious they concluded it is psychological because they don't have a solution. Many of them cannot answer key questions about my problem

NwaAmaikpe:





In other words, your pendulum only gets erect when lying down but it goes limp if you stand up?
That's not impotency neither is it a gravitational problem in your preek.

It is a divine sign from God that you were born to be a missionary but you've run away from your calling like Jonah.
I'd just advice you stick to missionary position or just marry a cowgirl.
But stop worrying over irrelevant things.

Some people have preek but no pubic hairs, others have big balls and small sticks while some don't even have a preek that can spit out akamu.

But here you are with a functional preek and can eat freely from a spoon, yet you want to commit suicide just because you can't doggie.

thank you for that astute analysis

must be a real simpleton if he only jacks off standing up

Olibboy:
there is solution. how can we see

If we aren't far from each other we can. I am in the south west

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

There is remedy for your condition, quickly go to Deeper life revival and you will praise God soonest.

Take trams and thank me later!

midnighter:


Yes, you are right. I personally think he should get to a specialist who will actually listen to him and allay his fears.

A lot of this is to do with the approach of the healthcare professional. Sometimes the doctor will start being dismissive and trying to intimidate you with grammar instead of reassuring you, which will make you more reluctant to accept their diagnosis

Some people have died of brain tumours after being told that their headache was just "psychological". You cant allow yourself to be intimidated when it comes to your health

Thank you,

This is exactly how I feel and my concern!

SmartMugu:
Are u a virgin? Have u been in a room with a very sexy girl and youre not aroused? I think ur issue is just psychological. Id suggest you try having sex with a very cute girl of ur taste. These suicidal thoughts of yours will be put to rest afterwards.

it's not, I have tried with a girl.

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

God allowed this to happen so that you can correct it in the alter of prayers of God. .
Just sing and dance always smiling because your problem is gone.
God is God.

Sincerely bro, I know how you feel, it has happen to me before, if you can, send me a private msg to my email let's talk. God that helped me will do same. Not scam issue ooo...no product no money or prayer involved. Let's talk And let me share few of my experience maybe if u try out any of the lifestyle I did, it could work out for u. Shalom

dude i feel for you mehn!but taking into consideration what you've just said i think your safest bet is a sperm bank,store as much as your resources would allow you to before you totally loose the ability to get an erection.i really want you to get better though but as i like to say;hope for the best and prepare for the worst.

Digitallen:
Sincerely bro, I know how you feel, it has happen to me before, if you can, send me a private msg to my email let's talk. God that helped me will do same. Not scam issue ooo...no product no money or prayer involved. Let's talk And let me share few of my experience maybe if u try out any of the lifestyle I did, it could work out for u. Shalom

sent u a pm

You can't claim to be impotent when you can get erections. I believe your problem is psychological. Even if you're not able to get erections then Cialis may work or Viagra. It seems like you're not even sexually active so how do you even know you're impotent? Conclusion: Erection is in the mind and even if you take all the erection pills in this world if you're worried or thinking you're impotent then the erection will never come.

12inchess:
You can't claim to be impotent when you can get erections. I believe your problem is psychological. Even if you're not able to get erections then Cialis may work or Viagra. It seems like you're not even sexually active so how do you even know you're impotent?

I have tried to have sex in recent times. Erections even when laying can hardly penetrate

Hope777:

I have tried to have sex in recent times. Erections even when laying can hardly penetrate

As long as you keep worrying about it then the erection will never come. I think what you need is some help. I'm not a doctor but I know if you use pills for erectile dysfunction for a while then that will give you the confidence to know you're not impotent and then you wont need the pills anymore. Like your doctors I also believe your problem is psychological.

12inchess:


As long as you keep worrying about it then the erection will never come. I think what you need is some help. I'm not a doctor but I know if you use pills for erectile dysfunction for a while then that will give you the confidence to know you're not impotent and then you wont need the pills anymore. Like your doctors I also believe your problem is psychological.

Even with viagra i lose erection once i change my position. Not psychological bro.

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

How you jumped to the conclusion that your problem is INCURABLE, makes me laugh in Chineese!
That is the most stupid statement l have ever heard in my young life!

I am even shocked that you could come to that conclusion, after identifying your own problem.
Look, "My People perish for lack of knowledge".
A lot of people who had HIV back then, killed themselves thinking it was incurable now the smart and positive ones have wife, have children and lead an almost completely normal life! Think about this for a minute.

Let me tell you here that there is not a single MEDICAL problem, that is incurable. It only gets worse if left untreated or treated by unqualified people with no knowledge of what to do.
Just because you have a peculiar type of Erectile Dysfunction, does not mean you are impotent
Even "dead bodies" have been given a new lease of life, that is how far medicine has gone.
Brains have been replaced, severed heads have been stiched back and[b] let me tell you that severed pen!s has also been sown back in-place and do have erection so what is your own problem that you are rolling on the floor?[/b]

My friend, take it from me, your problem is small and boils down to money and prayers!
Forget Nigerian Doctors or whatever you have read, that Vein can be be narrowed, stiched and even completely replaced if need be and you will have your normal erection whether lying down or standing, doing doggy-style.

For now, occupy yourself with making and saving money because you will need a specialized operation outside of Nigeria (Our Doctors dey try but cant do jack, under their current working conditions of poor electricity and absent equipments) and that would cost a lot of money, Millions of naira. if you have luck, you might get assistant from some donor organisations based outside nigeria.

The summary of my post is that you are truly ignorant and silly for thinking your sex-life is over or that you cant have children or make your wife sexually happy.
Relax, take your mind off it for now and face your education/job while saving for a life changing operation.
I know people who had worse condition that yourself and with good medical advice and care, their problem is now a thing of the past.
Finally, develop a personal relationship with God (L am talking about one-on-one prayer in the seclusion of your home, not that you should allow one conman of a Pastor hold you hostage! Dont even think about that because it will compound your problem and finish you off completely.).
God hears prayers, l am a confirmed and regular witness to that. Fast and pray without letting anyone know, except the God of heaven you are making supplications to.
Go to Him regularly in prayer, He wont come down from heaven but HE will give you wisdom on what to do and send helpers to assit yousolve your problem.
Now, go do some work and earn some money and stop killing yourself with unnecessary worry.
Come back to this post in the future and thank me for reminding you, by then you will be a happy husband and father.
BTW, l will collect One carton of Hienekeens from you o,...that is a promise.

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

call let me pray for you 07039530561

Onliie:
call let me pray for you 07039530561

now?

I also think your problem isn't purely psychological,check your bp and blood sugar.
There's a possibility your veins are just clogged as a side effect of something else,you don't know for sure a vein is ruptured.Stress,anxiety and anger releases a hormone called cortisol which rips the veins but the good news is that veins heal(or reform)and cortisol usually affects only the veins in the neck and around the heart.
We also cannot ignore the possibility that your on a drug that also has this as a side effect.if your on any medication(especially pain killers)it'll be helpful if you let me know.
But las las guy you just need a good doctor to quell your fears,some therapy and some minor lifestyle adjustments here and there and you'd be fine.i know a good hospital here in abj,if you're close we could check it out.

Hope777:
now?

yes

Hope777:

Sex isn't all about penetration. If truly you do have a medical condition, you can explore other aspect of sex and if you are lucky enough you will find a woman who shares interest in those aspects and dont care about the condition. You will be surprised by how beautiful life can be