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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by indoorlove(m): 2:38am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

DM. I will give someone's number to explain your situation. He wont charge you for consultation

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Excuzeme: 2:44am On Oct 22, 2019

12inchess:
You can't claim to be impotent when you can get erections. I believe your problem is psychological. Even if you're not able to get erections then Cialis may work or Viagra. It seems like you're not even sexually active so how do you even know you're impotent? Conclusion: Erection is in the mind and even if you take all the erection pills in this world if you're worried or thinking you're impotent then the erection will never come.

He has explained his problem!
Erections are caused by blood gourging into the Penis and remaining there for awhile.
When the blood "leaves", the erection goes because it is the inflow of blood that keeps the Pen!s strong.
The more blood that can rush-into the Pen!s and remain there, the stronger the erection!

Once the mind is switched-off the sexual attractant, the veins dilate (like a valve is opened) and allow the blood to flow away, making the Pen!s limp again. These are automatic processes governed by Hormones that are controlled from the brain.
In his case, he says the blood cant stay in the Pen!s LONG ENOUGH TO KEEP THE ERECTION ALIVE for a considerable time.

But it is just a medical problem that canbe easily resolved by specialists.
I have seen worse case than this resolved and he needs not fret too much otherwise it will become a psychological problem that is even harder to resolve because then, it will become a "mind problem"..... like insanity!

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Excuzeme: 2:54am On Oct 22, 2019

GENERAL ADVICE to @Hope77

Be very wary of people here inviting you to "private meetings".
I think anyoen who wants or has a help to resolve the Op's problem, should be open enough to state his/her cure here for others to evaluate and also benefit from it.
This is Nigeria where people like to take advantage of other people's problems.
I have seen a few people saying 'PM' me. Why should someone be asking you to "PRIVATE MAIL" them when you had brought your problem to the PUBLIC?
What solution will anyone want to offer you that they cannot offer publcily here or at least give an insight of it here?

Be careful, the world is full of treachery and your problem is clear and scientific, dont let anyone here bamboozle you and obtain you for money.

A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Excuzeme: 3:06am On Oct 22, 2019

Xda59:
My friend, all the doctors you went to are all stupid people who don't know what they are doing. You are not impotent and the ED you are suffering from can be reversed completely in three weeks. It is either your liver is not functioning the way it should or your arteries are clogged so your penis don't receive enough blood which should in turn make the muscles expand and act like a valve preventing the blood from flowing back through the veins. The clogged arteries can be as a result of medication or unhealthy diet (excess sugar and fat). What you need to do is stop or limit eating anything that contains sugar, soft drinks and alchohol. Quit smoking if you do because that also affects proper blood circulation and above all is "DETOX". Do a full body detox and before you know it, your erection will be as hard a s nail whether standing or swimming.

NB: The detox shouldn't be anything herbal (agbo). Just a blend of fruits like grapes, oranges, lemon, and vegetables every morning and night time for 14 -21 days and drink lots of water (minimum of16oz daily). That would do the magic.

@Hope777:
The above post makes sense to me.
Notice that he did not ask you for PM or to meet him somewhere!
He laid his opinion open for reading and probably criticism by others.

Yes, your body might just be rebelling.
DETOX works wonders because when your body has problems, the Kidney starts experiencing problems as it tries to solve the problem and when the underlying problems is not resolved, the Liver comes-in to assist it, both working overtime and needing rest.
There are supplements for KIDNEY and LIVER detoxification.
There was a time l had these unrelenting cramps in my laps and the Specialist Doctor finally made me understand that l need to purify the Kidney and Liver and you wont believe it, once l started using the prescription supplements, the cramps went away within two weeks and then l had to treat the underlying problem causing the cramps

For now, please consider these detoxification process. Avoid all sweet things as much as possible, each more of vegetable and fruits, reduce your intake of carbohydrates (aaah, for a Nigerian diet? ) as much as possible. Exercise as much as you cant, especially "fast" walking. Take to Swimming if you can, it si a very complete form of exercise.

You will be fine, You will be fine, jut dont let worry complicate your problem.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by hotdealz(m): 3:10am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by SmartMugu: 3:15am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
it's not, I have tried with a girl.

Sounds like erectile dysfunction to me. There are medications for it, so no need to panic. Just see a men doctor and you should be fine. Im not a doctor but u can read about it here https://www.webmd.com/erectile-dysfunction/guide/erectile-dysfunction-basics
Good luck bro.

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Solsix(m): 3:18am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

This kind of problem in this kind of country only God can save you, it is left for you to figure out how you will hold until him.

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by bigfrancis21: 3:33am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

Try to get some of your sperm saved in a sperm bank if you can, to avail you the possibility of having your own biological child in the future.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Abagworo(m): 4:21am On Oct 22, 2019

It's psychological and nothing more. It happens to most men once in a lifetime as a result of one failed sex attempt at young age. Remove your mind from forcing it and you will bounce back.

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by jmichael259(m): 4:36am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Bro I have visited at least 4 specialists, they seem to just think my problem is psychological because they don't have a solution.

I'm going back to lagos to explore more though

I will keep on praying about it. Thanks

Stop thinking it too much to avoid depression. Seek more medical help.

Hurry now and get some girls pregnant. You may start thinking you are young and can't take care of the kids, but I tell you they won't die of hunger. As you get older you may not have thirst for more sex but you will miss not having kids.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Neddstark: 4:39am On Oct 22, 2019

Make money. Good money, then go to china, USA, India, there would be a cure there

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by theGigolo: 4:41am On Oct 22, 2019

try to go to a penile hospital and have a sample of your sperm taken and stored, just try and make sure you have enough to impregnate a woman in the future if it eventually gets worse. I am not saying there wont be a cure but lets think about the worst case scenario and avoid it.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Amadaz(m): 4:45am On Oct 22, 2019

Some psychological shiit. I been through all that in time past but today, girls ask me what I drink to perform the way I do and I just laugh and tell them nothing. My horsepower is more than that on mikano

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by israel90: 5:01am On Oct 22, 2019

Big frame or what did yu call yourself stop displaying stupidity

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by midnighter(f): 5:09am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Thank you,

This is exactly how I feel and my concern!

You are welcome dear, good luck and try not to worry too much ok, you will be fine

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by princeSammyz: 5:21am On Oct 22, 2019

What is the situation when you masturbate?
Do you maintain an erection during masturbation? v

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by brightlinse(m): 5:42am On Oct 22, 2019

if you can be able to visit India. this your problem will be thing of the past. Apollo hospital in India,will handle your case perfectly .https://www.apollohospitals.com/patient-care/health-and-lifestyle/diseases-and-conditions/erectile-dysfunction

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by FromZeroToHero(m): 5:50am On Oct 22, 2019

This is what I found. God is your strength bro.

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Nobody: 5:51am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

Pls WhatsApp/ Call 08087180784

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by ejimatic: 5:55am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

. God is not wicked neither is he responsible for man"s suffering.James 1 vrs 13. .. Job 34 vrs 10 Sorry for this development and the stress you are going through..it is good you said you visited specialists and they described it as psychological because you have erection when lying down but no erection when standing.Irregular erection like this at times is caused by depression and psychological factors. However what kind of trauma did you say you had in the past? have you ever done the scrotal and penis scan?The scan will reveal how blood enters your penis and how it how it passes your veins to scrotums..If there is a leaked vein it will show and if there is vericose vein it will show it. Any leaked vein or vericose vein can be corrected by surgery. If the the sxan is done and no abnormality you will go to the next stage..If it ishows abnormality it will be corrected.Please dont kill yourself you will still enjoy sex and be tired of it soon

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Kaydeexotic(m): 6:04am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
This is a physical/organic issue. Like I said I manage to get average erections when not standing (50%) but as soon as I stand its gone. I hear this is because of where the leak occurs and how gravity affects the drain. You can picture a bottle that has a leak on top; there won't be any water draining until it is turned over (change of gravity).

I am in the south west so I have seen a lot of these herbals that claim to work.. Many in Osun State here.

Bro since you are in osun.. it makes it all easier... I have something for you and it's for free... I've experienced something of this nature before but I sought medical help too... It's really depressing.. if after taking what I give to you and you still continue experiencing it.. then I don't know what else can cure the condition... Please PM me so we can talk... I'm giving you for free bro cos I know what this kind of thing feels like... cry

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Nobody: 6:05am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
This is a physical/organic issue. Like I said I manage to get average erections when not standing (50%) but as soon as I stand its gone. I hear this is because of where the leak occurs and how gravity affects the drain. You can picture a bottle that has a leak on top; there won't be any water draining until it is turned over (change of gravity).

I am in the south west so I have seen a lot of these herbals that claim to work.. Many in Osun State here.

Girl untop should work for you then. You can do it sharply so can have a kid before alll the erection goes. Have you thought of surgery? There should b a way to patch the leak.

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Kaydeexotic(m): 6:07am On Oct 22, 2019

Muyiwaipere:
Bro use Hygra.. You would perform wonders

You get oil for head cheesy

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by chinedumoooo: 6:09am On Oct 22, 2019

Settle with your mindset and stop complaining, nothing imposible cannot exist because God is our strength.

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by MurphyInc(m): 6:29am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.

God is the only way out. There's no sickness, disease or situation God cannot heal. get close to God, make a deal with him and he will heal you.

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Crenzywilliams(m): 6:30am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Thanks but what is this about? Are they doctors

You wen de find help de ask such kinda questions, baba rush call them first o, find out for yourself. I really wish you the best man, I Hope it all works out well for u. But just in case, why don't you try to preserve some sperm cells and for the sake of the future...And I think viagra also does some wonderful tricks.

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by igwedubai2(m): 6:31am On Oct 22, 2019

[Bro as I speak with u now!! Ask God for forgiveness please. Why are u saying there's know God, y who keep u alive?. No problems is tu big for God to solve, pray with ur mouth that almighty God gave u, believe in God my bro so that ur problem will be solved kpata kpata...

quote author=Bigflamie post=83337416]Shits happen in this life, how can someone not be able to have sex. I can't even imagine it.

The part where you asked why God allow bad things happen to people, well I don't think God exists cos I've seen so many things that proof that he's not existing.

Don't give up in pursuit for cure.[/quote]

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by igwedubai2(m): 6:37am On Oct 22, 2019

Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to called me on 08028700700 ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.

Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Dayvide192: 6:43am On Oct 22, 2019

Now that you can still get erection when laying down, I advise you get a girl pregnant so you can have children...

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Goldie16(f): 6:45am On Oct 22, 2019*

I have learnt not to judge other women who are looking for the fruit of the womb because, I used to think they were bad people who were wayward and committed abortions.
After spending hours and millions in the hospital, I now know that there are several gynaecological conditions that can cause infertility even if you were/are not sexually active/wayward as a youth.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by zodo2rule: 6:47am On Oct 22, 2019

There's a 60% chance of it getting fixed, first of all, you need to go get a scan done. An ultrasound scan at Arrive alive diagnostics should be about 8k, the results of the scan could point to exactly the problem, then you can go to Luth and ask for Doctor Rufus Ojewola. He is a specialist in this area.

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Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Hollysaint: 6:49am On Oct 22, 2019

Have faith do not despair,trust in the Lord.

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