I once asked her (a friend), why are you not dating currently?

She replied, "I want to be financially independent before going into a relationship."

I was shocked by her response. I had the thought before it was only men that uses this excuse.

To ladies here, do you subscribe to this?

Is being financially independent a criteria for you before going into a relationship?

Why?

Guys here, what's your take on this?

Share your thoughts.

Chai..Imagine husband and wife making money.. over enjoyment inside da relationship .. But expect no Respect

Financial Stability is a Must for me.

Not just to be financially Stable but also have a Financial Independent Mind.

I really wish girls can learn to be of Value in everyway in a relationship.

It is greed and Dependency mentality that has kept some girls in their parents house till now.

The world and circumstance of Africa or Nigeria to be precise today, has made it one of the criteria for a lady, before relationship even marriage. Now no guy wants to date a broke girl or who has no job at least, the first of their interest or question is what do you do for a living? This wasn't so in the time of our parents, men are trained to work hard to take care of their wife and family, even when the woman has nothing really to offer him, other than respect and care for him, home and children. It's well with us all.

Yes u are right, but ladys of this generation are senseless and lazy. All what they can offer u is dick. And later on leave u alone and go for another dick.

Hamachi:
The world and circumstance of Africa or Nigeria to be precise today, has made it one of the criteria for a lady, before relationship even marriage. Now no guy wants to date a broke girl or who has no job at least, the first of their interest or question is what do you do for a living? This wasn't so in the time of our parents, men are trained to work hard to take care of their wife and family, even when the woman has nothing really to offer him, other than respect and care for him, home and children. It's well with us all.