₦airaland Forum

Waffarianman:
This is Nigeria, let's assuming you mistakenly impregnated you babe and you don't have money then to do the necessary things but you know in the future you'll do it. Your babe father now said the baby belongs to them, you accept for them to take your child away from that you're not the biological father. If can take it, I won't my brother

You're going to wake up one day and realize that no be you get the pikin.

Do you know that mother's can turn your children against you (the father)…?

unless he pays her bride price.

Charleys:
You're going to wake up one day and realize that no be you get the pikin.

Do you know that mother's can turn your children against you (the father)…?

Father can also turn children against their mother.


Am an example of what we are arguing about, My wife, her father, mother and siblings lost the battle. I defeat them all hands down what are you saying... If you knows your right no one on planet earth can step on your toes and go free..

Am an Urhobo from delta but we are one happy family now, bro no go there, I die with anybody that's after my children

Oga shout up even u ll give davido to impregnate ur sister free of charge no come here wit ur bad belle Biko
Goan work and stop making noise

rapid101:
Oga shout up
even u ll give davido to impregnate ur sister free of charge
no come here wit ur bad belle Biko

Goan work and stop making noise

Money aside.

Lol very funny

Now lemme respond to this tribal bigot Op and his ilk who hide under culture and tradition. If Davido is not the father of his son then who is As you Lot are busy arguing who rightly fathers the son whether by nature or tradition, have you taken a step back to think about the upbringing and security of that child? Not saying traditional rights should not be done as it should so long as all parties are involved out of their own volition and not due to coercion and cheap balckmail.
Say for instance, Davido decides against performing any traditional rights on Chioma's case (afterall he has done that twice already) and you traditional bigots drags the kid from him to your village, can all those village people with their combined resources give that kid the kind of life that he has been assured under Davido If not, I dare you people to try it. That child will grow up and burn down that nonsense village to ashes for denying him the quality of life he was assured from birth.
All this clamour na make them come buy una 500paged list of items weh una deh use alleviate poverty in the name of marriage.
Nonsence and Headies awards

Prymestrr:
Now lemme respond to this tribal bigot Op and his ilk who hide under culture and tradition. If Davido is not the father of his son then who is As you Lot are busy arguing who rightly fathers the son whether by nature or tradition, have you taken a step back to think about the upbringing and security of that child? Not saying traditional rights should not be done as it should so long as all parties are involved out of their own volition and not due to coercion and cheap balckmail.
Say for instance, Davido decides against performing any traditional rights on Chioma's case (afterall he has done that twice already) and you traditional bigots drags the kid from him to your village, can all those village people with their combined resources give that kid the kind of life that he has been assured under Davido If not, I dare you people to try it. That child will grow up and burn down that nonsense village to ashes for denying him the quality of life he was assured from birth.
All this clamour na make them come buy una 500paged list items weh una deh use alleviate poverty in the name of marriage.
Nonsence and Headies awards

Let me ask you a simple question.

Is that child's name Ifeanyi or David?

Charleys:
Let me ask you a simple question.

Is that child's name Ifeanyi or David?

Lemme answer you with a simple question. What's the point of your question exactly

Prymestrr:
Lemme answer you with a simple question. What's the point of your question exactly

deep inside you know his name is Ifeanyi.
Bloggers call him baby Ifeanyi. That's with the igbos call him.

Charleys:
I met a man who I had a little discussion with and he said.

According to the Igbo traditions, if you do not marry the woman and make her your wife. Any child that comes out from that union belongs to the Grandfather... The mother's father.

I want to bring this up now, I want us to discuss this because at the end of the day. Davido will wake up one day and realize that, the child is claiming his Igbo name, prefers Igbo food and will never want to Dobale for his elders.

The igbos have as much claim to that boy than the yorubas.

This is tradition and as long as it isn't spoken in public, it will be acted upon.
This is one of the disadvantage of having an Igbo as a baby mama.

Let us be truthful to ourselves, Money apart.

Davido is not the real father to Chioma's baby yet.

I've been using Chioma's baby because that's what the igbos keep calling the baby and I want it to stop.

The truth is Davido has no baby yet.

...so u saying u want to marry Davido because his ibo baby is Jamaican??.... BRO are u ok?? (No ofeense)

Charleys:
deep inside you know his name is Ifeanyi.
Bloggers call him baby Ifeanyi. That's with the igbos call him.

Again I ask you... What exactly is your point with the baby's name

Prymestrr:
Again I ask you... What exactly is your point with the baby's name

abeg go look for bed sleep, we dey talk better thing you dey ask irrelevant question.

Charleys:
abeg go look for bed sleep, we dey talk better thing you dey ask irrelevant question.

Charley you no just get sense. See as I waste my energy deh argue with ode no go face your life...continue deh find who get son weh him entitlements as him deh just 3days old fit feed you and your entire village for the next decade.
#charley weh mumu

Prymestrr:
Charley you no just get sense. See as I waste my energy deh argue with ode no go face your life...continue deh find who get son weh him entitlements as him deh just 3days old fit feed you and your entire village for the next decade.
#charley weh mumu

Clap for yourself.

@ op, na you get Chioma born the piken for. we don hear.

Lalasticlala show your boy love.

you sef wan make FP with this garbage thread ni SMH

Charleys:
my intentions is simple. Do traditions work or not?
Do the igbos lay claim to the child as much as the Davido's family do?
As long as chioma isn't married to Davido, that child belongs to Chioma's father.

You don't have an Igbo girl as a baby mama so you won't understand. That child is an Igbo and will be brought up as such.

Just like someone up asked, what do you want to achieve from this thread? Scarcity of job shouldn't mean lack of sense.

Useful1:
Just like someone up asked, what do you want to achieve from this thread? Scarcity of job shouldn't mean lack of sense.

I want s to discuss about it.
Does tradition affect this too?

In the Igbo tradition, you cannot pay the bride price for a pregnant woman.
The fact that Davido has "knocked" on the door is enough for tradition. Now that the baby has arrived, the bride price can now be paid.
If for any reason he decides he doesn't want to go ahead with the marriage, we can then say the child belongs to Chioma's Dad. But for now, we have no case, because he has shown his intention to marry Chioma.

Iamdeagle:
In the Igbo tradition, you cannot pay the bride price for a pregnant woman.
The fact that Davido has "knocked" on the door is enough for tradition. Now that the baby has arrived, the bride price can now be paid.
If for any reason he decides he doesn't want to go ahead with the marriage, we can then say the child belongs to Chioma's Dad. But for now, we have no case, because he has shown his intention to marry Chioma.

That's what I've been trying to explain, but these people want to crucify me

Please guys, the OP is right to an extent. As long as they are not married traditional, or the man has not performed any kind of traditional right (which Davido has done as shown online) the baby belong to the girls father. In some places in Igboland, if a married woman gets inpregnanted by another man the child still belong to the husband (if he wants). This is not hear say o. Make una no kill the op for trying to educate us

Lalasticlala

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