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How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by DeluwaTalks: 12:11pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
How do you deal with people who seemed not to understand you? For instance, you might see yourself as bold and a risk taker. The people you mingle with tend to see you as arrogant and reckless. How do you equally manage this within the context of relationship with your partner(Engaged or married)? Let us hear from you. |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by donbachi(m): 12:14pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
how they feel does not define me...I don't give a fvck....if I kill myself for dem,dem go steal complain sey food no reach dem for burial day. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:24pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
dont care, couldnt care less, they can take it or shove it.... the important people in my life understand me. there is no point trying to please everyone, and so long as you please your star player (aka YOU) all is well. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by Larryfest(m): 12:27pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Like i give a frigging Bleep |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by DeluwaTalks: 12:40pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Interesting! The critical part here is never to live your life based on other people's opinion. Sometimes, someone might be doing things displeasing or even harmful to people around him or her. How do you deal with the situation when the person doesn't see anything wrong with that? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by crackhaus: 12:44pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Perception is very important, there's no such thing is 'I don't care'. Being able to mould your perception into exactly how you want it, is a gift that not a lot of people have. For instance, you say you see yourself as bold and a risk taker, yet people around you misconstrue that as being arrogant and reckless. The truth is that you are right about yourself, and they are also right about you -it's called perspective. The problem with the mismatch is that you lack an ability called extrasensory perception (layman refer to this as 'people skills') - this ability is what allows a person view themselves impersonally, as if through the eyes of others, and then postures accordingly. While it is okay to 'not care' what people think, unless you live alone on an island in the Indian Ocean without any human contact, then you will have to care what some people think of you at some point in life. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by nlPoster: 12:52pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
It's not necessary to write a thesis on the phrase "I dont care", please. Nigerians are always experts on other people, never themselves. You care but you spend 90% of your time insulting people you dislike (sometimes only because of their gender!) or who don't share your opinion just because you feel you're better than them, isn't that stupidity? 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by crackhaus: 4:47pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Triggered... 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by midnighter(f): 5:15pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
crackhaus: Wow Guess there's no need for me to comment cos you've said it all 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by nlPoster: 5:23pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
crackhaus: I know you so much dislike the notion of anyone not kissing your ass, however you've been here a while and you're aware not everybody kowtows to your bigoted take on every issue. At some point, you might begin to respect other people's opinions besides your own. Not that anyone thinks you'll ever change. So, keep your fantasy gif showing who you wish you were, to yourself. You're still Nigerian. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by sisisioge: 5:24pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
May God help us all. Indeed its all about perception. ...I'm so sorry. May God calm our dear souls. by the way, I miss my lil niece...that madam can hug for Africa. I'm sooooo sorry |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by nlPoster: 5:26pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
sisisioge: Crackhuzz, this is for you. Na your epistle book space pass. Always eager to criticize whatever he sees in others. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by sisisioge: 5:36pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
nairalandposter: Actually, it was for you. You just went for his jugular for typing his opinion. I found it funny though...felt like giving you a hug to calm you down. You see, indeed its all about perspectives. While I saw some insights in what he wrote, you saw noise....ain't God just awesome? He made all of us differently. Do you now see how you and I have lent credence to what he wrote now? Cheers baby girl 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by crackhaus: 5:41pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
nairalandposter:Stay triggered... 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by crackhaus: 5:42pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
sisisioge:Oh dear 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by crackhaus: 5:47pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
midnighter: Please add a lil' something before someone bursts a nerve on my account |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by missjo(f): 8:42pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
crackhaus:Be nice 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by midnighter(f): 8:53pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
crackhaus: Lol i didnt get you, add a little what? |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by crackhaus: 9:04pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
midnighter:Add a little spice regarding the topic I meant, mine was just too peppery for Tpia. Don't mind me... |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by crackhaus: 9:08pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
missjo:You know I'm always nice babe |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by midnighter(f): 9:09pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
crackhaus: Lol well like the topic says, you cant please everybody Maybe Ill add more later but I really did agree with that post |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by crackhaus: 9:40pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
midnighter:True that. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by DeluwaTalks: 9:40pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
���� for all the contributions! I think we see things the way we are not the way they are says a wise man. Two people can see the same thing yet ascribe different meanings to it. Often times partners in a relationship drift apart in our quest to be right and the other person wrong. Unfortunately we forget that two people can see the same thing differently and both of them are right. Why this difference? It is the way we are all wired largely in the programming from our past experiences. My opinion? I feel strongly that we should take time to understand people before seeking to handle them. If this doesn’t happen, there is a likelihood that the relationship could degerate and possibly come to an end. |
Re: How Do You Deal With How People Perceive You Or Your Actions? by DeluwaTalks: 9:41pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Thanks for all the contributions! |
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