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| Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by ORIJIN201(op): 5:47pm On Oct 28, 2019*. Modified: 6:53pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Edit: this thread is not created with the aim to bash the female folk nor chase clout. I'm here to pass a message across by sharing my experience. If you make it seem so, I'll ignore you. So I met this girl at the bank, long story short, I got her phone number. Called and we talked and luckily, we live close to each other (10 minutes walk). We agreed to meet and she stood me up when it was time. Lol. I wasn't even mad because she wouldn't be able to make it, I was baffled because she could have picked the call and tell me she wouldn't be able to make it. Quite amateur and cowardly if you ask me.
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| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by healthserve(m): 5:50pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
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| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by Chapter1vs6(m): 5:54pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
So bank? Money? What's all these about ? Clout chasing Eh she changed her mind... Maybe you are not her class and tastes |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by Nobody: 5:57pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Mayb she was with her main boyfriend. Just painting a possible scenario here. |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by Nobody: 5:57pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by ORIJIN201(op): 6:03pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Chapter1vs6:That's not the point here. The point is not even if she has a boyfriend or not. The point is she didn't pick the call and say no. That's trashy. 2 Likes |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by BLUEJAYY: 6:05pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Hang me if she's not under 22.  1 Like |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by ORIJIN201(op): 6:08pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
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| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:12pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Chapter1vs6:whatever her reason may be....why waste this man time? if he was not her class/taste, why not give a fake number or NO number at all? why make him go to date meeting if you know deep down that you are not interested? makes NO damn sense! thats not only VERY immature, thats stoopid IMHO! 2 Likes |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by ORIJIN201(op): 6:29pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:God bless you. I was surprised people still do this. I only see it on social media until it happened to me. I'm not entitled to u coming or not, but I'm entitled to you not lying about it. Everyone is entitled to honesty! 2 Likes |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by Abfinest007(m): 6:29pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
I rest my case bcuz maturity is by age |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by omoiyamayor(m): 6:30pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
They have this sense of ownership and it's a turn off |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:35pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
ORIJIN201:my take on this childish act is that...these deluded women only do so to feel "somehow" better about themselves, by having total strangers calling them and giving them cheap attention (calling and asking her what happened, where are you, why etc) my take on this issue is that, if a babe i am meeting is not there 5 mins after the set time, and she didnt call me (30mins earlier at least) to say that she was gonna be late, then i am walking off. |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by ORIJIN201(op): 6:44pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Lol I stopped calling before I texted her sef. I'm definitely not contacting her again. I don move. Btw, doing such thing as this girl did, doesn't make you better. To whoever might see this, that's classless and immature. I've never been the type that play games of chasing people around, and I never will. I believe in consent and maturity in doing things, and any serious person will share the same sentiment. I barely have time for work and myself, and I wouldn't expend my energy and time on something that's supposed to be straight forward. 3 Likes |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:05pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
ORIJIN201:Failing to attend a meeting is uncourteous. So sorry about your experience. But where did y’all agree to meet? |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by Olorunnim: 8:13pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
That stuff is childish as can be, I don't bother texting or calling such people i value my time a lot. 1 Like |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by nlPoster: 8:17pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
As a matter of fact, your post reminds me of my friend whose crush said he'd visit her and then never showed up. She'd prepared food and everything, she felt so bad, especially after waiting for hours and then went out but saw him frolicking with his friends elsewhere. It just pained me that food she could have eaten herself (she eventually did although it was cold), was what she eagerly made for him. 1 Like |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by nlPoster: 8:17pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
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| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by Edybleketara: 10:34pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:Lol |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by nuggarito: 11:38pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
There was a thread some weeks ago about a lady explaining her encounter with a Nigerian dude whom she purposely stood up when they planned a date. My question is why can't you just get some self respect and stop tolerating this stewpid shit from girls. If you get any bad vibe around any female and it's not clicking why not move on. This girl's are leeches, most of which are just senseless and Childish. Heads up king. 1 Like |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by nlPoster: 11:47pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
nuggarito:Dont think two stories counteract the story I put up there. Fake supporter. Even if you have thousands of tales, that one story still needs the apology of the person who did the offence. |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by Nobody: 11:53pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Emmm how does one girl standing you up relate to millions of Nigerian Girls? A guy once disappointed me but you don't see me opening a thread on nairaland to whine and cry about how all Nigerian men are childish. |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by futurerex: 11:55pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Chapter1vs6:I hate that particular phrase with passion. What do you mean by that? What class is she? Shaa, I blame guys for going after leeches after working so hard to be what they're. |
| Re: Nigerian Girls Need To Grow Up. by ORIJIN201(op): 7:11am On Oct 29, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO:We are 10mins away from each other. So we could have met anywhere around, and it would have been fine with me. 1 Like |
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