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| Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by MANNABBQGRILLS(op): 4:56am On Oct 30, 2019 |
We had not seen each other for about 30 years. The Lord has been kind to me. When I saw him again - this time at a hotel lobby - he was looking simple. He wore simple Ankara attire. I felt touched. He walked up to me and was glad to see me again. But deep within me I was not impressed with his status compared to mine and poor me, I couldn't hide it. We exchanged contact details and I could see the joy in him as he collected mine. I told him I will drop him home in my brand new Range Rover and I pointed it to him. He declined and said he had already called for his car. It looked old, a 2001 Honda Accord. I invited him the next day for lunch at my house. A part of me wanted to impress him - To show off my success and affluence to him, while another was to discuss opportunities and possibly help him. He drove to Parkview where I lived. He looked impressed with my home. I had taken a heavy mortgage. In fact I was heavily in debt. We had lunch. He told me he was into small business and particularly real estate. I brought up more business discussions, but he didn't sound too interested. I asked him how I could help him. He said he was fine. I even told him if he was interested, I could help him secure some loans... He looked at me and smiled. He told me he would invite me over soon to his place. His old car came for him. I was grateful to God for what I had. “Fingers are not all equal”, I thought to myself...I was lucky. I worked in a good place. Two weeks later, we went to see him in Ikeja. My wife and I. She was reluctant to go because she was not impressed with the man's status as to warrant our visiting him in his house. I was able to convince her that we were close friends in college. We saw the Estate. *Wuraola Estate.* We asked for directions to his home. Those leading us spoke his name with deference. It was a simple but lovely home. A 4 bedroom bungalow. I saw 4 cars parked in front. We entered his home. It was simply elegant with a touch of class inside. He welcomed us warmly. Lunch was well served. His wife called him Baba Wuraola During lunch, he asked about my MD. He said they were friends. I saw a company gift on one of his tables nearby. That company owned about 38% shares where I worked. I enquired from him about it. He smiled. He told me he owned the company. He also owned the estate. I did not know when I called him sir... I was in awe of him too. I had learnt a lesson in humility - A big one. Appearances are deceptive. He noticed my discomfort. Driving back home, I was very quiet. My wife was humbled and extremely calm. I could perceive the thoughts in her mind. I looked at myself. Living on loans, heavy loans and showing off while someone who pays my salary is quite modest and living a simple life! Indeed Deeper Rivers Flow In Majestic Silence! By Ademola Henry Adigun |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by MANNABBQGRILLS(op): 4:57am On Oct 30, 2019*. Modified: 11:27am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Read and learn from this True Life Story. All derailers will be dealt with 'lovingly'! Bouncingbabyboy:Thank you Bouncing Baby Boy. We knew people like you will learn something positive from it that is why we brought it here for people of sound mind to read and learn after hearing it from the person involved. #TeamSimplicity Smith234: hollowpot15684: hikiki: Deepthoughts:So glad you guys learnt something from this piece also just as we did! ![]() Deepthoughts:This belong to the first page! Thank you so much for sharing sir. We love good-feeling posts as this, not bad-energy raking posts. We hope some people can learn from your story also. Keep being you, the future has a lot in store for you sir. Stay blessed. ![]() |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by budaatum: 5:01am On Oct 30, 2019 |
I hope you learned a lesson, or two. |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by MANNABBQGRILLS(op): 5:02am On Oct 30, 2019*. Modified: 10:19am On Oct 30, 2019 |
budaatum:We hope most people do too, just as we did....... |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by MiniImportation: 5:23am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Bro |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by sisisioge: 5:30am On Oct 30, 2019 |
post=83580366:If it isn't your story biko reference accordingly o .I knew the writer would get himself in trouble by undermining the guy because of what he was wearing or the old car that picked him up. If he was so struggling, he would be picking himself up unless na Uber. |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by libertyfather(m): 5:33am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Not interesting movie, but truth and inspiring |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by daddytime(m): 5:33am On Oct 30, 2019*. Modified: 6:56am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Great story with loads of life lessons to boot. I thank God for humility and refusing to look or talk down on anyone. Life is big... |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by prospero5(m): 5:37am On Oct 30, 2019 |
nice one |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by MANNABBQGRILLS(op): 5:42am On Oct 30, 2019 |
MiniImportationWe are happy you learnt something positive from this sir. Simplicity in life is the way to go. Btw, we are not bro o! We are just who we are : MANNA! Have a blessed day ahead, as you keep life simple! |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by RoyalBlu(f): 5:50am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Script or not, this story should serve as a wake up call. *Your salary might just be someone else's fuel budget. Be humble. *Stop spending money you don't have. Be prudent. *Dont always jump to conclusions. You might fall so hard and break your teeth ![]() |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by blessedvisky(m): 5:58am On Oct 30, 2019 |
I first read this story in 2017 as a WhatsApp BC forwarded to me by my Parents ![]() |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by basmur(m): 6:10am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Looks are deceiving... Too many characters defining a human.. you can choose to be mad, pumpospous, arrogant modest cool, beastly,unbothered,honest,caring etc. Its best u dnt judge, or look down on people.you only observe. |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by AdolfHittler: 6:22am On Oct 30, 2019 |
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| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by AdolfHittler: 6:23am On Oct 30, 2019 |
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| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by AdolfHittler: 6:23am On Oct 30, 2019 |
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| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by rexbuton: 6:40am On Oct 30, 2019 |
post=83580362:Bearing in mind that ass-licking the govt is what characterizes the majority of your posts, it didn't come as a surprise that this reasonable one was stolen.. Please post the author's name at the top, in CAPS... Post thief
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| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by Nobody: 6:45am On Oct 30, 2019*. Modified: 9:46am On Oct 30, 2019 |
rexbuton:..and your own dead wailing brain has not told you to make a thread out of this good story since you know the source. Ass lickers of thieves attacking the messenger and ignoring the beautiful message by . Una go just dey carry una body odour everywhere! She is definitely all of you nightmare in life. losers in pains. keep doing your thing. I am with you. |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by Nobody: 7:10am On Oct 30, 2019*. Modified: 8:52am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Co-signing that he should've credited the actual author of the post. It's the honest thing to do. rexbuton: |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by generationz(f): 7:11am On Oct 30, 2019 |
post=83580362:Kindly add that this story was gotten from Twitter. |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by bukatyne(f): 7:25am On Oct 30, 2019 |
People buying things they do not need to impress people they do not like. |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by jeph19(m): 7:33am On Oct 30, 2019 |
post=83580362:Can I copy and share on whatsapp please? |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by madridguy(m): 7:42am On Oct 30, 2019 |
I did not know when I called him sir... I was in awe of him too. |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by MANNABBQGRILLS(op): 7:49am On Oct 30, 2019*. Modified: 11:29am On Oct 30, 2019 |
jeph19: jamesfadairo:Kindly go ahead sirs. Share this as much as you can. Just as we did. Being simple in life is the way to go. Good sane people are learning from this. Stay blessed. |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by MANNABBQGRILLS(op): 7:52am On Oct 30, 2019*. Modified: 9:56am On Oct 30, 2019 |
madridguy:This is deep Chairman. Good to know that good and sane People like you are learning one or two things from this thread, as much as we are doing also. While some pessimistic souls are in pains reading this! ![]() |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by MANNABBQGRILLS(op): 7:52am On Oct 30, 2019 |
bukatyne:Hmmmmm, this is deep! |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by madridguy(m): 7:53am On Oct 30, 2019 |
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| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by MANNABBQGRILLS(op): 7:54am On Oct 30, 2019 |
daddytime:Actually Life is Light : Ayefele! |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by AdolfHittler: 9:27am On Oct 30, 2019 |
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| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by freethesheeple(m): 9:28am On Oct 30, 2019 |
post=83580362:you are lucky your idiotic woman did not disrepect him... |
| Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by AdolfHittler: 9:30am On Oct 30, 2019 |
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