Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by qeemus: 4:01pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
LyfeJennings: I remember meeting a man in my former place of work. That man. Tribal mark be like say na cutlass dem take write am. So I was opportune to go to this man's house. Very old house but this man sits on Billions as investment in a single account. Talking of 20 to 30 billion naira. Iooks are truly deceptive. bro,glad you're back |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by MiniImportation: 4:17pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
djon78:
Word!!!! People that show off most times are very empty. While those with real money don't show off. Anybody that wants to go far in life should be low key Noted sir |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by omoharry(f): 4:53pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
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We had not seen each other for about 30 years. The Lord has been kind to me. When I saw him again - this time at a hotel lobby - he was looking simple. He wore simple Ankara attire. I felt touched. He walked up to me and was glad to see me again. But deep within me I was not impressed with his status compared to mine and poor me, I couldn't hide it. We exchanged contact details and I could see the joy in him as he collected mine.
I told him I will drop him home in my brand new Range Rover and I pointed it to him. He declined and said he had already called for his car. It looked old, a 2001 Honda Accord.
I invited him the next day for lunch at my house. A part of me wanted to impress him - To show off my success and affluence to him, while another was to discuss opportunities and possibly help him.
He drove to Parkview where I lived. He looked impressed with my home. I had taken a heavy mortgage. In fact I was heavily in debt. We had lunch. He told me he was into small business and particularly real estate. I brought up more business discussions, but he didn't sound too interested. I asked him how I could help him. He said he was fine. I even told him if he was interested, I could help him secure some loans... He looked at me and smiled.
He told me he would invite me over soon to his place. His old car came for him. I was grateful to God for what I had. “Fingers are not all equal”, I thought to myself...I was lucky. I worked in a good place.
Two weeks later, we went to see him in Ikeja. My wife and I. She was reluctant to go because she was not impressed with the man's status as to warrant our visiting him in his house. I was able to convince her that we were close friends in college. We saw the Estate. *Wuraola Estate.* We asked for directions to his home. Those leading us spoke his name with deference.
It was a simple but lovely home. A 4 bedroom bungalow. I saw 4 cars parked in front. We entered his home. It was simply elegant with a touch of class inside. He welcomed us warmly.
Lunch was well served. His wife called him Baba Wuraola
During lunch, he asked about my MD. He said they were friends. I saw a company gift on one of his tables nearby. That company owned about 38% shares where I worked. I enquired from him about it. He smiled. He told me he owned the company. He also owned the estate.
I did not know when I called him sir... I was in awe of him too.
I had learnt a lesson in humility - A big one. Appearances are deceptive. He noticed my discomfort.
Driving back home, I was very quiet. My wife was humbled and extremely calm. I could perceive the thoughts in her mind. I looked at myself. Living on loans, heavy loans and showing off while someone who pays my salary is quite modest and living a simple life! Indeed Deeper Rivers Flow In Majestic Silence! You write well.Is this just a short story or a true life event? nice write-up. 1 Like 1 Share |
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Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by pcicero(m): 5:38pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
lalasticlala:
Kindly drop the link to where he copied it from so I can add the link. Thanks Take this from me, search for Ademola Henry Adigun on Facebook. He wrote this piece. Many people have plagiarized it. Someone here has also alluded it to another character. That is another charlatan. It is dishonest. It is theft of intellectual property. 5 Likes |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by pcicero(m): 5:42pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
I have dragged many people on Facebook because of this piece because I know when the original writer posted and even did a follow up on it.
Many bloggers who were initially arrogant when the error was pointed out quickly retracted when threatened with lawsuits.
It costs nothing to be truthful. 3 Likes |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by Holluwhakemmy(f): 9:13pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
blessedvisky: I first read this story in 2017 as a WhatsApp BC forwarded to me by my Parents I read it also on whatsApp 2 years ago. 2 Likes |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by Acme77: 1:22pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
bukatyne: People buying things they do not need to impress people they do not like. Please, permit me to add... with money they don't have. |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by Arizonaguy(m): 3:44pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
toye440:
How do u enjoy profiting from another mans work, anyway its not surprising to me, cos it all started from school. Guys like poster if at all they ever sat in d 4 walls of a classroom eventually submitted another's project. This is an outrageous accusation i'm only issuing an advice to the OP to maybe sell this off as a script Could cash in a little...This doesn't warrant an attack from you What the hell is wrong with you 1 Like |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by toye440: 3:53pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Arizonaguy:
This is an outrageous accusation i'm only issuing an advice to the OP to maybe sell this off as a script Could cash in a little...This doesn't warrant an attack from you What the hell is wrong with you U started well but " what the hell is wrong with u"? Boy I hate thieves as much as I hate sycophants who encourage nonsense. Now before u pipsqueak mention me like ever, pls go get some training cos u obviously lack one. Dingbat. |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by Arizonaguy(m): 6:31pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
toye440:
U started well but " what the hell is wrong with u"? Boy I hate thieves as much as I hate sycophants who encourage nonsense. Now before u pipsqueak mention me like ever, pls go get some training cos u obviously lack one. Dingbat. i don't know you neither you i who needs training here is glaring...you attacked my mention and you took it way personal, it's obvious you are the psychopath here Run along mister |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by GoodFaith: 6:45pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
One dude I use to talk say my two youngest brother don't know me IN Nigeria I enter Bus I take old clothes to Nigeria, some I have used why supporting ppl doing stuff for me People I work with know some stuff about me, They say I have a high end car or SUV at home. I am not ready for high car for now Back at my base I wear high end cloths Keep it on the down low some dude that do stuff for me Once said they work for this dude that keep talking about money They said we know this person have four more than the dude that was talking |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by GoodFaith: 6:59pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
People sometime spend money in different way A coworker once told he don't spend money because he don't have big house or high end cloths I said when are u going on your next trip/ he said in a month We all have things we spend money on hobby |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by toye440: 7:04pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Arizonaguy: i don't know you neither you i who needs training here is glaring...you attacked my mention and you took it way personal, it's obvious you are the psychopath here Run along mister I can't imagine myself indulge or gratify a schnook no schmuck, with tantrums. Buzz off u self-servicer, academic thief . |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by bukatyne(f): 3:59pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
Acme77:
Please, permit me to add... with money they don't have. Gbam! |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by bukatyne(f): 4:08pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
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Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by Mightyhaiz: 3:19pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
Unghost: who this story epp?? the price of rice is still 20k
20 ke...? 31k for dis side |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by ZinoFasisi: 3:36pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
GoodFaith: One dude I use to talk say my two youngest brother don't know me IN Nigeria I enter Bus I take old clothes to Nigeria, some I have used why supporting ppl doing stuff for me People I work with know some stuff about me, They say I have a high end car or SUV at home. I am not ready for high car for now Back at my base I wear high end cloths Keep it on the down low some dude that do stuff for me Once said they work for this dude that keep talking about money They said we know this person have four more than the dude that was talking
What is this 1 saying |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by wwwihy: 8:04am On Dec 01, 2019 |
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We had not seen each other for about 30 years. The Lord has been kind to me. When I saw him again - this time at a hotel lobby - he was looking simple. He wore simple Ankara attire. I felt touched. He walked up to me and was glad to see me again. But deep within me I was not impressed with his status compared to mine and poor me, I couldn't hide it. We exchanged contact details and I could see the joy in him as he collected mine.
I told him I will drop him home in my brand new Range Rover and I pointed it to him. He declined and said he had already called for his car. It looked old, a 2001 Honda Accord.
I invited him the next day for lunch at my house. A part of me wanted to impress him - To show off my success and affluence to him, while another was to discuss opportunities and possibly help him.
He drove to Parkview where I lived. He looked impressed with my home. I had taken a heavy mortgage. In fact I was heavily in debt. We had lunch. He told me he was into small business and particularly real estate. I brought up more business discussions, but he didn't sound too interested. I asked him how I could help him. He said he was fine. I even told him if he was interested, I could help him secure some loans... He looked at me and smiled.
He told me he would invite me over soon to his place. His old car came for him. I was grateful to God for what I had. “Fingers are not all equal”, I thought to myself...I was lucky. I worked in a good place.
Two weeks later, we went to see him in Ikeja. My wife and I. She was reluctant to go because she was not impressed with the man's status as to warrant our visiting him in his house. I was able to convince her that we were close friends in college. We saw the Estate. *Wuraola Estate.* We asked for directions to his home. Those leading us spoke his name with deference.
It was a simple but lovely home. A 4 bedroom bungalow. I saw 4 cars parked in front. We entered his home. It was simply elegant with a touch of class inside. He welcomed us warmly.
Lunch was well served. His wife called him Baba Wuraola
During lunch, he asked about my MD. He said they were friends. I saw a company gift on one of his tables nearby. That company owned about 38% shares where I worked. I enquired from him about it. He smiled. He told me he owned the company. He also owned the estate.
I did not know when I called him sir... I was in awe of him too.
I had learnt a lesson in humility - A big one. Appearances are deceptive. He noticed my discomfort.
Driving back home, I was very quiet. My wife was humbled and extremely calm. I could perceive the thoughts in her mind. I looked at myself. Living on loans, heavy loans and showing off while someone who pays my salary is quite modest and living a simple life! Indeed Deeper Rivers Flow In Majestic Silence!
By Ademola Henry Adigun |
Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by winner37(m): 10:52pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
That's life ,it can never stop surprising us .. Learn from this |
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