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Find the relevant NGOs in your area that cater to rape victims and women empowerment. They may be able to help.

Donald95:
There is this single mum living just beside our house (She is single because she left her husband, accused him of not being faithful and not taking care of the family, They are not officially divorced.)

Now, she has 3 daughters only, 2 very little girls about 5 and 6 years that has been given out as maids and another girl of about 15 years and she and her daughter due to hardship is squatting with another family, living in their house for free.

One day as i was looking out from our house, I noticed some rowdy movement inside the squatters room. Then after a while, the introverted girl rushed out of the house Tensed ( Very Afraid). I asked her Ogini! but she never replied. After a while, the landlord of the house came out of her room claiming to be angry and making phone call.



I later called the girl and asked her, she first denied that she is being abused but later agreed and also told me that she had been raped by him b4 then she pleaded with me that I shouldn't tell anyone.

I talked to her mom about it and she started shouting at her daughter that she has warned her severally to always lock herself up whenever she is out selling food (which she does for a living). She made the victim guilty. I stopped her but she continued by saying that the house they are living is their only hope and anything that will make them chased out of their will not be accepted. He warned me to keep shut and stay out of her family business,That i shouldn't involve the police or the man's wife or street youth. She insisted that doing such will ruin their life in the city. Even the victim also begged me to keep it down

I wanted to go to church to report to his pastor but on second thought, pastor will invite the man and question him and this will bounce back on the victims family.

If you were in my shoes, what will you do as i don't want to hurt the victims family the more?

Donald95:
There is this single mum living just beside our house (She is single because she left her husband, accused him of not being faithful and not taking care of the family, They are not officially divorced.)

Now, she has 3 daughters only, 2 very little girls about 5 and 6 years that has been given out as maids and another girl of about 15 years and she and her daughter due to hardship is squatting with another family, living in their house for free.

One day as i was looking out from our house, I noticed some rowdy movement inside the squatters room. Then after a while, the introverted girl rushed out of the house Tensed ( Very Afraid). I asked her Ogini! but she never replied. After a while, the landlord of the house came out of her room claiming to be angry and making phone call.



I later called the girl and asked her, she first denied that she is being abused but later agreed and also told me that she had been raped by him b4 then she pleaded with me that I shouldn't tell anyone.

I talked to her mom about it and she started shouting at her daughter that she has warned her severally to always lock herself up whenever she is out selling food (which she does for a living). She made the victim guilty. I stopped her but she continued by saying that the house they are living is their only hope and anything that will make them chased out of their will not be accepted. He warned me to keep shut and stay out of her family business,That i shouldn't involve the police or the man's wife or street youth. She insisted that doing such will ruin their life in the city. Even the victim also begged me to keep it down

I wanted to go to church to report to his pastor but on second thought, pastor will invite the man and question him and this will bounce back on the victims family.

If you were in my shoes, what will you do as i don't want to hurt the victims family the more?

did this happen in Lagos ? if yes please go to alausa to report or call 112 and they will forward your call you the appropriate line to file why you call. they are confidential in dealing with such matters

Donald95:


My dear, this what i have been doing since Saturday last week (Too bad though) as i am still a student that came back for holidays in my Fathers house.

When I even talked to the victims father (Barber man). He told me that her mother is overwise and that is their cup of tea as his hands are totally off

Just let them be. When the girl eventually ends up pregnant all their eyes go clear. That street they are afraid of entering, them go enter am by force when the man's wife descends on them.

is this happening in Lagos?

Lagos state has robust child welfare in place

Naptu2, please provide those contacts you have provided in the past

Nonsense. Report the useless beast baztard to the authority.If the evil pipu chase her out,sumbody will accommodate her..God will not sleep. @Op,if u kip quiet,diz will hurt l/haunt u for life.(NB)if the woman is in Lagos,pm mi

I don't even know what to write, this is just disheartening!

OP I know a group that might be interested in this.

www.breathoffreedom.com.ng

You can contsct them on 08032273517. However to make success in this, one has to find a way of getting the Collaboration of the girl and her mother. Else much can't be achieved. Also one has to find a way of finding solution to their fear, which is not having a place to stay if the man throws them out.

So sad!!!







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rent her a self contain unit and a shop to be selling her food, so simple but we are either broke too , commenting with borrowed data or too stingy to help

How's the mother a slut and how on earth do you equate squatting with comfort?

Oriyomin25:
Poverty is the genesis of everything. from ur narration @OP The mother is a slut who will always trade her dignity and of her children just to stay comfortable, so you can't help the situation unless u are ready to bail them out of their condition... The Thought Of having a girl child in this insane enviroment scared the shit outta me, i'm afraid the girl's innocency has been exposed and may not come back.

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To start with, what part of the country do you reside?!

Let us take this matter up from there.

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In all your dealings, be careful so this doesn't bounce back on your head and they start claiming you were the one raping her

thelastorca:
is this happening in Lagos?

Lagos state has robust child welfare in place

Naptu2, please provide those contacts you have provided in the past

Donald95:


I am in Aba, Abia State and those government agencies works only when they smell money.

Looking at the victims non-helpful poor mom, you will know they will definitely loose any case made against the abuser

See if there is any way that you can contact the Abia State Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development or any of the NGOs in Abia that handle such issues.

nrexzy:
Hmmm
If ur not giving them a new accommodation please stay d f##k away from their business... Sometimes life isn't fair allow nature play it's cause..

Hmmmm... I kinda agree with you.. Except he has a place to give 'em...

shiiiiiii......................talk to an elderly person that u know is responsible and can help out with their situation and also give a better way to go about it

She left her husband because he was not treating her well and went to squat with a stranger, a man who is now raping her daughter and she is hiding it to avoid being thrown out of the house by the stranger man.


If she could endure a stranger molesting her and her daughters, why couldn't she endure her husband's ill character and engaged in things that fetched her money while she saves money gradually to get her own apartment

Just wondering



Meanwhile op, if you don't have money to help them rent an apartment, please stay out of it, talk is not help, help involves financial commitment and if you are not capable of committing financially, just stay on your lane and stop being a wusie

This country scares me like hell.

Contact any of the following people on Istagram they will not only dig into the story but also raise money for the family and especially the girl to further her school

1. KOKUN FOUNDATION
2. LINDA IKEJI
3. INSTABLOG9JA
4. OTHERS.

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Its pimping by the mother . Report both then who takes care of the kids They then become full time olosho. Life is just a scam

Report him to any of the agency responsible for the protection of girl child, they will surely deal with the man and take care of the woman and her children, you can even report him to the office of the first lady of the state.

This is what you should do, You don't need to ratt the family out. Just go to the ministry of women affairs and report a case of rape and molestation. Tell them you noticed it as a neighbor living near by. The ministry would take it up, don't involve the police because they will eventually make the case to be settled out of court.

nrexzy:


And stigmatization is ur best solution
Don't forget she and her mum are squatters... When they are chased out of the house and to d streets how many more rape occurance would be prevented....
It's very simple if u can afford to provide them with accommodation feeding wouldnt be their problem.. Contact the poster and get more details other than taking it personal...
If u don't have a solution to their problem please invest ur time in other relevant issues...
Thank u

You gave the right answer...

franchasng:
She left her husband because he was not treating her well and went to squat with a stranger, a man who is now raping her daughter and she is hiding it to avoid being thrown out of the house the man.


If she could endure a stronger molesting her and her daughters, why couldn't she endure her husband's I'll character and engaged in things that fetched her money while she saves money to get her own apartment

Just wondering



Meanwhile op, if you don't have money to help them rent an apartment, please stay out of it

No bi only you dey wonder.