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stupidity:
Exactly how I stupidly caused a breakup between two love birds.

When I was still in school, I’d plant a female slippers right out the door of my neighbor when I know he’s not around. His girl would come and think he’s inside banging and refused to open the door. (phone was still a rare commodity then) lol


Did it twice, the bae couldn’t take it and broke up with him.

Na only me know waten happen

You can't make heaven

Grumpyy:
Lol, brother. Imagine me the victim now. I had to morp back into a human being again after losing all trust I have for people. It was quite eventful for me

I hope you have learnt the power of communication. Open up and say this is what you did, this is how I feel, talk to the other person. Let's not keep grudges. Cos sometimes, the other person doesn't even know what went wrong or how things went wrong.

Mr100Dollars:
Babe, you to give him refnol?

Lol no oh, he gave himself

bubblesng:
ur number sir

07069649940 boss.

stupidity:
Exactly how I stupidly caused a breakup between two love birds.

When I was still in school, I’d plant a female slippers right out the door of my neighbor when I know he’s not around. His girl would come and think he’s inside banging and refused to open the door. (phone was still a rare commodity then) lol


Did it twice, the bae couldn’t take it and broke up with him.

Na only me know waten happen

And in your deepest mind, you think it is a joyful and laughable thing breaking people's relationship.

What if it was done to you? Close friend or Family?

"Do unto others what you want them to do until you."

Guy man dey UK
very happy for u

Grumpyy:
In response to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/5508729/5-year-old-relationship-ended

Hello dear, I went through something like this a year ago but not in your position so let me share my story with you, it MAY help you connect the dots.

So fast rewind to 2013, I met my girlfriend when I was in 200L in the university. I've always been a reserved person, so when I met her, I wasn't really prepared to date anyone yet but her ingenuity attracted me. She was in 100L but then I also have this heightened, over bloated self respect that even as I am her snr by just a level, I still felt she was a child and needn't had to have anything to do with her. I was 18 then, mind you.

What drew me to date her was when I noticed my guys (not really friends) gawking at her. They all wanted to have a piece of her and I just felt I should step in and protect her kinda (yes my mind actually thought this).

I noticed she was always uneasy with me and that was a good sign, so I asked her out and she accepted. I got to find out that she was a virgin too, and before I knew it, I was so deep in love with her. We dated till I left school in 2016. I finished my service early 2018 and got a scholarship for masters in the UK so I left the country, June 2018.

For the 5 years we dated, we never had sex. We did other things of course but not sex. We made solid plans and I trusted her with my all my heart.

There was this guy amongst those my supposed guys that was never happy for me and my babe. He had wanted to ask her out before I blocked him, he would always talk about how he'd f....ck the living shit outta my GF to be, that she was voluptuous and the rest.. So when I started dating the girl, he was not happy, he pretended of course, but I could see through the ruse.

Fast forward to 2018 when I was just about to settle in the UK, I get a WhatsApp msg from this guy telling me he has something to say to me. He says he's been f...cking my babe and sent me her nude. For like 3 days, I shut down. I couldn't eat, I couldn't read, I couldn't sleep, I couldn't coordinate my head at all. I was so confused because before I left the country, i hadn't seen my GF for almost a year but we spoke every day, sometimes 3 to 4 times in a day. I knew all she was doing and where she was at every time of the day, so if it was true, then it means she was being highly smart to keep up with me and still cheat, and that was an evil machination.

I shut her out, I wasn't taking her calls anymore, I wasn't replying to her msgs anymore, I literally brought out my heart, locked it in a chest and threw away the keys on the high sea, I acted this believe me. Her sister called, her mum, her friends, my sister, everybody called me to know what's up but I never said a thing. For 6 months, I wouldn't tell anybody anything and I also felt she was being hypocritical when she knows exactly what she did.

By December 2018, I was still getting calls to explain what was the problem, by then I had already completed my morphing into Davy Jones so I opened up to my sister. I told her that the biatch was cheating on me with the least person I had expected her to. I sent my sis the picture, it was a soft nude picture (you get me) but it was still something. She too, she went mad and said she'd confront her. I told her not to bother that she was already dead to me. She still confronted her and here's the denouement..

When my sis confronted her with the evidence, she fell down and cried and rained curses on me. She swore she never sent that guy, that picture. The picture was sent to me. She even right there sourced for the guy's contact and called him and the demon said how could her BF not trust her. That he was teasing me and he said I was the one that shared the nude amongst my friends. My GF opened her WhatsApp and luckily the chat from the day she sent me the picture was still there. I couldn't see this particular chat on my phone. I still kept her WhatsApp history too. My best guess is that the day she sent me the picture, my phone was with this other guy and he took it and deleted the chat from my end.

I begged for forgiveness, I had to cry to her before she said Ok.. I couldn't call the guy cause I don't know what to tell him.

So my dear, it was a long story indeed but I'm sharing it with you so you'd ask him the direct question like "did you hear I cheated on you?", or "Did you hear I wished you bad?" People are spreading malicious rumours about other people, so ask him if he heard or he saw anything.

There's this chat going around now where a guy said he saw his GF through CCTV where she was been fondled by another guy, the guy may decide to just shut her out and she wouldn't have a clue as to why.

Also, check yourself... if you ever betrayed his trust in a seemingly contrived way thinking he'd never find out.

At the end of the day, nothing really is hidden under the sun.

Thanks.

Guys are very wicked, they deserve no faithfulness...

Foolish love stories.

Mtchewwwwww.

nuelsam:
do u actually think u made sense? Seriously? Nah,u just one of these envious douchbags with the dumbest thinking faculty.

Why is what the guy did paining you so much?
Carrying panadol on top another man's headache.

vivalavida:
The stupid person here is that your friend that had the guts to say to u that he has been sleeping with Ur babe.
I had one stupid friend like that. Everyone from my clique knew I had eyes on one of the prettiest girls in the department. This my friend knew too. The same Dumbo had the guts to come to my hostel to escort him that he wants to chyke the same babe too. That earned him serious dressing down amongst my guys. And I know he is capable of sending such a message like that Ur dumb friend did

Why call such a person your friend in the first place?

fieryy:
Why call such a person your friend in the first place?

He is still a friend. Most of my guys don't relate with him today. That's many years after university. But once in a while I check up on him. The world is a small place. U never can tell the day I might need him to do something for me.

I remember when I got my ex back, then I woke up from the nightmare.

midnighter:
So why the bloodclaat did she take you back after you couldnt even confront her yourself...

What kind of human being is this for goodness sake..something that could have been busted and thrashed out from the beginning

So if you dont have a sister what will happen

I remember Naira Marley "inside life"

Sincere l am his girl friend, l will not take him back. I don't know why some people find communication as big problem. They can keep malice for months. Nawa oo "inside life, awokan Jews, aeon kan jeya".
Something they can trash within five minutes, you wasted your time, your emotion . Only God knows how many years you kept to yourself. Some have killed/poison there wife because of unverifiably gossip.
l don't know the kind of husband some people will be.

Great

This piece made my day, and 4 that ur friend he is morethan a demon. something is now telling me that my ex was lied to about me, she all of a sudden told me she is tired nd wants a break up even upon given up her pride(virginity) nd 4 over 3months she has seized calling

okewumi:
I remember Naira Marley "inside life"

Sincere l am his girl friend, l will not take him back. I don't know why some people find communication as big problem. They can keep malice for months. Nawa oo "inside life, awokan Jews, aeon kan jeya".
Something they can trash within five minutes, you wasted your time, your emotion . Only God knows how many years you kept to yourself. Some have killed/poison there wife because of unverifiably gossip.
l don't know the kind of husband some people will be.

No be small inside life...this one na nuclear life sef

I just can't understand some people. He couldn't even call her and shout "Babe what's this"..he just believed whatever they told him and left his sister to do the dirty work

If I were that girl I would be so offended. No lateral thinking or anything, just jumping to conclusions for over 6 months and if not for his sister he would have just traveled out and left her like that

Ote

Richy150:
Nah everybody go be like you? Sex addict

computergeek:
Ladies, no matter how much you love and trust a man, do not send him your nudes. Never do it. It will always find one way or the other to backfire.

Except the guy has a matured understanding....My girl sent me her nude and i deleted it within 48hrs

vivalavida:
He is still a friend. Most of my guys don't relate with him today. That's many years after university. But once in a while I check up on him. The world is a small place. U never can tell the day I might need him to do something for me.

Lol, need him to do something ?

To f*ck your girl

fieryy:
Lol, need him to do something ?

To f*ck your girl

Lol

Check your dm jare

Funny baby

Grumpyy:
Lol, brother. Imagine me the victim now. I had to morp back into a human being again after losing all trust I have for people. It was quite eventful for me

5years without having sex? Did u request for sex and she declined or u both just dnt wanna?