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Hi people,,

Its really funny how people change as they grow older....

Am a young lady of 22 yrs and I could remember I was that shy, quiet and introverted girl....I was always shy with everything and I hardly talk to people especially strangers....I keep most things to myself..I can't even walk among too much people or I feel like am being stared at and so many more.

Sometimes I'm being laughed at for unable to speak among people when am neither deaf nor dumb,,,its just like I care about what everyone would say or think when I decide to talk...
People even get away with bullying, insulting and embarrassing me...

But fast forward to 2 years later,, I don't know how it happened,, I started standing up for myself and talk a lot more....so many things I was shy about became nothing to me...
I feel like I could speak to anyone without caring about their opinion.. It really feels good when u can speak ur mind to other people...and when u can talk among people without the fear of what they think....

I changed a lot and everyone noticed...now I draw a lot of attention to myself sometimes...
I realized being introvert or extrovert doesn't mean u have to hold urself back to some certain things...
I still have some part of being introvert in me but not like before...but I guess I just discovered am an extrovert thinking I was introverted...who knows.

So people, do you think this is normal
Has anyone ever experienced this before?
Am I an extrovert from the start thinking am introvert?

Queenliz557:
Hi people,,

Its really funny how people change as they grow older....

Am a young lady of 22 yrs and I could remember I was that shy, quiet and introverted girl....I was always shy with everything and I hardly talk to people especially strangers....I keep most things to myself..I can't even walk among too much people or I feel like am being stared at and so many more.

Sometimes I'm being laughed at for unable to speak among people when am neither deaf nor dumb,,,its just like I care about what everyone would say or think when I decide to talk...
People even get away with bullying, insulting and embarrassing me...

But fast forward to 2 years later,, I don't know how it happened,, I started standing up for myself and talk a lot more....so many things I was shy about became nothing to me...
I feel like I could speak to anyone without caring about their opinion.. It really feels good when u can speak ur mind to other people...and when u can talk among people without the fear of what they think....

I changed a lot and everyone noticed...now I draw a lot of attention to myself sometimes...
I realized being introvert or extrovert doesn't mean u have to hold urself back to some certain things...
I still have some part of being introvert in me but not like before...but I guess I just discovered am an extrovert thinking I was introverted...who knows.

So people, do you think this is normal
Has anyone ever experienced this before?
Am I an extrovert from the start thinking am introvert?

Dear sister, many things we think we know about ourselves are simply a lack of opportunities or wrong environment.

That's all.

U simply changed from Virgin to non virgin.

Thank the guy

its over buddy boyo