Any advices from the pros?

Lol..... Hi... can I talk?.....only prostitutes would listen to hear your offer.

Easiest way to start a conversation is asking for direction.... is up to you to build on that... what you say can open the door... or shut it in your face.

Miss...excuse me please.... can you direct me to a good eatery around here? (depends on your location). Chances are good she would immediately take in with hunger and tell you the direction would be confusing.... that it is better if she goes with you. And just like that..... she is willing to engage you in conversation.... while on the way....and..... until the feast is over and plate licked. Mission accomplished.

Originalsly:
Lol..... Hi... can I talk?.....only prostitutes would listen to hear your offer.

Easiest way to start a conversation is asking for direction.... is up to you to build on that... what you say can open the door... or shut it in your face.

Miss...excuse me please.... can you direct me to a good eatery around here? (depends on your location). Chances are good she would immediately take in with hunger and tell you the direction would be confusing.... that it is better if she goes with you. And just like that..... she is willing to engage you in conversation.... while on the way....and..... until the feast is over and plate licked. Mission accomplished.

Wrong move!
So basically, he has to spend on meals for every girl he meets for the first time?

Originalsly:
Lol..... Hi... can I talk?.....only prostitutes would listen to hear your offer.

Easiest way to start a conversation is asking for direction.... is up to you to build on that... what you say can open the door... or shut it in your face.

Miss...excuse me please.... can you direct me to a good eatery around here? (depends on your location). Chances are good she would immediately take in with hunger and tell you the direction would be confusing.... that it is better if she goes with you. And just like that..... she is willing to engage you in conversation.... while on the way....and..... until the feast is over and plate licked. Mission accomplished.

Great tip bro, you sound like an expert on this

Kingsteve:


Wrong move!
So basically, he has to spend on meals for every girl he meets for the first time?

I was thinking the same thing, but it's not too bad.
Do you have any ideas?

JayCynic:


I was thinking the same thing, but it's not too bad.
Do you have any ideas?

Unfortunately, there's no magic formula for this.
Even the most seasoned playas still get rejected every now and then.

Try the humility approach.
Hello goodmorning/afternoon /evening.
This definitely must get her attention.
Whatever you say from there is really upto you.
Be creative!

The main thing is that you got her attention in the first place.
I hope this helps a bit.

And please, drop the 'excuse me' line.
It's been done to death!

Good luck!

JayCynic:
I need some advice from the pros in the section, I'm a reserved guy(not shy though) and I've been having difficulty trying to move to girls, startup convos on the go. It's always very difficult especially in Akwa Ibom State where Uyo girls are always carrying up their noses in the air and acting irritated for no reason. I've had cases where I grew the balls and said "Hi excuse me, can I talk for a second?" And they just walk past, it's crazy. I hate SM relationships as they are phony and fake. I'd really appreciate y'all advices even from the ladies (if any) and share your own methods and experiences

make friends with a lady first then start from there

What exactly are you looking for? Knacks or relationship?

Originalsly:
Lol..... Hi... can I talk?.....only prostitutes would listen to hear your offer.

Easiest way to start a conversation is asking for direction.... is up to you to build on that... what you say can open the door... or shut it in your face.

[/b]Miss...excuse me please.... can you direct me to a good eatery around here? (depends on your location). Chances are good she would immediately take in with hunger and tell you the direction would be confusing....[b] that it is better if she goes with you. And just like that..... she is willing to engage you in conversation.... while on the way....and..... until the feast is over and plate licked. Mission accomplished.

Lad be correct guy


I see this catching move than 75%

Our gals are always hungry

Look, let's get this straight. There is no single sure-fire formula when it comes to dating. Why? Because people are different and diverse. What is important is make a polite approach and see where it lead to. Its either she accept or decline.

However your personality you will definitely meet your miss right soner or later so my guy chill.

me- hafa babe, i want to be eating your work , mafoh , owo wa

babe- what did you just say

me- i say make a wish, who knows, you just might get it..

babe- really

me-

babe- ok, i want an iphone 11

me- DONE...

babe- i love you baby

me- i know baby...

Approaching is the easiest science in the world.

When you spot a lady of your spec, Put a smile on your face. Walk straight to her. Mention your name
(When she sees the smile on your face, or see that you are in a good mood, she must reply by mentioning her own name too)

When she tells you her name, don't stop smiling and make sure your energy and vibes are not on the lower level. By your energy and vibes, I mean your body movements, such as smiles, pitch of your voice, hand gestures, head control, eyes movement etc

After replying you with her name, then compliment her name. Examples, oh sweet name, wow, nice name, that sounds like a the name of an angel, etc. She must reply by saying thank you. NB. While complimenting a lady who you are meeting for the first time, avoid any words that suggest sex.

At this stage don't stop smiling. Tell her it's a pleasure for you to meet her. Don't tell her she looks beautiful or sexy, hundreds of guys have told her that before and the moment you tell her that, she intuitively groups you with those guys who had told her the same thing and ended up disappointed with them.

She must reply by saying thank you or you are welcome. Don't stop smiling. At this point she is likely to be returning your smiles, but if she doesn't, don't worry, keep shooting your shots.

Say something cool about her look e.g her hair style, clothes, jewelry or something. But don't make comments relating sexy body, hot body, boobs, or butt.

She must smile again and say thank you.

After this tell her a little bit about yourself and request her to do the same. She is likely to tell you something about her.

Tell her that you like the way she talks and will like to go grab some lunch together with her sometime so as to know her better.

She is likely to agree to that.

Then ask her for her number. She will give you. But if she is hesitant, stretch your phone to her to type it herself.

Do it this way

You: seems I know you from somewhere *smiling*
Once she smiles back and responds then you start from there

lefulefu:
make friends with a lady first then start from there

What if that time of making friend with her and another sharp guy from no where just ask her out directly without bitten around the bush and she accept.... What will my fate be?

Conclusion - no time to waste time, just master your skills and go straight to the point...... Tell her how u feel.

Originalsly:
Lol..... Hi... can I talk?.....only prostitutes would listen to hear your offer.

Easiest way to start a conversation is asking for direction.... is up to you to build on that... what you say can open the door... or shut it in your face.

Miss...excuse me please.... can you direct me to a good eatery around here? (depends on your location). Chances are good she would immediately take in with hunger and tell you the direction would be confusing.... that it is better if she goes with you. And just like that..... she is willing to engage you in conversation.... while on the way....and..... until the feast is over and plate licked. Mission accomplished.

what of if the babe no be the hungry greedy type ..this strategy go just be dead on arrival.it only works on the hungry ones

EMEKUSBOY9:


What if that time of making friend with her and another sharp guy from no where just ask her out directly without bitten around the bush and she accept.... What will my fate be?

Conclusion - no time to waste time, just master your skills and go straight to the point...... Tell her how u feel.

ok is it to chop kpukus or to start a relationship? if na to chop kpekus instanta na for u to go solicit for ashawo or u just look for a cheap hungry girl around the neighbourhood and use food to famz her like the gentleman above suggested and then u get ur way and again if ur mission na to chop kpekus why will u be worried she is giving a share to another guy .be patient and take ur share when its ur turn .

There's no particular way of approaching ladies
But always make sure you're unique, don't always use the regular lines guys make use of.

For me, I'm a reserved person and I can never see a girl on the road and try to hi or talk to her, unless when I know that I might not see her again.
So I take my time and strike, I'm not boasting, I have never lost a girl I tried to woo

There are things that get female attention, especially when it's coming from a guy
For instance, I could see a lady and politely tell her that she should not be offended, but that I'm not sure she's wearing the right bra size, automatically, you will have her attention, discuss abit about that and go to your main aim.

You can also admire her eyebrows, like asking who drew it and all that! You will have her attention immediately.

Never admire her beauty! Don't ever do that atleast for the first time of meeting her

Finally, the most surest way of getting ladies attention is by being successful, have a job or career, business etc and be good at it
Take good care of yourself and watch wonders happen... Stay blessed

cerpvad:
Approaching is the easiest science in the world.

When you spot a lady of your spec, Put a smile on your face. Walk straight to her. Mention your name
(When she sees the smile on your face, or see that you are in a good mood, she must reply by mentioning her own name too)

When she tells you her name, don't stop smiling and make sure your energy and vibes are not on the lower level. By your energy and vibes, I mean your body movements, such as smiles, pitch of your voice, hand gestures, head control, eyes movement etc

After replying you with her name, then compliment her name. Examples, oh sweet name, wow, nice name, that sounds like a the name of an angel, etc. She must reply by saying thank you. NB. While complimenting a lady who you are meeting for the first time, avoid any words that suggest sex.

At this stage don't stop smiling. Tell her it's a pleasure for you to meet her. Don't tell her she looks beautiful or sexy, hundreds of guys have told her that before and the moment you tell her that, she intuitively groups you with those guys who had told her the same thing and ended up disappointed with them.

She must reply by saying thank you or you are welcome. Don't stop smiling. At this point she is likely to be returning your smiles, but if she doesn't, don't worry, keep shooting your shots.

Say something cool about her look e.g her hair style, clothes, jewelry or something. But don't make comments relating sexy body, hot body, boobs, or butt.

She must smile again and say thank you.

After this tell her a little bit about yourself and request her to do the same. She is likely to tell you something about her.

Tell her that you like the way she talks and will like to go grab some lunch together with her sometime so as to know her better.

She is likely to agree to that.

Then ask her for her number. She will give you. But if she is hesitant, stretch your phone to her to type it herself.

Don't be offended but I find this style a bit corny, I mean that's what everyone does and that's what is done in most Nigerian movies. I can't get myself to complement a girl's name, its awkward(like a name is simply a name) and I think it also sounds flirty when you compliment every move. But Thanks anyways

themaestro08:
Look, let's get this straight. There is no single sure-fire formula when it comes to dating. Why? Because people are different and diverse. What is important is make a polite approach and see where it lead to. Its either she accept or decline.

However your personality you will definitely meet your miss right soner or later so my guy chill.

it's all good bro. thanks for the words

Lemme jus add, all these tips they're givin u will only work if you make you look smart and neat. Harm yourself with humour, ladies love funny conversations.
When the conversation is going well and she's responding positively you can be blunt about ur motive. Like, "I'm surprised I'm saying this but you'll such an interesting and intelligent person to talk to."
Say it even if you know she is dumb.
I don't mind having such person a friend.
I lot really depend on the type of lady you're interested in.

dave4rella:

There's no particular way of approaching ladies
But always make sure you're unique, don't always use the regular lines guys make use of.

For me, I'm a reserved person and I can never see a girl on the road and try to hi or talk to her, unless when I know that I might not see her again.
So I take my time and strike, I'm not boasting, I have never lost a girl I tried to woo

There are things that get female attention, especially when it's coming from a guy
For instance, I could see a lady and politely tell her that she should not be offended, but that I'm not sure she's wearing the right bra size, automatically, you will have her attention, discuss abit about that and go to your main aim.

You can also admire her eyebrows, like asking who drew it and all that! You will have her attention immediately.

Never admire her beauty! Don't ever do that atleast for the first time of meeting her

Finally, the most surest way of getting ladies attention is by being successful, have a job or career, business etc and be good at it
Take good care of yourself and watch wonders happen... Stay blessed

Bra size? That's way too forward bro

dave4rella:

There's no particular way of approaching ladies
But always make sure you're unique, don't always use the regular lines guys make use of.

For me, I'm a reserved person and I can never see a girl on the road and try to hi or talk to her, unless when I know that I might not see her again.
So I take my time and strike, I'm not boasting, I have never lost a girl I tried to woo

There are things that get female attention, especially when it's coming from a guy
For instance, I could see a lady and politely tell her that she should not be offended, but that I'm not sure she's wearing the right bra size, automatically, you will have her attention, discuss abit about that and go to your main aim.

You can also admire her eyebrows, like asking who drew it and all that! You will have her attention immediately.

Never admire her beauty! Don't ever do that atleast for the first time of meeting her

Finally, the most surest way of getting ladies attention is by being successful, have a job or career, business etc and be good at it
Take good care of yourself and watch wonders happen... Stay blessed

Bra size? That's way too forward bro but I feel you on the being successful bit, that's the surest way

JayCynic:


Bra size? That's way too forward bro

Bra size? That's way too forward bro but I feel you on the being successful bit, that's the surest way

Just an instance
Especially with a babe you have seen twice or more. The aim is to get her attention first

Lol @ bra size.
Just when I thought I've heard it all...

JayCynic:


Don't be offended but I find this style a bit corny, I mean that's what everyone does and that's what is done in most Nigerian movies. I can't get myself to complement a girl's name, its awkward(like a name is simply a name) and I think it also sounds flirty when you compliment every move. But Thanks anyways

My best advice to you is, make out time go read ubunja miseducations especially his work on the. Chosen it answer your question. Big boys don't woe random girls they go for girls who give them bold green light, again don't appear desperate before them

Whether it's her name or something, the rule is that never approach a girl without compliments. Ladies find it rude for a guy to attempt to woo them without compliments. But another rule is that don't compliment her too much. This makes you appear cheap and tensive.

I have another pattern I used to work with while wooing ladies back in the days. I will come back to drop it for you guys

JayCynic:


Don't be offended but I find this style a bit corny, I mean that's what everyone does and that's what is done in most Nigerian movies. I can't get myself to complement a girl's name, its awkward(like a name is simply a name) and I think it also sounds flirty when you compliment every move. But Thanks anyways

One thing I don't agree to on ubunja is that I can't wait for a lady to give me green light before I shoot my shots. Without green light, I approach any girl of my spec and make her choose me through certain attraction techniques I have learnt. I will drop it off here for you guys soon

Goldensword:


My best advice to you is, make out time go read ubunja miseducations especially his work on the. Chosen it answer your question. Big boys don't woe random girls they go for girls who give them bold green light, again don't appear desperate before them

Bra size ke!. Don't try this with our own Naija girls. She may misunderstand you are trolling her. But you can try that with white ladies and achieve your goals

JayCynic:


Bra size? That's way too forward bro

Bra size? That's way too forward bro but I feel you on the being successful bit, that's the surest way

cerpvad:
One thing I don't agree to on ubunja is that I can't wait for a lady to give me green light before I shoot my shots. Without green light, I approach any girl of my spec and make her choose me through certain attraction techniques I have learnt. I will drop it off here for you guys soon

If your a sharp guy, there won't be a day that will go by without you meeting a girl who admire you and wish to be your girlfriend, you just have to be on alert and observant on the signs the subconsciously exhibit when around you.

lefulefu:
ok is it to chop kpukus or to start a relationship? if na to chop kpekus instanta na for u to go solicit for ashawo or u just look for a cheap hungry girl around the neighbourhood and use food to famz her like the gentleman above suggested and then u get ur way and again if ur mission na to chop kpekus why will u be worried she is giving a share to another guy .be patient and take ur share when its ur turn .

You Too Sabi The Way.

cerpvad:
One thing I don't agree to on ubunja is that I can't wait for a lady to give me green light before I shoot my shots. Without green light, I approach any girl of my spec and make her choose me through certain attraction techniques I have learnt. I will drop it off here for you guys soon

and when that girl meets a guy OF HER OWN SPEC what then?
Remember she's your dream girl but you're not her dream guy. She's your type but are your her type?

Alhough I don't understand what you mean by 'sharp guy' but let me assume you mean a confident, attractive, and sensitive guy . Yes I agree with you that these types of guys are ladies magnets. But Being confident, attractive or sensitive to ladies greenlights alone doesn't finish the job. You have have the job of creating the required attractions to win her.

Goldensword:


If your a sharp guy, there won't be a day that will go by without you meeting a girl who admire you and wish to be your girlfriend, you just have to be on alert and observant on the signs the subconsciously exhibit when around you.