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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 5:07pm On Dec 06, 2019
mrcalcufast:
hey bro, don't let any sissy put undue pressure on you,being 27 is not a death sentence.
I'm beginning to get choked with the comments of some pussy niggas here,so because I don't want to be a loser,I should start forcing myself on bitches?.Here is my mentality,I believe if I want you for a serious relationship,you should give me some nice attitude that will assure me that I'm being wanted by you as well, relationship is between two parties.Most naija girls feel they are doing you a favor by accepting to get into a relationship with you,hence the reason most of them play hard to get,you think if the likes of Dangote, Jeff Bezos,Bill Gates had all wasted their youthfulness chasing bitches who were playing hard to get, you think they would be where they currently are?most of the bitches got nothing to offer,I see them as distractions,there are some few exceptions though,but they're so rare.
My nigga,focus on your hustle, don't let any Sissy brainwash you,if they're ok being treated as trash because they want to appear nice and responsible, it's their problem, don't start worshipping in their temple.
We're lions,we don't settle for less!!

he is not going to be any dangote, jeff bezos or bill gates or do you thinks these guys didnt enjoy their youths when young

as a man, you have to balance everything in life, know when to have fun and also know when to work

not all hustle lead to riches, if all huustle lead to riches, every dick and harry would be rich by this time, but in this world only few will be rich and many average,below average and poor, lets add that you live in Nigeria also, where your life expectancy is just 56

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Oriyomin25(m): 5:07pm On Dec 06, 2019
TheDevil666:
Ur just like me! It's called self respect. Take it or leave it! cheesy. The only difference is that when I delete the numbers, I never bother my self to get it back! On 2 the next!
But if it was a girl that complained about this attitude u would be the first person to remind her of menopause abi Shiloh. Bro you have a problem and you should work on yourself, i hope you are okay financially because the handsomeness that you think is giving you edge now will never be enough by the time you plan to settle down. Just Becareful With Who You Bleep.

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by mrcalcufast: 5:08pm On Dec 06, 2019
lefulefu:
once u delete a girl"s number u should forget about her existence forever.u just falling ur hand.why will a girl u ignored in the past and u now calling will respond to u.
this is for you!

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 5:09pm On Dec 06, 2019
mrcalcufast:
this is for you!
u be real paddy grin

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by mrcalcufast: 5:18pm On Dec 06, 2019
lilwetdick:


he is not going to be any dangote, jeff bezos or bill gates or do you thinks these guys didnt enjoy their youths when young

as a man, you have to balance everything in life, know when to have fun and also know when to work

not all hustle lead to riches, if all huustle lead to riches, every dick and harry would be rich by this time, but in this world only few will be rich and many average,below average and poor, lets add that you live in Nigeria also, where your life expectancy is just 56

the fact that not everyone is going to become dangote doesn't mean you should start sacrificing your time for people who don't give a bleep about you,we all know what we want in life,I'm not the 'what will be will always be'type of nigga, I'm intentional and deliberate about my life,hence I don't rescind to fate,Dangote isn't an alien,I can be bigger than him,so any bitch that can't jump over a gutter for me shouldn't expect me to jump over an ocean!

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by davillian(m): 5:23pm On Dec 06, 2019
Its only normal for a woman to know you a little and gradually develop feelings for you..
All this things takes time..

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 5:26pm On Dec 06, 2019
mrcalcufast:
the fact that not everyone is going to become dangote doesn't mean you should start sacrificing your time for people who don't give a bleep about you,we all know what we want in life,I'm not the 'what will be will always be'type of nigga, I'm intentional and deliberate about my life,hence I don't rescind to fate,Dangote isn't an alien,I can be bigger than him,so any bitch that can't jump over a gutter for me shouldn't expect me to jump over an ocean!

nobody rescind to faith but the reality that you cant even be or more than dangote is the one that can kill a man, check all the billionaires in Nigeria and see where they all get their money from, most from rent seeking and oil business, you think you can pull those games even if you work all your lives, there are plenty who are even hardworking than dangote and all still poor as Bleep.

as i written, balance is very important in life, you dont wanna miss that experience...just because a woman cant jump over a gutter for you doesnt mean you cant sleep with a woman and have fun and g your way.

the problem with your guys is that you always invest your body and soul into something you know does not have a future, when you get burnt, you guys come here start acting hard-core

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 5:40pm On Dec 06, 2019
Oriyomin25:
But if it was a girl that complained about this attitude u would be the first person to remind her of menopause abi Shiloh. Bro you have a problem and you should work on yourself, i hope you are okay financially because the handsomeness that you think is giving you edge now will never be enough by the time you plan to settle down. Just Becareful With Who You Bleep.
u don't know shït about me! And im not your bro. Fvuk off!

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by mrcalcufast: 5:42pm On Dec 06, 2019
lilwetdick:


nobody rescind to faith but the reality that you cant even be or more than dangote is the one that can kill a man, check all the billionaires in Nigeria and see where they all get their money from, most from rent seeking and oil business, you think you can pull those games even if you work all your lives, there are plenty who are even hardworking than dangote and all still poor as Bleep.

as i written, balance is very important in life, you dont wanna miss that experience...just because a woman cant jump over a gutter for you doesnt mean you cant sleep with a woman and have fun and g your way.

the problem with your guys is that you always invest your body and soul into something you know does not have a future, when you get burnt, you guys come here start acting hard-core

I don't think I ever mentioned in any of my posts that I'm celibate,so stop going off point homie.i still bang pussies whenever I want with no emotions attached, what I've been trying to point out is that niggas should stop acting as if ladies are doing them a favor by accepting to be in a relationship with them,the feelings have got to be mutual,if I want you,you should want me too,and if you don't want me,I ain't forcing you,I bounce straight up!
PS; I'm not forming hardcore, I've always been,but I've done some stupid stuffs because I want to dig bitches,not anymore! I've never been heartbroken, I've always been dealing with people with my head, both niggas and bitches,so once you start coming up with shit,I cut off the ties!

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by mrcalcufast: 5:47pm On Dec 06, 2019
TheDevil666:
u don't know shït about me! And im not your bro. Fvuk off!

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 5:51pm On Dec 06, 2019
mrcalcufast:
I don't think I ever mentioned in any of my posts that I'm celibate,so stop going off point homie.i still bang pussies whenever I want with no emotions attached, what I've been trying to point out is that niggas should stop acting as if ladies are doing them a favor by accepting to be in a relationship with them,the feelings have got to be mutual,if I want you,you should want me too,and if you don't want me,I ain't forcing you,I bounce straight up!
PS; I'm not forming hardcore, I've always been,but I've done some stupid stuffs because I want to dig bitches,not anymore! I've never been heartbroken, I've always been dealing with people with my head, both niggas and bitches,so once you start coming up with shit,I cut off the ties!

and where did i write yoou are celibate

anywaay, i have the feeling that you are just posing,somewhere close to an impostor especially with the usage of niggas and bitches and also with the "i have never been heaartbroken before statement"

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by YoungBlackRico(m): 5:54pm On Dec 06, 2019
Baba whatever you choose to call, it your problem and yours alone, deal with it.
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by mrcalcufast: 5:57pm On Dec 06, 2019
lilwetdick:


and where did i write yoou are celibate

anywaay, i have the feeling that you are just posing,somewhere close to an impostor especially with the usage of niggas and bitches and also with the "i have never been heaartbroken before statement"
I'm saying things the way they are,I don't care about you or anyone's validation, not everyone is a Sissy!
It's high time I bounced!stay blessed.

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by tydi(m): 6:13pm On Dec 06, 2019
Op, you don't have any problem. I've always been like you,and I will always keep being myself. don't ever change for anything. That actually is the lifestyle you need not just to succeed with women but also in achieving anything you need in life.. Some takes BOLDNESS off as RUDENESS..

Peace

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by connectingsoft1: 6:43pm On Dec 06, 2019
Same here bro, I don’t like stress at all

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Renforce: 7:15pm On Dec 06, 2019
TheDevil666:
Ur just like me! It's called self respect. Take it or leave it! cheesy. The only difference is that when I delete the numbers, I never bother my self to get it back! On 2 the next!

Never settle for less bro

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Manadan0000(m): 7:19pm On Dec 06, 2019
[quote author=Beeron post=84683871] Never call it quit or break up with a girl you desire due to unfavourable situationship. Ghosting is allowed but NEVER tell her you breaking up!......there is every chance of you still hitting that p ussy as long as you haven't officially declared a break up. CLICK on my username to view the latest CHEAP Benz on sale.[/quote
Your head get plenty engine oil.

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by donMIG(m): 7:41pm On Dec 06, 2019
U know what u bring to the table that's y man

U r so much like me but the only difference is I keep female friends, I don't feel the urge to just get laid wen I'm friends wit a girl, I don't delete number n go looking for it later n I don't threaten babes I will delete their numbers because the refuse me sex

Wat u need ro do is focus on makin money not this beetches
I delete numbers every 2wks
I haven't made it in life n I'm like this
Lord have mercy! grin
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by dannybrasky(m): 8:02pm On Dec 06, 2019
mrcalcufast:
I found myself in the middle of Mediterranean Sea(this bi*ch had told me before now that she's had sex just once),as if that wasn't enough, after about five thrust,the odour of a rotten sardine filled the room,I just paused,smiled,and told her I needed to get something

Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by SkinnyNigga: 8:06pm On Dec 06, 2019
lilwetdick:


it is neither pride, anger or intolerance but rather the mentality of losers, another stuff is that you have low self esteem and also an introvert, you look like a guy that can beat up a girl for saying NO

you delete a girl number then after regrets and start looking for ways to get her number, even the girl that gives you sex, even though you have deleted her number, you know in your mind that you are looking for ways to get the number back.

as i have written before, you are just run by emotions, you do not see the big picture, you are very impulsive, you do not think before you act.
he is miserably insecure

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by SaintHilary(m): 8:07pm On Dec 06, 2019
Well most of the guys on this thread are chronic masturbators with their alternate monikers in that "How to quit masturbation addiction thread"
It's nairaland sha..You can be Otedola if u want



Ciao

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Hisduchess(f): 8:32pm On Dec 06, 2019
mrcalcufast:
wow!I thought I was the only one with this sort of attitude!
Four or five years ago,I saw it as an achievement if I ever got to bang any babe,even most niggaz in my hood saw it as if they had mined gold each time they got to hit a pussy,I could go any length to make sure I bang any lady.I am not a church goer,but there was a time I had a deeper life babe in my hood who got mad ass,and killer curves, almost everynig*a wanted to smash her in my hood, each time she was approached,she would invite the person to any ongoing program in her church,this attitude pissed lots of niggas off in my hood,they had to start avoiding her like a plague, after I learnt about her theatrics,I went to her,as usual,she invited me to an ongoing program at her church,I had to oblige(NB: prior to the day I approached this bitch,nigga hasn't been in church in over 8years grin).
That was how I started attending this lady's church,she would call me each time she wanted to leave for church,and we would meet at the junction,she even told me to avoid sitting with my niggas if i really wanted her,I could no longer sit with niggaz in the hood in the open due to the fear of this my deeper life's holy Mary cutting off our newly established relationship.
This sh*t continued for over 5months,I could no longer flex with niggaz at our usual spots or any open place, except if we got to flex in a secluded spot.The day I finally got to smash this babe, before going in,I had thought I was going to swim in a shallow pool,omor,I found myself in the middle of Mediterranean Sea(this bi*ch had told me before now that she's had sex just once),as if that wasn't enough, after about five thrust,the odour of a rotten sardine filled the room,I just paused,smiled,and told her I needed to get something,I went outside and took some herbal concortions,my JT was already rock solid,I got inside and banged this biatch like I was auditioning for a role in the porn industry,her pussy went dry,I kept pounding hard,each time I felt the urge to come,I would remember the numerous stuffs this biatch denied me with my niggas,the cum would cease immediately.To cut the long story short,that was the last time I got to bang this biatch,even if she still wanted us to bang after then,the Sunday of the same week I had banged her,she called to ask if I was ready for church,I rained some amadioha invoked curses on her,she had to end the call,that was the last time the bitch called.
These days,if I walked up to any biatch and request for her number,and she attempts to give the number,I would simply tell her not to drop the number if she knew she would act funny if I call her,the serious and matured ones will drop,the immature and unserious ones will hiss and walk away.infact,once we start getting along,but I'm the one who calls and chat you up at all times,I would just cut off the ties.I used to have this same feeling you are having now,but I later got to know that those times I would do anything to get into a lady's pants,I had no self worth,and no value then,now I'm a man of high value and self worth.
In jayz's voice'if you having gurl problems,I feel bad for you son,I got 99problems but a bitch ain't one'.
Don't mind the long epistle bro,this is the best way I feel I could express myself.Ciao!

Be lying shaa, we understand.yall will come to NL forming rubbish.see him mouth like girl problems ain't my problem.biko shift wan side
Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by lilmax(m): 8:41pm On Dec 06, 2019
Can't believe guys like you exist on NL

Keep it up


Delete women who do not worth you

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 8:52pm On Dec 06, 2019
You better don't listen to all these people egging you on. The attitude is childish, plain and simple. You need to grow up and stop throwing tantrums when things don't go your way.
If a girl refuses to date you today, it's does not mean you can't help each other some other way later. One cannot have too many friends in life, the girls don't owe you anything. Again, grow up!

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by praz001(m): 9:06pm On Dec 06, 2019
So alot of guys are this complicated... ......


Self respect kor....... Self attitude ni......



You can t expect some1 to start loving you immediately.....

it's a process. it takes time to build real love... Just reduce your pride and ego and be patient...

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Nobody: 9:11pm On Dec 06, 2019
TheDevil666:
Ur just like me! It's called self respect. Take it or leave it! cheesy. The only difference is that when I delete the numbers, I never bother my self to get it back! On 2 the next!
that is not self-respect. I rather call it kid tantrum. you can't always have your way in life.

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by Lightangel65: 9:11pm On Dec 06, 2019
Manadan0000:
I'm a cool guy, tall, dark skinned and i thank God to some extent am good looking, i can't stand some attitude from girls and i think this has cost me alot of babes, relationships and friendship.
The moment a girl say no to me i delete her number, i can't keep female friends because the moment you visit me i feel the urge to sex and am still managing life so i only hang out once in a while.
This attitude of mine most times leave me bored and lonely that to some extent i start looking for numbers of the ladies i deleted to call them again and apologize. For example if i meet a lady and we get talking and we cool i expect you to call me atleast flash, chat me up and it shouldn't be just the usual hi, yes, ok, k replies. I mean how do some guys keep asking a lady out for months?? I can't seriously especially when a lady feel herself so much and feel i can't do it without her, i just dump amd delete her to clear her doubts
This pride and anger has cost me alot and i don't know how to work on it, a babe am close to who always give me good sex came the other day and refused to allow me touch her, i got so angry when she left and deleted her number, infact sometimes i get so angry i say things to get this girls upset like insultive talks before deleting their number. The other day a lady begged me money i broke up with her because she started avoing me when i said i don't ve and then i deleted her number, is this normal and how do i work on myself to be a bit patient??
Anger, pride, intolerance i think i ve all this..

You need to learn that women are people too not sex objects, you would never find peace until you do.

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by khia: 9:13pm On Dec 06, 2019
Manadan0000:

Ok thanks, i really want to work on myself, how can one work on this or get out of this??
I just clocked 27 and hoping to settle down soonest, like how do you keep up or keep following a woman who does not want you or who gives you attitude for a very long time?

Stop chasing women who aren't into you, stop making sex a do or die issue. Focus on getting yourself together and build up your confidence. Shakara are games for little girls who have time to waste, women who are into you for who you are will surely make themselves known.

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Re: Is this Pride Or Self Respect? This Has Cost Many Guys Their Relationship by CHoccolaTE: 9:15pm On Dec 06, 2019
This thread is filled with extreme introverts and socially inept guys.

Imagine getting angry because one time like that woman no gree give you sex, as if she is your sex slave you bought from one sex slave market. Or deleting her number because she doesn't relate with you the way your narcissistic self expected her to relate.

I pity for una, carry this your mentality into marriage and see how badly your marital life suffers. That's if you people can even sustain a long term relationship that leads to marriage.

Anytime your wife annoys you just delete her number or ghost her, it's the way to go for alpha males, dont ever change, you hear? grin

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