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Hello Nairalanders,
I know you guys will post good, bad,funny and crazy comments when I'm done but its allowed..lol

I met this lady on my way to work sometime in October, she is really beautiful no doubt (full bouquet), so we got talking and exchanged numbers.

We didn't call each other for a while like ( 2 weeks), then on a sunday after church I called her and we got talking, since then it's been marathon of calls, texts, chats to the point MTN called me to thank me for being a good customer cos of the rate I was recharging and doing data bundle (funny right, but its true).

I know it happened to fast, we got dating. After we told each other about ourselves, likes and dislikes, families, relationships, health status etc. Yeah it was going well then boom........ROCK BOTTOM.

She started acting funny and always demanding for space, she wants time to think about herself, about her life, sometimes I message her she doesn't reply, call her and she doesn't call back. Her attitude and countenance changed and she has been kinda rude.

I've always supported her in every way I can:advise, finance, items etc.

I'm having double thoughts of the whole thing now...but the truth is I really love her (for real).

Advise please....... Crazy comments are allowed o.lol

you're suffocating her with ur constant presence and availability. just take some time off. stop calling, don't reply her calls. Just stay away.. for like 2-3weeks..
she will call bk, buh if she doesn't.then,bro.move on. she ain't for you.
whatever u do, don't be a crybaby. don't ever ask why she's backing off or stuff. just give her space. don't call or text. simple.
I rarely advise people here. so, don't waste my advice, bro.

She wants space, give her that space and don't return to her no more. You are not a pawn in her hand. It won't be easy, but do it.

You will find another one.

Hahahahha...thanks alot..I wont waste it.

Hmmm, mtn called you to thank you...nawa o.
Like the FTC said, you should give her space. I think is because you didn't buy her sth like this.
Get yours..

Thanks Omar09

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auduvictor7:
Hello Nairalanders,
I know you guys will post good, bad,funny and crazy comments when I'm done but its allowed..lol

I met this lady on my way to work sometime in October, she is really beautiful no doubt (full bouquet), so we got talking and exchanged numbers.

We didn't call each other for a while like ( 2 weeks), then on a sunday after church I called her and we got talking, since then it's been marathon of calls, texts, chats to the point MTN called me to thank me for being a good customer cos of the rate I was recharging and doing data bundle (funny right, but its true).

I know it happened to fast, we got dating. After we told each other about ourselves, likes and dislikes, families, relationships, health status etc. Yeah it was going well then boom........ROCK BOTTOM.

She started acting funny and always demanding for space, she wants time to think about herself, about her life, sometimes I message her she doesn't reply, call her and she doesn't call back. Her attitude and countenance changed and she has been kinda rude.

I've always supported her in every way I can:advise, finance, items etc.

I'm having double thoughts of the whole thing now...but the truth is I really love her (for real).

Advise please....... Crazy comments are allowed o.lol

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She needs space. It doesn't necessarily have to be about you. Possibly something else is affecting her that she needs time to deal with or she might just be going through a phase of depression (believe it or not mental health issues doesn't affect white teens alone, Africans don't just take it seriously).

This is the reason why sometimes you will see pretty girls still being single . Because their hot and cold behaviour can confuse an entire village.

Just give her space. Reduce the calls but let her know you are still there for her.

912:
She needs space. It doesn't necessarily have to be about you. Possibly something else is affecting her that she needs time to deal with or she might just be going through a phase of depression (believe it or not mental health issues doesn't affect white teens alone, Africans don't just take it seriously).

This is the reason why sometimes you will see pretty girls still being single . Because their hot and cold behaviour can confuse an entire village.

Just give her space. Reduce the calls but let her know you are still there for her.

Thanks alot 912..really appreciate

If she wants space give her
Bet she's getting bored with u

My friend will you give her space

Na only you one dey

Edyice:
My friend will you give her space

Na only you one dey

Lol..calm down na

blesskewe:
If she wants space give her
Bet she's getting bored with u

Thanks alot...

auduvictor7:
Lol..calm down na

Bros I no like am ooh

Men dey queue Na

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