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Defenderalert:
Stop obsessing over how to mess up the lives of our youth with your crap MiseduGAY. As you can see you are just wasting your time.

Go and push wheelbarrowssincs you are jobless because that cougar you are wishing for will never come. Its time to retire from gigoloism. Hahahaha Too many young agile men available. No one wants to be cougar to droopy face. Lol

Omar09:
Oh my God, can you quit already? WTF is wrong with you?

ubunja:
stop obsessing over me

Defenderalert:
I dont obsess over poo eaters.

ubunja:
stop obsessing over me

Defenderalert:
Stop trying too hard to make our youth fall in the same ditch you flung yourself into. MiseduGAY trash aint working. Go to all your baby mamas and all the women who you have hurt with your wickedness& ask them to pay you back.

Even at that things wont get any better for you though. Thats for sure.

ubunja:
stop obsessing over me

Defenderalert:
You sleep eat and live on Nairaland despite advanced age and lack of achievement
Seriously SMH.

ubunja:
How To Choose A Girl.


BUILDING ON SAND.
If you see a girl that you like and you make up your mind to approach her for a relationship because she's exactly what you want in a woman; you've already lost the game before the game even started.

Going up to her, telling her how beautiful she is and how you'd be honored if she accepted you. Its the epitome of weakness.

That's not how you get and keep a girl.

Already you're chasing. Already she's the Prize. Already she has more power than you and should you date, the power difference will only increase.

BUILDING ON A ROCK.
The only way you start at the top with women, having all the advantage, holding all the cards, from the word go, is to do things the opposite way. The way that appears wrong but is actually the right way: instead of searching for a woman who fits your ideal, You should be a man who fits the woman's ideal. You should be what a woman wants. it must be about fulfilling the woman's expectation not yours. Desire must flow from the girl to you. It must not flow from you to the girl. Attraction must start in the heart of the female, not in your heart.

That's the secret to happiness. That's how you build a relationship on a foundation of rock: You make sure the woman loves you more than you love her. You must be the guy she feels she "can't live without". But She must not be the girl you feel you "cant live without". Be her fantasy don't Iet her be your fantasy. Let her chase the fantasy, but keep your feet firmly in reality.

That female who's "everything you ever dreamed of in a woman", that chick who's the "girl of your dreams", that one must be dealt with only on a lust level. As a short term fantasy. A pump and dump. Dick her, don't Heart her. Ejaculate and evacuate. Don't invest any emotion in her. No matter how beautiful. No matter how delicious.

You can not afford to love the girl that you want. You dare not chase the fantasy. Loving the girl your heart chooses is a luxury you just can't afford. Not if you value your happiness and peace of mind. If your goal is romantic success, your woman must be more invested in the romance than you. She must be the biggest shareholder in the company. She must be the one in love with you, not the other way round.

POWER DYNAMICS.
For the one who loves less is actually the one with all the power, holding all the cards and having all the advantage. The one who loves more, the one more committed, holds less of everything.

If a house is burning, the one who bought the most property cries the most. And so they're the one most concerned about preventing fires. In other words, the party most invested, most loving and most committed in the romance is the party that begs the most, compromises the most and sacrifices the most to make sure the romance stays on course.

The one who invests less of everything holds all the power for the simple reason that they can walk away any time. Never be involved in something you can't walk away from without losing gallons of tears. Women have been loving the right way since forever. When was the last time you saw a girl cry tears over a boy? Between men and women who commits suicide more over breakups? Of course the men. Because they don't know how to love properly.

HOW GIRLS LOVE.
Guys need to learn to love the way girls love.

When a girl enters into a relationship with you she's happy when you're the one that loves her not the other way around. That way she has more power in the relationship. But if it happens that she's the one that falls harder and deeper for you, she'll do the next best thing to retain some measure of power: she'll HIDE THE INTENSITY of her love for you.

A girl will love you with all her heart and be crazy for you, BUT SHE'LL NEVER SHOW IT. The girl you love never shows you the full height, depth and breadth of her love. She never lets you know the maximum temperature of her passion.

You give her your photo, she goes home and goes crazy OVER THAT PHOTO. She sleeps with it next to her heart, kisses it, even shed tears of love over the image of you. She keeps it safe and spends hours on end just looking at it, lost in adoration.

But when you come in person to see her she puts the photo away and she wears her "game face". The face you see is not going to be the face your photo saw. Gone is the dreamy look of complete total love. Gone are the tears of love. She looks at you like one who never missed you one second. Like you were not even on her mind.

A girl shows you less of the love she has for you as a strategy: TO PROTECT HERSELF. If she was truthful and did show you how deep her love for you is YOU WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE. You'll use it against her. You'll demand crazy things from her. You'll cheat on her. And because her love for you runs deep, she will find it hard to leave and easy to forgive.

So to stop you from having that power over her, she hides the true extent of her love. And because you have no idea how crazy she is for you, you never fully exploit her.

That's why girls have DIARIES. They pour their heart, soul and mind on the pages of that little book. They confess their loves, hopes and fears on it's pages. Not to the BF. And when a girl loses her diary or when another person reads it, she freaks out. Because she feels exposed.

Many a girlfriend that plays it cool before her guy is mad crazy for him in his absence. Why do you think when guys screwup, girls always say, "If only you knew how much I loved you".? It's because the girl knows the love she's been expressing is not the complete love she's been feeling. She loved the guy more than he knew and because he's leaving he'll never really know he's lost a diamond.

Men need to learn that lesson: Be crazy and drunk in love all you want, worship the very ground your woman walks on if you wish, be batshit mad for her - but whatever you choose to do DO NOT DO IT IN FRONT OF HER. When you meet her, put your "game face" on. Your poker face. Conceal your desperation. Let her be forever guessing how deep your love for her runs. Do not worship her to her face. You give her too much power over you, power she'll unfailingly use against you.

LOVE AND HAPPINESS.
The key to love and happiness is to Learn to love the one who loves you. Never try to make someone who doesn't love you love you.

That's how you lose.

That's how you spend 12 months chasing a girl who has her own eye on another dude all the while your stupid self thinking she's playing hard to get. That's how you buy a girl shoes and phones that she'll proceed to use to impress the guy her own eye is on. That's how a girl, during sex, ends up whispering another dude's name to your ear, because it's him her mind is on. Why? Because you're forcing yourself into her heart. But her heart is already occupied by another guy.

Now here is the girl you must occupy yourself with:

That girl who's crazy for you for no reason and blushes everytime she sees you. That girl who always makes excuses to hang around you. That girl always offering to do stuff for you. That girl always eager to be part of whatever you're part of. LOVE THAT ONE. She's CHASING you. You're on her mind and in her heart as we speak. She likes you already.

The women you yourself like, just pump and dump them. They're as useless as chaff. And will be as troublesome as the weeds.

Keep the women you like for LUST, but the women who like you, keep them for LOVE. A girl who likes you is a precious stone that you take and polish and adorn yourself with. But a girl you like is a common stone, one of thousands you lust after day in day out:

You take a corner you see a girl you like. You open your window you see a girl you like pass by. You enter the bus, there, sitting in the front seat, is a girl you like. You go to town you see 20 girls you like. At your school there must be 50 of these girls. At work almost every department has a girl you like. The girl you like is EVERYWHERE and what's everywhere HAS NO VALUE.

But that girl out of hundreds, who looks at you the way you have been looking at hundreds of girls, that one chick who becomes as stupid and as dumb infront of you as you become infront of the girls that you like, that girl is THE ONE for you.

You can never go wrong learning to love that one. Don't trouble yourself with the girl you like. Why? Because already HER HEART IS SET ON ANOTHER MAN. look for the one who likes you, for her heart is set on you. Such a girl's heart you don't have to win, because already its yours.

Girls are choosy as hell. But a girl who has already chosen you is a Penalty Kick you've been given, without the goalkeeper, without even the goal posts. You can't miss even if your eyes were closed.

And NO, a girl who chooses you is not cheap. A girl who's cheap is the girl you fvck for the price of a loaf of bread. That is a cheap girl. You can fvck her for a penny, even for free. But guess what? So will the next guy. And the next. And the next. On the other hand, A girl who chooses you will be easy BUT ONLY FOR YOU. She'll be cheap BUT ONLY FOR YOU. She'll be willing BUT ONLY FOR YOU. You see the difference? It's all about YOU sir.


If a girl doesn't look at you twice, there's no reason to look at her twice. Attraction is zero. The spark failed. A female knows with one look if she'll sleep with you or not. If she doesn't double check you, if her eyes don't linger, if her gaze doesn't keep coming back to you; KEEP IT MOVING. Forget her.

BUT REAL MEN DO THE CHASING??
When females chase you does it make you less manly? Less Alpha?

It does not. Don't you get jealous when women throw their panties and bras at celebs during concerts? I know you do. Do you want a girl to throw you her panties to show you she wants you? Yes? But then you'll call her a Slut! That's why she'll settle for throwing you a smile.

OK! BUT ONLY LOW QUALITY GIRLS SEEM INTERESTED IN ME!!!
If the girls whose eyes linger and whose smiles you keep getting are not of the class you want, that's an honest indicator of where you are in the Sexual Market. That's your level. You attract your class.

To get better, better yourself. To see an improvement improve yourself. To see an upgrade in the quality of girls that give you "the look", upgrade yourself. The women you attract are the women at your level. Go up a level, and the quality of females you attract will also go up a level. Simple as that.

And how do you do that?

Dress better. Walk better. Speak better.

Do everything better than you've been doing.

To top it, go get a better body. Look, You can't change your face or your height but you can very well change your body. Which is all good, for when it comes to sex, your body IS your face. Women don't lust after a handsome face. It's that 6pack and those biceps that make the vagina tingle. Why do you think women love watching Wrestling on TV?

So, hit the gym.

LET HER CHOOSE.
Letting a girl choose is how you choose a girl.

That way girls chase You. You don't chase girls. That way You play hard to get. You don't have girls playing hard to get to you. Players are Players because every girl who chooses them they accept even though they've a girl already. And girls who date Players can't easily walk away from the fvckery of it all because they fell in love first. They're invested.

That's the blueprint of dealing with women. Play the game this way and you'll be surprised how far you can go with women WITHOUT spending money. Love is free. If you do it right.

When you let girls choose you become the Prize. The Chosen. And a girl who chooses you will make it EASY for you because she wants you to win. She'll test you Yes, because she needs to assess your masculinity, but she'll root for you. She'll be lenient and give you more opportunities than you deserve. And that's very important for your chances with her.

So how do you choose a girl? By letting a girl choose you. Ignore the ones who ignore you. Pay attention only to those who pay you attention. Remember every girl wants your attention, but not every girl will give you attention. So save your attention for the girls who are prepared to give you theirs.

Your attention is free but it means a lot to women. The compliments you give willy-nilly are oxygen to their self-esteem. Your drooling looks are the validation they can't breathe without. So make sure you don't give them out freely. Be stingy with.

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This writeup lays the groundwork for the longer and more indepth "Approaching Girls With Minimum Risk Of Rejection"

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Defenderalert:
For those of us who know him, we know he actually has sex with men. He is more bitter than the bile you mentioned.

Well since you think the messenger is separate from the message which in my view is a very dumb analogy. As most have said, i also pray that your daughters get laid by Ubunja replicas. The problem is he will turn them to baby mamas,tell them all he needed was their money & "pussy", take their money and dump them and move to his next victim.

I know him personally. If you want his real name and pictures pm me. He is an extremely old frustrated jobless YORUBA bachelor living right here in Nigeria.

And on dropping the hate? You need to send that advice to Ubunja. His dumb write ups are based on hatred for himself. He hates his life and wants as many dumb men as possible to fall for it ending up in the same ditch he threw himself into. I am not falling for that. You fall for that you grow old in sorrow,bitterness and loneliness just like him.

You cannot plant maize and reap plantains. Ubunja is paying for his sins. Let him pay alone.Don't be fooled bro.

Defenderalert:
You sleep eat and live on Nairaland despite advanced age and lack of achievement
Seriously SMH.

stanvesco:
Uncle.....
You can explain all dis without d curse!
And u sure know...what you wish others do come back in 4folds...
And I am only replying you calmly because dis is an onlinne forum!
Dis wud be my last mention...
What you wish me....in many years.....you wud come back and regret ever typing it!
#wiseman

Defenderalert:
Excuse me. I never asked you to jump on my mention. Your curse sticks to you not me as i am no Ubunja supporter. I know what he stands for is completely evil and i am wise enough to see beneath his dumb write ups.

Why is it a curse that your daughters will be laid by his replicas when you feel you should hail his evil manifestations and thoughtlessness? You should view it as a prayer since Ubunja is your inspiration. Nonsense.

stanvesco:
I said I wasn't going to mention you....but



You forgot dis is my thread!
You d intruder.
Anyway let's keep a date with posterity here.
Take down dis date and thread...
Save it...
Someday you would regret running your mouth foul.
Save the date so you won't forget.
Since you are 2 hasty to curse your kids.
I wish you and wish Dem well.

Defenderalert:
I happen to know the devil behind the moniker personally and we are quite a number who now know him to be one old wrecked individual who has lost it all. His hope is that when the younger ones read they will be fooled by his fake antics and end as frustrate, and bitter as he is. That is what i have succeeded at stopping.

He sleeps with men and the message underneath his evil write ups you wont understand if you lack wisdom and except you know him personally like a number of us do.

If he is so sure and confident in him dumb write ups let him start a Vlog.

Let a lot from him? You need help.

My prayer is that your son is exactly like him and if you have daughters may ghey be laid by Ubunja replicas. Then you will coms back and edit your mentions on NL.

emmaodet:
Well, i don't know him one on one but you claimed so.
According to you, he is a Yoruba man which comes as a surprise to me because he is from Zimbabwe and based in south africa, using a south africa line.
So, can you really confirm he is a yoruba man in lagos? Because he uses some proverbs in shonga language of Zimbabwe people.

Defenderalert:
You need not have mentioned me in the first place. My views on Ubunja remain intact because he is on a plot to lead innocent lads to destruction.

Get outta my mention and when your kids grow up tell them to go read the trash you follow and advice them to reason and act exactly like Ubunja and your daughters tell them never to open their thighs to any man except they find the likes of Ubunja.

I no get your time. Mark my words as i say so shall it be.

And let prosterity judge you for not going against evil.

ubunja:
A Word On Shît Testing.

If a beautiful girl that you're totally crazy for says something totally crazy, like:

"The sun rises from the South",

do you:
(A) Keep quiet to keep the peace?
(B) Agree with her to stay in her good graces?
(C) Disagree, set her straight, most likely angering her and getting yourself rejected?

THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF.
If you choose A or B YOU LOSE. These are a weak man's choices. A desperate man's selections. You present the best version of yourself by choosing C.

That's how you showcase your manliness: By disagreeing and standing for the truth that you know.

Choosing A or B makes you a Nice Guy who tells women what they want to hear. You can't be trusted.

But a manly man is not afraid to say it like it is. He's ever-truthful with a woman: "No, the sun rises from the East".

Your ability to stand for what you believe at the risk of offending, upsetting or losing a girl sets you apart as a genuine man of principle who can't be swayed by beauty or pussy. It makes you desirable to a female to stand for unpopular truth because it shows balls.

If you tell a girl the truth and you lose her it's OK because losing a girl by having balls is far better than winning a girl by having no balls because the girl you win by having no balls first of all DOES NOT RESPECT YOU.

THE VALUE OF RESPECT.
A woman is allowed not to love you.

Women have no love to give, except to their children. A woman will die 100 times for her child but never for the father of her child. Love from a woman is a miracle. But what a woman must give her man, what is non-negotiable, is RESPECT.

Your duty as a man is to retain your woman's respect at all times. That's critical.

Respect doesn't guarantee faithfulness, but there's a difference between how a woman who respects you will cross you vs how a woman who doesn't respect you will cross you:

A woman who doesn't respect you will cheat on you in your house, on your bed, with her lover eating your food, drinking your beer and watching your internet TV. But a woman who respects you will conduct her affairs discreetly and far from home; at no financial cost to you and in a way that won't cause you public embarrassment. Both women crossed you. But there's a world of difference between how they crossed you.

HOW TO STAND FOR THE TRUTH THAT YOU KNOW.
When your woman is wrong in private, correct her. True Love corrects, punishes and rewards. A woman will respect this.

BUT, when your woman is wrong in public, defend her, no matter how wrong she is. Always have her back. It's called LOYALTY. Loyalty means: "If you're wrong I'll be wrong with you."
Your girl will love you for it. And people will respect you for it. Never correct your woman in public, you embarrass her. Instead, later on, when the both of you are alone, confront her on her errors and Punish her accordingly. She must know every lapse in judgement on her part will be followed by punishment. Hold her accountable. For by embarrassing herself she embarrasses you.

LETTING WOMEN GET AWAY WITH BAD BEHAVIOR.
If a woman acts badly or breaks one of your rules call her out and punish her. Never let bad behavior go unpunished. Even in arguments when it's tempting to give in even when you know she's wrong DON'T DO IT. Stand firm.

A woman who gets her way everytime begins to wonder: "if this guy can't put me in my place' but allow me to jump all over him, how will he put those bigger than me in their place when they seek to jump all over me , his woman? If i outsmart him so easily how can he outsmart other men out there and win bread for his family? Can this guy even stand up to his boss to negotiate a better salary so the family does not starve? Can he even stand up to the Land Lord and stop him from throwing us to the streets to be homeless? Can this guy even challenge robbers at night and protect the children?'

Such questions fill a woman's head when you always let her get away with stuff, When you always let her win arguments that she knows very well she must not be winning. And once your woman starts asking herself these questions, you have a problem on your hands, whether you know it or not.

THE MOST POWERFUL WORD YOU CAN USE AGAINST A WOMAN.
No man must be in a relationship who has not learned to say NO to a woman.

Just as no woman must be in a relationship who has a problem saying YES to a man.

Couples will enjoy greater happiness if men increase their NO rate and women increase their YES rate. Men say YES a lot to women's sometimes crazy demands to the detriment of relationships while Women say NO a lot to men's usually reasonable demands to the detriment of relationships. Women say No constantly because they assume men want to use or exploit them, while men say Yes constantly because they assume women will stop loving them if they are not agreeable.

STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR TRUTH.
A woman soon hates a man who doesn't stand up for himself in arguments, quarrels and
misunderstandings.
In your mind you're telling yourself you're going soft and easy on her because you love her, but in her mind she's telling herself you're going soft and easy on her because you're soft and easy. A Wimp of a Simp without a backbone.

She's asking herself: "If you fear me how will you save me from the things I myself am afraid of, since you are my Protector? If you're always apologizing to
me for doing no wrong how will you bend rules at work to make sure your family doesn't go to bed hungry? Remember you are older and stronger than me. why do I keep kicking your butt so easily? Are you really this weak? How are we supposed to make strong babies that will rule the world if you cant rule this little girl in your arms
that is afraid of spiders?"

And once your girl starts asking herself these questions, your days with her are numbered.

THE BIGGER PICTURE.
Women have an expiry date. Time is their bitterest enemy.

Because a woman has only one womb she can make use of only once a year with beauty that will start to fade at 25 and a womb that will be dead at 45 she must make every year with a man count.

So even if her man is rich or educated, a woman is always Testing him to confirm he is the right man to be investing her limited time and resources on. And so she'll test and re-test her man. evaluate and re-evaluate his manliness. she will vet and review him often. double-checking and re-affirming his manliness.

SHÎT TESTING

WHY A WOMAN SHÎT TESTS YOU.
A woman is going to say and do a lot of dumb shît, but not because she is dumb but because that shît is a test: DO YOU HAVE THE BALLS TO PUT HER IN HER PLACE or are you a weakling, too afraid to go against a girl barely older than your young sister.

When you've the balls to stand up to a woman when she's wrong or disrespectful, she knows you've the balls to stand up to ANYONE when they are wrong or disrespectful to protect her. That's the summary of Shît Testing.

If a woman can boss you around she knows ANYONE can boss you around.

That's what it's all about.

You may think letting a woman get away with wrong doing (e.g she's always late) shows you're not petty and you don't sweat the small stuff, but in her eyes you're powerless.

A Shît Test is a woman testing your ability to defend yourself from her actions as a way of determining your ability to defend her from other people.

In the Old World our forefathers proved themselves by challenging each other to stick fights or by heroic acts during war. Having proved their worth, the Community gave them wives. Cowards died wifeless and childless.

That World is largely gone. In the New World women are on her own in proving a man's worth and testing his manliness. There are no stick fights and no tribal wars to separate the Heroes from the Cowards and because even a coward with money or an education can be mistaken for a hero, women have a tough job separating the Wheat from the Chaff. They have to test you themselves.

Imagine you're looking for a job as a Body Guard. You meet a potential client but first he needs to assess your fighting skills to make sure you're the man for the job. So he tries to kick, punch and stab you. How you defend yourself against HIS attacks tells him if you can perform the protection duties or not. Shît Tests ARE EXACTLY LIKE THAT. A woman assesses your manliness BY ATTACKING YOU HERSELF, only she's using WORDS and DRAMA not kicks, punches and knives: She takes your calls late, she dresses funny infront of your friends, she's loud in public and throws temper tantrums when she doesn't get her way.... All these are tests. Correct her. Or lose her respect.

And just as you fail the body guard test by allowing your client to kick your ass, you also fail shît tests by allowing a woman to win.

But these tests begin as soon as you meet a girl. While you're shooting your shot she's already testing you...

HOW A WOMAN SHÎT TESTS YOU BEFORE MAKING YOU HER BOYFRIEND.
The trickiest things a girl will say to you are probably: Are you a Player? because I don't date Players , How many girls have you had before me? , Are you single?

Let's answer these 3 questions one at a time...

(1) "Are you a Player?":
Wrong Answers: "NO I'm not" "I hate Players" "I'm a Good Guy".

Correct Answers: "Only because I haven't met the right girl" "Aren't all men Players? ". Etc. (answers that show you get lots of women)

She is NOT asking because she hates Players.

A woman desires a man other women desire. She doesn't want a man no woman wants. That's why if you are single no woman wants you. But if you get a GF, women will suddenly have time for you. Have a busload of women coming to you, and other women will start wondering: "what is he giving these women that is making them flock to him? He must be good at what he does!".

But if no woman wants you, other women wonder: "there must be something wrong with him. Why is it that no woman wants him??"

A woman desires the best man and if other women want you it's the proof she needs that she chose well. A woman feels so special when lots of women want you, but you choose her. That way she feels like she won you.

A woman doesn't want a man WHO FEELS LUCKY to have her. It's a turn off.
She wants a man SHE FEELS LUCKY to have. It's a turn on. Because a woman doesn't want you, she wants to WIN YOU. From other women. If you are single no woman wants you. But have a GF and women will have time for you.

Go on a date with your woman and keep looking at other women, she gets pissed. But go out with her and OTHER WOMEN keep looking at YOU, she gets pleased. She'll love you even more. When other women want you, She FEELS LUCKY to have you.

In asking "Are you a Player BECAUSE I DON'T DATE PLAYERS" a woman is playing a trick on you. "Because I don't players" is meant as a trap to catch the simping Nice Guys who think being agreeable with a woman gets them a woman. "Because I don't date players" is an empty threat. Ignore that phrase. Women love Players. Because they wish to tame them and get bragging rights.

(2) "Are you single?"
Wrong Answers: " Yes" "Of course. I want the next girl I date to be my wife" "I have been keeping myself for you" "definitely, I want to get my life in order first" etc.

Correct Answers: "It's complicated", "

Women abhor and detest single men. They want a man with a woman because that way he's "tried and tested" by another woman.
Show you have a woman but mention things are not going great between you and her. You show her you're involved with a woman but you also show her you're Not cheating on anyone.
Never be single. Because being single is for losers who can't get a girl.

(3) "How many girls have you had before me?"
Wrong Answers: "Not many." "you're actually my first". "I'm still a Virgin" etc.

Correct Answers: "I have lost count" "I'm trying to slow down lately" "You mean this year alone?" etc.

You may think appearing chaste by having no past GFs scores you points with a girl. But it's the opposite. It makes you a loser who can't get a girl and who's taking his chance with her.

The fewer the girls you have dealt with, a girl knows the less capable you are of dealing with women. That works against you on so many levels. The girl knows not only aren't you experienced in dealing with female drama you're probably whack in the sack. For the less girls you have had the less you have fvcked and the less you can fvck.

There is no market or demand for male virgins. That's why a Dick comes with no Hymen and no primitive deity has ever demanded a male virgin as a sacrifice. Male virgins are useless.

In answering questions that probe your body count, faithfulness or relationship status: always present yourself as getting your fair share of women and rarely loyal to any one woman. Cast yourself as a Player.

Women must think you're always having sex. No matter how much they act disappointed or disgusted. EVEN IF for real they're disappointed and disgusted. Always cast yourself as a Player: When was the last time you saw women fight over a Chaste Man? Or a male Virgin? But I bet you know lots of women who came to blows over a Player! Or some Bad Boy!

#TheRedPill
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Defenderalert:
Excuse me. I never asked you to jump on my mention. Your curse sticks to you not me as i am no Ubunja supporter. I know what he stands for is completely evil and i am wise enough to see beneath his dumb write ups.

Why is it a curse that your daughters will be laid by his replicas when you feel you should hail his evil manifestations and thoughtlessness? You should view it as a prayer since Ubunja is your inspiration. Nonsense.

ubunja:
That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason

PROLOGUE.
Short Break-Ups: those brief periods when a woman just ups and leaves for reasons best known to herself that she'll never care to explain. and spend weeks and months out of the picture, only to resurface again willing to continue where you two left things off.

those short break-ups, they are not inevitable storms in Paradise, the woman is manipulating the weather....

1. THE SHORT BREAKUP AS A WOMAN'S WAY OF MAKING HERSELF IRREPLACEABLE.

When: usually at the early stages of the relationship.

after countless days and almost superhuman effort wooing her, a guy relaxes when the girl finally agrees to be his GF. however, as the guy settles down to enjoy the fruits of his labour, the new GF's real work has just begun... the guy who just won her heart has a car, a job and a nice place: everything a man needs to be happy; or to get another girl. for survival And longevity, the new GF's mission now is to blind the guy to that reality by becoming the man's sole Source of Happiness and by making herself Irreplaceable.

but how? she's broke, she's not a 10 lookswise and she's not the sweetest pussy in the land. how does she make herself priceless to a man who has everything and irreplaceable to a man who has options? (he indeed can get another girl. He has options) : by taking matters into her own hands and engineering a storm that will break her man and subdue him unto her.

In nature, when the Lioness hunts, she first isolates her prey from the herd. alone, exposed, and vulnerable the animal becomes an easy kill. likewise, before breaking her man, the woman separates him from the "Herd".

How??
by acting CLINGY , like she wants the man all to herself. that's how a woman separates a man from the herd. friends And family are that herd. and so it begins, the Man's friends who're single the woman pushes away by complaining:" but you cant continue hanging out with your single friends, you don't have anything in common anymore.you now have me!”. My guy does those words sound familiar? Mhhmm?

Next her complaints are against those friends of his who are dating: "Your friends' GFs all hate me. maybe its because im a new comer...sniff sniff!" *insert fake tears here* and poof!!! the guy vanishes from his circle of friends. He figures he owes his allegiance to this woman he met barely a few months ago and in walking away from friendships that have lasted his whole life he feels he's doing his duty to his woman.

Lastly the man is seperated from his family. His visits to his family become few and far between. a combination of :"Your mother hates me" and"Your sisters are jealous of me"; from his woman now keeps him away.

the dumb love-struck puppy of a man is now separated from the herd. Whats-more, he doesn't immediately feel the absence of friends And family because the new GF is overdosing him with attention, love and sex. and so, inevitably, his life starts revolving around 1 person: the new GF. his WhatsApp profile now feature her pics with the words :" She' My Everything" blah blah blah. His money and resources only feel good to have as long as they are spent on his woman.

But then when friends and family have been cut off and the guy become fully separated from all who care about
him, totally dependent on the woman for everything from friendship and advice to sex, comfort and solidarity - when the prey has been fully separated from the herd - the Lioness finally orchestrates her Power Move and goes in for the kill. She strikes!!!

Suddenly, from nowhere, without warning, without explanation or any wrong-doing on the man's part, the GF throws a fit, moves out and withdraws her love. it happens so fast and at the highest sweetest point of euphoria when the guy is the most drunk in love and The most confident in her love... he's left dazed and lost in this darkest hour of confusion and mind fvcks. he has
pushed friends and family away, now pride and ego forbid him from reaching out for help and insight. he's in mental and emotional anguish and cant think straight. the once independent carefree bachelor finds he cant live without some woman who didn't even exist in his life a few months ago. his good life suddenly has no meaning. His money and resources no pleasure. he has been manipulated into looking to his woman as the source of his happiness. and the moment he fully cut off all friends And family and leaned fully and squarely on her of whom he had declared" She's My Everything", she stepped away, leaving him to fall.

Days of pain and confusion turn to weeks of pain that become unbearable. the poor guy is doing everything in his power to get his GF back. He begs and begs and begs through messages relayed via her friends, calls and messages. he apologizes for whatever he did to upset her.

after a long while; she relents and reluctantly forgives him, for whatever he did wrong. its never mentioned. (because it never existed). and every time the guy asks what he did wrong he'll get the sharp answer :"You know what you did" ; and scared to piss off his woman all over again he'll stop asking. The truth is, it was never about Right And Wrong, it was a power move. about Power And Control. moving back into the relationship and back to his man's house, the GF holds all the Power in the relationship now. the man has lowered his own value by begging her back. because in every relationship, THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS HAS MORE POWER AND THE ONE WHO LOVES MORE HAS LESS POWER BECAUSE THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS CAN AFFORD TO WALK AWAY ANYTIME BUT THE ONE WHO LOVES MORE CANT WALK AWAY BECAUSE HE CANT LIVE WITHOUT THE OTHER. from that point onwards, the relationship is on the woman's terms. and the man is forever dealing from a position of weakness. he's a broken man. a tamed stallion. where he was all confidence and command, his new vocabulary consists of weak
statements like :"I'll ask Joyce first!" and "Time for me to go, Sheila doesn't want me to stay out this late!" or "Happy wife happy life" blah blah blah.

the woman has done the impossible. She has made herself Priceless to a man with everything; and Irreplaceable to a man with options.


2. THE SHORT BREAKUP AS A WOMAN'S WAY OF CHEATING WITHOUT CHEATING.

When: usually at a later stage in the relationship

women hate cheating. especially if they really love you. yet sometimes a girl gets offered a dick her pussy cant say No to. or gets introduced to a man her heart cant say
No to. and so the girl does calculations in her head: cheating is an offense, a betrayal, that will cause
incalculable heartache and break all trust forever. on the other hand; she can pull the ultimate stunt: Breakup for a short while to be single and free to indulge... that way
No relationship, No betrayal, No broken trust and No guilty feelings on her part. she calculates breaking your heart through a Breakup is faster and cheaper to correct later than breaking your heart through Cheating. because breakups are not an offense so there is really no bad guy in the equation.

so the girl goes with option B: the Short Break-Up - to free herself briefly to cheat or to explore a possible higher-value relationship. and so; one ordinary sunny day she looks at you and says: "WE NEED TO TAKE A BREAK." words that hit you like a train that just appeared from nowhere. she'll give no reason why nor will she say for how long the break will last. she says "lets take a break" to leave a door open for herself. she's telling you she's going, but not permanently. she'll be back. and wants you on pause not playing on. she has things to do that she cant do while dating you. now, there are 2 things in this world a woman has to be single first to do with a clear conscience knowing she's not hurting any man: being a Nun and being a Whòré. single women make the best nuns and also single women are the biggest
whòrès out there. and being a Whòrè can be a 0 dick affair that's all about trying out a new romance with a better man at your expense, a 1 dick temptation or a fully-fledged multi-dick whòre-phase.

so your girl will walk and for the next weeks or months she'll avoid you, your calls, your friends and your favourite places (so the two of you don't cross paths). while you walk around in a cloud of pain with no relief, she's walking on clouds wishing it doesn't end. She is riding all manner of Dick and doing all manner of shet Or just going out on clean dates with a potential new man...... but all good things will come to an end. She will get her fill of Dick. Or that potential affair with a hottter man will fail to materialize. Either way she must return back to good old waiting you. her status updates on social networks will start conveying nostalgia and
regrets. and you, ever watchful and stalkerish, unable to move on, readily picks up on them, taking the hint your bird is coming back!

she'll start asking your friends how you're doing, if someone's taken her place. Your gullible friends will rush to you with news of how she misses you. unknown to their simple minds they're being played like chess pieces, preparing the way for her. because the minute they deliver the good news you'll drop any girl you may have started chasing and put your house in order. in time, communications will resume, meet-ups, ending with tears of reunion and sweet makeup sex. you are happy your girl is back.she's happy she found you waiting. you'll celebrate the re-union and rekindle the romance; but deep deep deep within her womb gallons of sperm from her sex-capade reside. who knows, maybe a baby is
even in the making.... who knows....and if a baby is indeed in the making guess who gets the fathering duties and costs??

I'll give you 1 guess. just one.


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Defenderalert:
I happen to know the devil behind the moniker personally and we are quite a number who now know him to be one old wrecked individual who has lost it all. His hope is that when the younger ones read they will be fooled by his fake antics and end as frustrate, and bitter as he is. That is what i have succeeded at stopping.

He sleeps with men and the message underneath his evil write ups you wont understand if you lack wisdom and except you know him personally like a number of us do.

If he is so sure and confident in him dumb write ups let him start a Vlog.

Let a lot from him? You need help.

My prayer is that your son is exactly like him and if you have daughters may ghey be laid by Ubunja replicas. Then you will coms back and edit your mentions on NL.

ubunja:
On Scantily Dressed Women.


PROLOGUE
What goes through your mind when you see a scantily dressed woman? What are your thoughts on females who walk about half nàkéd?

If you are an average guy chances are you think a scantily dressed girl is ready to be fully nàkéd. You think, with just a little push, she'll drop the remainder of her clothes and stand in the nude, ready for the sex. And if you're a real lowlife, you may even think she's begging to be raped.

But see, you have it backwards.

It's actually the opposite.

ALMOST NÀKÉD BUT NOT WILLING TO GO FULLY NAKED.
Ever seen how scantily dressed women are surprisingly a hard nut to crack? How, despite being practically nàkéd, they've no patience for any man trying to get them nàkéd. How they readily shoot down, without mercy, any man who tries any funny business?

A provocatively dressed woman knows every whistle, every hello and every favour is because of what she's displaying. And she's displaying what she's displaying for the favours, the hellos and the whistles. Not the sex.

The favours, hellos and whistles together make up what is called Attention. Attention is E V E R T H I N G to a woman.


THE PSYCHOLOGY OF A SCANTILY DRESSED WOMAN.
The less clothes a woman is wearing on the street the less your chances of actually getting her nàkéd because the more a woman seeks to turn you on OUTSIDE the bedroom, the more she seeks to get what she wants from you OUTSIDE the bedroom.

The more scantily dressed a girl is on the street the harder she is to actually sleep with because the more revealing a girl is dressed the more she wants you to think sex is on offer because the more you think sex is on offer the easier it is to get things from you. WITHOUT having to actually have sex with you.

That is; the closer a girl is to being nàkéd on the street, the more she profits without having to actually get fully nàkéd because every guy tells himself "just a little push and I'll fvck her!". That "little push" is favours, drinks, lifts etc.

The more a woman knows she can turn you on outside the bedroom she knows the more she can get from you without having to go inside the bedroom with you. The more a man is impressed by a woman's body the less a woman will try to impress him with her pussy. Her work is already done. Pussy is a weapon of last resort reserved for men who have proved immune to everything else.

If a woman turns you on in public she'll seek to get the most she can out of you IN PUBLIC, without having to go private with you. The more she can turn you on by her dressing she knows the more she can get out of you without having to take off her dress.

THE POWER OF THE PROMISE OF SEX.
Women use sex to get what they want from men. But because men overvalue sex, a lot of the times men start giving stuff to women and doing things for them on the PROMISE of sex. To men the promise of sex is as valuable as the sex itself.

This is a loophole in the male psyche that women take advantage of.

If making men believe they'll get laid gets men to agree to women's demands, then there's little reason for women to give the sex itself once the demands have been met. The PROMISE is enough. It gets the job done.

That promise, mind you, is never spoken but implied. In dress and manners. Because men think a scantily dressed woman is looking for sex thus, a hitchhiking woman dresses provocatively to get a lift. A thirsty woman acts like a cheap ho ready to go home with any man who buys her a drink. They both act like they're ready for sex. And acting on that act the men start doing the women favours. A free lift and free drinks are given. After the favours have been done and the men demand the women uphold their (implied) end of the bargain the women give the treacherous answer: "Oh but I didn't say do this for me and I'll give you sex!".

The men feel cheated. True, no verbal promises were made. But as with almost everything in sex, it was IMPLIED. The promises were implicit not explicit. And so after the promises got the jobs done, the women see no need to fulfill the promises. This angry men then endeavour to take by force what they believe they were promised. And rape happens.

But you know better: Women dress scantily for Attention and for Favours. Sex is the last thing they'll give you.


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Defenderalert:
You need not have mentioned me in the first place. My views on Ubunja remain intact because he is on a plot to lead innocent lads to destruction.

Get outta my mention and when your kids grow up tell them to go read the trash you follow and advice them to reason and act exactly like Ubunja and your daughters tell them never to open their thighs to any man except they find the likes of Ubunja.

I no get your time. Mark my words as i say so shall it be.

And let prosterity judge you for not going against evil.

Defenderalert:
Stop obsessing over how to mess up the lives of our youth with your crap MiseduGAY. As you can see you are just wasting your time.

Go and push wheelbarrow since you are jobless because that cougar you are wishing for will never come. Its time to retire from gigoloism. Hahahaha Too many young agile men available. No one wants to be cougar to droopy face. Lol

isyourboy:
Bro, why are you this' pained in life? what has ubunja done for you sef? you hate seeing him on here. is it a must you comment on his Post? is it a must u agree with him? why can't u leave ubunja for us to enjoy and u just try to ignore us. this ubunja sef never get ur time. he's been replying u with one worded reply all this'while. people like u make me angry.tchew

Defenderalert:
Yeah replying with ONE worded reply indeed. Who are you? JoblessUbunja under a different moniker.Shut up and invite us when your daughters get nabbed by Ubunja replicas.

stanvesco:
You are pained.
Very pained and it's obvious.
Dis is d reason I hate online tins.....
Busybody!

Defenderalert:
Online "tins" is why an evil frustrated old man will hide behind his computer in his empty house and write trash because he feels his identity is hidden.

Pained my foot. Get off my mention. My target are the youth. I will do all within my Power to protect them from Ubunja.

He is the pained one clearly. Bitterness and frustration leaking through dumb write ups.

It gives my joy to see how the wise young lads are getting married back to back. The fact that some myopic minded loser who has messed up his own life thinks he will transfer his bitterness to our youth makes me laugh as he is obviously failing at his attempt .

He will waste his time until he hits the grave.

ubunja:
That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason

PROLOGUE.
Short Break-Ups: those brief periods when a woman just ups and leaves for reasons best known to herself that she'll never care to explain. and spend weeks and months out of the picture, only to resurface again willing to continue where you two left things off.

those short break-ups, they are not inevitable storms in Paradise, the woman is manipulating the weather....

1. THE SHORT BREAKUP AS A WOMAN'S WAY OF MAKING HERSELF IRREPLACEABLE.

When: usually at the early stages of the relationship.

after countless days and almost superhuman effort wooing her, a guy relaxes when the girl finally agrees to be his GF. however, as the guy settles down to enjoy the fruits of his labour, the new GF's real work has just begun... the guy who just won her heart has a car, a job and a nice place: everything a man needs to be happy; or to get another girl. for survival And longevity, the new GF's mission now is to blind the guy to that reality by becoming the man's sole Source of Happiness and by making herself Irreplaceable.

but how? she's broke, she's not a 10 lookswise and she's not the sweetest pussy in the land. how does she make herself priceless to a man who has everything and irreplaceable to a man who has options? (he indeed can get another girl. He has options) : by taking matters into her own hands and engineering a storm that will break her man and subdue him unto her.

In nature, when the Lioness hunts, she first isolates her prey from the herd. alone, exposed, and vulnerable the animal becomes an easy kill. likewise, before breaking her man, the woman separates him from the "Herd".

How??
by acting CLINGY , like she wants the man all to herself. that's how a woman separates a man from the herd. friends And family are that herd. and so it begins, the Man's friends who're single the woman pushes away by complaining:" but you cant continue hanging out with your single friends, you don't have anything in common anymore.you now have me!”. My guy does those words sound familiar? Mhhmm?

Next her complaints are against those friends of his who are dating: "Your friends' GFs all hate me. maybe its because im a new comer...sniff sniff!" *insert fake tears here* and poof!!! the guy vanishes from his circle of friends. He figures he owes his allegiance to this woman he met barely a few months ago and in walking away from friendships that have lasted his whole life he feels he's doing his duty to his woman.

Lastly the man is seperated from his family. His visits to his family become few and far between. a combination of :"Your mother hates me" and"Your sisters are jealous of me"; from his woman now keeps him away.

the dumb love-struck puppy of a man is now separated from the herd. Whats-more, he doesn't immediately feel the absence of friends And family because the new GF is overdosing him with attention, love and sex. and so, inevitably, his life starts revolving around 1 person: the new GF. his WhatsApp profile now feature her pics with the words :" She' My Everything" blah blah blah. His money and resources only feel good to have as long as they are spent on his woman.

But then when friends and family have been cut off and the guy become fully separated from all who care about
him, totally dependent on the woman for everything from friendship and advice to sex, comfort and solidarity - when the prey has been fully separated from the herd - the Lioness finally orchestrates her Power Move and goes in for the kill. She strikes!!!

Suddenly, from nowhere, without warning, without explanation or any wrong-doing on the man's part, the GF throws a fit, moves out and withdraws her love. it happens so fast and at the highest sweetest point of euphoria when the guy is the most drunk in love and The most confident in her love... he's left dazed and lost in this darkest hour of confusion and mind fvcks. he has
pushed friends and family away, now pride and ego forbid him from reaching out for help and insight. he's in mental and emotional anguish and cant think straight. the once independent carefree bachelor finds he cant live without some woman who didn't even exist in his life a few months ago. his good life suddenly has no meaning. His money and resources no pleasure. he has been manipulated into looking to his woman as the source of his happiness. and the moment he fully cut off all friends And family and leaned fully and squarely on her of whom he had declared" She's My Everything", she stepped away, leaving him to fall.

Days of pain and confusion turn to weeks of pain that become unbearable. the poor guy is doing everything in his power to get his GF back. He begs and begs and begs through messages relayed via her friends, calls and messages. he apologizes for whatever he did to upset her.

after a long while; she relents and reluctantly forgives him, for whatever he did wrong. its never mentioned. (because it never existed). and every time the guy asks what he did wrong he'll get the sharp answer :"You know what you did" ; and scared to piss off his woman all over again he'll stop asking. The truth is, it was never about Right And Wrong, it was a power move. about Power And Control. moving back into the relationship and back to his man's house, the GF holds all the Power in the relationship now. the man has lowered his own value by begging her back. because in every relationship, THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS HAS MORE POWER AND THE ONE WHO LOVES MORE HAS LESS POWER BECAUSE THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS CAN AFFORD TO WALK AWAY ANYTIME BUT THE ONE WHO LOVES MORE CANT WALK AWAY BECAUSE HE CANT LIVE WITHOUT THE OTHER. from that point onwards, the relationship is on the woman's terms. and the man is forever dealing from a position of weakness. he's a broken man. a tamed stallion. where he was all confidence and command, his new vocabulary consists of weak
statements like :"I'll ask Joyce first!" and "Time for me to go, Sheila doesn't want me to stay out this late!" or "Happy wife happy life" blah blah blah.

the woman has done the impossible. She has made herself Priceless to a man with everything; and Irreplaceable to a man with options.


2. THE SHORT BREAKUP AS A WOMAN'S WAY OF CHEATING WITHOUT CHEATING.

When: usually at a later stage in the relationship

women hate cheating. especially if they really love you. yet sometimes a girl gets offered a dick her pussy cant say No to. or gets introduced to a man her heart cant say
No to. and so the girl does calculations in her head: cheating is an offense, a betrayal, that will cause
incalculable heartache and break all trust forever. on the other hand; she can pull the ultimate stunt: Breakup for a short while to be single and free to indulge... that way
No relationship, No betrayal, No broken trust and No guilty feelings on her part. she calculates breaking your heart through a Breakup is faster and cheaper to correct later than breaking your heart through Cheating. because breakups are not an offense so there is really no bad guy in the equation.

so the girl goes with option B: the Short Break-Up - to free herself briefly to cheat or to explore a possible higher-value relationship. and so; one ordinary sunny day she looks at you and says: "WE NEED TO TAKE A BREAK." words that hit you like a train that just appeared from nowhere. she'll give no reason why nor will she say for how long the break will last. she says "lets take a break" to leave a door open for herself. she's telling you she's going, but not permanently. she'll be back. and wants you on pause not playing on. she has things to do that she cant do while dating you. now, there are 2 things in this world a woman has to be single first to do with a clear conscience knowing she's not hurting any man: being a Nun and being a Whòré. single women make the best nuns and also single women are the biggest
whòrès out there. and being a Whòrè can be a 0 dick affair that's all about trying out a new romance with a better man at your expense, a 1 dick temptation or a fully-fledged multi-dick whòre-phase.

so your girl will walk and for the next weeks or months she'll avoid you, your calls, your friends and your favourite places (so the two of you don't cross paths). while you walk around in a cloud of pain with no relief, she's walking on clouds wishing it doesn't end. She is riding all manner of Dick and doing all manner of shet Or just going out on clean dates with a potential new man...... but all good things will come to an end. She will get her fill of Dick. Or that potential affair with a hottter man will fail to materialize. Either way she must return back to good old waiting you. her status updates on social networks will start conveying nostalgia and
regrets. and you, ever watchful and stalkerish, unable to move on, readily picks up on them, taking the hint your bird is coming back!

she'll start asking your friends how you're doing, if someone's taken her place. Your gullible friends will rush to you with news of how she misses you. unknown to their simple minds they're being played like chess pieces, preparing the way for her. because the minute they deliver the good news you'll drop any girl you may have started chasing and put your house in order. in time, communications will resume, meet-ups, ending with tears of reunion and sweet makeup sex. you are happy your girl is back.she's happy she found you waiting. you'll celebrate the re-union and rekindle the romance; but deep deep deep within her womb gallons of sperm from her sex-capade reside. who knows, maybe a baby is
even in the making.... who knows....and if a baby is indeed in the making guess who gets the fathering duties and costs??

I'll give you 1 guess. just one.


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Ubunja, plsssssssssssssssssssss in the name of God, don't let anyone discourage you from writing your miseducations.
You are really very good and you write about things that are happening live in relationships.
That is why those ladies are realllllllyyy pained because you are exposing their Raw secrets to the open.
Sometimes, i do forget about your miseducations but just reading again the ones you reposted touched me.
Chosen, in gut we trust, that little break up your gf initiated are the best that touched and affected my life 95%.
Pls, keep up the good work because we need to create that awareness to men so that they will know what they are getting themselves into.
For those who say nairalanders are still getting married, Yes they will but year in year out, the number of people getting married will keep dropping and dropping in relation to the population.
Men are paying far more than what they are getting now in relationship.
I promised to give you a gift, sent you a message on whatsapp but you didn't reply.
Don't know why you are ignoring me.

ubunja:
don't mind Defenderalert. Everytime he mentions ubunja I reply by reposting the very threads that piss him off. The more he hates the more the Miseducations spread.

As for WhatsApp its been long since I've been there because I have too many people there. About 250 people from NL alone and it gets slow cause the moment people see me online they all wanna holla and my phone gets overwhelmed. But I'll be on that app on Tuesday cause that's when I'll be free to chat to everyone for hours.
Its all good. I'm not ignoring you.

ubunja:
don't mind Defenderalert. Everytime he mentions ubunja I reply by reposting the very threads that piss him off. The more he hates the more the Miseducations spread.

As for WhatsApp its been long since I've been there because I have too many people there. About 250 people from NL alone and it gets slow cause the moment people see me online they all wanna holla and my phone gets overwhelmed. But I'll be on that app on Tuesday cause that's when I'll be free to chat to everyone for hours.
Its all good. I'm not ignoring you.

ubunja:
don't mind Defenderalert. Everytime he mentions ubunja I reply by reposting the very threads that piss him off. The more he hates the more the Miseducations spread.

As for WhatsApp its been long since I've been there because I have too many people there. About 250 people from NL alone and it gets slow cause the moment people see me online they all wanna holla and my phone gets overwhelmed. But I'll be on that app on Tuesday cause that's when I'll be free to chat to everyone for hours.
Its all good. I'm not ignoring you.