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Should I Continue Dating Her? by Rabson44(op): 11:18am On Dec 09, 2019
There's this teenager i met a couple months ago, to cut it short, we started dating, before she visited me i asked her if she was a virgin and she said no, she told me she was raped once by a guy in her compound, well a day happened to come when she came to my house for the first, we started having foreplays before we actually had sex, when she got home, i asked her if this was her only second time experiencing sex since she claimed to be raped once, because her pu**y was already wide, and the way she was riding, i knew she already has experience, well i kept pressuring her and she finally told me she had had sex with the guy she claimed he raped her, she said they had sex 6times, not because she wanted but because she is a kind of girl that find it hard to control herself, she told me he was the one that disflowered her at 18, that was last year, now she is 19, well the guy is no more in the compound, he only came for youth service and he had left, she claim to regret her past actions and begged me to please stop bringing up the issue, it still bothers me whenever i think of it, though we haven't met when the incident happen, i need ur advice, should i continue or back off?because i am willing to marry her when she is 25, though am 25 now, she is 19, and she sincerely love me for now, i don't know if our relationship will last, though things are going on well now, and i hv met her parents on a low, and they know my motive, but her past keeps hurting me, what should i do?
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by viceddy95(m): 11:20am On Dec 09, 2019
undecided
I don't understand this guy.........

(1)you want to marry her when she is 25-19=6,,6years of chopping free kpekus all in the name of future marriage.....

(2)if you leave her because of her past,the one you are go to meet or marry, don't she have past too....

Abeg carry on with her,if you have genuine intention for her......if you don't, let her go and stop wasting her time...
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by greatmarshall(m): 11:27am On Dec 09, 2019
My brother, you'll have to decide na
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by YOUNGELDER1(m): 11:48am On Dec 09, 2019
Why is this even in crime session lol
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by ghettokid1(m): 11:53am On Dec 09, 2019
It no mean na!
But if it mean to u just leave her and move on
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by DenreleDave(m): 12:41pm On Dec 09, 2019
Rabson44:
There's this teenager i met a couple months ago, to cut it short, we started dating, before she visited me i asked her if she was a virgin and she said no, she told me she was raped once by a guy in her compound, well a day happened to come when she came to my house for the first, we started having foreplays before we actually had sex, when she got home, i asked her if this was her only second time experiencing sex since she claimed to be raped once, because her pu**y was already wide, and the way she was riding, i knew she already has experience, well i kept pressuring her and she finally told me she had had sex with the guy she claimed he raped her, she said they had sex 6times, not because she wanted but because she is a kind of girl that find it hard to control herself, she told me he was the one that disflowered her at 18, that was last year, now she is 19, well the guy is no more in the compound, he only came for youth service and he had left, she claim to regret her past actions and begged me to please stop bringing up the issue, it still bothers me whenever i think of it, though we haven't met when the incident happen, i need ur advice, should i continue or back off?because i am willing to marry her when she is 25, though am 25 now, she is 19, and she sincerely love me for now, i don't know if our relationship will last, though things are going on well now, and i hv met her parents on a low, and they know my motive, but her past keeps hurting me, what should i do?
Idiot.... She is 19 and 6 years later, she will be 25.. 6 years later u will be 31...

Don't be too sick to know that things can change btw d course of 1 yr not to talk of 6 years.... Dont u av family to take care of ni, u r planning to marry a lady of 19 in 6 years time.. What if you die or she dies.. What if una go separate.. What if what if. Don't you think at all..


About that virgin, forget. Naso ladies dey lie.. If una break up now, she will meet another guy to tell him that you raped her..

Rape is the only thing she is using to gain sympathy.

My ex told me that too but she is always leaving school from ogun to Lagos to go Bleep him oooo before we started dating ni sha oo.


Fear ladies with rape issue... Most na lie
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Rabson44(op): 12:52pm On Dec 09, 2019
[quote author=DenreleDave post=84762993]Idiot.... She is 19 and 6 years later, she will be 25.. 6 years later u will be 31...

Don't be too sick to know that things can change btw d course of 1 yr not to talk of 6 years.... Dont u av family to take care of ni, u r planning to marry a lady of 19 in 6 years time.. What if you die or she dies.. What if una go separate.. What if what if. Don't you think at all..


About that virgin, forget. Naso ladies dey lie.. If una break up now, she will meet another guy to tell him that you raped her..

Rape is the only thing she is using to gain sympathy.

My ex told me that too but she is always leaving school from ogun to Lagos to go Bleep him oooo before we started dating ni sha oo.


Fear ladies with rape issue... Most na lie

lol bro i appreciate the advice, but that idiot u called me got me laughing, no,hard feeling bro, lols ok thank you
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Dec 09, 2019
Mr Man stick to her if u truly care for her everyone has an unpleasant story and u were not a saint either at the first time of meeting
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by chigoizie7(m): 1:13pm On Dec 09, 2019
You talk as though you are 9.

What has a girls past sex life got to do with what you are having with her?

Well, except that you are bothered that maybe she lied to you.
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by vincentjk(m): 1:27pm On Dec 09, 2019
The moment a girl says she got raped or forced when she lost her virginity i stop anything am planning with her immediately because 90% of them are lies. Na their excuse be that, why don't u say the truth and let love lead

Op stop judging people by their past though, if we all start judging that way then me myself no go even settle down as I easily pick offense
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Lonestar124: 1:50pm On Dec 09, 2019
vincentjk:
The moment a girl says she got raped or forced when she lost her virginity i stop anything am planning with her immediately because 90% of them are lies. Na their excuse be that, why don't u say the truth and let love lead

Op stop judging people by their past though, if we all start judging that way then me myself no go even settle down as I easily pick offense
Most of the ladies that lose thier virginity were trickly compelled and not rape, they'll term it as rape because the guy seems to force them but they like it.
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Lording123(m): 1:55pm On Dec 09, 2019
Mr Op don’t you have your future to think about? Na 6 years time marriage you dey think about? With Nigerian girls of these days?

Abeg live in the moment and focus on your career while yet avoiding most mistakes weak men make with girls before they finally learn.

Anything can happen at any time. You fit leave her. She fit leave you. External factor fit break una up.

Abeg let’s discuss your ambitions and career forecast in 6 years time. Planning marriage already with a 19 years old? Lol. You go learn also.
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Quality20(m): 2:00pm On Dec 09, 2019
fornicator meets a fornicataress! No big deal, if a guy like u don't marry her ,who's gonna marry her?
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by CreepyBlackpool: 2:52pm On Dec 09, 2019
Better go and pay her bride price now or stay away from her pvssy and come back in 6yrs time.

Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Dec 09, 2019
In 6years time, feel free to call on me for counselling. Cos you might end up attempting suicide by the time she disappoints you.

Besides, you claimed her pussy is already wide. Now imagine how it would be in 6years time! Your name na Deontay Wilder? grin
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Dec 09, 2019
Kids.
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Dec 09, 2019
Having a relationship isn't a must...
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Deduks: 4:01pm On Dec 09, 2019
You sound like a kid. Can you please and please face your studies. In 6 years time you will actually know if you are ready for marriage or not.
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by AryEmber(f): 4:07pm On Dec 09, 2019
If you are indeed 25, and you are screwing a 19 year old, I don't think it is a curse to wish the same on your future daughter
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by tetula123(m): 4:11pm On Dec 09, 2019
I don't get why girls lie about how they were deflowered.
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Dec 09, 2019
AryEmber:
If you are indeed 25, and you are screwing a 19 year old, I don't think it is a curse to wish the same on your future daughter
What about Nerd Nwoko you people are fvcking?
Na because d guy no get money like that abi
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by elmagnifico411(m): 4:25pm On Dec 09, 2019
This one doesn’t have sense. Leave the small girl alone Biko. Go and date a girl in her 20s and see if she’ll be answering your stupid questions. You want to dey fvck free puna, and u want make e be only u wey don so the nacking before. Ode oshi!
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Nobody: 7:10pm On Dec 09, 2019
Rabson44:
There's this teenager i met a couple months ago, to cut it short, we started dating, before she visited me i asked her if she was a virgin and she said no, she told me she was raped once by a guy in her compound, well a day happened to come when she came to my house for the first, we started having foreplays before we actually had sex, when she got home, i asked her if this was her only second time experiencing sex since she claimed to be raped once, because her pu**y was already wide, and the way she was riding, i knew she already has experience, well i kept pressuring her and she finally told me she had had sex with the guy she claimed he raped her, she said they had sex 6times, not because she wanted but because she is a kind of girl that find it hard to control herself, she told me he was the one that disflowered her at 18, that was last year, now she is 19, well the guy is no more in the compound, he only came for youth service and he had left, she claim to regret her past actions and begged me to please stop bringing up the issue, it still bothers me whenever i think of it, though we haven't met when the incident happen, i need ur advice, should i continue or back off?because i am willing to marry her when she is 25, though am 25 now, she is 19, and she sincerely love me for now, i don't know if our relationship will last, though things are going on well now, and i hv met her parents on a low, and they know my motive, but her past keeps hurting me, what should i do?
did you had raw sex with her?

hope you did not cum insyd her nd watch it flow out lyk a boss..
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:12pm On Dec 09, 2019
I am surprised the girl did not also ask you if you are a virgin, and how man times you have had sex.
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Miakellz: 10:24pm On Dec 09, 2019
grin
YOUNGELDER1:
Why is this even in crime session lol
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Koll123:
OK
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Riele(f): 11:24pm On Dec 09, 2019
What are you doing with a small girl ?
Please leave her alone .
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Acme45: 12:34am On Dec 10, 2019
Rabson44:
There's this teenager i met a couple months ago, to cut it short, we started dating, before she visited me i asked her if she was a virgin and she said no, she told me she was raped once by a guy in her compound, well a day happened to come when she came to my house for the first, we started having foreplays before we actually had sex, when she got home, i asked her if this was her only second time experiencing sex since she claimed to be raped once, because her pu**y was already wide, and the way she was riding, i knew she already has experience, well i kept pressuring her and she finally told me she had had sex with the guy she claimed he raped her, she said they had sex 6times, not because she wanted but because she is a kind of girl that find it hard to control herself, she told me he was the one that disflowered her at 18, that was last year, now she is 19, well the guy is no more in the compound, he only came for youth service and he had left, she claim to regret her past actions and begged me to please stop bringing up the issue, it still bothers me whenever i think of it, though we haven't met when the incident happen, i need ur advice, should i continue or back off?because i am willing to marry her when she is 25, though am 25 now, she is 19, and she sincerely love me for now, i don't know if our relationship will last, though things are going on well now, and i hv met her parents on a low, and they know my motive, but her past keeps hurting me, what should i do?
you're not ready for any relationship, by the way she will still have others to work on.so be careful
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by Terryindeed: 1:54am On Dec 10, 2019
Someone please slap this guy for me. He need sense. A girl of 19, you are already planning to marry her when she turn 25? You don dey decide her future already. Nigga please go find sense and stop thinking with your yansh. GO AND MAKE MORE MONEY.
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by SeunDobo(m): 10:43am On Dec 10, 2019
AryEmber:
If you are indeed 25, and you are screwing a 19 year old, I don't think it is a curse to wish the same on your future daughter
Forget those girl � done bad oooo me sef taste 19 years Dem sweet .. I dey find Dem like this so 18-21 I dey gbadun Dem I swear
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by SeunDobo(m): 10:45am On Dec 10, 2019
YOUNGELDER1:
Why is this even in crime session lol
Na crime love � I think 19 years to 25 ...but still fair me nko 18 years to 28 years
Re: Should I Continue Dating Her? by YOUNGELDER1(m): 12:07pm On Dec 10, 2019
SeunDobo:
Na crime love � I think 19 years to 25 ...but still fair me nko 18 years to 28 years
Your own pass me ..
But I’d advice you go for someone older.
23 above.
How would you feel if your 18 years old daughter get to date a grown ass 28 years old man?
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