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Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:02pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy:.. Once you keep having it in mind that the other party is wrong,you will find it difficult to take this step.What I normally do is put myself in his or her shoes and tell myself that im not perfect either. The next is to tell him or her"sorry I didn't mean to provoke you into acting or behaving this or that way"and before I could even finish my statement,the other party is already apologizing and the problem is solved. It's our pride and ego that makes us not to do the right thing most times. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 1:05pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:i disagree, if i am hurting from being wronged, what is there is pain not pride or ego . 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by midnighter(f): 1:08pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Yes, everybody is different and has their own way of dealing with the past But at least they have all the facts, its left to them to decide whether to have a relationship or not |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 1:10pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
midnighter:True. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by CAPSLOCKED: 1:10pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
MARTINEZ39 AFTER ALL THE LASHES WE TOOK, IT'S GLADDENING THAT YOUR "HATEFUL" THREAD (ACCORDING TO THESE BITTER SOULS) HAS FIXED ONE FAMILY, AND CAN EVEN FIX MORE IF MORE MALES THROW AWAY THE FEMININE TRAITS THEY'VE PICKED FROM THEIR MOTHERS, AND ACTUALLY READ THESE INFORMATION WE PROVIDE ON THIS FORUM FOR FREE. A LOT WILL BE BETTER FOR THE MEN FOLK IF THEY CAN JUST FREE THEMSELVES FROM THE SHACKLES OF MATERNAL SLAVERY. AND PAY ATTENTION TO YOU, AND THE GREAT UBUNJA. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:15pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy:Exactly why I said the pain will always be there if you keep remembering the wrong he or she did. It's not an easy stuff but once you learn it,you will be at peace with yourself first and have a much happy life.Where I meant ego and pride is for people who find it difficult to apologize,wether they are wrong or right. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by CAPSLOCKED: 1:16pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Martinez39: I HAVE NEVER SEEN A WOMAN THAT IS NOT MALICIOUS. THEY CAN NOT EVEN PRETEND TO HIDE IT. WHAT IS HAPPENING? 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 1:16pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED: Lol |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 1:19pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:I can actually find peace without enabling the abuser. You see i keep hearing of this "forgive for yourself" . This is for people who hold on to it. If you wrong me, i delete you,i will barely even remember your existence so i won't even need to apologize to you for wronging me just because i want to have some form of closure. Maybe i am just different sha. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 1:28pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Nashoji: Your comment decoded Sterope thoroughly and found her out. This is to show how crafty she is - good job bro. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 1:28pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:go to page 11 and stop yapping. His mum and other siblings have long mend fences ,his mum and dad even now live together. The op is the only in his family still not on good terms with his dad. Maternal slavery my foot. Maybe na abortion fit people like you sef. And as for that Martin ,i have told him to go for sex doll and never Pollute the earth with his seed. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 1:32pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Of course you are different, just like a closed-cup mushroom but it's a good step in the right direction that you're beginning to identify who you are. Healing and redemption loading... |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 1:33pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
KanuSE:what is this one saying? Shut up if you have nothing to say, you see how i have had a good conversation with the moniker i replied. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by somehow: 1:34pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Rafiq2: No! Between 20 and 26yrs |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by BLEMOSEDU: 1:35pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ryan03:I don't think any sane man will just wake up and abandon his child/children, unless those deadbeat fathers. Some women make it very hard for a man to have any relationship with his children due to their personal issues, particularly those headstrong iron ladies. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by CAPSLOCKED: 1:37pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: I DID NOT MENTION YOU. WHO ARE YOU? WHY FOR ONCE CAN'T YOU DIE ALONE WITH YOUR BITTERNESS AND ANGUISH?? MUST YOU SEEK TO EXTEND IT TO ANYTHING YOU PASS BY? LEAVE ME ALONE PLEASE. I DON'T HAVE STRENGTH TO START RECEIVING NAMES BECAUSE THAT'S GONNA BE YOUR NEXT MOVE. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 1:38pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Just calm down ok. I can see that you are opinionated but know that the Sweet Boys Association mean well. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 1:40pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:lol ,you are the one being bitter talking about maternal slavery. Stop bringing your personal bitterness online. This is the first time i am hearing of such a word,thanks to you,seems you have a bone to pick with your mother lol. 5 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 1:41pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
KanuSE:another gibberish ,you can always tell the sane from the stupid typical male nairalanders what next?call me an olosho? Lol get lost boy. 2 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by MrFuckallday: 1:47pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
This op is delirious. Bleep his dad and every other deadbeat dad in the world 3 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 1:47pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: Why the insult na? Imagine if your bf/husband sees how you behave on NL, do you think he would be glad to continue or have a rethink. Put your feet up and swipe on lollipop ok. |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Sterope(f): 1:47pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
If you could read and understand, you would have read the part everyone blamed their mothers' emotions for everything. I guess their mothers are always on their period. I blame their mothers. If they had handled their issues with the fathers differently, they won't here tagging them emotional wrecks. Any parent who cares about his/her children would explore all options to be part of their children lives. Nashoji: 2 Likes |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by KanuSE: 1:49pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
MrFuckallday: Is today the outing day @y_._._left? |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by simplepee(f): 1:50pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
dominique:Say no more my dear,I have witnessed this already. 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ladycewhy(f): 1:51pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
KanuSE:my bf/husband is aware of dunderheads like you on nairaland,so he will not have a problem with it. Now shooo,off you go. ---------> 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by emmaodet: 1:53pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: Your writings, patterns and even moniker all points to MariaLavia. Is that you? Kinda missed the lady |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by somehow: 1:54pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Zukky123: Are you sure this is the only thing you said? Have a soul search! |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Ryan03(f): 1:55pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
BLEMOSEDU:dont even go there, if you have issues with your wife, let it end between both of you, dont extend it to the children. Do you think men are the only ones who have it hard in marriage? What if the woman decide to walk out on the kids too? My dad never looked for us so how did my mum prevented him from seeing us. My elder sister was sick and my mum took her to the hospital only to find out that he removed our names from their record. What if she had died as a result? There is no justification here, when he came after about five years, my mum never stopped him. He only came, tried to make peace with us travelled and died some months later in his travel. Abeg, I dont want to talk about this anymore but nobody should even try insinuate that "I don't know his side if the story". Some people are not just suppose to be fathers 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by somehow: 1:55pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
IceColdVeins: Financially independent 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by somehow: 2:00pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
IceColdVeins: He's an asshole because he did what and what? If he's an asshole and your mum and siblings are still with him, how bad can he be? You said you are the only one against him before now, what if you are actually the black sheep or the asshole painting your dad black for obvious reasons? 1 Like |
Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by somehow: 2:02pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: The parents were never separated, he was the one that went AWOL against his dad based on reasons best known to him.! |
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