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Fellow N/Landers

The future is unpredictable but nobody is praying for bad thing. This question have been bothering me for long. I thought it wise to it with good people of Nairaland and seeking for helpful advice.

As a man, is it advisable to marry the lady who loves you more than you love her?

please advice

Yes... Na sure bet

Are you two competing about who loves each other more? Guy,if you know you truely love this girl,then marry her. If you don't,do not waste her morrafuking time.

These are the kind of people contemplating marriage o

ouzo1:
Yes... Na sure bet

how, pls explain further

favoryte33:
Are you two competing about who loves each other more? Guy,if you know you truely love this girl,then marry her. If you don't,do not waste her morrafuking time.

bros, there's difference between like and love. you may like a lady for whom she is but you do not have love feelings for her.

Romanoff:
These are the kind of people contemplating marriage o

it is not about contemplating, but you're not sure if that's the right person whom God has given you

goldenpenny2:
bros, there's difference between like and love. you may like a lady for whom she is but you do not have love feelings for her.

Don't make a mountain out of this. Go find the one you love. Oga!

That's exactly what you should do

Wish you happiness bro.

favoryte33:
Don't make a mountain out of this. Go find the one you love. Oga!

thanks for your opinion my friend. let me hear from others

MycroftHolmes:
That's exactly what you should do

Wish you happiness bro.

thanks bro

While it is okay for her to love you so much, you are the man and should love her crazily.
The holy book commands the man to love and the woman to be submissive.
If she loves you more than you love her, that is, if you doubt what it is that you feel for her, then I wouldn't advice you to go ahead.

As a man, that’s the proper thing to do. Your woman should be the one loving you more. It’s the surest way the relationship can survive.

Love is not enough in marriage.

She may love you but not like you enough, not willing to die for you, not willing to share secrets with you, not willing to share a space with you and finally, not see you as great companion.

This is why many married folks still keep side guys, sidechicks and besties. Many keep them for sex but few others keep them because of great companionship. Does that mean they don't love their spouses? No, they do but great friendship goes beyond love.

UbiPetrus:
While it is okay for her to love you so much, you are the man and should love her crazily.
The holy book commands the man to love and the woman to be submissive.
If she loves you more than you love her, that is, if you doubt what it is that you feel for her, then I wouldn't advice you to go ahead.

Op, here is your answer.

The best but learn how to manage jealousy from women like herself. You will be very personal. U r lucky to find a woman who loves you. The feeling is so good

Misogynists everywhere! Spits!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Misogynists everywhere! Spits!

Sick feminists

That's the way it should be anyways, the love should be 60% for the woman and 40% for the man.

This kind of question is what leads to all those broken marriage thread on fp. Whatever happened to marriage between two persons who are just in love with one another. Too many compromise now a days. Pple just tend to marry whomever they are dating at the time they feel obligated to settle down.

goldenpenny2:
Fellow N/Landers

The future is unpredictable but nobody is praying for bad thing. This question have been bothering me for long. I thought it wise to it with good people of Nairaland and seeking for helpful advice.

As a man, is it advisable to marry the lady who loves you more than you love her?

please advice

When love is equal, the scale balances well

When love is not equal, there will be issues like,
Nagging
Everything becomes a fault
Anger
Frustration on one side
Unhappiness
Depression
Hatred
Dislike

Then what happens, separation comes in leading to broken home

Love must be equal for you to feel exactly what and how she feels

I hate all these nonsense about who loves who more. Some women say it too and I think it is rubbish.
They tell their fellow woman to marry the man that she knows loves her more than she loves him. It makes no sense, I don't want to be married to someone I'm not crazy about because I don't want to get hurt. We should be madly in love with each other.

It's ALL or nothing.

The marriage will last very long if the lady love you more. Ladies don't give up easily especially if she got kids

ouzo1:
Yes... Na sure bet

Are you even married?

Although some people may have a different opinion but the FACT still remains, It's always best for the lady to love more. To avoid stories that touch

She love u u complain if she no love u u go still complain

That's the desire of every sane man.

Cool tho....
There is nothing wrong in that unless u have plans to cheat on her which if she may end up killing herself and you...

Better

It's better for a woman to marry a man who loves her more than she loves him.