| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Daddy46: 12:29am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.
He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.
He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.
I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.
So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".
I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.
He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.
Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.
At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.
I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.
So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.
I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.
I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.
he blocked you so that he can concentrate on the other chicks then when he is done,he comes begging and giving you format to accept him back well the choice is yours ooooo 1 Like |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by BrainSanitizer: 12:42am On Dec 18, 2019 |
It's simple.
You were dating him.
He wasn't dating you.
You want to force him to date you.
He's pissed so he blocked you.
Don't beat yourself up. It's one of those things. Just move on.
Your next guy is waiting. He may be the one who'll love you truly.
On a lighter note.
People should learn to draw a line between f4cking for a relationship and f4cking just for the fun of it. It's usually dangerous to Bleep with someone who just wanna flirt and you attach strings.
Know why your f4ckmate wanna Bleep.
F4ck if you arr comfortable with the terms.
Else, scram!
Don't f4ck someone with the hope that he/she will become committed if they aren't ready to commit before the "f4ckation". 4 Likes |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by 001spice: 12:53am On Dec 18, 2019 |
u r d real problem.amsure u r even the one cheating on the guy. 1 Like |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by pana25: 1:03am On Dec 18, 2019 |
He is damm too sleek for a virgin abeg na lie, he is a user and i dont tink he is into u kinda feel he is childish, how old are u again  Lock ur shop and free dat nigga infact loose his numb now. How can a virgin sori so called ex virgin take u for a ride?? One luv my dear!!! The rite guy wil soon be here jo 2 Likes |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by ForbesHomesNG(m): 1:15am On Dec 18, 2019 |
extremelygolden:
Forget that guy, he's a chronic liar and a user. He only comes around when he needs you.
You deserve better. 2 Likes |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by kennyclassic: 2:16am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Love has actually clouded your mind. I’d say he’s into some other persons. Men would lie that another female is their cousin or otherwise. Just let him be. I know it’s a hard one but you have to let him be. Read the hand writings on the wall. Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.
He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.
He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.
I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.
So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".
I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.
He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.
Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.
At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.
I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.
So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.
I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.
I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.
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| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by charleoj(m): 2:21am On Dec 18, 2019 |
dawnomike:
Sorry about that dear... just let him be. He'll come around if he is serious. Madam, don't let him come around again. Na your Punana go suffer am. He won't marry you and he never had it in mind to " in the first place" 1 Like |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by GermanMelania: 3:07am On Dec 18, 2019 |
FBI CIA IS AT IT AGAIN. Sending roses outdoor freak. Very strange words for a nigerian. Pls leave us alone and go to reddit. He's into her for reasons she can't figure out. So many red flags. Lemne not talk too much so they don't write better next time |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Xanderlex: 3:11am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.
He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.
He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.
I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.
So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".
I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.
He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.
Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.
At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.
I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.
So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.
I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.
I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.
When a relationship starts affecting your peace of mind at this early stage, it is best to move on. The guy is a chronic liar. U wee just get high bp trying to change or correct him. U deserve better 2 Likes |
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| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by mrpackager(m): 4:28am On Dec 18, 2019 |
He's definitely and obviously not into you my dear. I 'll advise that you move and perhaps if he's really interested he might come around and if he does fine! |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by femi4: 4:31am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.
He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.
He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.
I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.
So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".
I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.
He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.
Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.
At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.
I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.
So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.
I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.
I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.
Apologise ke? If you do, I ll deactivate your account. He's a serial liar |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by favour32(m): 4:40am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Beg for where?
Leave am.
If he come back nai go use mouth explain himself.
Una neva dey serious with unasef. |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by aakpan904: 5:00am On Dec 18, 2019 |
I dont understand why ladies sleep with people they are not married too.
You are giving something valuable to someone who is not committed you.
The truth is in you are in a relationship with your self.
Next time wait till you are married and stop giving your goods to stray dogs.
If any guy really loves you he will wait and do the proper thing.. |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Liftedhands(f): 5:07am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.
He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.
He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.
I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.
So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".
I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.
He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.
Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.
At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.
I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.
So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.
I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.
I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.
Take it from me he is a play boy. Always acting the victim and using emotion to blackmail you. Move on. 3 Likes |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by jackals(f): 5:18am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Myhusband:
if you're my sister ehn! I will force you do igbele for 7days in cele to rebrand and reinstate your lost self esteem
you lack self esteem, self value, inferior for another gender, knowledge About love and self respect
you've no right to be making a lead in a relationship in the first place
secondly you've no right to be accusing or monitoring a guy that's not committed to you, the guy made it clear that he doesn't want something serious, so why monitor him
thirdly, you might continue being a victim of exploitation if you don't work on your value. I'm sure you're kind of people that want tall, handsome man, his feeling towards you doesn't matter
in conclusion, apologising is unnecessary as he was never in a relationship with you and him blocking you means he thrash and rubbish you, so leave him and move on The guy is probably very handsome, that's why the op couldn't leave. women will stay in an abusive relationship if the guy is good looking. forget about what we used to show here 1 Like |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Ladycewhy(f): 5:18am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alwaysachick This is what i call "GASLIGHTING" .
You are being manipulated and misdirected away from the truth. And let me tell you the truth, there is no cousin anywhere,its an old line. Also let me use this opportunity to also let you know "there was never a relationship " .
He has achieved his aim of gasligting by making you even go as far as calling someone you have never called before and i am glad you know of "the bro code" ,his friend was never going to say otherwise ,that friend is the type that calls all his friend's side chicks as "our wife".
Why are you still second guessing?accept that you have been used and move on.If you refuse to have sense,you will only get used and dumped over and over again. He will only tell you "i told you i didn't want anything serious".
Let me even ask you, do you hate yourself that much? Why are you self sabotaging your emotions? You are giving a person who came out of nowhere the opportunity to show up whenever he needs your help only to push you to the side when he is done.lets analyze it this way,check your peace before you met him and now. If your peace has been unsettled, you need to take several steps back.
Lastly, let me assure you that he will be back, not because he missed you ,but need your help and probably see if he can fvck one more time and when you allow him,you will be stuck on the roller coaster all over again. I think its best if you delete his number right now for your own good. 2 Likes |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by jackals(f): 5:23am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Ladycewhy:
This is what i call "GASLIGHTING" Narcissist use it more. the guy seems like one |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Resurgent2016: 5:23am On Dec 18, 2019 |
mumumugu:
so Nigeria Nigeria ns send roses?  People wey chop belleful for Lekki do this shit o.... |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by awalate: 5:24am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.
He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.
He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.
I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.
So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".
I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.
He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.
Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.
At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.
I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.
So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.
I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.
I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.
So sorry about the heartbroken. But you can move on with your life. Let the will of God be done. |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by optimus106(m): 5:32am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Why go through personal photos?
Why invading his privacy?
You guys are not in any relationship
so mind your business next time. 1 Like |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Ladycewhy(f): 5:37am On Dec 18, 2019 |
jackals:
Narcissist use it more. the guy seems like one yeah, most narccissits are chronic liars and master manipulators which this guy has just exhibited. This is a classic covert narccisists, they are like green snakes,they come on to you and you dont even realise it until you start second guessing and being confused. The first mistake the op made was not pulling out when he said "i don't want something serious". That was his way of not being held accountable for whatever he does to her unfortunately she fell for it. I think the op needs to head to youtube and watch videos on gaslighting. Because from my view point and the guy's view point ,there was never a relationship to begin with. |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by sandland: 5:49am On Dec 18, 2019 |
One of the best approach is to ignore someone you have already caught in the act. He will lie and in your mind, you say look at this fool. For money, you tell him that you are brook. For fun, iam bleeding. But it happened last, you say, my cycle have changed. He will wake up from his sleep. 2 Likes |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by chewwie(m): 5:58am On Dec 18, 2019 |
You made a mistake. Did you check the date those pictures were taken? If they were taken before you knew him, you're at fault and should apologize immediately because he doesn't owe you an explanation. But if they were taken while you two were together, then you go to him, give him a piece of your mind, demand an explanation and think if he's worthy of you. |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Tpresh(f): 6:02am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Move on please. And of course, he won't admit to cheating on you. |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Myhusband(m): 6:03am On Dec 18, 2019 |
jackals:
The guy is probably very handsome, that's why the op couldn't leave. women will stay in an abusive relationship if the guy is good looking. forget about what we used to show here true that but the consequence is lost of self esteem and value. such lady might continue ending up in short time relationship/marriage 1 Like |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Ruthkriz: 6:05am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Just forget about him,since u still have feelings 4 him just delete his number so not to call,there are others out there who need sum1 like,his reaction seems he doesnt luv u,have a pride 4urself,if he stil wants u he wil cal but dont put ur hopes on. |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by hope4nigeria(m): 6:06am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alwaysachick:
Thank you that he blocked you is a clear evidence he's a chronic liar. You've got the message, free him, whenever he comes back, don't give him a second chance, 2nd chance is not meant for liers, or you must be ready to Give 20000 chance. |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by GeneralShepherd(m): 6:10am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Let me make it clear here my dear. I understand that you really like this guy and you are into him. I want to let you know a few things.
1. It took me a long time to realise that there is nothing like I am not ready for a commited relationship. It is just a nice way to say I don't want to date YOU.
2. You had no right to go through his phone because he is not your bf. And even if he was you still have no right to go through his phone. A phone is so so personal that there are so many things on there that deserves the utmost respect.
3. I am sure you have at one point distanced yourself from someone. Think about and then it will help you realise that he is not for you.
4. Dating is about finding someone you are compatible with and not to fall in love at first sight. This also took me a very long time to realise.
Summary leave him. Next guy you meet enjoy his company and if you can leave sex out of it until you are sure there is compatibility between the two of you 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by remonics: 6:14am On Dec 18, 2019 |
So he ate your kakana, just after two weeks ....... 
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| Re: He Blocked Me After I Called Him A Liar For Sending Roses To His Cousin! by Ibfpleasant(m): 6:18am On Dec 18, 2019 |
I understand how you feel, but just try to summon your courage and move on.. It’s obvious you love this guy but the feelings is not mutual and he is a pathological liar.. You will definitely see your loving man! |
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