I don't know about you but from the llol of things and predictions I will tie the knot at age 32.it doesn't even matter if I made money now am 27 I prefer that age.

What about you at what age will you settle down.

30 years... all in God's hand tho

I married at d age of 22, in 1959

35, probably

NEVER WILL.... there is nothing valuable that marriage can bring to my life. you certainly dont need to be married to "live happily ever after".

"Musa our children will be fine, Musa I will love you forever." Na so Musa take read Amina wedding invitation for toll gate. Walahi , Musa faint for gate.

Na me be Musa. Wetin my eye don see heavy for mouth to talk. I don leave gateman work make I go become something for this life. Men with Benz don carry my heartthrob oooo. Amina ,I love you scatter. I won't marry no other girl than Amina. I won't marry.
Money do me something for this life. Abeg young men abeg make una try become something for this life, work hard, shun Yahoo, focus and help your Papa, Mama and siblings. Na only them love you.
Abeg guys make the tie you go knot be tie wey you go knot on top clean suit enter your Air Conditioned office siddon. Make e be tie wey you go knot go join President and Governors for front seat. Abeg
Cries an ocean

If I may ask, why are people choosing 35yrs. Will ur gfs wait till then or what. Why not 27-30

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30 is fine

MrBrownJay1:
NEVER WILL.... there is nothing valuable that marriage can bring to my life. you certainly dont need to be married to "live happily ever after".

Marriage is not a guaranteed for happiness

But if you see good woman marry her

40

Lyf begins @ 40

27-30
Provided you can feed extra 2 mouth you're good to go

bonnyhope:

Marriage is not a guaranteed for happiness
But if you see good woman marry her

if this woman is indeed good, and we have a great r/ship. why would you think that marriage is gonna improve anything?! in the contrary, marriage would RUIN more than it would improve. both of you need to be on the edge and understand that you need to woo, care, love and cherish one another for the rest of your natural life.... aka water that flower. sadly, marriage tend to make people become emotionally LAZY, sexually REDUNDANT... aka disregard that flower because you now own it.

there is only ONE way to keep a flame alive, and thats to never marry that person. marriage is like chains that would have people who dont love/like you (any longer) stay with your sorry aaass because of that bondage called marriage. if love fades away then you guys need to part ways....sadly married people would stay together because of that piece of paper. i certainly do NOT want anyone to stay with me out of pity (aka marriage) as i certainly wouldnt.

bonnyhope:
40
Lyf begins @ 40

40! Boss I hail oo. Will your current girlfriend wait till then?

30 has always been my ideal age to tie the knot.

I said 27 and seems the stars are already aligning for me, if it doesn't happen next year, then definitely 2021 when I'm 28.



Quick question guys.

Between a lady within the ages of 24 to 26 not employed and a young girl of 20 in school, which is best suited for a guy of 27 to plan his life with?

Let's assume the factors of character and love is positive.

40.

No need to tire any nut abi u be mechanic or welder?.

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You are thinking of yourself only. By the time you start considering the feelings of the woman and the love children then you'll learn. Your perspective will change with time...na you go tire

MrBrownJay1:


if this woman is indeed good, and we have a great r/ship. why would you think that marriage is gonna improve anything?! in the contrary, marriage would RUIN more than it would improve. both of you need to be on the edge and understand that you need to woo, care, love and cherish one another for the rest of your natural life.... aka water that flower. sadly, marriage tend to make people become emotionally LAZY, sexually REDUNDANT... aka disregard that flower because you now own it.

there is only ONE way to keep a flame alive, and thats to never marry that person. marriage is like chains that would have people who dont love/like you (any longer) stay with your sorry aaass because of that bondage called marriage. if love fades away then you guys need to part ways....sadly married people would stay together because of that piece of paper. i certainly do NOT want anyone to stay with me out of pity (aka marriage) as i certainly wouldnt.

MrBrownJay1:


if this woman is indeed good, and we have a great r/ship. why would you think that marriage is gonna improve anything?! in the contrary, marriage would RUIN more than it would improve. both of you need to be on the edge and understand that you need to woo, care, love and cherish one another for the rest of your natural life.... aka water that flower. sadly, marriage tend to make people become emotionally LAZY, sexually REDUNDANT... aka disregard that flower because you now own it.

there is only ONE way to keep a flame alive, and thats to never marry that person. marriage is like chains that would have people who dont love/like you (any longer) stay with your sorry aaass because of that bondage called marriage. if love fades away then you guys need to part ways....sadly married people would stay together because of that piece of paper. i certainly do NOT want anyone to stay with me out of pity (aka marriage) as i certainly wouldnt.

I share this same belief...but then I start thinking; what if heaven and hell are real and I'm just sinning my way to hell by not making it official

Never, I don't like the sound of marriage it's bondage

Ebonygirl1:

I share this same belief...but then I start thinking; what if heaven and hell are real and I'm just sinning my way to hell by not making it official

Then you can still divorce

I feel from 22-30 is ideal if you have the money. But for me 35 is what on my mind. The street is not smiling.


I don't want one woman to come and give me high BP because of some financial needs.

Whenever you feel you have a stable financial stance, you should go for it.

Meanwhile, I don't even have girlfriend now. If e hold me too much, I order for olosho. I don't want to say Nigerian girls are liabilities. Because I am sure there are still few ones with brains. Until then, olosho will do.

Ebonygirl1:

I share this same belief...but then I start thinking; what if heaven and hell are real and I'm just sinning my way to hell by not making it official

heaven and hell is a fantasy that NOBODY can confirm, while marriage and its consequences are VERY real...

DMerciful:
You are thinking of yourself only. By the time you start considering the feelings of the woman and the love children then you'll learn. Your perspective will change with time...na you go tire

you mean my kids are missing because i am not married to their mother?! HOW EXACTLY?!!?!?!?!?
you mean babymamas are missing because i am not married to them?! HOW EXACTLY?!!?!?!?!?

who else should a man think of, if not himself 1st and foremost... if i aint happy, there is NO WAY i can make any woman happy, let alone my kids.

Probably before I'm 30, I don't want my child's friend calling me his grandpa. I've set the date already, wetin remain na to find good wife.

Now 32, will be 33 in few months.

The only thing holding me: No woman to marry.

Every woman who is close to what I want is marred by her religious beliefs. Once I tell them I am non religious or a deist, they zoom off.

Do we have free thinking ladies in this part of the world?

I married at age 24 and I have never regretted it

Never will. Misogynist till whenever. Women only breeds trouble.

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Marriage is not compulsory.
There's nothing better than waking up in the morning knowing you have all the house to yourself. Watch your movies and football, no woman dragging remote with you to watch BBN or Telemundo.
Go out and come back whenever you want and with whoever you want.

Marriage is a scam created by women to put real men in chains.