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Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by sisisioge: 10:41am On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
. If you have any who fits into my kind of woman, connect us both, friendship first then we explore
Awwww...I dont have any. 2019 got everyone around me settled in one relationship or the other...its indeed the year of fearlessness and taking the plunge. Good luck Buddy.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Royalcity: 10:44am On Dec 20, 2019
aminusodiq:
i pray u find ur bone... Nd pls be weary of scammers!!! Btwn ar u yoruba?
juding from his surname,he is from the south south.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 11:11am On Dec 20, 2019
Royalcity:
juding from his surname,he is from the south south.
. Yeah you are smart,but I don't discuss tribes (it a major problem in Nigeria) I am Ibibio by tribe, Akwa Ibomite,I have network of friends,cut across Nigeria
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 11:34am On Dec 20, 2019
From the way you write I can tell that you are not a very patient person.

And also for someone who prides in intelligence, your sentences are hardly well constructed. Maybe the lack of patience hence the way your write up don't come off as an above average intelligent person.

Turnoff!
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 11:35am On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
what do you want me to take it off please let me know
I love love your list
You want what you want, simple
If I was searching I would apply cheesy
I eat terribly though (fast, and a lot and for some reason I dunno the food in my plate gets cold real fast- maybe I have an AC in my mouth!)
My father used to tell me to be sure I don’t eat the way I do at home outside- So I control it outside (one of my fake things tongue)

Back to the topic, do not modify your list. It’s not hard to get. You were not vain (l@ looks) and you were not greedy (@bring to the table). And you had an age range
You want a partner basically right? And not just “the wife”
The Maths bit cracked me up though
Remove any thought of marrying a white person from your mind though (except if you are very cosmopolitan in outlook). I dare to say that most of us are real bush people at heart, you need someone who speaks your speak, who understands the exclamations you make, who shares culture with you IMO

Good luck!
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 11:37am On Dec 20, 2019
Thoniameek:
From the way you write I can tell that you are not a very patient person.

And also for someone who prides in intelligence, your sentences are hardly well constructed. Maybe the lack of patience hence the way your write up don't come off as an above average intelligent person.

Turnoff!
I am not and like been a loose with words( I don't abuse) maybe my field contribute to it(engineering) In between noted.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 11:42am On Dec 20, 2019
merahki:
I love love your list
You want what you want, simple
If I was searching I would apply cheesy
I eat terribly though (fast, and a lot and for some reason I dunno the food in my plate gets cold real fast- maybe I have an AC in my mouth!)
My father used to tell me to be sure I don’t eat the way I do at home outside- So I control it outside (one of my fake things tongue)

Back to the topic, do not modify your list. It’s not hard to get. You were not vain (l@ looks) and you were not greedy (@bring to the table). And you had an age range
You want a partner basically right? And not just “the wife”
The Maths bit cracked me up though
Remove any thought of marrying a white person from your mind though (except if you are very cosmopolitan in outlook). Most of us are real bush people at heart, you need someone who speaks your speak, who understands the exclamations you make, who shares culture with you IMO

Good luck!
. I am very cosmopolitan in nature. Ok my little dirty secret (I have dated Italian (best relationship I ever had), Chinese (fling) South African, Ghanaian (fling)..but I desire a Nigerian princess, if I can't get one viola I run west.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 11:45am On Dec 20, 2019
Thoniameek:
From the way you write I can tell that you are not a very patient person.

And also for someone who prides in intelligence, your sentences are hardly well constructed. Maybe the lack of patience hence the way your write up don't come off as an above average intelligent person.

Turnoff!
But why are you “beefing” him nah? He just made a list, and not a bad one at that, to me at least?
cry
I don’t think it’s appropriate to judge people by the way they “do” English
You were able to tell he is not a patient person from that post? That’s intelligent if true
Dear poster, take note of a possible desired trait- intelligence cheesy
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 11:46am On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
. I am very cosmopolitan in nature. Ok my little dirty secret (I have dated Italian (best relationship I ever had), Chinese (fling) South African, Ghanaian (fling)..but I desire a Nigerian princess, if I can't get one viola I run west.
Okay then, you are good to go!
Cheers
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by aminusodiq(m): 11:48am On Dec 20, 2019
Royalcity:
juding from his surname,he is from the south south.
ok
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 11:49am On Dec 20, 2019
merahki:
But why are you “beefing” him nah? He just made a list, and not a bad one at that, to me at least?
cry
I don’t think it’s appropriate to judge people by the way they “do” English
You were able to tell he is not a patient person from that post? That’s intelligent if true
Dear poster, take note! cheesy
I am generally not patient in life but I don't make mistake ( reason why I so adore a well calculated woman), I am not rude but plain and simple. I put my trust in excellent and above all I fear my God.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Royalcity: 12:03pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
. Yeah you are smart,but I don't discuss tribes (it a major problem in Nigeria) I am Ibibio by tribe, Akwa Ibomite,I have network of friends,cut across Nigeria
I knew you were an akwa ibomite,just didnt want to be too explicit and i'm equally detribilize Nigerian.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:28pm On Dec 20, 2019
grin
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by shestrong(f): 12:56pm On Dec 20, 2019
Think u shouldn't be in a rush, so u do not end up with a pretender. All the best.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 12:57pm On Dec 20, 2019
shestrong:
Think u shouldn't be in a rush, so u do not end up with a pretender. All the best.
I don't....have other interests
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 1:07pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
Willing to relocate
grin
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 1:34pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jhaytee4all:
grin
. Yeah but Lagos,it too noisy, just been posted to Abuja.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 1:49pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
. Yeah but Lagos,it too noisy, just been posted to Abuja.
okay... from Lagos to Abuja to Canada... posting afta posting... happy posting!

Hope you find a spouse here... lol
cos I have a friend of whom her uncle proposed to a lady online whom he's never seen or met, and they got wedded..
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:06pm On Dec 20, 2019
merahki:
But why are you “beefing” him nah? He just made a list, and not a bad one at that, to me at least?
cry
I don’t think it’s appropriate to judge people by the way they “do” English
You were able to tell he is not a patient person from that post? That’s intelligent if true
Dear poster, take note of a possible desired trait- intelligence cheesy
As detailed as the list is, it's unrealistic and clearly shows how mature the Op is... They are things that keep married people together and the Op seems to not know them.

Because her knowledge in calculus makes her attractive to you now doesn't mean it's going to maintain the same hold it has on you five years into the marriage. Trust me her academic achievement wouldn't mean a thing when real issues of life begin.

I wasn't talking about how he wrote with English but more about how he put the words together.

I mean you can write with Yoruba and if I understood it I could tell your level of patience
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:11pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
I am not and like been a loose with words( I don't abuse) maybe my field contribute to it(engineering) In between noted.
I know for a fact that a woman with all the traits you mentioned up there is not going to be patient also. And because of her intelligence, she's going to come off as reserved in unfamiliar territories as a way to conceal/deal with her impatience.

Two impatient people... Not very compatible I think
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:15pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
nope I have taste and that is who I want to be with. No more no less. If I can't find it in my country,I go Western world. Over the years Our women deal with me...I have come this far to stoop low for any woman.
Yes! Did you attend Shiloh? God said ask and you will receive, seek and you shall find. Do not settle for what you won't b proud of.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:16pm On Dec 20, 2019
Thoniameek:
I know for a fact that a woman with all the traits you mentioned up there is not going to be patient also. And because of her intelligence, she's going to come off as reserved in unfamiliar territories as a way to conceal/deal with her impatience.

Two impatient people... Not very compatible I think
We can find a way round it. In between I am a good listener and I am willing to learn new things
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:17pm On Dec 20, 2019
Which one is good eating habit again? Lol
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:21pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
Age b/w 24-36yrs
Single no kid
Medical/law/ Engineering
Good in mathematics
God fearing
Willing to relocate
Sense of humor
Working
Versatile on world event and politics
From a family that have values
Have a great deal of humanity
Love romance
Chocolate or light skin
Have zero tolerance for tribalism and nepotism
Have a good eating habits
If you have above qualities as a lady, contact me, else I go foreign,I can't come and kill myself
Here are my qualities
32yrs
Engineering Field
God fearing
Chocolate in color
Well organized
Realist
Idealist
Have eyes for investment
6feet tall
Adventure in nature
Love humanity
Believe in romance
At peace with myself
Love reading
Etc
If you are ok with the above, write me at jamesudom30@gmail.com or contact me at 08030719957
I love it when people know what they want and have standards. However, don't be too rigid about it. What are your must haves and which qualities are an extra? The most important question however is what you have to offer. What do you radiate that will attract a high quality woman into your life?
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:27pm On Dec 20, 2019
Mindfulness:
I love it when people know what they want and have standards. However, don't be too rigid about it. What are your must haves and which qualities are an extra? The most important question however is what you have to offer. What do you radiate that will attract a high quality woman into your life?
My post goes to show we have very few single ladies who measures up to basic standard of life...as for my qualities, I already included it in my post.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:31pm On Dec 20, 2019
Thoniameek:
As detailed as the list is, it's unrealistic and clearly shows how mature the Op is... They are things that keep married people together and the Op seems to not know them.

Because her knowledge in calculus makes her attractive to you now doesn't mean it's going to maintain the same hold it has on you five years into the marriage. Trust me her academic achievement wouldn't mean a thing when real issues of life begin.

I wasn't talking about how he wrote with English but more about how he put the words together.

I mean you can write with Yoruba and if I understood it I could tell your level of patience
. I understand my dear, but let deal with the basic first, logic will takes it's course... If we have the same energy flow, same passion, same out view,we can weather the storm.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:33pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
My post goes to show we have very few single ladies who measures up to basic standard of life...as for my qualities, I already included it in my post.
Sorry, I skimmed through the list. I know it can be frustrating to find a high quality partner but on the bright side it's because when you develop yourself and rise above the average, the pool of potential partners becomes smaller.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:42pm On Dec 20, 2019
Mindfulness:
Sorry, I skimmed through the list. I know it can be frustrating to find a high quality partner but on the bright side it's because when you develop yourself and rise above the average, the pool of potential partners becomes smaller.
that true...I once dated this classy girl, figure 8, good job, college graduate,beauty Queen (Happen to be the most beautiful civil servant in that state), Good listener, respect me a lot.. but her boss told me she not good for a wifey,I try to find, notice she got too much ego and feel she knows all.. What separate us was a an honest lie she told me. ...I never settled for less and I won't be able to do it now...It kills dream and drain energy.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
that true...I once dated this classy girl, figure 8, good job, college graduate,beauty Queen (Happen to be the most beautiful civil servant in that state), Good listener, respect me a lot.. but her boss told me she not good for a wifey,I try to find, notice she got too much ego and feel she knows all.. What separate us was a an honest lie she told me. ...I never settled for less and I won't be able to do it now...It kills dream and drain energy.
You want a smart girl and your girlfriend's boss had the audacity to approach you and tell you that your own girl is not wife material? Do you know what that says about you? Anyway. What was that "honest lie"?
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by Nobody: 2:52pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
Age b/w 24-36yrs
Single no kid
Medical/law/ Engineering
Good in mathematics
God fearing
Willing to relocate
Sense of humor
Working
Versatile on world event and politics
From a family that have values
Have a great deal of humanity
Love romance
Chocolate or light skin
Have zero tolerance for tribalism and nepotism
Have a good eating habits
If you have above qualities as a lady, contact me, else I go foreign,I can't come and kill myself
Here are my qualities
32yrs
Engineering Field
God fearing
Chocolate in color
Well organized
Realist
Idealist
Have eyes for investment
6feet tall
Adventure in nature
Love humanity
Believe in romance
At peace with myself
Love reading
Etc
If you are ok with the above, write me at jamesudom30@gmail.com or contact me at 08030719957
Lol, 'medical, law or engineering' and 'good in mathematics' both have to be the most ridiculous traits to search for.
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by bukatyne(f): 3:01pm On Dec 20, 2019
aminusodiq:
U wan start calculus tutorialshuh cheesy cheesy
Hahahaha
Re: Help I Need A Wife, companion and a partner by bukatyne(f): 3:04pm On Dec 20, 2019
Jammyudom:
Age b/w 24-36yrs
Single no kid
Medical/law/ Engineering
Good in mathematics
God fearing
Willing to relocate
Sense of humor
Working
Versatile on world event and politics
From a family that have values
Have a great deal of humanity
Love romance
Chocolate or light skin
Have zero tolerance for tribalism and nepotism
Have a good eating habits
If you have above qualities as a lady, contact me, else I go foreign,I can't come and kill myself
Here are my qualities
32yrs
Engineering Field
God fearing
Chocolate in color
Well organized
Realist
Idealist
Have eyes for investment
6feet tall
Adventure in nature
Love humanity
Believe in romance
At peace with myself
Love reading
Etc
If you are ok with the above, write me at jamesudom30@gmail.com or contact me at 08030719957
Sorry, when I saw good in mathematics, what came to me was good in bed.

Goodluck in your search

Or you can go to your village this Christmas or ask you parents for recommendations
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