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Well let me just go straight to the point without wasting much time. I met this girl online and she is from South Africa and a single mum which I don't seem to care about. At first we were just friends until feeling started developing and automatically that was that we started dating. Though the relationship was online I really liked her and she liked me too. Matter of fact she told me she love me and honestly I love her too. she is even planning to come to Nigeria for a visit but I told her not to because I'm putting one or two things in order. Matter of fact the way I love this girl have never loved anybody like her. What I love about her the most isthat she loves me just the way I want to be loved and again another thing I love about her is that she's always challenging me to be a better person like for instance when I told her about a project I'm working on immediately she started giving me ideas. She even offer to send me money but I told her no. She said she has no intention for games that she's hoping that this will lead to marriage and I'm okay with that although I told her that I won't be ready to settle yet until maybe two years from now and she's cool with that. we have even agreed that if we were to get married she will have to move to Nigeria because that's where my business is but the problem is I told my parents about her and they were not happy that I'm dating is South African. My mum totally freaked out. I don't know what to do I'm really confused normally this is the kind of girl I would like to spend the rest of my life with but I don't want to marry a girl without my parents consent because she's leaving her family to come and live with me the last thinh she needs is to face hostile in-laws. Please help me what do I do fellow nairaland does help me

This is a matter of dialogue, appeal and education.

Sit your beloved parents down and educate them on whatever misconception they have about you marrying a South African , show them how much things are going well between you two and appeal for them to give you a chance.

Have a dialogue! Very simple

Audio love BTW have your parents been to South before? What is your pips beef with South Africans

DanDeeBoss:
Op, do that before "imes" comes ooo

And why should it be before Imes comes?

they're probably scared she'd go xenophobic on you..
best thing is to invite her down here for like a dinner or something.. let your parent get to know her more.. could help change their perception about her.

Have you checked her HIV status

Rilley:
Have you checked her HIV status

how sure are u that u not chatting with a fellow naija guy based in southy who is posing as a southy girl .be vigilant o

OP, I think your parents are scared because they don't really know her.

coupled with the series of things they have known south Africans for. may be you need to invite down here, so your parents gets to know her.


OP, besides na just ONLINE you know her, E remain to know her OFFLINE.

I am sure it's lilianofentse

you know South Africans killed our brother xenophobia . you just have to explain to them she is not the one that killed xenophobia

lefulefu2:
how sure are u that u not chatting with a fellow naija guy based in southy who is posing as a southy girl .be vigilant o

we do video chat and WhatsApp call. She's legit

IAmStrange:
This is a matter of dialogue, appeal and education.

Sit your beloved parents down and educate them on whatever misconception they have about you marrying a South African , show them how much things are going well between you two and appeal for them to give you a chance.

Have a dialogue! Very simple

Thanks a lot. I really appreciate

NLSavage:
I am sure it's lilianofentse

hei do I know you?

The AIDS we have in naija is enough. They don't want you to go bring more. We no go gree o we no go gree
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esthil:
we do video chat and WhatsApp call. She's legit

ok oo