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Saintmary:

They don't want feminists who are getting jobs, pushing their careers, buying cars and building houses, they want submissive women who will start popping babies after school.
Whatever, Whatever.

Does it matter what "they" want?

You people have come again OP

Let me go and open thread asking women to not marry broke guys insults go plenty for the thread no be small.

Yet some confused entitled hypocrites want a wife who isn't broke, who is obedient and submissive, who also pays bills at home and yada yada yada

Entitled selfish pricks

They will never agree that men must be domesticated before marriage but they want women who are breadwinners and hustlers

MedicH:


Does it matter what "they" want?

To them, it does
To me, their noise about what they want is what matters

Ardar:


God i hate it when people especially women use this word, it's so degrading.

Talk to me about that after obtaining a PhD in engineering and when you become a millionaire in US dollar.

Ardar:


God i hate it when people especially women use this word, it's so degrading.

What is degrading in submission?

zmpp:


Talk to me about that after obtaining a PhD in engineering and when you become a millionaire in US dollar.

Having a PhD doesn't stop you from having an outdated mind set.

bukatyne:


What is degrading in submission?

For me, someone who submits is obedient, passive, slavish, timid, meek and docile.

I just sum it up as not having a mind of your own or giving up all your choices as an adult to someone else cuz a 2000 year old book written by men said so.

Ardar:


For me, someone who submits is obedient, passive, slavish, timid, meek and docile.

I just sum it up as not having a mind of your own or giving up all your choices as an adult to someone else cuz a 2000 year old book written by men said so.

Feminism is about having a right to choice... she made a choice to be submissive and you are attacking her. What a way to go for someone like you that claims to be a feminist... If you don't want to be submissive, fine, all you have to do is make a choice, it's your right. However, never again question other people's choice, it's their right.

cerpvad:
In my opinion and from experience, broke girls are better to date than the girls with financial independence. Some broke girls are hundred percent loyal sexually and in other ramifications. This is unlike several financially independent ladies who have tendency of undue control over you thereby instituting power struggle in the relationship

I have dumped a number of working class ladies as a result of the above reason.

You sir are one of the problems we are discussing

ednut1:
Many nigerian men want to marry ladies they can control/ dependent on them. So they will still go for broke girls

O wise one
Teach me to be like you

Fabuloski:

Feminism is about having a right to choice... she made a choice to be submissive and you are attacking her. What a way to go for someone like you that claims to be a feminist... If you don't want to be submissive, fine, all you have to do is make a choice, it's your right. However, never again question other people's choice, it's their right.

Emmm I don't remember telling you that i was a feminist did i? You men what to eat your cake and have it but it won't work.

Ardar:


Emmm I don't remember telling you that i was a feminist did i? You men what to eat your cake and have it but it won't work.

This is not about any cake, okay?.... Even, if you are not a feminist, let the lady make her choice, it's her right. You can make yours too, it's your right and nobody will question you.

cerpvad:
Bruh, though I don't support women who are lazy leeches, but t let's face the truth, marriage is covertly supposed to be an escape route from poverty for a woman, if she is from a poor home. Women by their nature are 'receivers' while men, by nature are givers. That is why you see a man buy a car for his wife and he is applauded for it. But let a woman buy a car for her husband, will the husband be applauded for that?

This why it is good for a lady to marry up but it could be a disaster if a guy marry up

Marry up, marry up.... Marry up..
The question now is that if the number of men up are not that much to go round for all the ladies down, then what happen?
See bro, life is constantly changing and there are some rules or popular opinions that are now obsolete. They are no more sustainable.
The era of marry up stopped when women are been sent to school and also been empowered with jobs, loans, finance and business.
If you want us to go back to the traditional settings then all women will have to be sacked also from all jobs to give the traditional providers the avenue to carry out there duties.
We all can eat our cakes and have it.
For every woman you see in a work place or job or office e.g public and civil servants, banks, mobil, chevron etc there is an equal amount of men(real providers) displaced from such posts.
So what do you want the displaced men to do? Become magicians and create jobs from thin air?
The marriage settings as been distorted immediately women were empowered.
At that moment, there exist no more provider or receiver.
Everybody became Equal both in finance and duties at home.
Of course, we will still be having the traditional set up but it will be reducing more and more as time goes on because it's not sustainable anymore.

Ubunja
Martinez39
Pansophist
Franchasng

I love this post. I agree with it. A feminist can be anything SHE WANTS to be. Submissive included.

I surely hope you will be as sincere and tolerant when the woman CHOOSES not to submit.

Fabuloski:

Feminism is about having a right to choice... she made a choice to be submissive and you are attacking her. What a way to go for someone like you that claims to be a feminist... If you don't want to be submissive, fine, all you have to do is make a choice, it's your right. However, never again question other people's choice, it's their right.

Explain clearly why you think so

Sundayjoko:

You sir are one of the problems we are discussing

Your position is well understood. But the bottom line is that every woman, either broke or financially successful, deserves to be loved cared for by a man.

A real man does not say if she is broke, I won't marry her, because a real man does not expect augmentation from his wife's resources to carry out his responsibility in the home.

Although, in the new trends in modern marriage, both man and woman are seen as equal parties, they are far from being equal in sharing duties and responsibilities. This because, in our clime, you will hear women saying 'my money is my money and his money is for the family' Meaning, many financial women have tendency of spending their money on themselves and when they spend to support the family, they are fond of blowing the trumpet for the whole world to know. And when they have altercations with their husbands, they go to the extent of blackmailing. That is when you will hear them say ' I bought this, I bought that for you and the children'

I am still of the view that men should as much as possible, marry down. This will go a long way to contain power struggles and competition which have destroyed many a marriage.

emmaodet:

Marry up, marry up.... Marry up..
The question now is that if the number of men up are not that much to go round for all the ladies down, then what happen?
See bro, life is constantly changing and there are some rules or popular opinions that are now obsolete. They are no more sustainable.
The era of marry up stopped when women are been sent to school and also been empowered with jobs, loans, finance and business.
If you want us to go back to the traditional settings then all women will have to be sacked also from all jobs to give the traditional providers the avenue to carry out there duties.
We all can eat our cakes and have it.
For every woman you see in a work place or job or office e.g public and civil servants, banks, mobil, chevron etc there is an equal amount of men(real providers) displaced from such posts.
So what do you want the displaced men to do? Become magicians and create jobs from thin air?
The marriage settings as been distorted immediately women were empowered.
At that moment, there exist no more provider or receiver.
Everybody became Equal both in finance and duties at home.
Of course, we will still be having the traditional set up but it will be reducing more and more as time goes on because it's not sustainable anymore.

Ubunja
Martinez39
Pansophist
Franchasng

cococandy:
I love this post. I agree with it. A feminist can be anything SHE WANTS to be. Submissive included.

I surely hope you will be as sincere and tolerant when the woman CHOOSES not to submit.

I am.... I am a huge believer of individual rights sha

ednut1:
i said many. No be this same 9ja men say they cant marry a career banker woman but prefer chilling jobs like teaching. Over 70% of 9ja men prefer broke women as they endure all kinds of shits

When I was encouraging women to work for their money to earn respect, all the men that commented attacked me for saying women should work, earn money and respect. Now look at this op's topic. I don't understand Nigerian men

Geminita1:
Notwithstanding, my money is mine and his for the family. If he wants me to co-provide then he has to co-birth our babies.

Nonsense.

nanauju:



When I was encouraging women to work for their money to earn respect, all the men that commented attacked me for saying women should work, earn money and respect. Now look at this op's topic. I don't understand Nigerian men

Its not about "earning respect ". Women should compliment their men financially. Its true that most women tend to be arrogant once they begin to earn money, men should learn to leave this category of women and go for women who earn a living and are also willing to be wifed the right way!!!

zmpp:


i wonder who told you that it is only feminists who are successful. i am not a feminist and i am successful and submissive

lol, see this animal forming submissive and successful o. Abeg post your acc balance. Broke bitches forming porch on nl

Ardar:


God i hate it when people especially women use this word, it's so degrading.

Then go and die!

seanblaise:

To those category of men, a teacher is financially stable. Financial stability is relatively. There are families who have a teacher as thier farther and thier mum is also a teacher and they are doing really well. There are also people who see bankers as poor people. To each his own.

I disagree.

Most men want their wives to be teachers because they dont want to do any house chores or provide child care.

Later they will come and say the woman is not contributing financially or she's lazy yen yen yen...elo ni salary e?

cerpvad:
In my opinion and from experience, broke girls are better to date than the girls with financial independence. Some broke girls are hundred percent loyal sexually and in other ramifications. This is unlike several financially independent ladies who have tendency of undue control over you thereby instituting power struggle in the relationship

I have dumped a number of working class ladies as a result of the above reason.

Really?

freecocoahubby:


Then go and die!

Who this one? Are you on your mensuration?

freecocoahubby:


Then go and die!