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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Jaqenhghar: 2:05am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please
Give to Caesar what belongs to ceasar and give to God what belo gs to God
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by shogsman(m): 2:14am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please

People like you are why I don't keep friends.

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Thunderblasts(m): 2:21am On Dec 23, 2019
You re not his friend.
I dislike your type. If I ever have your type around me, na to throw you away sure pass!
Fake friends like you think they ve some brain but na wire just full your head

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by staytravel: 3:15am On Dec 23, 2019
Yes attend.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by mullerman: 3:22am On Dec 23, 2019
Go and show your support for him,he would surely need you most now and mind you his parents may forgive him in future and what will now be your own excuse.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Nobody: 3:41am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please

I hope you were there to support your friend. I really admire his courage in doing the right thing despite his unreasonable parents.I hope the wife always remembers how much he was willing to give up for her

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Nobody: 3:44am On Dec 23, 2019
If I were him and found out you even entertained the thoughts of not coming the friendship will be over

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Homguy(m): 4:08am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please
how do people think like this? whats your business with his parents? do you have a relationship with his parents or your friend? without your friend who are you to his parent?
You are most definitely some fake friend with a very slim chance you are not.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Homguy(m): 4:16am On Dec 23, 2019
mechanics:
You can say whatever you like but it's the truth.
if it wasnt sarcasm, then you must be living under some rock.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Afrocentric: 4:16am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please
fake friend
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Ladycewhy(f): 5:06am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:


what I want to do is different from what is right or wrong.
Are you a friend to him or to his parents? If you dont show up to lend your support what do you think will become of your friendship with him? Or better still parents and child will settle, and you would have just taken paracetamol for another man's headache.


In my honest opinion ,you are not a friend anyone needs in their lives for you to even be contemplating this. Please dont go ,so that friend of yours will know what kind of a friend you are.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by bevot34822: 5:15am On Dec 23, 2019
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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Nobody: 5:18am On Dec 23, 2019
MotherChristmas:


I hope you were there to support your friend. I really admire his courage in doing the right thing despite his unreasonable parents.I hope the wife always remembers how much he was willing to give up for her


Yes I was.

He's a top guy. He however can be really stubborn.

People here calling me I would say don't understand. Thanks

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by hopeforcharles(m): 5:50am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:



you made a whole lot of sense. Thanks.

I am particular about his parents giving their blessings. I have told him. We have been telling ourselves as friends the truth no matter the situation.

Going ahead without parents consent and blessings is wrong
Is it always that a parent is right? Don't u think he will be doing a whole lot of harm to the world, Nigeria and even himself plus his parents if the supposedly pregnant fiancee give birth and the child becomes a nuisance to the society?

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by nurusystem(m): 5:50am On Dec 23, 2019
Oga just go,,noting like principle, who principle help.even law ,principle are made to be breaking. Go n support your g.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by prettysassygirl(f): 5:59am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please
Of course u can,family would always settle their issues.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by gbogboija: 6:01am On Dec 23, 2019
Go and show him your support, his parents decision not to attend is not your business. He needs all the support he can get from his friends at this trying times.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Galaxydon1(m): 6:01am On Dec 23, 2019
Silly question
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by SweetyZinta(f): 6:24am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please

Simple question :
If it were their daughter that was impregnated and the boyfriend wants to officially marry her, wouldn't they give their blessings and attend?

Why are people this selfish Someone's daughter should be left when she was impregnated by your son? Guys hustle oooo, make you fit take your responsibility without any one trying to frustrate you!

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Nobody: 6:31am On Dec 23, 2019
SweetyZinta:


Simple question :
If it were their daughter that was impregnated and the boyfriend wants to officially marry her, wouldn't they give their blessings and attend?

Why are people this selfish Someone's daughter should be left when she was impregnated by your son? Guys hustle oooo, make you fit take your responsibility without any one trying to frustrate you!

They are Chosen Mopol
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by CAPSLOCKED: 6:31am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:



you made a whole lot of sense. Thanks.

I am particular about his parents giving their blessings. I have told him. We have been telling ourselves as friends the truth no matter the situation.

Going ahead without parents consent and blessings is wrong

WE DON'T NEED PARENTS BLESSINGS FOR ANYTHING. THIS REASONING IS WHY WE GIVE OUR PARENTS AND ELDERS SO MUCH POWER OVER US AND THEY CONTROL US AND CAUSE CHAOS WITH THE ARMS WE GIVE THEM.

YOU JUST NEED AN AMAZING PARTNER. NOT ANYBODY'S BLESSINGS. ALL THE COUPLES FIGHTING AND DIVORCING, DO YOU KNOW THAT ALMOST ALL OF THEM OBTAINED BLESSINGS FROM THEIR FAMILIES AND PASTORS FIRST? BUT SEE HOW TERRIBLE THEIR MARRIAGES BECOME.

YOU JUST NEED COOPERATION IN YOUR MARRIAGE. NOT BLESSINGS. WHO BLESSES TWO ORPHANS? WHO BLESSES UNMARRIED PAIRS THAT HAVE LIVED TOGETHER FOR YEARS IN PEACE WITH MANY CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK?

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by freemandela4(m): 6:31am On Dec 23, 2019
Blackman and parents blessings na like 5&6. What if the parent forgive him after the wedding and pour all their blessings on Him?
mikezuruki:



you made a whole lot of sense. Thanks.

I am particular about his parents giving their blessings. I have told him. We have been telling ourselves as friends the truth no matter the situation.

Going ahead without parents consent and blessings is wrong
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by freemandela4(m): 6:36am On Dec 23, 2019
As a friend, His problem is your problem. Think.
mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by SweetyZinta(f): 6:37am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:


They are Chosen Mopol

Na die be this ooo!!!



They have neglected their duties as parents, they failed to educate their Son he can't get someone pregnant before marriage. Do they think they are doing the right thing in the sight of God by refusing their blessings
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Btruth: 6:43am On Dec 23, 2019
You are his friend and not his parents' friend. Your loyalty should be with your friend. smiley

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by mechanics(m): 6:50am On Dec 23, 2019
Homguy:
if it wasnt sarcasm, then you must be living under some rock.
have heard you, you know the truth is bitter.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by mechanics(m): 6:51am On Dec 23, 2019
MajorWarren:


grin grin grin grin
This guy
hahahahah.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Lawbaron: 6:55am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:



you made a whole lot of sense. Thanks.

I am particular about his parents giving their blessings. I have told him. We have been telling ourselves as friends the truth no matter the situation.

Going ahead without parents consent and blessings is wrong
Before this your friend, alot of parents have refused marriages and the couples go out a have a blissful marriage to the regrets of the parents. Who will suffer their action when the woman birth that child and he/she grows up to be successful? The man or his parents? Marriage is a union between two with the exclusion of others. Posterity will question your role in this trying time in the near future. Humans never forgets, do you want to be found wanting?

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by lomprico(m): 7:15am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please
and you called yourself a friend?

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Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Nobody: 7:18am On Dec 23, 2019
In Tubaba's voice,"As you dey for there dey form you Holy so I hope you Holy pass Elijah"

I think parent should Start standing by there Children in Times like this....
If nah my pikin I go support am full time ,knowing that this things happen sometimes....Am against pre marital pregnancy, but Honestly u would be there for Him or Her.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by lomprico(m): 7:28am On Dec 23, 2019
mechanics:
It's even unscriptural for someone to impregnate a woman before marriage, his parents are right, attending the wedding means you are supporting illegality.

but u listen to wizkid, davido, tuface, etc. when born scatter everywhere without marriage.
abeg fuckoff.
Re: His Parents Didn't Approve Of His Engagement. Should I Attend As A Friend? by Came4amod: 7:30am On Dec 23, 2019
mikezuruki:
Is It Proper For Me As A Friend Attend This Engagement?

I will make this short as possible.

I will be attending a friend of mine engagement party today who happened to have impregnated the girl before marriage plan. That wasn't his plan. His parents didn't give their blessings hence they are not showing up for the engagement party.

Is it right for me as a friend to show up for something like this that was not blessed nor consented by the parents of the groom to be?

What do you think? mature ones please

Your parents can even serve your head to the devil .. parents are overrated.. my childhood was struggle.. I am not even up to 30 but I feel like a veteran with PTSD .. its bleeped up here .. and I am sure many people feel this way already ..

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