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Happy Xmas And New Year In Advanced.
I need your advice on this my matter.
am staying with my mama at the moment but next year by the grace of God i will get my own apartment.
so the main issues here is that I want to be in real relationship, have been in relationship thrice but i didn't take two seriously while the one I took seriously turned out bad.
now i have two girls at the moment that i want to ask out if one doesn't accept another can accept but you know Nigeria girls with money and their materialistic lifestyle.

I've thought of not dating until am loaded and at the same time when money come, ladies will be over person and then to choose will be little bit difficult and morever money can't buy love.

but i need lovely,caring, respectable and good woman.

Sorry
You don't need a lady. Why not get busy making your life work, getting out of that house... Then you can find time to truly know it a girl is legit or not.

Girls can not be true to broke dudes without getting financial satisfaction from another

Ladylite:
Sorry
You don't need a lady. Why not get busy making your life work, getting out of that house... Then you can find time to truly know it a girl is legit or not.

Girls can not be true to broke dudes without getting financial satisfaction from another

Nauseating generalization.
Though, most men of this generation do not worth the stress.
Cos once they make it, they dump the lady for a more golding pussy.

Preshy561:
Nauseating generalization.
Though, most men of this generation do not worth the stress.
Cos once they make it, they dump the lady for a more golding pussy.

Yes you are right only if the lady remains broke.


But in this case, she is a doctor and won't be poor. So no matter the money the guy has, marrying a doctor is still a big plus any day

Ladylite:
Yes you are right only if the lady remains broke


But in this case, she is a doctor and won't be poor. So no matter the money the guy has, marrying a doctor is still a big plus any day

Another one, I'm done with you.

Thanks.

Ladylite:
Sorry
You don't need a lady. Why not get busy making your life work, getting out of that house... Then you can find time to truly know it a girl is legit or not.

Girls can not be true to broke dudes without getting financial satisfaction from another

this mean money can buy your love.

luvyaself95:
this mean money can buy your love.

Nope it simply means when your heart is in love always take your brain with you.

Bye

Ladylite:
Nope it simply means when your heart is in love always take your brain with you.

Bye

lol,am not a kid in the game.

Preshy561:
Nauseating generalization.
Though, most men of this generation do not worth the stress.
Cos once they make it, they dump the lady for a more golding pussy.

You just disregard someone's opinion to be 'generalizing' but only for you to hop on the false generalization that most men of this generation aren't worth the stress, hypo-bias-crisy whatever!

And what stress would you be referring to? The periodic discharge or the errant consternation that comes from the failure to meet both the spoken and unspoken demands as at when requested ?

FYI, no real man dumps a lady who is genuinely in love with in regardless his pre or post financial breakthrough. I emphasize the word genuine to underscore the emotion called love, not the materialistic inspired love practiced everywhere.

luvyaself95:
lol,am not a kid in the game.

Not a kid in the game huh! Until you stop keying in to the mentality that love/relationship is a game, you will continue to attract the piranhas and barracuda who see relationship as nothing but a game of mind, be it a love, intimate, companion-like relationship. It's always a game to them just like the guys I call BBG (wolves) who regard relationship, serious or not as a GAME, even if in marriage.

Romance without money is like soup without salt. Bros hustle and settle yourself first before jumping into serious relationship.