AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

Dark shade glasses would help trust me

SillyeRabbit:
Go work on yourself. How will you even be successful in life if you are the shy type?

what of seun the owner of Nairaland? But he is successful

AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

It is a sign...
Don't mind me!!!

Try to work on your anxieties!!!

AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

A baby in love. Op, how old are you?

Jacqueline22:
Let wait for the elders.

Edo girl

AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

you're a very smart /intelligent individual with a higher iq than the average , so use this as your leverage

As an Elder..
My pikin u no be president neither do u hold political office.... U care too much about what people think.... Live ya life... Cuddle her in public
Come back and thank me

Narrow down to what the real issue is; you just given us the symptoms of the problem, without disclosing what the problem causing the symptoms is/are.

A problem known, is half solved goes the popular saying.

You have to determine if you are ashamed or shy. Shy means been nervous or timid and it has a root cause, it could be something you don’t want others to know about you, her, your relationship or something else. It could also be a result of your internal difficulties to deal with certain things or your inability to.

Been ashamed means a feeling of been embarrassed or guilty of something. Are you ashamed of you, her or your relationship? Is there something you have done with her, you don’t want people to associate with you guys or something you don’t want people to project towards you guys that is false? It could be something very benign e.g. you feel people would think you guys are fvcking if you hold hands, if you have done, you are feeling guilty about it and don’t want anyone else to make the connection; if you have not done it, you don’t want anyone to falsely project that that.

Some solution could be; find a place where it will be near impossible to run into anyone both of you may know...another area of town maybe another town, a park, secluded area of the park or right in the open where everyone is distracted eg the beach, shoprite mall, amusement park, etc.

Jacqueline22:
Let wait for the elders.

Exactly

AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together

try going out more at night maybe you are shy of people and their prying eyes... so a night out may work for you

Baba..
No all girl like the talkative or overconfident guys..
e fit be say nah because una dey shy/introvert nah make the babe like u..
Jux tell her and don't let her keep reading meaning to it..cos she go one day jump to conclusion say nah because u get plenty babe dey make u no dey show her public affection...

AdioGunner:

Hope she won't take it The wrong way, I'm planning on telling her that .Thanks �

How do You guys smash then?

And how do you know he's shy?

CuteNbad:
what of seun the owner of Nairaland? But he is successful

Jacqueline22:
Let wait for the elders.

are you not an elder?

HarunaWest:
are you not an elder?

Hey you
How are you doing?

AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

How old are you?

Jacqueline22:

Hey you
How are you doing?

I dey alright.. how's ur side... compliments of the season

Before anything how old are you?

Alexistaiwo is a scam.. he run away with money meant for 100 people on football thread.. for your own sake, dont do anything concerning money with him.cc donpikko, lhimeet, 2019prophets

AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

Wetin u want make we come do for u, abi na we be u? Is it not for u to stop being shy.

U cnt just master the passion of hugging an opposite sex at once, moreover been a shy guy as u said i suggest u handle it gradually step by step training let say try cuddling/hugging her at close range where their are no few ppl let say 2-3 ppl could be amidst frnds or even in ur compound next move up like 5-10 ppl gradually in the end you can even kiss within crowd of ppl...


No big deal in holding hands

Well I'm not a fan of PDA

generationz:



It seems you don't like public display of affection.

Nothing wrong with it.

Some people outgrow their disdain for it and feel comfortable being affectionate in public.

Or are you virgin?

Yes ? Why are u calling me ?

ZiriMane:

try going out more at night maybe you are shy of people and their prying eyes... so a night out may work for you

Thanks. That's what I do Alot, but it cant be Everytime that it would be at night, She even once Asked that am I a vampire ,cause it's only at night I do like to see her to be Sincere it's not honest tho...

rtdCivilservant:

Wetin u want make we come do for u, abi na we be u? Is it not for u to stop being shy.

In Jesus Name.....
RECEIVE SENSE

she must be very very ugly for you to be shy to identify with her in public
i know one guy who has a girlfriend and she is sized like hippo and coarse manly voice.the guy only moves with her outside when its night and he refuses snapping pics with her

Tonymegabush1:
U cnt just master the passion of hugging an opposite sex at once, moreover been a shy guy as u said i suggest u handle it gradually step by step training let say try cuddling/hugging her at close range where their are no few ppl let say 2-3 ppl could be amidst frnds or even in ur compound next move up like 5-10 ppl gradually in the end you can even kiss within crowd of ppl...


No big deal in holding hands

Practical Solution.
Thanks

lefulefu2:
she must be very very ugly for you to be shy to identify with her in public
i know one guy who has a girlfriend and she is sized like hippo and coarse manly voice.the guy only moves with her outside when its night and he refuses snapping pics with her

Lefulefu ooo
My Babe is a Fine Wine Really ,on God to that , I don't even know why she is with someone of my Caliber ,but it's This Shyness issue That's bothering me ,I've asked of help from my female Friends too in how to handle this ,I think Guys Here Should be able to help out in A Bro Code Way

ilevic:


A baby in love. Open, how old are you?

We're All Babies in the Eyes Of Our Parents

AdioGunner:

Set Awon weyrey

Nothing is wrong with you, you just don't like public display of affection (PDA)

AdioGunner:

Thanks. That's what I do Alot, but it cant be Everytime that it would be at night, She even once Asked that am I a vampire ,cause it's only at night I do like to see her to be Sincere it's not honest tho...

try taking her out to areas you aren't familiar with anyone if it would help. read books to build ur PDA since it bothers you