₦airaland Forum

samtol4:
Hope men will learn

darlenese:
you are in the wrong thread , the Op said matured advise only , so go and play with your toys

oscarow1234:
Woman remember your vow... For better, for worst. Leaving your husband now simply means you don't ❤️ him. Stand with him now, you both should pray together and better still take him to your pastor for a special deliverance. Do all diz, and you will have your home �.

goldensoul55:
Goodday everyone ,
I have been married to my husband for 8 years and we are blessed with 3 lovely kids , my husband cheats on me especially when I'm pregnant , I noticed it when I had my first child , the thing is , he does it so smoothly that he leaves no stone unturned , I knew he cheated, the signs were there but never had any concrete evidence .

Around February this year , I noticed that whenever we are about to make out, his joystick gets so soft , (soft like bread ),there is nothing we haven't tried ,the more we try ,the weaker it gets. We attributed it to stress, or maybe erection issues , I encouraged him to go to the hospital , but he never did. Fast forward to last September , I started having nightmares about a strange woman fighting me in my dreams that my husband is owing her and she would take her pounds of flesh on me and my kids , cos my hubby cannot "waste her oranges " I asked her what she meant by "waste her oranges "? She said I should ask my husband when I get home . I woke up from that dream at about 2am , I woke my husband up for prayers , after the prayers , I asked him if he was having any extra marital affairs , he denied , I said ok , at least do you know any orange seller ? Or did you by chance waste anyones'oranges , he said NO . And went back to sleep. Immediately he slept , I took his phone , checked if I could find any clue , there was none.

A month later I had a similar dream, this time around the face of the girl was clearer , and she was fuming with anger , i woke up ,ran to my pastor , he prayed with me and told me to keep praying , I started the midnight prayer programne on 18th of October to 24th December . On 25th of December my husband confessed to me that he has been cheating with various girls but there was a particular girl he slept with, that from the day he slept with that girl ,he noticed that he couldn't make love to me anymore ,he said he is not having weak erection like I thought that his joystick works on any other lady apart from me , he said he tried to end the relationship but he couldn't ,. Then he decided to stop sleeping with the said girl but she threatened him he would weep over his wife and kids , I asked him why he denied it even when God revealed it to me in my dreams , he said the girl is powerful and promised she would torment me ,and that he was confused and didn't know what to do.
Lest I forget , my husband and I haven't been able to make love since february this year . Yet he has been making love to other girls everyday of his life.whlie I was busy praying for God to heal hi.m and make him the complete man I once married , I never knew his evil side chick was punishing me and depriving me of enjoying my husband . How do I forgive this man ? I have taken my kids to my mums place to celebrate the new year , I am thinking of not returning back to the house .please Niaralanders I need matured advice on how to handle this situation , I am looking pale as a result of the emotional stress I have been through , I pray and fast everyday of my life for a man that doesn't mean well for me and my kids .
Sorry for the long post .
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softwerk:

Madam I feel for you
1. Go on 3days fasting and prayers 2. Go buy some sexy lingerie 3. Give him 10mins mouth action and watch Lazarus cum forth
Thank me later!

2special:
Narrate the incident to his family members, so if anything happens to him now they won't hold you as a suspect...this one strong....outside Life

darlenese:
you are in the wrong thread , the Op said matured advise only ,

he has been making love to other girls everyday of his life.whlie I was busy praying for God to heal hi.m and make him the complete man I once married , I never knew his evil side chick was punishing me and depriving me of enjoying my husband

goldensoul55:
Goodday everyone ,
I have been married to my husband for 8 years and we are blessed with 3 lovely kids , my husband cheats on me especially when I'm pregnant , I noticed it when I had my first child , the thing is , he does it so smoothly that he leaves no stone unturned , I knew he cheated, the signs were there but never had any concrete evidence .

Around February this year , I noticed that whenever we are about to make out, his joystick gets so soft , (soft like bread ),there is nothing we haven't tried ,the more we try ,the weaker it gets. We attributed it to stress, or maybe erection issues , I encouraged him to go to the hospital , but he never did. Fast forward to last September , I started having nightmares about a strange woman fighting me in my dreams that my husband is owing her and she would take her pounds of flesh on me and my kids , cos my hubby cannot "waste her oranges " I asked her what she meant by "waste her oranges "? She said I should ask my husband when I get home . I woke up from that dream at about 2am , I woke my husband up for prayers , after the prayers , I asked him if he was having any extra marital affairs , he denied , I said ok , at least do you know any orange seller ? Or did you by chance waste anyones'oranges , he said NO . And went back to sleep. Immediately he slept , I took his phone , checked if I could find any clue , there was none.

A month later I had a similar dream, this time around the face of the girl was clearer , and she was fuming with anger , i woke up ,ran to my pastor , he prayed with me and told me to keep praying , I started the midnight prayer programne on 18th of October to 24th December . On 25th of December my husband confessed to me that he has been cheating with various girls but there was a particular girl he slept with, that from the day he slept with that girl ,he noticed that he couldn't make love to me anymore ,he said he is not having weak erection like I thought that his joystick works on any other lady apart from me , he said he tried to end the relationship but he couldn't ,. Then he decided to stop sleeping with the said girl but she threatened him he would weep over his wife and kids , I asked him why he denied it even when God revealed it to me in my dreams , he said the girl is powerful and promised she would torment me ,and that he was confused and didn't know what to do.
Lest I forget , my husband and I haven't been able to make love since february this year . Yet he has been making love to other girls everyday of his life.whlie I was busy praying for God to heal hi.m and make him the complete man I once married , I never knew his evil side chick was punishing me and depriving me of enjoying my husband . How do I forgive this man ? I have taken my kids to my mums place to celebrate the new year , I am thinking of not returning back to the house .please Niaralanders I need matured advice on how to handle this situation , I am looking pale as a result of the emotional stress I have been through , I pray and fast everyday of my life for a man that doesn't mean well for me and my kids .
Sorry for the long post .
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goldensoul55:
I truly love my husband and I am willing to go back but I am deeply hurt , confused and scared

goldensoul55:
I truly love my husband and I am willing to go back but I am deeply hurt , confused and scared

nlPoster:
OP are you saying it's only the side chick preventing you from sexing your husband that you want to fight and you're ok with the other 364 side chicks he uses 364 days of the year or am I not getting your post?


You're also involving religious lingo for your unrepentant husband who jumps from woman to woman unceasingly?


What is the meaning of this:

goldensoul55:
I truly love my husband and I am willing to go back but I am deeply hurt , confused and scared

DaniellaDokubo:
Leaving him is stage 2 of the plan. Don't allow stage 3, 4 and 5 happen which are;

3. Make her to abandon him,

4. "Orange seller" moves in next and then

5. Finally make her and her kids to suffer and probably end his life and inherit all you both worked to build.

Look ahead of you in this battle and fight with wisdom!

apatheticme:
Nairalanders and double standards, spits#

She doesn't love her husband because she wants to leave, but if it was the other way round y'all be screaming different names at her already and telling the husband to send her packing!

And she will still be the one running from pillar to post to solve a problem the man plunged the home into, along with all her chores and roles at home

Women are really going through a lot

God punish all the hypocritical mysogynistic sanctimonious fools on this forum

Mtchewwwwww

deltateam:
Return which oranges? Do you know that 'oranges' mean bweasts?
The husband sucked the 'Wanyi Asaba' bweasts.

Do you know the implication?

The man has romanced mami water.

TruthTella:
Madam I feel for you honestly
You sound like a very religious person and your husband is taking full advantage of that.
He certainly didn't receive any threats from any woman about destroying his marriage, you think am now, why will the woman do juju that stops him from having sex with you and only you when he has countless other side chics that can take him from her?
He was lying to get your pity and he succeeded. Your orange seller dream was just your mind playing tricks on you because you had been habouring fears that his infidelity will destroy your family. The reason he cannot get erections when having sex with you is because he does not find you attractive AT ALL, you do not excite him sexually and besides he has seen younger tighter vaginas than your own outside which he knows he can easily get.

He is an inconsiderate, lying cheat and you are here talking about praying for him. Sorry oooo
He hasn't slept with you since February and you think you still have a husband, hmm. Sorry.

The unfortunate thing is that he will cheat to his satisfaction and waste money he should be spending on his kids while taking care of side chics and you will be running from pillar to post borrowing money for him thinking he is under a curse until he gets tired in old age or goes bankrupt and then, you will welcome him back with open arms and thank God for bringing your husband back to you and making you the winner in the end.

Religion is really turning people's brains to mushroom in Nigeria.

TruthTella:
Madam I feel for you honestly
You sound like a very religious person and your husband is taking full advantage of that.
He certainly didn't receive any threats from any woman about destroying his marriage, you think am now, why will the woman do juju that stops him from having sex with you and only you when he has countless other side chics that can take him from her?
He was lying to get your pity and he succeeded. Your orange seller dream was just your mind playing tricks on you because you had been habouring fears that his infidelity will destroy your family. The reason he cannot get erections when having sex with you is because he does not find you attractive AT ALL, you do not excite him sexually and besides he has seen younger tighter vaginas than your own outside which he knows he can easily get.

He is an inconsiderate, lying cheat and you are here talking about praying for him. Sorry oooo
He hasn't slept with you since February and you think you still have a husband, hmm. Sorry.

The unfortunate thing is that he will cheat to his satisfaction and waste money he should be spending on his kids while taking care of side chics and you will be running from pillar to post borrowing money for him thinking he is under a curse until he gets tired in old age or goes bankrupt and then, you will welcome him back with open arms and thank God for bringing your husband back to you and making you the winner in the end.

Religion is really turning people's brains to mushroom in Nigeria.

TruthTella:
Madam I feel for you honestly
You sound like a very religious person and your husband is taking full advantage of that.
He certainly didn't receive any threats from any woman about destroying his marriage, you think am now, why will the woman do juju that stops him from having sex with you and only you when he has countless other side chics that can take him from her?
He was lying to get your pity and he succeeded. Your orange seller dream was just your mind playing tricks on you because you had been habouring fears that his infidelity will destroy your family. The reason he cannot get erections when having sex with you is because he does not find you attractive AT ALL, you do not excite him sexually and besides he has seen younger tighter vaginas than your own outside which he knows he can easily get.

He is an inconsiderate, lying cheat and you are here talking about praying for him. Sorry oooo
He hasn't slept with you since February and you think you still have a husband, hmm. Sorry.

The unfortunate thing is that he will cheat to his satisfaction and waste money he should be spending on his kids while taking care of side chics and you will be running from pillar to post borrowing money for him thinking he is under a curse until he gets tired in old age or goes bankrupt and then, you will welcome him back with open arms and thank God for bringing your husband back to you and making you the winner in the end.

Religion is really turning people's brains to mushroom in Nigeria.

apatheticme:
Nairalanders and double standards, spits#
She doesn't love her husband because she wants to leave, but if it was the other way round y'all be screaming different names at her already and telling the husband to send her packing!

And she will still be the one running from pillar to post to solve a problem the man plunged the home into, along with all her chores and roles at home

Women are really going through a lot
[s]God punish all the hypocritical mysogynistic sanctimonious fools on this forum[/s]

Mtchewwwwww

goldensoul55:
Goodday everyone ,
I have been married to my husband for 8 years and we are blessed with 3 lovely kids , my husband cheats on me especially when I'm pregnant , I noticed it when I had my first child , the thing is , he does it so smoothly that he leaves no stone unturned , I knew he cheated, the signs were there but never had any concrete evidence .

Around February this year , I noticed that whenever we are about to make out, his joystick gets so soft , (soft like bread ),there is nothing we haven't tried ,the more we try ,the weaker it gets. We attributed it to stress, or maybe erection issues , I encouraged him to go to the hospital , but he never did. Fast forward to last September , I started having nightmares about a strange woman fighting me in my dreams that my husband is owing her and she would take her pounds of flesh on me and my kids , cos my hubby cannot "waste her oranges " I asked her what she meant by "waste her oranges "? She said I should ask my husband when I get home . I woke up from that dream at about 2am , I woke my husband up for prayers , after the prayers , I asked him if he was having any extra marital affairs , he denied , I said ok , at least do you know any orange seller ? Or did you by chance waste anyones'oranges , he said NO . And went back to sleep. Immediately he slept , I took his phone , checked if I could find any clue , there was none.

A month later I had a similar dream, this time around the face of the girl was clearer , and she was fuming with anger , i woke up ,ran to my pastor , he prayed with me and told me to keep praying , I started the midnight prayer programne on 18th of October to 24th December . On 25th of December my husband confessed to me that he has been cheating with various girls but there was a particular girl he slept with, that from the day he slept with that girl ,he noticed that he couldn't make love to me anymore ,he said he is not having weak erection like I thought that his joystick works on any other lady apart from me , he said he tried to end the relationship but he couldn't ,. Then he decided to stop sleeping with the said girl but she threatened him he would weep over his wife and kids , I asked him why he denied it even when God revealed it to me in my dreams , he said the girl is powerful and promised she would torment me ,and that he was confused and didn't know what to do.
Lest I forget , my husband and I haven't been able to make love since february this year . Yet he has been making love to other girls everyday of his life.whlie I was busy praying for God to heal hi.m and make him the complete man I once married , I never knew his evil side chick was punishing me and depriving me of enjoying my husband . How do I forgive this man ? I have taken my kids to my mums place to celebrate the new year , I am thinking of not returning back to the house .please Niaralanders I need matured advice on how to handle this situation , I am looking pale as a result of the emotional stress I have been through , I pray and fast everyday of my life for a man that doesn't mean well for me and my kids .
Sorry for the long post .
.

Pavore9:
What is there to inherit? Why should the woman love the life of the husband more than the man love his own life when he should be leading his family in the path of safety as the Chief Priest of his home? The thought of a wife not going to leave the marriage despite the promiscuity of her husband is an enabler to many men as our women are being socialized to direct their anger towards the women their husbands get tangled with but not the husband because if they do, the woman outside would "move in"! What crap!

24kmagic:
Truly, it's a man's world.
I just cannot stop thanking nature for making me a man.

Imagine a wife having to suffer for her husband's indiscretions?

The more I try to be a faithful man, the less I can, knowing fully well that my woman will always be there to clean up my mess.

Chai!

To be a man is truly a blessing

goldensoul55:
Goodday everyone ,
I have been married to my husband for 8 years and we are blessed with 3 lovely kids , my husband cheats on me especially when I'm pregnant , I noticed it when I had my first child , the thing is , he does it so smoothly that he leaves no stone unturned , I knew he cheated, the signs were there but never had any concrete evidence .

Around February this year , I noticed that whenever we are about to make out, his joystick gets so soft , (soft like bread ),there is nothing we haven't tried ,the more we try ,the weaker it gets. We attributed it to stress, or maybe erection issues , I encouraged him to go to the hospital , but he never did. Fast forward to last September , I started having nightmares about a strange woman fighting me in my dreams that my husband is owing her and she would take her pounds of flesh on me and my kids , cos my hubby cannot "waste her oranges " I asked her what she meant by "waste her oranges "? She said I should ask my husband when I get home . I woke up from that dream at about 2am , I woke my husband up for prayers , after the prayers , I asked him if he was having any extra marital affairs , he denied , I said ok , at least do you know any orange seller ? Or did you by chance waste anyones'oranges , he said NO . And went back to sleep. Immediately he slept , I took his phone , checked if I could find any clue , there was none.

A month later I had a similar dream, this time around the face of the girl was clearer , and she was fuming with anger , i woke up ,ran to my pastor , he prayed with me and told me to keep praying , I started the midnight prayer programne on 18th of October to 24th December . On 25th of December my husband confessed to me that he has been cheating with various girls but there was a particular girl he slept with, that from the day he slept with that girl ,he noticed that he couldn't make love to me anymore ,he said he is not having weak erection like I thought that his joystick works on any other lady apart from me , he said he tried to end the relationship but he couldn't ,. Then he decided to stop sleeping with the said girl but she threatened him he would weep over his wife and kids , I asked him why he denied it even when God revealed it to me in my dreams , he said the girl is powerful and promised she would torment me ,and that he was confused and didn't know what to do.
Lest I forget , my husband and I haven't been able to make love since february this year . Yet he has been making love to other girls everyday of his life.whlie I was busy praying for God to heal hi.m and make him the complete man I once married , I never knew his evil side chick was punishing me and depriving me of enjoying my husband . How do I forgive this man ? I have taken my kids to my mums place to celebrate the new year , I am thinking of not returning back to the house .please Niaralanders I need matured advice on how to handle this situation , I am looking pale as a result of the emotional stress I have been through , I pray and fast everyday of my life for a man that doesn't mean well for me and my kids .
Sorry for the long post .
.