Richvkunt:

Hmn! Another one.
This is getting pretty boring.

Richvkunt:

Hmn! Another one.
This is getting pretty boring.

Johndoe100:

The girl is worried, give her a break. It's the kind of stuff that women love to talk about.

Richvkunt:


Women need to learn that men will cheat,but you have got to worship your man cos he is your god.
You have to be humble and obedient.
Stop prying into his internet affairs-Play your proper role as a women which is to be submissive to your husband.

chaircover:

why are you spinning around like a headless chicken and working for 14-16 hours a day and going to college while he does nothing?

Methinks that you are not focusing on the more important issues in your relationship and when you start to address those, then other things should fall into place.

sehill09:

Funny, some say I should just suck it up and take care of him and let him live how he wants to. What you don't know is I am up everyday going to work for 14 to 16 hours a day, helping with the house, helping with the kids and a full time college student. What does he do, what ever he wants. No work. Not school. Just whatever.

Richvkunt:

^^^
Instead of her to get into the kitchen and get his favourite meal going,she is here on NL posting BS and asking for advise from a bunch of feminists.
My advise-1.Get his food ready.
2.Change into a sexy negligee
3.Run a hot or cold bath for him-you know how he likes it.
4.Run to the door and welcome him immediately you hear his car turn into the driveway.
5.Take his bag from him and doe eyed ask him how his day has been.
6.Follow him into the bed room and as he strips listen and hang on his every word like a good christian wife that you are.
7.Ask him if he will eat first or take his bath first.
8.While he eats the food ask him if the food delights him.
9.Put on the telly for him while he puts up his feet and reads his paper-You might like to serve him his favourite beverage/beer.
10.Retire to the bedroom for the night of your life.

After you try this come back on NL and tell me if he has time for any internet affairs.
He who has a crown,has no head!

Richvkunt:

^^^
Instead of her to get into the kitchen and get his favourite meal going,she is here on NL posting BS and asking for advise from a bunch of feminists.
My advise-1.Get his food ready.
2.Change into a sexy negligee
3.Run a hot or cold bath for him-you know how he likes it.
4.Run to the door and welcome him immediately you hear his car turn into the driveway.
5.Take his bag from him and doe eyed ask him how his day has been.
6.Follow him into the bed room and as he strips listen and hang on his every word like a good christian wife that you are.
7.Ask him if he will eat first or take his bath first.
8.While he eats the food ask him if the food delights him.
9.Put on the telly for him while he puts up his feet and reads his paper-You might like to serve him his favourite beverage/beer.
10.Retire to the bedroom for the night of your life.

After you try this come back on NL and tell me if he has time for any internet affairs.
He who has a crown,has no head!

sehill09:

Me and my husband have been having an ongoing argument with a privacy issue. He was raised to be private with phones, email etc. I was raised the opposite, when a man and woman join together in marriage, two become one. So if that is the case, why is there a need to keep things so private. He says he is not hiding anything but he has left his email open on serveral occasions and I have found emails where he has addressed other women with "whats up sexy lady" and ended emails with "huggs" and[b] I have also found ones where he told a female that I was questioning him about her and he was telling her about the sitution and said "I just told her to shut up"[/b]. Do I have anything to worry about as far as him hiding anything or should I just let it go and let him have his privacy and pray that he is not doing anything behind my back?

sehill09:

Me and my husband have been having an ongoing argument with a privacy issue. He was raised to be private with phones, email etc. I was raised the opposite, when a man and woman join together in marriage, two become one. So if that is the case, why is there a need to keep things so private. He says he is not hiding anything but he has left his email open on serveral occasions and I have found emails where he has addressed other women with "whats up sexy lady" and ended emails with "huggs" and I have also found ones where he told a female that I was questioning him about her and he was telling her about the sitution and said "I just told her to shut up". Do I have anything to worry about as far as him hiding anything or should I just let it go and let him have his privacy and pray that he is not doing anything behind my back?

horny4u:

I love the spinning around bit, no body knows it all oh but If you continue to carry manly responsibilties that you do not have muscles for you may age so fast.
In my opinion what is happening here seems clear your hubby has  no job, no school , no nothing to power his ego, he needs his ego powered and being able to play around can feed a man's ego ( not saying he is having an affair o) .
I think to solve this problem , allow your husband to take responsibility for you and the kids, It will not be easy but he will feel good for providing for his family, it will feed that ego to be able to man up, however if you continue to voltron ( big ups to u helping out) all the issues there will be no room for him to e.g find the kids sch fees when you have already paid it and put food on the table as well.

You are not single, that man has it in him to take care of all your needs, it will not be easy he will fight against it but if you refuse to use your money to power the family then he will pull from his inner latent greatness and stand up for his family.

As for privacy i honestly think once he gets a career going and is more sure about his future, you will become his confidant as he is working round the clock for you and the kids and of course you are putting it down in the bedroom, 

Good luck , hope it all works out well.

sehill09:

I have also found ones where he told a female that I was questioning him about her and he was telling her about the sitution and said "I just told her to shut up". Do I have anything to worry about as far as him hiding anything or should I just let it go and let him have his privacy and pray that he is not doing anything behind my back?

Richvkunt:

Why can't they just accept that the men are gonna cheat?
Makes life easier for everyone.
Women need to learn that men will cheat,but you have got to worship your man cos he is your god.
You have to be humble and obedient.

newbride:

i think life is too short i cant kill myslef over any bastard
i am very faithful to my husband but the day i small a rat trust me he shoudl be ready to see a cow
if he cheats on me , i will so cheat on him like there is no tomorrow
effing bastards
i dont have time for heart breaks
you break mine, i shatter yours
END OFF.