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Michellekabod2:
dude is looking for a way to dump her. Using weight as an excuse makes it obvious that on sighting her in real life he lost interest and have to cook up something

lavylilly:
So I went out on a date with this guy I met from Facebook, he made it clear to me he is looking for a mature and God fearing lady to settle down with. Everything seem like it was going so well, he looked mature and responsible, we were having a good conversation with laughter and all till he said to me "baby can you do me just 1 favour?" I was like "sure" and he went on to say..

"You actually looked bigger in your pictures, please can you add some more weight for me?"

I thought he was joking and told him that my plan is to lost and not add more weight. He went on rambling on how he love them big and bold. That was about the last time we saw.

I began to wonder how he could forfeit the nice time we had over extra flesh?

It brings me to this point, when it comes to looking for a partner a lot of people say they are looking for someone with good character, mature, god fearing and all the bull crap because they feel that is what is expected of them but in the real sense what they need is big ass, hips, big boobs and light skin.

I have been observing posts in this wonderful platform, I see big boobs, ass, light skin even with the dumbest captions having 1k plus like and comments with a lot of guys shamelessly shooting their shots while there are post of some very beautiful sisters with interesting profiles with much lesser likes and comments.

In as much as I respect people's choices I just hope we are not getting it wrong when it comes to the criteria for choosing life partners because the rate of divorce is becoming alarming nowadays.

Having said this, I would only appreciate friend request from mature singles (38 years and above). Please note: If you live at Bora Bora and have no plans of visiting Nigeria soon, please don't come and waste my time with online love. Thank you �

MrBrownJay1:
yeah could be the issue, but we have all been there....where you see a beautiful babe online and when you meet her in real life, she looks nowhere near like the pics. if the babe's photos were before her diet then i would understand the dude.

lavylilly:
So I went out on a date with this guy I met from Facebook, he made it clear to me he is looking for a mature and God fearing lady to settle down with. Everything seem like it was going so well, he looked mature and responsible, we were having a good conversation with laughter and all till he said to me "baby can you do me just 1 favour?" I was like "sure" and he went on to say..

"You actually looked bigger in your pictures, please can you add some more weight for me?"

I thought he was joking and told him that my plan is to lost and not add more weight. He went on rambling on how he love them big and bold. That was about the last time we saw.

I began to wonder how he could forfeit the nice time we had over extra flesh?

It brings me to this point, when it comes to looking for a partner a lot of people say they are looking for someone with good character, mature, god fearing and all the bull crap because they feel that is what is expected of them but in the real sense what they need is big ass, hips, big boobs and light skin.

I have been observing posts in this wonderful platform, I see big boobs, ass, light skin even with the dumbest captions having 1k plus like and comments with a lot of guys shamelessly shooting their shots while there are post of some very beautiful sisters with interesting profiles with much lesser likes and comments.

In as much as I respect people's choices I just hope we are not getting it wrong when it comes to the criteria for choosing life partners because the rate of divorce is becoming alarming nowadays.

Having said this, I would only appreciate friend request from mature singles (38 years and above). Please note: If you live at Bora Bora and have no plans of visiting Nigeria soon, please don't come and waste my time with online love. Thank you �

lavylilly:
So I went out on a date with this guy I met from Facebook, he made it clear to me he is looking for a mature and God fearing lady to settle down with. Everything seem like it was going so well, he looked mature and responsible, we were having a good conversation with laughter and all till he said to me "baby can you do me just 1 favour?" I was like "sure" and he went on to say..

"You actually looked bigger in your pictures, please can you add some more weight for me?"

I thought he was joking and told him that my plan is to lost and not add more weight. He went on rambling on how he love them big and bold. That was about the last time we saw.

I began to wonder how he could forfeit the nice time we had over extra flesh?

It brings me to this point, when it comes to looking for a partner a lot of people say they are looking for someone with good character, mature, god fearing and all the bull crap because they feel that is what is expected of them but in the real sense what they need is big ass, hips, big boobs and light skin.

I have been observing posts in this wonderful platform, I see big boobs, ass, light skin even with the dumbest captions having 1k plus like and comments with a lot of guys shamelessly shooting their shots while there are post of some very beautiful sisters with interesting profiles with much lesser likes and comments.

In as much as I respect people's choices I just hope we are not getting it wrong when it comes to the criteria for choosing life partners because the rate of divorce is becoming alarming nowadays.

Having said this, I would only appreciate friend request from mature singles (38 years and above). Please note: If you live at Bora Bora and have no plans of visiting Nigeria soon, please don't come and waste my time with online love. Thank you �

franchasng:
That is the downside of online dating; first meetup, 90% of the ladies always don't meet the physical expectations of the guy.

Ladies are the cause of this with their excessive filter, makeup and makeover before they post a picture online.


Sometimes post your real picture with no addons and beautification.

Once a lady passes the guy's first physical expectations like having a nice shape and averagely okay face, believe me, the relationship will go far if the lady crowns it with virtuous character.


But the physical beauty disappointment always give the guys a cold feet to carry on, making it seem like most ladies looking for a date online are only the unattractive ones, sadly

Michellekabod2:
dude is looking for a way to dump her. Using weight as an excuse makes it obvious that on sighting her in real life he lost interest and have to cook up something

faithfull18:
A lot of guys do not know what they want, humans are insatiable, put on weight now, he will still complain.

Pele dear.

biddostandard:
guys actually knw what they want

faithfull18:
No, they don't. Some see a lady who is natural, then they want her to start wearing makeup and I am like didn't you see ladies on makeup before approaching the one without

biddostandard:
there is nothing bad blending a babe to ur taste

faithfull18:
Why would you want to change someone to please you, when there are thousands who already do that.

faithfull18:
Why would you want to change someone to please you, when there are thousands who already do that.

eagleeye259:
Several others who makeup may not meet other specifications he's looking for.

faithfull18:
My point is nobody eats their cake and have it, you will have to choose what's important to you. You can't have it all in one person.

lavylilly:
So I went out on a date with this guy I met from Facebook, he made it clear to me he is looking for a mature and God fearing lady to settle down with. Everything seem like it was going so well, he looked mature and responsible, we were having a good conversation with laughter and all till he said to me "baby can you do me just 1 favour?" I was like "sure" and he went on to say..

"You actually looked bigger in your pictures, please can you add some more weight for me?"

I thought he was joking and told him that my plan is to lost and not add more weight. He went on rambling on how he love them big and bold. That was about the last time we saw.

I began to wonder how he could forfeit the nice time we had over extra flesh?

It brings me to this point, when it comes to looking for a partner a lot of people say they are looking for someone with good character, mature, god fearing and all the bull crap because they feel that is what is expected of them but in the real sense what they need is big ass, hips, big boobs and light skin.

I have been observing posts in this wonderful platform, I see big boobs, ass, light skin even with the dumbest captions having 1k plus like and comments with a lot of guys shamelessly shooting their shots while there are post of some very beautiful sisters with interesting profiles with much lesser likes and comments.

In as much as I respect people's choices I just hope we are not getting it wrong when it comes to the criteria for choosing life partners because the rate of divorce is becoming alarming nowadays.

Having said this, I would only appreciate friend request from mature singles (38 years and above). Please note: If you live at Bora Bora and have no plans of visiting Nigeria soon, please don't come and waste my time with online love. Thank you �

LegendaryLover:
Add weight now, next yr he'll say his preferences have changed, he now likes slim girls. Then, u would be left with stretchmarks and health problems. Lol

BiggyB242:
In reality physical appearance is what most people pay attention to in a relationship and marriage. Reason why most marriages fail today. Not just the men same as women.

faithfull18:
My point is nobody eats their cake and have it, you will have to choose what's important to you. You can't have it all in one person.

MedicH:
you can

NwaAmaikpe:




First and foremost I'd love to say a huge thank you to the commenter above me.
With that done, over to you OP.

For you to disregard the basics of personal safety by going on a date with a random stranger you met off Facebook shows how desperate you are to settle down.
I also admire your honesty about it as seen in your closing paragraph.

But I'd advice something

Because a woman's greatest laurel is a husband, do everything and anything in your power to secure one if age is already doing an Usain Bolt on you.

A once-married is even better than a never married so stoop low to conquer.
Forget about ideals because life is not yet ideal to you.

If he wants you to be fair, buy all the bleaching creams in the market and feast on them.
If he wants you all natural, shave off everything, look like a Shaolin Monk for him.

If he wants more flesh on you, go to events and ask for leftovers and feast on them.
When you've gotten into his house as a wife, only then you can turn the tables.

But it isn't fair to judge a man who was honest about his preferences.
He didn't lead you on, you led him on by misrepresenting yourself and that was a subtle way of telling you that you did not make his cut.

Quit looking for love on the internet, spend more time in gatherings like Shiloh.
May the good Lord not make you end next year as a desperate spinster.

Shalom.

LINTUNE:
Take this from me..we guys love big ass and big boobs for banging and not for marriage,cos gals of such nature will look odd after giving birth,no man would want his woman looking older than he his becaause she gave birth to just 3 kids..personally I love as,big one..but when I want to settle down,I'll prefer a lady with Beyonce's stature to that of Nicki minaj's stature

samtol4:
When physical attraction overrule good character is a sign of decay society. Sorry sister ,this is common among ladies .You will hear " I can't marry a short or average man he must be tall. People choices should be respected because the consequences come to them alone

faithfull18:
So, you can keep the innocent lady @ home and be browsing different websites outside, shior.

LINTUNE:
by then I should have grown pass having a thing for big ass and bwest

NwaAmaikpe:




First and foremost I'd love to say a huge thank you to the commenter above me.
With that done, over to you OP.

For you to disregard the basics of personal safety by going on a date with a random stranger you met off Facebook shows how desperate you are to settle down.
I also admire your honesty about it as seen in your closing paragraph.

But I'd advice something

Because a woman's greatest laurel is a husband, do everything and anything in your power to secure one if age is already doing an Usain Bolt on you.

A once-married is even better than a never married so stoop low to conquer.
Forget about ideals because life is not yet ideal to you.

If he wants you to be fair, buy all the bleaching creams in the market and feast on them.
If he wants you all natural, shave off everything, look like a Shaolin Monk for him.

If he wants more flesh on you, go to events and ask for leftovers and feast on them.
When you've gotten into his house as a wife, only then you can turn the tables.

But it isn't fair to judge a man who was honest about his preferences.
He didn't lead you on, you led him on by misrepresenting yourself and that was a subtle way of telling you that you did not make his cut.

Quit looking for love on the internet, spend more time in gatherings like Shiloh.
May the good Lord not make you end next year as a desperate spinster.

I've said mine,
It's over to Lalasticlala and the other elders.
Shalom.