Why do ladies have this misconception that any guy who find solace in calling them, chatting them is trying to have a sexual relationship with them.


Sometimes last year i met a lady at my friends place, we got talking and we exchange numbers. As time goes on we keep talking, I love talking to her because she was friendly, all of a sudden she hardly pick my calls neither does she return my missed calls. I told my friend about it and he promised to ask her why, to my disbelief, he said the girl decided to stop taking my calls because she knew what was on my mind and that she is not ready for any relationship now.
I was shocked because i never showed her any sign that i was going to woo her

U wey dey go make garri,u make am to deep am inside tea?...wetin u carry 4 mind wen u put water 4 fire and keep bowl wia u go do d garri.

Every guy I have met want a relationship with me...

Not all ladies think that.


But yes, many ladies would correctly assume it because a lot of guys give that impression.

neolboy:
Why do ladies have this misconception that any guy who find solace in calling them, chatting them is trying to have a sexual relationship with them

Stop the chat. It's how they behave. I've blocked all of them.

neolboy:
Why do ladies have this misconception that any guy who find solace in calling them, chatting them is trying to have a sexual relationship with them

Simply because at the end of the day most guys often prove them right. It could take a short or longer period but it almost always end up in that direction...

Aside for more important reasons like career, business and related things, Why male go wan follow female talk wen u get girlfriend or wife

I mean, we share interest in different things, most things are either ladylike or not...

I Don't keep female friends and I'm struggling to understand what the opposite gender can do for me which my gender can't....Guys no dey quick fall hand

neolboy:
Why do ladies have this misconception that any guy who find solace in calling them, chatting them is trying to have a sexual relationship with them

From experience.90% of them are woed for sexual relationships.
So what do u expect?

Lamanii22:
Every guy I have met want a relationship with me...

they want to Bleep you, grow up

Lamanii22:
Every guy I have met want a relationship with me...

na everyone dey rush awoof!!! get that

Tobiloba2407:


they want to Bleep you, grow up

I know that for sure... According to the question.. It says, why do women think guys want to have sexual relationship with 'em... I think that's what most guys want...

hollah123:
na everyone dey rush awoof!!! get that

Nah... What are you insinuating?

Because 8/10 chances that's the case.

They weasel their way into your life under the guise of just friendship

If you let your guard down and they try to come on to you, or worst case scenario they rape you, for example, you will be blamed for being 'naive'

So because of this pattern, it's best to remain cautious

Unfortunately, these types make it hard for the genuine ones who actually just want a friendship

Heard so many different languages yesterday.

Very intriguing.

Lamanii22:



I know that for sure... According to the question.. It says, why do women think guys want to have sexual relationship with 'em... I think that's what most guys want...

You people are complaining now, but if a guy doesn't like you ladies you call him gay

The Question is how often do u call ur mum and sis but u can't do an hour not calling and chatting a lady and u expect she should not assume u want S£X baba mi na Sex u want stop pretending

Nawah o...wetin Adele no go see for the other side....

What else do men want? Best friends, or a sister? Lol.

It's not even a relationship men want. It's hit and run. But they know that's not usually possible, so they apply for a relationship...the next best thing.

All those saying 'most', 8 out of 10, and '90%'; what do you think the remainder want? Joint Bible study?

Lamanii22:
Every guy I have met want a relationship with me...

I wonder what the hell is swirling in your little head. Not everyone who approach you want anything intimate from you. To even say that is a narcissistic personality trait.

I despise narcissist, freaking annoying set of assholes

Sadly most Nigerian girls reason and behave this way. SMH for this bimbos

(No malice intended) just saying my mind.

themaestro08:


I wonder what the hell is swirling in your little head. Not everyone who approach you want anything intimate from you. To even say that is a narcissistic personality trait.

I despise narcissist, freaking annoying set of assholes

Sadly most Nigerian girls reason and behave this way. SMH for this bimbos

(No malice intended) just saying my mind.

I'm not a narcissist.... I'm just saying.. The ones I've met.. I didn't say every guy...

healthserve:


Stop the chat. It's how they behave. I've blocked all of them.

It's crazy because they just assumed even when you are not into them

i bet your own mom u didnt wish her happy new year on phone ooo
but na babe u will regularly call her to know how she is faring
maybe she stopped answering your calls cos you bothering her

But on a serious note oga, what do you want?

Personally, I don't talk to girls I don't have sex appeal for. Asin ehn, nothing de join me with worwor girls.

Had it been na Lagos I de, nairaland girls for don tire with my PMs. Sadly, there are no nairaland girls in my location.

No guy should be keeping in touch with a girl he doesn't have sexual interest for, that's nonsense.

If i have your number and I call you upto five times in a week, just know that I'm very, very interested.

neolboy:



It's crazy because they just assumed even when you are not into them

Could you explain better, just so you can be sure you are also not assuming things.

neolboy:
Why do ladies have this misconception that any guy who find solace in calling them, chatting them is trying to have a sexual relationship with them.


Sometimes last year i met a lady at my friends place, we got talking and we exchange numbers. As time goes on we keep talking, I love talking to her because she was friendly, all of a sudden she hardly pick my calls neither does she return my missed calls. I told my friend about it and he promised to ask her why, to my disbelief, he said the girl decided to stop taking my calls because she knew what was on my mind and that she is not ready for any relationship now.
I was shocked because i never showed her any sign that i was going to woo her

Her experiences with men might have led her to assume majority of men want the same thing.

Your experiences with women might have made you believe there is nothing wrong with treating females in a friendly non sexual manner without it being construed differently.

People have various means of assessing situations based on their personal biases.

Lamanii22:



I'm not a narcissist.... I'm just saying.. The ones I've met.. I didn't say every guy...

Where are you meeting the guys you mention? Context matters.

CAPSLOCKED:
SO WHY DO YOU CHAT THEM UP?

IF I HAD SOCIAL MEDIA, JUMPING INTO EVERY GIRL'S DM WITH SILLY HI'S AND CAN I KNOW YOU'S WILL BE THE LAST THING TO EVER CROSS MY MIND.

You knowwww, lol I swear.

RisenPhoenix:
What else do men want? Best friends, or a sister? Lol.

It's not even a relationship men want. It's hit and run. But they know that's not usually possible, so they apply for a relationship...the next best thing.

All those saying 'most', 8 out of 10, and '90%'; what do you think the remainder want? Joint Bible study?

It's a safeguard against all the 'not all' people that will inevitably start protesting

How about having a good conversation with them, laughing and being friendly and at the end we don't exchange numbers, Mehn this is so satisfying to me, my pride is at its peak, Everyman should answer their fathers name.

makydebbie:


You knowwww, lol I swear.

Hlo dear
av u eaten?
can i know u more?
can we be 4rendz?
how can we meet plz?
come to my house
send me sexy pix


YOU PEOPLE ARE TRYING ENDURING THESE THINGS TBF.