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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Princenady(m): 10:27pm On Jan 04, 2020
Ok
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by AntiWailer: 10:27pm On Jan 04, 2020
Lol
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by victorazyvictor(m): 10:28pm On Jan 04, 2020
pocohantas:


Abia grin grin

Glad I took you home. Never knew you are Nigerian sef.

Where in Abia?

Me na Abia boy too grin
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by xcelentattitude(m): 10:28pm On Jan 04, 2020
jidamsel43:
The first question that her mother asked me was, ' what are you doing for a living' .
I was just a private school teacher with a monthly salary #25k . I told her that I was teaching in a school and also had a side business ( Clothing). The father then interrupted her to avoid more puzzling question.
That was the only question that her mother asked. other questions were from father.
Then I came to conclusion that women's orientation is monetary inclined

He seemed to me like a principled man.

Please tell us more about the father.

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Geophilip: 10:30pm On Jan 04, 2020
contact me for marriage past questions from 1914 - date Igbo past questions 10k Yoruba 5k Hausa 1k

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by backbone503(m): 10:36pm On Jan 04, 2020
Anyone coming for my sisters or daughters should be prepared to tell me what motivates/inspires him.

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by sterlingD(m): 10:37pm On Jan 04, 2020
OfeAchi:
Mother in-law asked me if I could perform well in the oza room. I was so embarrassed.

My fiance later explained that her lineage doesn't cum easily...
shocked shocked shocked shocked lipsrsealed

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by nlPoster: 10:37pm On Jan 04, 2020
Any question that makes you uncomfortable, especially if it involves money, should probably be avoided? In my opinion, just let them know it makes you feel bad, or does anyone have any other suggestion on this awkward matter.

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by sterlingD(m): 10:38pm On Jan 04, 2020
Geophilip:
contact me for marriage past questions from 1914 - date
Igbo past questions 10k
Yoruba 5k
Hausa 1k

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by samtol4(m): 10:38pm On Jan 04, 2020
Different tribes with different questions . For the Yoruba you are likely to be asked if you are a graduate and what discipline ? Some families will ask do you have master degree? For the Igbo the question will focus on what are doing for a living . If your answer is business ! How long have you been in the business

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Gforce2019: 10:38pm On Jan 04, 2020
All these questions can come up if the lady is not an evening newspaper and she has a lot of values. But since she is an old Evening newspaper, the parents will not bother to ask any questions..

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by jahbiz: 10:39pm On Jan 04, 2020
Any in law wey ask m "where did you meet"? Is in for a funny reply. What kind of a stupid question is that ...


My inlaws... where dd you meet our beautiful daughter?

Me....hmmm honestly i cant remember precisely but i think it should be in one popular bar.

And the next question will be do you drink?

And i will confidently tell them yes.

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by nlPoster: 10:39pm On Jan 04, 2020
the people posting multiple pictures should desist please.
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Gforce2019: 10:41pm On Jan 04, 2020
Geophilip:
contact me for marriage past questions from 1914 - date
Igbo past questions 10k
Yoruba 5k
Hausa 1k

Send it to me on Bluetooth learn me see the content..afterall nah your blood sister I want marry.

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by onyeomanono24(f): 10:41pm On Jan 04, 2020
pocohantas:
Nice thread OP. Let me add,

How many are you in your family?

If he is the FIRST SON from a family of 10 and the last 3 are still in school. They will assume their daughter has 3 children before she born sef. The inlaws will most likely see her as a competition or stumbling block. It is not easy being married to the pillar of a home.

Your siblings?

Igbo fathers be like "Umunne gi kwanu?"
He doesn't just want to hear "ahu di ha mma", he wants to hear their profile too.

"Oh, my elder brother is a doctor in the US. My younger sister works with FIRS. The one after her is an engineer in Shell"...IMPRESSIVE!

Your daughter has chances of going to the abroad to give birth. Also, when everybody in a family is doing well, phone dey ring, family dey call, you no go dey fear to pick am. Christmas in the villa would be like getaway. Not, umu Remigius mere nka, ha me nka. Ana akoheri.

Where do you base?
Naija parents don't like their daughters going too far, especially Igbos. They want where they can easily come for omugwo. This far distance doesn't include abroad o. Abroad is not far at all.

It will also help them know where their daughter has been going all the while she didn't return home for ASUU strike.


If you wan see where Naija alpha male humble, take him to your father. E go ask you mumu question for doormot. Should I remove my slippers? You'll be like "baby just enter!!!" grin

Gbam!! Igboro ife ewu na eri.

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Geophilip: 10:44pm On Jan 04, 2020
Gforce2019:


Send it to me on Bluetooth learn me see the content..afterall nah your blood sister I want marry.

it works effectively on anyone family, no need telling me if it my family

no time for this 2020

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Aguero101(m): 10:45pm On Jan 04, 2020
That number 3 is a must.

Inlaw- What do you do for a living.

Me: I chase after woman like your daughter. Yes sir,I need them to survive.

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by onyeomanono24(f): 10:49pm On Jan 04, 2020
OfeAchi:
Mother in-law asked me if I could perform well in the oza room. I was so embarrassed.

My fiance later explained that her lineage doesn't cum easily...
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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by kzubyar(m): 10:55pm On Jan 04, 2020
micronut:


Source: https://naijalocals.com.ng/meeting-you-in-law-for-marriage-6-likely-questions-to-expect-as-a-guy/
guy you just scratched my hearts.... Tomorrow I will go and see my in low but I just ask my Friend to a company me

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jan 04, 2020
Okay....

I'm waiting for this day. Meanwhile, let me keep my hustle strong.
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jan 04, 2020
backbone503:
Anyone coming for my sisters or daughters should be prepared to tell me what motivates/inspires him.
Excellence!
That's my inspiration.
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by WeRblessed(f): 11:22pm On Jan 04, 2020
Although Nigerian parents must sure ask where you're from.

However, nowadays, as long as you have a car, and his daughter had already told them " papa, he is very rich". Papa or mama would add, "Iminiri iha"? Meaning, you dont meant it? The daughter would also want them to know that he lives in a big house and do import and export. That's all some parents of these generation now do.

No one cares about their children marrying a God-fearing and hardworking man these days.

Import and export may be drug dealing. Living in a big house, the guy might also be a kidnapper, Yahoo plus, or an armed robber. Plus, the guy might also be a woman abuser.

After the law cought up with the guy and his gang, her parents that failed to dig deep into the guy before marriage would start saying "so he is a criminal, you did not tell us you are married to a criminal, Chineke ga akpoya.oku. grin

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by blessingsonflee(f): 11:24pm On Jan 04, 2020
Lastly, no matter how hungry you are , when your father in-law invites you to eat with him say “NO “! cheesy. No go think say dem like you na him make he tell you “come chop” . If you do , just know say na your last supper you chop so grin. Make dem no go tag you as hungry guy-man wey no go fit feed their daughter.

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by fineboynl(m): 11:25pm On Jan 04, 2020
Too long. Just give her Belle. Na them go tel you to come and marry her. It work faster like charm's

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by blessingsonflee(f): 11:27pm On Jan 04, 2020
grin Ole! grin
fineboynl:
Too long. Just give her Belle. Na them go tel you to come and marry her. It work faster like charm's

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by MiltonFine: 11:29pm On Jan 04, 2020
Pavore9:


Even in this era of materialism over character and good name, not all families will get carried away by your Range Rover.
Real matter! Better to appear humble regardless of what you own. Abi you wan put key for center table in front of Otedola, dem no born you. Moreover, not every father in the middle class respect money like that o, especially the really self-sufficient ones.

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by blessingsonflee(f): 11:29pm On Jan 04, 2020
cheesy on point !
WeRblessed:
Although Nigerian parents must sure ask where you're from.

However, nowadays, as long as you have a car, and his daughter had already told them " papa, he is very rich". Papa or mama would add, "Iminiri iha"? Meaning, you dont meant it? The daughter would also want them to know that he lives in a big house and do import and export. That's all some parents of these generation now do.

No one cares about their children marrying a God-fearing and hardworking man these days.

Import and export may be drug dealing. Living in a big house, the guy might also be a kidnapper, Yahoo plus, or an armed robber. Plus, the guy might also be a woman abuser.

After the law cought up with the guy and his gang, her parents that failed to dig deep into the guy before marriage would start saying "so he is a criminal, you did not tell us you are married to a criminal, Chineke ga akpoya.oku. grin


Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Dehindepgenius(m): 11:30pm On Jan 04, 2020
micronut:


Source: https://naijalocals.com.ng/meeting-you-in-law-for-marriage-6-likely-questions-to-expect-as-a-guy/

My first meeting with my wife's parents was funny as hell. Thank God the old man has a sense of humor. I mistook him for the gardener, he was wearing gloves and trimming flowers when I arrived. I was like 'is your oga around?' He looked me over and said 'are you a clown or you just lack manners?' I realised who he was at that point. Then to worsen thing, at dinner I accidentally knocked a pitcher of water into his soup. My wife looked like she would faint. Today we are best buds. Inside life grin

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by MiltonFine: 11:31pm On Jan 04, 2020
blessingsonflee:
Lastly, no matter how hungry you are , when your father in-law invites you to eat with him say “NO “! cheesy. No go think say dem like you na him make he tell you “come chop” . If you do , just know say na your last supper you chop so grin. Make dem no go tag you as hungry guy-man wey no go fit feed their daughter.
Well, you have a point.
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by nlPoster: 11:32pm On Jan 04, 2020
The other post sounds like a movie script.
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by fineboynl(m): 11:33pm On Jan 04, 2020
That question what do you do for a living.

They don't want to hear "I'm a Nigeria Police officer"

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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by MiltonFine: 11:33pm On Jan 04, 2020
Dehindepgenius:


My first meeting with my wife's parents was funny as hell. Thank God the old man has a sense of humor. I mistook him for the gardener, he was wearing gloves and trimming flowers when I arrived. I was like 'is your oga around?' He looked me over and said 'are you a clown or you just lack manners?' I realised who he was at that point. Then to worsen thing, at dinner I accidentally knocked a pitcher of water into his soup. My wife looked like she would faint. Today we are best buds. Inside life grin
Omo!!! grin

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