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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Gettreadyy(m): 7:39am On Jan 05, 2020 |
blessingsonflee: what if he insists ? when I'm ready to visit my in-laws to be for the first time, I will go with an expensive alcoholic and non alcoholic wine as gifts with an average size cake. my appearance alone will wow them and they will remove the thought that he is broke. I Will be prepared, I will charm them with my words and actions. while leaving i will give her siblings in the house some money and maybe her mother too defending (if I deem it fit) they may love me instantly. But I ain't doing any of the things mentioned above because i want a baby mama. don't ask me why |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by ikwedim(m): 7:41am On Jan 05, 2020 |
The day I will go to pay my baby mama owns and they begin to ask me stupid questions, I will just stand up and go. Nonsense |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by tck2000(m): 7:41am On Jan 05, 2020 |
pocohantas: |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by tck2000(m): 7:44am On Jan 05, 2020 |
ValCon888:lol Guy why? |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by tck2000(m): 8:09am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Munzy14:just like my mum! |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by tck2000(m): 8:11am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Geophilip:Hmm |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by prciouschika(f): 8:37am On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by GboyegaD(m): 8:48am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Interestingly, my wife's mum asked me to visit at the beginning of our relationship however, I turned it down cos I felt it was too early. Months after, I had to call her parents once in a while to get acquainted to them. Suddenly, I missed her dad's call one Saturday and got a text that we needed to talk that weekend. We fixed a time for Sunday evening. His question was what are my plans for his daughter as he noticed we have been friends for a while. We went back and forth to ensure I understood the question properly and answered. He also asked if I know the daughter well enough. 15 months later, I called to ask for a convenient time I could call him. We picked the following night and I called to tell my intentions. The mother asked if I wouldn't be offended if she asked a few questions and I told her to. She asked if I have ever been married and if I have kids. The latter question was one I wasn't comfortable with as such my response was a bit rude. She asked my intentions for her daughter and our after wedding plans. |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Chukapage(m): 8:55am On Jan 05, 2020 |
pocohantas:Mpa GI ojikwa ego?? It's only when the girls father is a rich ,strong or powerful man that the suitors usually shiver or when they're below ,the family social class.But if the Suitor is richer and more successful in all Ramifications even probably coming to do "poverty alleviation program" in the girls family or when his family is evidently richer Na to just enter parlor keep leg for table join and the woman's father will still be smiling sheepishly and be like "ah nwa m ibiala?" "Kedu afa gi" So as far as Igbo land is concerned na who get money pass dey do the Intimidation ,but if it's the girl's father that's richer and more successful then it's usually bloody ,e be like Oral exam. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Ernerstdavid55(m): 8:56am On Jan 05, 2020 |
ValCon888:chaii bad guy bad dat is money abuse |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by blessingsonflee(f): 8:58am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Except you are going with your own alcohol. Some in-laws can be difficult and choose to test you in anyway even with your money or how you look before giving their daughter out Gettreadyy: |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by blessingsonflee(f): 9:00am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Kirinwa:yes o . I have heard stories |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by dangoteinlaw: 9:09am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Greatzeus:I'm talking to the hol ghost in Bugatti lol Rick Ross |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by jidamsel43(m): 9:10am On Jan 05, 2020 |
xcelentattitude:Her father asked if I was staying with parents or alone. I told him that I was staying alone though a room and parlour apartment. He nodded which suggested confirmation and affirmation. He asked if I smoked or drink . my answer was negative. He said he wouldn't have rejected me if I used to drink but he needed to be ascertain . So that if there would be any disagreement or misunderstood , the cause of disagreement will be easily detected. He then asked the mother to entertain me . In conclusion, he gave his consent and asked me to await the 'list' from them because their daughter is not for free. More so that they have also paid to many families too 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by dangoteinlaw: 9:12am On Jan 05, 2020 |
ValCon888:as in eh Money is good Sha. Forget all those nonsense u see online about how you should keep selling pure water and praying to God, when marriage time come na him you go know how far. According to zlatan "what do u have to say when u don't have money" |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by MrBONE2(m): 9:25am On Jan 05, 2020 |
blessingsonflee:
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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Kirinwa: 9:37am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by MrBONE2(m): 9:39am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Gettreadyy: |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Nostradamus: 10:09am On Jan 05, 2020 |
ValCon888:That's if the father is a marlian. |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by lexy2014: 10:24am On Jan 05, 2020 |
pocohantas: Let's just print a book and give to vendors to hawk at bus parks. Going to see ones in-laws to be doesn't have to be an exam or interview that u have to prepare for |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by lexy2014: 10:29am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Geophilip: Bros no be small thing. D way d guy write d topic, e come be like say na exam |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by lexy2014: 10:32am On Jan 05, 2020 |
micronut: Everybody is now an expert and everything now has tips. Is meeting in-laws to be an exam or interview? Am surprised that u didn't add GMAT as part of d "likely questions". 1 Like |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Gettreadyy(m): 10:51am On Jan 05, 2020 |
blessingsonflee post=8lrt5515312: let them keep testing... by the time she (their daughter) clock 30yrs and above sense will finally fall on them. are your parents the type of in-laws that will frustrate their prospective son inlaw? I know why I'm asking. |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by COOLWYT: 10:56am On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Dehindepgenius(m): 10:58am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Kirinwa: My brother no one asked whether I wan chop or not. I was practically ordered to eat, and given my earlier gaffe when I arrived, I no just argue. 1 Like |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by Nobody: 10:58am On Jan 05, 2020 |
COOLWYT:Mad ooo.. Why not a male? |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by nlPoster: 11:02am On Jan 05, 2020 |
lexy2014: Nlers never cease to amaze me. |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by BrainSanitizer: 11:05am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Make sure you edit your social media accounts, especially Facebook before going to see your would-be inlaws. If you know you know. |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by darediamond(m): 11:13am On Jan 05, 2020 |
ValCon888: Abi ooo my brother. |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by darediamond(m): 11:17am On Jan 05, 2020 |
The questions applies if you do not appear RICH. Appear Rich and those questions would disappear forever!! Most Nigerian girls are well baked depreciating Liabilities by there Parents! |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by LINTUNE(m): 11:26am On Jan 05, 2020 |
pocohantas:you eh |
Re: Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy by nlPoster: 11:28am On Jan 05, 2020 |
BrainSanitizer: Good conversation point. You can look at each other's Facebook or whatsapp/instagram/any social media assuming it wasnt done prior to meeting. Although I'm sure Nigerians would rather do it covertly then openly. Now for internet generation who already know everything about everybody, even to when the person took an early morning crap, how do they pretend they dont? |
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