I was with my cousin last nite & we were discussing about his new girlfriend whom he had briefed me about in November,2019.

He fell in love with this girl he met in October,2019,as d babe seemed to be nice & she did something so special for him on his birthday,which was on d 18th of November, 2019 that swept him off his feet.

D babe bought two T-shirts for him,a perfume & a wrist which he valued to be about #22k altogether.

I remember how excited he was d day he called me to tell me about it & convinced that he had finally met a sincere,loving & caring Nig babe unlike d leeches he had dated in d past.

He was so so happy b'cos he has a stable banking job that earns him #270k monthly,a car,a Lexus Rx 330 he bought on loan & he is also good looking.

He also lives alone in a two bedroom flat.

He was shocked that d babe didn't take advantage of his status to undermine d relationship by demanding as with other babes in d past.

But,on d 25th of December,we had a chat & he said he had a gist for me but didn't tell me until we met last nite.

He said he wished he knew that d gifts d babe bought for him on his birthday was a ploy to execute him financially.

He said d babes birthday was on d 2nd of January & on d 20th of Dec 2019,d babe told him to begin to get set for her birthday & made d following demands;

1)Photoshoot-#40k

2)Clothes for photoshoot-#60k

3)Birthday party-#150k.

He said he was shocked & since on d 26th of Dec he refused to take d babe"s call,he blocked her on WhatsApp & blacklisted her number.

He said she was worse than all d other babes he had met in d past.

I just kept laughing at d strategy & trap d babe used on him & commended him for taking d best decision of erasing her in his life.

Some babes can be so heartless that they think of just what they will enjoy 2day & 4get about d future.

And this is how they loose husbands b'cos my cousin who is 32 already is set to settle down.

It's just unfortunate.

I just hope that most of our girls will retrace their steps on materialism,flamboyance & slaying b'cos they are even corrupting d few good ones that guys shld take in as wives.

It's well with us oo

That's very heartless and inconsiderate of your friend. How can someone spent over 22k on you on your birthday and when it's your time to reciprocate you repaid her by blocking her?

What happened to explaining to her politely that you can't afford her demands?
What if she was mainly testing him?

He should have at least get her something worth the 22k she had spent on him.

Guys if you want to breakup with you partners, have dignity of politely letting your partners know than ghosting them. it's childish.

On behalf of classic, sensible and mature men like me... we condemn the attitude of your friend in totality.

The mature men societies will not tolerate such an attitude from anyone who had the private to carry penís inbetween his legs.

It's an enormous privilege to carry an organ such as the penís, an organ so vital and important to human existence if anything happens to it the very human existence is threaten.
Those privileged to carry it should desist from the above attitude displayed by this op friend.


Apologies to the lady in question, we apologize for the misconduct of our junior members.

Hahhahhahaha


Where is milemimi93 oo.. You better be careful before that ya babe use that format take open office

Your friend should spend his money on you or your own candidate, not other women. Isnt that you people's dream.


Obviously your claws are stronger since he yaps to you like he owes you something.

Loooool... And I was commending the lady already....

pascalexmond:
I was with my cousin last nite & we were discussing about his new girlfriend whom he had briefed me about in November,2019.

He fell in love with this girl he met in October,2019,as d babe seemed to be nice & she did something so special for him on his birthday,which was on d 18th of November, 2019 that swept him off his feet.

D babe bought two T-shirts for him,a perfume & a wrist which he valued to be about #22k altogether.

I remember how excited he was d day he called me to tell me about it & convinced that he had finally met a sincere,loving & caring Nig babe unlike d leeches he had dated in d past.

He was so so happy b'cos he has a stable banking job that earns him #270k monthly,a car,a Lexus Rx 330 he bought on loan & he is also good looking.

He also lives alone in a two bedroom flat.

He was shocked that d babe didn't take advantage of his status to undermine d relationship by demanding as with other babes in d past.

But,on d 25th of December,we had a chat & he said he had a gist for me but didn't tell me until we met last nite.

He said he wished he knew that d gifts d babe bought for him on his birthday was a ploy to execute him financially.

He said d babes birthday was on d 2nd of January & on d 20th of Dec 2019,d babe told him to begin to get set for her birthday & made d following demands;

1)Photoshoot-#40k

2)Clothes for photoshoot-#60k

3)Birthday party-#150k.

He said he was shocked & since on d 26th of Dec he refused to take d babe"s call,he blocked her on WhatsApp & blacklisted her number.

He said she was worse than all d other babes he had met in d past.

I just kept laughing at d strategy & trap d babe used on him & commended him for taking d best decision of erasing her in his life.

Some babes can be so heartless that they think of just what they will enjoy 2day & 4get about d future.

And this is how they loose husbands b'cos my cousin who is 32 already is set to settle down.

It's just unfortunate.

I just hope that most of our girls will retrace their steps on materialism,flamboyance & slaying b'cos they are even corrupting d few good ones that guys shld take in as wives.

It's well with us oo

Meeeen....See format..

These babes keep upgrading & restrategizeing continuously.

Hmm

Accepted the girl is after something but your cousin should at least express himself about what she demanded. Well, your cousin ccan change her if there is a true feeling between them, it all depends on him. He is the man.

Offpoint:
That's very heartless and inconsiderate of your friend. How can someone spent over 22k on you on your birthday and when it's your time to reciprocate you repaid her by blocking her?

What happened to explaining to her politely that you can afford her demands?
What if she was mainly testing him?

He should have at least get her something worth the 22k she had spent on her.

Guys if you want to break have the.....

My cousin never made demands for d gifts she bought & never expected d babe to buy her anything & he on his own had plans of reciprocating which d babe shld ve waited for to see rather than making specific outrageous demands.
U don't demand for gifts but u re given wholeheartedly.

What d babe did was gold digging & d usual taxing & magarism.

I was a victim,so was he in d past but Nairaland has made me wise that I had been educating him too & encouraged him to be a nairalander but for his busy schedule.

Otherwise he might ve loaned d money to please d babe.

No more nonsense.

For me,if u re a sincere babe,I will willingly take care of u & spend on u within my capacity but at this my level b'4 any gold digging Nig babe can use me as a mugu,she must be from another planet.

I really suffered in their hands in d name of love.

Thank God for Nairaland,it's experienced,revered & highly respected advisers.

pascalexmond:

My cousin never made demands for d gifts she bought & never expected d babe to buy her anything & he on his own had plans of reciprocating which d babe shld ve waited for to see rather than making specific outrageous demands.
U don't demand for gifts but u re given wholeheartedly.

What d babe did was gold digging & d usual taxing & magarism.

I was a victim,so was he in d past but Nairaland has made me wise that I had been educating him too & encouraged him to be a nairalander but for his busy schedule.

Otherwise he might ve loaned d money to please d babe.

No more nonsense.

For me,if u re a sincere babe,I will willingly take care of u & spend on u within my capacity but at this my level b'4 any gold digging Nig babe can use me as a mugu,she must be from another planet.

I really suffered in their hands in d name of love.

Thank God for Nairaland,it's experienced,revered & highly respected advisers.

Someone made an investment and deserve a return.

A reasonable person should know, if a woman invest on you she expects a return in 10 folds.

A lady who can afford 22k in the current led administration of Muhadmedu bura-ri is not a gold digger.

Offpoint:

Someone made an investment and deserve a return.

A reasonable person should know, if a woman invest on you she expects a return in 10 folds.

A lady who can afford 22k in the current led administration of Muhadmedu bura-ri is not a gold digger.

What an investment...

Offpoint:

Someone made an investment and deserve a return.

A reasonable person should know, if a woman invest on you she expects a return in 10 folds.

A lady who can afford 22k in the current led administration of Muhadmedu bura-ri is not a gold digger.

What an investment..

Offpoint:
That's very heartless and inconsiderate of your friend. How can someone spent over 22k on you on your birthday and when it's your time to reciprocate you repaid her by blocking her?

What happened to explaining to her politely that you can't afford her demands?
What if she was mainly testing him?

He should have at least get her something worth the 22k she had spent on him.


Guys if you want to breakup with you partners, have dignity of politely letting your partners know than ghosting them. it's childish.

On behalf of classic, sensible and mature men like me... we condemn the attitude of your friend in totality.

The mature men societies will not tolerate such an attitude from anyone who had the private to carry penis inbetween his legs.

Apologies to the lady in question, we apologize for the misconduct of our junior members.

pascalexmond:

What an investment..

Call your friend and tell him to call that lady and apologize to her for his conducts.

I'll not sit here, fold my hands and watch a woman being treated with a disdain.

Offpoint:

Call your friend and tell him to call that lady and apologize to her for his conducts.

I'll not sit here, fold my hands and watch a woman being treated with a disdain.

living up to your moniker

Offpoint:
That's very heartless and inconsiderate of your friend. How can someone spent over 22k on you on your birthday and when it's your time to reciprocate you repaid her by blocking her?

What happened to explaining to her politely that you can't afford her demands?
What if she was mainly testing him?

He should have at least get her something worth the 22k she had spent on him.

Guys if you want to breakup with you partners, have dignity of politely letting your partners know than ghosting them. it's childish.

On behalf of classic, sensible and mature men like me... we condemn the attitude of your friend in totality.

The mature men societies will not tolerate such an attitude from anyone who had the private to carry penis inbetween his legs.

Apologies to the lady in question, we apologize for the misconduct of our junior members.

Can't stop laffin at this....painful and disappointing I agree but he should av atleast told her the reason he is actually blacklisting her...U never can tell, she might actually feel remorseful and take correction...The thing is this entitlement mentality has eaten deep into the marrows of some naija ladies to the extent they now lack decorum...I feel ur pain@OP but do not 4get she's just one lady who may have lived this life too long to think it's the norm...subsequently, call them to order before bidding goodbye.Let's rid the world of vices

MJBOLT:

the only thing nigerian ladies love is money,it's is only when they see money they become smarter than Albert Einstein.

op dont forget to buy your cousin one bottle of Vodka,he deserves it.

Not surprised at your post, Nigerians are too money conscious, everyone is just out for money.

Buy buy buy, buy mentality in both men and women, the men are almost more envious than women sef, I'm sure you dont see anything off in what you just typed.

Offpoint:
That's very heartless and inconsiderate of your friend. How can someone spent over 22k on you on your birthday and when it's your time to reciprocate you repaid her by blocking her?

What happened to explaining to her politely that you can't afford her demands?

Nigerians have this problem of never admitting they are wrong.

I didn't read the entire post though, the OP sounded ignorant from the first few sentences.

Some typed "investment"

nlPoster:
Your friend should spend his money on you or your own candidate, not other women.


Obviously your claws are stronger since he yaps to you like he owes you something.

Cousin not friend. Try to read and comprehend posts carefully that you want to comment on.

Trex4:
Cousin not friend. Try to read and comprehend posts carefully that you want to comment on.

check my previous post before commenting.

which kind investment dey turn 22k into 250k in less than 3 months. And which kind test be that, I have noticed that thief and Scammers often say they are testing you if you catch up to their tricks.
All these entitled leeches who want to slay but can't afford it. Many people do it in this country, women own just too much.

dreaizy:
which kind investment dey turn 22k into 250k in less than 3 months. And which kind test be that, I have noticed that thief and Scammers often say they are testing you if you catch up to their tricks.
All these entitled leeches who want to slay but can't afford it. Many people do it in this country, women own just too much.

That's a lot of bitterness for people who dont know you.

The Bible has already told you that it is possible to give without loving but it is not possible to love without giving.

You and your cousin are wise putting her away speedily and quietly.

What an early detection of "Breast Cancer"

pascalexmond:

My cousin never made demands for d gifts she bought & never expected d babe to buy her anything & he on his own had plans of reciprocating which d babe shld ve waited for to see rather than making specific outrageous demands.
U don't demand for gifts but u re given wholeheartedly.

What d babe did was gold digging & d usual taxing & magarism.

I was a victim,so was he in d past but Nairaland has made me wise that I had been educating him too & encouraged him to be a nairalander but for his busy schedule.

Otherwise he might ve loaned d money to please d babe.

No more nonsense.

For me,if u re a sincere babe,I will willingly take care of u & spend on u within my capacity but at this my level b'4 any gold digging Nig babe can use me as a mugu,she must be from another planet.

I really suffered in their hands in d name of love.

Thank God for Nairaland,it's experienced,revered & highly respected advisers.

Apt

Dtruthspeaker:
The Bible has already told you that it is possible to give without loving but it is not possible to love without giving.

You and your cousin are wise putting her away speedily and quietly.

What an early detection of "Breast Cancer"

You're evil for this post.

Offpoint:

Someone made an investment and deserve a return.

A reasonable person should know, if a woman invest on you she expects a return in 10 folds.

A lady who can afford 22k in the current led administration of Muhadmedu bura-ri is not a gold digger.

You always talk off point like ur name

nlPoster:


You're evil for this post.

How is he evil ??

MJBOLT:

the only thing nigerian ladies love is money,it's is only when they see money they become smarter than Albert Einstein.

op dont forget to buy your cousin one bottle of Vodka,he deserves it.

Asin Ehe,them dy get new formats pass G-boys self.

Material gift, or non-fancy of it, is the least representation of selflessness, which is a true sign of one's genuine intention towards another. Unfortunately, an average Nigerian isn't just undiscerning, but also either materialistic or parasitic or both.

He either has poor understanding of what selflessness means thus the reason he was almost used by the lady, or he's penchant for opportunism (materialism and parasitism).

More so, he failed to understand that manner isn't automatically a true proof of character - the former can be faked while the latter can't be faked. It's character that defines a person, and you can always know a person's character through their ethical leanings.

In summary, the only practicable way to avoid falling victim to others manipulation is by being discerning, altruistic and self-effacing.