My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

what you did is very bad but if you want to make amends you should start with yr sister fiance, by opening up every tin to him and what lead to yr action..

seriously you wen too far

aunty u bad ooooooo

You should turn this into a movie. Blood Sisters

Omotola and Genevieve

Director: Tchidi Chikere

hmm I've watched this movie before.. Jim Iyke is the boyfriend abi

Well, your reaction was way overboard. You didn't have to go that far. What if she had committed suicide?!

Anyway, just get all the 7 boys and 2 girls over to her Fiance's place, show him all the evidence you have, to prove you actually orchestrated the whole show.

After that, get all the Elders in your fam, to supplicate her with you.

Here's wishing your sister quick recovery.

Well done.

I cannot put mouth inside woman vs woman matter, because when elephants fight, the grass will just suffer for nothing.

You slapped your own sister because of your 'boyfriend/husband'?

Then, went further to scatter her relationship/marriage?

After all she did for your child (school fees when your husband can't perform his duty to provide etc.)?

Sister, you are wickedness wrapped in human form. Isaiah 48:22 is for you: "There is NO peace, says the Lord, for the wicked". You'd better repent and find a way to confess your sins because you will surely reap in multiples the seeds you've sown.

Fear human beings...! 'You were happy seeing your sister like that- lose her man, her job, depressed because she insulted "your guy".
Ode, oponu...mumu of the highest order...God will visit judgment on you and that guy that plugged straw on your brain to sip out all the grey matter.

The story even sounds too bad to be true.

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents. My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor , they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money , he drinks and smoke but he is a good guy , he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water. So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again. So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October. She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened. Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house. I’m
Feeling helpless

You said your guy is a good guy. This is what good guys do? Good guys impregnate 15 year olds? Good guys frame people up?

Another tales by moonlight by a newly registered username but if it is true, you are the lowest of the low. At age 20, you are yet to figure out your life or are you the only one that have given birth at 15? You choose to do nothing meaningful with your life rather depending on a fellow low life who drinks and smokes while squatting with friends in a one room. You and your guy wants to be respected but refuse to live a life that should earn you respect but are only smart enough to mess up your sister.

Whether you open up or not, just know you and your guy will continue to live miserable lives because you know very well that you are not remorseful over what you did rather the reality that your sister's financial support is no longer forthcoming is hitting you.

You and your pedophilic boyfriend deserve to be re-arrested. Go and beg for forgiveness and get ready to face the consequence of your actions. You think your chimney drunken-master boyfriend will respect you for what you did to your own blood? Girl, you haven't seen anything.

so you have birth at 15?

HMMM OKAY

Ahahn


Wetin Merlin no go see for Camelot?

Jesu, if this story is true then I'm not only dumbfounded but speechless
Heartless shit I've ever read

But I don't meddle in family issues, what do I know

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents. My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor , they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money , he drinks and smoke but he is a good guy , he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water. So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again. So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October. She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened. Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house. I’m
Feeling helpless

Wise people said 'Success is the best form of revenge'.

Yes, your duster did bad however, you should have channeled your anger into making you & your boyfriend worthy of her respect.

Go and undid all you have done.

Your baby father smokes, drinks, has no money, uneducated and knows thugs.

What are his plans for the future?

What are your plans for the future?

You made a terrible mistake however it seems you want to remain down there.

Right now, you have your sister and parents support you so you might not be bothered.

When your parents think you are fit to be on your own and your elder sister washes her hand off, then you will understand life.

@your sister's bobo: did he investigate further or you guys just threatened him and he backed off? How can 7 boys and 2 girls call a man that his fiancée's sleeping with their husbands. Are they gay? Is it not in their best interest for the side chic to even be married so she leaves their husbands alone?

On second thoughts, is this story real?

Hmmm... surely there is life inside LIFE.

Hmmmm..... It's really complicated..

Thanks I wish I could tell him that everything was a lie but am afraid to do it because by telling him , my family will come to knows too. my family will hate me forever.

quote author=ojun50 post=85586614]what you did is very bad but if you want to make amends you should start with yr sister fiance, by opening up every tin to him and what lead to yr action..

seriously you wen too far[/quote]

No he is not gay actually the boys were telling him that they are the ones dating my sister , so he should leave her alone or they will kill him. My guy is a car washer he is hustling for a better future for us nd his plan is for us to get married one day. My plans is to get married, I also want to learn tailoring and become a successfully business woman.
quote author=bukatyne post=85589850]

Wise people said 'Success is the best form of revenge'.

Yes, your duster did bad however, you should have channeled your anger into making you & your boyfriend worthy of her respect.

Go and undid all you have done.

Your baby father smokes, drinks, has no money, uneducated and knows thugs.

What are his plans for the future?

What are your plans for the future?

You made a terrible mistake however it seems you want to remain down there.

Right now, you have your sister and parents support you so you might not be bothered.

When your parents think you are fit to be on your own and your elder sister washes her hand off, then you will understand life.

@your sister's bobo: did he investigate further or you guys just threatened him and he backed off? How can 7 boys and 2 girls call a man that his fiancée's sleeping with their husbands. Are they gay? Is it not in their best interest for the side chic to even be married so she leaves their husbands alone?

On second thoughts, is this story real?

[/quote]

Yes I had my baby at the age of 15 . She was born 10 may 2014
quote author=wizflame post=85587592]so you have birth at 15?


HMMM OKAY[/quote]

Yes my guy is a good guy because he didn't abandoned me when I was pregnant until now he still here with me, he respect me and take care of me and our daughter. He didnt had any bad intention towards my sister but the insults were too much for him to bear . As human we sometimes makes mistakes which we later regret.
quote author=ireneidiva post=85587264]
You said your guy is a good guy. This is what good guys do? Good guys impregnate 15 year olds? Good guys frame people up? [/quote]

If I should say what's on my mind..

I will get 500 mentions from people on Nl

modified

Its now 39 pages and

She's still insisting that she was right in her actions.

God will help you and your guy

Your family will forgive you but they can never forget.

Ok

Homeboiy:
If I should say what's on my mind..

I will get 500 mentions from people on Nl

You have a very cold heart Op. I fear who no fear you.
Any reasonable person in your sisters shoes will be mad at your boyfriend or were you expecting her to pat him on the back for putting her 15year old little sister In a family way?

Your sister genuinely cares about you and that's why she'll still opt to pay your baby's school fees yet you and your, 'good' boyfriend paid her back this way[code]

If this story is anything to go by then I'm really worried about YOU.
this boyfriend of yours Is a terrible influence. I fear that one day, he may suggest you kill anyone who is against your relationship and you will gladly oblige because to you, he has your interest at heart.

My heart bleeds for you, my heart indeed bleeds.

Blood Sisters.
Genevieve and Omotola

I don watch this film before na.


But on a serious note.....


For an average 9ja girl, the boyfriend in this story is her "dream" man.

When they talk about God fearing man, such boyfriend is a perfect example.

Hey smallie, you guys deserve each other.
You're just the perfect match for each other.


I'm tempted to show the tribal bigotry in me but I will just pass.

She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us instead she wanted me to break up with him to become a single mom as if she would have marry me or even take care of my child the way her father does. That's something she cannot do because theres nobody that will take care of my child like her father. He has better plans but things are just difficult for him. He is a good man he can never ask me to kill any of my relatives because If that was the case then it would have kill my sister long time ago and I'm not stupid to do such things. Yes I know what we did was wrong but we only wanted revenge for her to feel the pain that she has been causing us but I just realised that it was the wrong path to take , which I'm regretting but that doesn't make us bad people please
quote author=Wetlink post=85595381]You have a very cold heart Op. I fear who no fear you.
Any reasonable person in your sisters shoes will be mad at your boyfriend or were you expecting her to pat him on the back for putting her 15year old little sister In a family way?

Your sister genuinely cares about you and that's why she'll still opt to pay your baby's school fees yet you and your, 'good' boyfriend paid her back this way[code]

If this story is anything to go by then I'm really worried about YOU.
this boyfriend of yours Is a terrible influence. I fear that one day, he may suggest you kill anyone who is against your relationship and you will gladly oblige because to you, he has your interest at heart.

My heart bleeds for you, my heart indeed bleeds.

[/quote]

Ifyjos:
She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us instead she wanted me to break up with him to become a single mom as if she would have marry me or even take care of my child the way her father does. That's something she cannot do because theres nobody that will take care of my child like her father. He has better plans but things are just difficult for him. He is a good man he can never ask me to kill any of my relatives because If that was the case then it would have kill my sister long time ago and I'm not stupid to do such things. Yes I know what we did was wrong but we only wanted revenge for her to feel the pain that she has been causing us but I just realised that it was the wrong path to take , which I'm regretting but that doesn't make us bad people please
.

Lolzz, seriously your sister should start up business for you and your supposed baby daddy. Is she that extremely rich, have she not done enough by training your child in school.
How old are you again?

She was the breadwinner , she helped a distant cousin with money to start business, if she could help a cousin and why not me her blood sister? She doesn't pay my child school fees but she does help if my guy doesn't have the money and before we get the money we will receive insults just because we are poor and she was rich . I'm 20 and going to be 21 on march 28
uote author=FloraEC post=85596615]
Lolzz, seriously your sister should start up business for you and your supposed baby daddy. Is she that extremely rich, have she not done enough by training your child in school.
How old are you again?[/quote]

What I can deduce here is a wicked, envious sister who's out to destroy her sister who's doing better than her. Only when she succeeds that she realizes that she has bitten off the finger that feeds her. Who is goin to pay your daughters school fees now huh? Your irresponsible babydaddy?

Ifyjos:
She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us...

I had to stop reading at this point, you're not only jealous you're wickedly entitled as well. Why should your sister establish a business for you and thug that impregnated you? She owes either of you nothing especially him. Is that why he impregnated you as a minor? To get handouts from your family? If you were my sister, I would never want you to continue any form of relationship with that man. That doesn't mean I don't love you or want the best for you. Your sister wants a better life for you but you're too young, naive, and blinded by lust to realize this.

If your story is true, then karma is nearer than you think. Your sister hates your guy because you make her pay your daughters fee, your daughters fee is your man's responsibility, so why should you drag your sister into your shameless life? Your sister hates your guy because he chased a 15yr old girl and impregnated her. Your sister does not owe opening a business for you, she can only do it out of freewill, you are supposed to be in school, not a baby mama. I know that shitt happens, but it is wrong to drag people into your shitt.

You said your sister deserves what you did to her, how does she deserve it? Your sister isn't smart, otherwise she would have known it's the devil within who destroyed her marital plans.

Hmmm, this news

Are you deliberately being obtuse or did they drop you on your head often as a child?

Chukwu a ju, tufia kwa gi

Ihi fere ani e me gi?

I wonder the kind of family you came from where one child is a roaring success and the other an efulefu

Just imagine the entitlement mentality, was she the one that made you open your legs for a good for nothing that she will set up a business to support you both?

She even tried as a sister, if I was your elder sister (which God forbid, I can never be) you'd be squatting with your Prince Charming and living your dream of being a wife

Anuofia!

Ifyjos:
She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us instead she wanted me to break up with him to become a single mom as if she would have marry me or even take care of my child the way her father does. That's something she cannot do because theres nobody that will take care of my child like her father. He has better plans but things are just difficult for him. He is a good man he can never ask me to kill any of my relatives because If that was the case then it would have kill my sister long time ago and I'm not stupid to do such things. Yes I know what we did was wrong but we only wanted revenge for her to feel the pain that she has been causing us but I just realised that it was the wrong path to take , which I'm regretting but that doesn't make us bad people please
quote author=Wetlink post=85595381]You have a very cold heart Op. I fear who no fear you.
Any reasonable person in your sisters shoes will be mad at your boyfriend or were you expecting her to pat him on the back for putting her 15year old little sister In a family way?

Your sister genuinely cares about you and that's why she'll still opt to pay your baby's school fees yet you and your, 'good' boyfriend paid her back this way[code]

If this story is anything to go by then I'm really worried about YOU.
this boyfriend of yours Is a terrible influence. I fear that one day, he may suggest you kill anyone who is against your relationship and you will gladly oblige because to you, he has your interest at heart.

My heart bleeds for you, my heart indeed bleeds.